I think my daughters' masturbating is going to far.
Q. I am a older guy. My wife died at a really young age. I have 2 daughters. One is 12 and the other is 14 One year ago I caught them masturbating in the bathroom. I told them it was ok and that they have the right to do that to themselves but d...
A. 19 March 2008: They shouldn't be doing it together. I think that's the biggest problem that I see here. Masturbating itself its normal ... but this way? Do they have their own rooms? Maybe you should talk to them and tell them that doing this together its just not ... (read in full...)
Can an affair make your marriage stronger?
Q. I often read amongst the answers that an affair can make a marriage stronger. Is this true or just the hurt parties way of saving face. i.e its been so painful i must make out its been worth it. Question can an affair strengthen your marriage?...
A. 19 March 2008: Definetely NOT!
Where did you read it? In Playboy or Esquire? Thats BULL! Don't listen. Just be yourself and don't look for problems! ... (read in full...)
I found something on his computer to another girl! I am really hurting...
Q. i really dont know what to do....me n my bf of nearly a year have split up because i found something on his computer that he had said to another girl but i have betrayed his stuff as it was the 3rd time i went through his private things after him ...
A. 19 March 2008: Well ... first of all .. you should never go through his stuff ... but .. oh well .. you DID ..
Sometimes I have the feeling I want to go through my BFs room and look for stuff .. but I never do. Once I found pictures by an accident and I was so... (read in full...)
I'm 17, male, 5' 6" and wonder if I have stopped growing taller...any thoughts?
Q. Hi, Im not sure whether this question is the type which should be posted on here, but id be grateful for any answers. I'm a male whos just turned 17. I'm 5 foot 6" tall, but i've never had a growth spurt, and i dont seem to be growing much, if at al...
A. 18 March 2008: My brother was 5,8 when he was 17 or 18 .. he is 21 now and he is 6,4 !!!! Yes, you will still grow!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Any suggestions what I can get my boyfriend for his birthday?
Q. My boyfriend's birthday is coming up. Can anyone give any good and different suggestions? He doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, going out for like a meal or nights away is hard we both work nights and hardly have time together. Can any one giv...
A. 15 March 2008: I had the same problem about two weeks ago!
I did this
I did a surprise party for him at my house, got all his friends and family! It cost quite bit of money but it was worth it ... I also gave him money for his car that he is fixing all the time... (read in full...)
We're sleeping together but he won't kiss me!!!
Q. hey everyone. I am seeing this guy and although we are having a sexual relationship he will not kiss me! I don't have bad breath he just says it does nothing for him which I think is a little selfish as I love it! this bothers me. Is there anyone ...
A. 15 March 2008: Sounds like he has you only for sex.
Kissing is more personal and meaningful than just simple sex. Maybe you two should talk what each wants from this relationship.
Good luck... (read in full...)
My friends think I am a slut for loving porn...am I normal??
Q. Right, iam a girl and some of my friends thinks its weird to watch porn! I watch it like everyday and i always masturbate!! I think i should be a boy. My boyfriend doesnt think its weird; he loves it that i am open about myself but its the girls ...
A. 13 March 2008: watching porn its not wrong or wierd .. but watching porn every day its an addiction! ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cannot be cheered up, please help!
Q. My girlfriend is constantly becoming depressed and complaining about her low self esteem. She says she is fat way too many times in one day and I try to convince her that she's NOT fat but she just doesn't seem to get it. Overall she just lacks ...
A. 7 March 2008: I love DoubleMs answer!!!!!!!!! This is exactly what my man does when I am sad (for any kinda reason) and everytime he does it ... it makes me feel sooooooo much better about myself and everything else ,cause at that moment I know I am loved an... (read in full...)
Quiz - who want's sex more often?
Q. This is more like a quiz for you guys ... I spoke to my BF and we kinda disagree on: "WHO WANT'S SEX MORE OFTEN IN A RELATIONSHIP .. GIRLS OR GUYS?" So guys and girls ... hit me w some fun answers :) Lierin ...
