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Which kind is prefered? Straight or bent?
Q. iv a question for the female population, but iv been wondering. what kind of penis do you prefer? a straight up one, or one with a bend?...
A. 28 January 2009: Its not about how it looks its about what you can do with it, honestly if your in a relationship or in love it really does not matter what it looks like.... (read in full...)
Quick solution for love bites?
Q. Is there