A. 7 March 2008: Yeah, I personaly can have sex 20 times a day ... my BF gives it to me mostly every day (sometimes couple of times) but sometimes he is just too tired .. or he doesn't feel like it .. I still do think . that guys want it much more often than ... (read in full...)
He kissed another girl at a club! How can I ever trust him again?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me last week in a club by kissing another girl as my friends saw and told me. He, however, claims he was 'too drunk to remember' and therefore he says it means nothing. I love him and don't want to loose him, this was ...
A. 7 March 2008: Well ...
This is really only up to you darling... if you want to close your eyes and let it go .. or if you want to show him that it hurts you and you are not going to let this happen again - give him a break ... to show him, you are upset w ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a relationship to start to change after just 3 months? What I mean is less phone calls, fewer texts and fewer "I love you's?
Q. Is it normal for a relationship to start to change after just 3 months? What I mean is less phone calls, fewer texts and fewer "I love you's". I should start by telling you that I have self-esteem issues,i'm overly sensitive,abando...
A. 7 March 2008: I found my solmate .. and he told me he loves me after two months of dating ... so its not true, that you can't find it right the way ... it happens!
We have been together for a year now .. and its still every day phone calls, text's 100s of ... (read in full...)
He's having an affair with another woman, and we are all sharing the same house. Does he love me?
Q. hello dear cupid, i just want to know whether my partner loves me or not because he's divorced and 20 years older than me, i'm just 22 he's also having an affair with another woman, keeping both of us in the same house, i just want to know whether ...
A. 7 March 2008: Get out of this relationship!
He is just using you!
He does not LOVE YOU AT ALL!... (read in full...)
Can anyone help give me tips to lose 30kg?
Q. I really have to lose about 30kg. I need help please. Anything that would work? I do swim and walk about 2 kilometres a day but it doesn't seem to work. Please help me. thx. xxx....
A. 29 February 2008: Hey I have lost 40 kilograms in 9months ... it wasnt easy, but I did it, and I know anyone can do this !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You just need strong will pover and you can make it ... What I did? I completely stopped eating flour .. breads, pasta, r... (read in full...)
What are the advantages of watching porn?
Q. I'm sorry to ask ladies and gentlemen but i need help in this area. Are there any advantages in watching porn? if yes what are they?...
A. 29 February 2008: People .. don't just talk about MEN! ... There is sooo many women that watch porn ...
I personaly don't see anything wrong with it ... its just entertaintment ... funn ... my BF watches it once in a while when we dont see each other for couple o... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he trust me?
Q. My boyfriend does not trust me whatsoever, and I havn't done anything to break his trust. Once I had my suspicions of him flirting with another girl on the Internet. However I did not make a big deal about it, because I knew how he felt for me. She ...
A. 29 February 2008: Hi I don't trust my boyfriend either.. well I do in some point .. but unfortunately not "fully"!! And the bad part is .. HE DOESN'T DESERVE THIS! ... he is the greatest guy in the whole world, that loves me deeply and does everything there... (read in full...)
How do you become happy and content without a partner and close friends in your life?
Q. I just want to know, how do u become happy and cotnent without a partner in your life and without close friends? some times i feel very lonely and have tried to meet people but they never stay long. for the past few years i have felt like i've lost ...
A. 26 February 2008: I remember having that kinda feeling ...
I moved into this country couple of years ago ... no family,no friends, no relationship ... sometimes I felt so lonely I couldn't stop crying ... I was lost in my dark thoughts ...
I started seeing p... (read in full...)
Why does every man I have ever been out with feel compelled to mention how ‘hot looking’ girls are to me?
Q. Why does every man I have ever been out with feel compelled to mention how ‘hot looking’ girls are to me? I have been going out with a guy for 8 months. I appreciate that men look at other girls (they wouldn’t be men if they didn’t), but the ...
A. 19 February 2008: Thats wrong! Tell him how you feel!!! My BF looks at other women ... and I look at other women and men as well.. .we all check out other people .. but haveing comments about them its WRONG! He is disrespectfull to you .. dont let this happen a... (read in full...)
I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months but he told me last night that he has met someone else and is leaving... but I've just found out that I'm pregnant by him.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months but he told me last night that he has met someone else and is leaving... but I've just found out that I'm pregnant by him. Please help!...
A. 19 February 2008: Oh Girl! Don't wait ... go and tell him right now!!!!!!!!!!! He has to know !! He maight still not wana be with you,but he is the father of your "child" and he has the right to know !!! Don't wait ... tell him right now!!!!!!!!! Maybe you should... (read in full...)
Are all women bisexual?
Q. just wondering... are all women bisexual?...
A. 16 February 2008: Honestly ... I do get turned on looking at a naked woman or lesbians in porn movies.. but its just cause they are "prettier" "softer" and "easier" to look at, than guys ( no offence guys) ... but I don't think I am BI ... I would never go out there ... (read in full...)
Does a cheater deserve a second chance?
Q. My husband had an affair with his best friend but he says it never got physical. He admits his fault and wants me back. Should I give him a chance?? How do I guarantee that it will not happen again??...
A. 11 February 2008: Honestly, I gave second chance to two of my exBF after they cheated on me and told me it had nothing to do w me .. it wasn't physical and such ... and what happened? ... they Cheated again and again and again ... Once they start .. they wont sto... (read in full...)
Looks V Personality, which do girls prefer??
Q. What do girls mostly like personality of the lad or the looks ?...
A. 9 February 2008: I think its the same like guys ... First its the looks usually ... and than after we get to know that person its personality .. but sometimes, personality comes before looks (in friendships .. or similar relationships that turn into something e... (read in full...)
I am cold all the time, even in the blazing sun. What is wrong with me?
Q. i'm just wondering does anyone out there get really cold n i mean freezing cold. what ever the weather even blazing sun shine i'm cold. i'm never able to get a warm, i work in a kitchen and still cold. my boyfriend hates me touching him som...
A. 7 February 2008: I have the same problem ... cold hands and feet all the time .. I am cold even its 90F outside .. its bad blood circulation ... ... (read in full...)
My husband is going to be a father, but I'm not the mother, any advice?
Q. I have been married for 14 yrs. We have 3 children 16,12, and 10. We have and presently have a wonderful friendship, sex life, and he is a wonderful father. He has just told me he had an affair with a lady at work with whom he told he was divorced. ...
A. 7 February 2008: RUN!... (read in full...)
What to give a guy for Valentine's Day?
Q. Hey Guys! I need some advice. I have been dateing my man for over 7 months now. I love him to pieces. Valentine's day is about to come and I have no idea what to give him! He is into the car industry. He loves raceing and fixing his Mazda RX ...
A. 6 February 2008: Does anyone think, that going to his job dressed out as a school girl or girls scout w a box of home made cookies is crazy idea? He works in a Car Dealership ... w pretty cool people ... will it be embarasing for him?????? ... (read in full...)
My husband is a good man but I am struggling to deal with his porn watching.
Q. I have been reading the QandA's on porn because i am trying to understand how to deal with this issue. My problem with my husband watching it has nothing to do with the sex part. It's my body. I am not over weight but do have the typical c-sectio...
A. 25 January 2008: Hey
I do think porn is not a big deal .. but I understand the way you feel. I feel this way when my man goes for his friends Bachelore party - I am going nuts .. and you probably feel the same way about porn movies.
I am sure your man loves y... (read in full...)
What other 'little things' can I do to be romantic?
Q. Hello Im the first to admit Im terrible at being romantic, but I try. My girlfriend says I need to be more romantic, but I dont get what she is asking for. I take her flowers now and then, chocolates, leave little notes etc. We stay in o...
A. 31 October 2007: It sounds to me, that you try hard enough! I wish my BF would give me flowers and chocolate!!!!!!!!! And whats more romantic than candles? Ok .. so I would probably make a dinner, flowers, chocolate, candles, soft music ... and if even after th... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of walking away. Is the love I have enough?
Q. Hi, wonder if you can offer a few words. I have been seeing my girlfriend now for some 4years and plan to move in together, maybe next year sometime but the problem I have is that she wants to get married, this I have not dismissed but I ...
A. 31 October 2007: Well ... you have to ask yourself "How much do you really love this girl" ... do you wana loose her - or do you wana keep her and make her happy??
The way you talk about her, I think you really love her, you are just confused cause she is acting w... (read in full...)
When is the good time, to start living togetehr?
Q. Hi everyone! So I have a BF (5months now). We have a great relationship and we love each other. I know he is the one - I never felt this way for anybody and he saiz the same. The guestion is ... When do you think is a good time to start liv...
A. 31 October 2007: Thanks guys!
About the money guestion : He does make really good money on his own. He could easily afford living on his own in a really nice appartment ... I just think he is not ready. So I will give him some time and we will see whats gonna happ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my partner's porn watching?
Q. hi i know my partner watches porn he also downloads it on the internet it bothers me sometimes because he trys to hide it i would rather him tell the truth, it also makes me feel am not enough for him but recently i found a half naked local woman on ...
A. 30 October 2007: Do not worry about it at all!
And YES! You are enought for him! Its not about you at all! He loves you and porn wont change it.
I am a woman, but I dont mind porn at all.Its not about the woman in there, its about the actuall act. Man - some ... (read in full...)
Are words really necessary?
Q. Extended gaze? Have you ever looked into his/her eyes and known instantly that he/she loves you too without need of saying it with words? ...
A. 30 October 2007: ABSOLUTELY YES!
I have dated lots of people ... I thought I loved them .. or at least "liked them" ... however ... I had never have the same feeling w them as I have when my BF looks at me.
The way he looks into my eyes is something I can'... (read in full...)
Is he lying about his internet activities?
Q. Is he lying? Yesterday I was looking in the computer's history. It was not where you put in the web addresses, it was under the favorited websites, I guess there is an area that you can look at the history and I didn't know that. Anyway...
A. 30 October 2007: Hm
Well..if no one else can use the computer, than he probably did look at it himself. Maybe he was trying to get you some "after pregnancy" present. Maybe he would like you to wear more sexy stuff ... guys like that. Or maybe it was just one of t... (read in full...)
His looking at porn has brought me out in spots! How do I get over this?
Q. 3 months ago i found out my boyfriend of 7 years whom i lived with was looking at porn, searching for very specificthings (bending over ect) and chatting to girls in chat rooms, and was a member of a sex chat site. Most of...
A. 27 October 2007: HE IS A GUY! What do you expect. Get over it. Its not like he is cheating on you. He is just looking on pictures in TV or in the magazine. Don't worry about it. He doesnt go and visit prostitutes or such, so what are you scared of? Why don't u ... (read in full...)
Am confused and feel used
Q. I have just been dating a guy that i like a lot we have been together for 2 months,he has a girlfriend. But lately things have turned sour he lied to me saying he is sick he can't come to see me then i called him only to find out he is with his ...
A. 18 October 2007: WOW, are you in a relationship with the same guy I was months ago???????? He sounds exactly the same !!!!!!
GET AWAY FROM HIM!!!!!!!!
He is not going to leave his Girlfriend for you! He is lying, he doesnt like you, he is just using you for sex!... (read in full...)
I kicked my bf out after I caught him looking at porn and am so down.
Q. hi there, I am feeling extremely down right now. I found out my bf has been looking at porn again even though he promised me he wouldn't so i kicked him out this time had enough of him making me feel like crap. Yeah i know what your gonna say porn...
A. 12 October 2007: Well
I honestly don't have problem w porn at all. I watch it myself ... and I would not be upset if my BF did .. because its just TV .. its not real pepole doing it infront of him on the floor in our living room .. its still only a MOVIE ... I ca... (read in full...)
Do people who are in love have things in common?
Q. Do people who are in love with each other have anything in common. Some people have told me that opposites attract but I have seen that it is not the true in some cases. The same could be refered to couples who have a lot in common. Can someone ...
A. 6 October 2007: Hey
Me and my partner are very very simillar people. The same sence of humor, the same ideas, the same interests,like the same music, same things, same food, same drinks, we both have European blood (but he was born here in US), our families... (read in full...)
How do you meet the good guys? I thought deep inside he was good, despite of the abuses. Since leaving him I only met red flag guys...
Q. I dated this guy for 4 years. He was emotionally and physically abusive, he cheated on me. And yet I still believed that deep in his heart there had to be good. Eventually I just had to leave him. I knew that I deserved more. I am a good person and ...
A. 23 September 2007: I met love of my life on match.com - I am serious -
First I didn't believe in it at all ... but my 3 friends got married and have children and happy family life thank's to this web site - so I did it .. and I can just recomend it to everyone... (read in full...)
How do I dirty up my married sex life?
Q. I want to be really dirty and do dirty things during sex w/ my husband but we're both too shy. When we first started sleeping together I was drunk, and I had him talk dirty to me, and I let loose. Now I am pregnant (again) so I feel really ...
A. 23 September 2007: Hey
Well .. I am shy person too ... but in bed ? FORGET IT ... I am crazy ...
You should put up a show for your husband. Its so much fun. First you will feel little wierd .. especially before you walk in the room where he is .. dressed up in... (read in full...)
He's got to go to a stag do at a strip club, I'm not happy about it...help!!!
Q. My BF is going for a Bachelore party next month - yeah,that doesnt sound like a big deal to you guys, but to me - I AM GOING NUTS! I don't agree with Strip clubs at all. I don't unerstand why guys go there. To me its the biggest disrespect to th...
A. 13 September 2007: Thank you all for your help and support ... specialy India ... love the add ... really helped me a lot . I trust him, and I know he loves me ... at the end he will come back to me all horny after seeing all those naked butts .. hahahaha
I str... (read in full...)
He's got to go to a stag do at a strip club, I'm not happy about it...help!!!
Q. My BF is going for a Bachelore party next month - yeah,that doesnt sound like a big deal to you guys, but to me - I AM GOING NUTS! I don't agree with Strip clubs at all. I don't unerstand why guys go there. To me its the biggest disrespect to th...
A. 9 September 2007: I am so comfused right now...
I mean .. I know the girls are not ALL THAT ... but I still feel, that he will wish I was like them ...
Anyway ... I can't and I won't do anything about him going there ... its his cousin .. he is going w his f... (read in full...)
Partner of 11 years dumped me cause i'm fat and i've taken him back but i cant forget what he said. what should i do?
Q. ok help my ex broke up with me said he dont love me. and im to fat. he moved out. we were together 11 yrs have 2 kids.but he only moved out for couple of wks then came back as he broke up with his new gf.but now his here sleeping in my bed and i ...
A. 29 August 2007: Don't make yourself so SMALL! You are your own person. If he had the guts and heart to tell you,what he told you and than leave you for some other one, than he is a JERK and he doesn't deserve you or your percious time! You should get him out of t... (read in full...)
He's got to go to a stag do at a strip club, I'm not happy about it...help!!!
Q. My BF is going for a Bachelore party next month - yeah,that doesnt sound like a big deal to you guys, but to me - I AM GOING NUTS! I don't agree with Strip clubs at all. I don't unerstand why guys go there. To me its the biggest disrespect to th...
A. 29 August 2007: Thank's all of you for your help! I know my BF loves me and I hope this is the only time,he will go there ... cause next time, I wont be that nice about it anymore. Nice day to all of you... (read in full...)
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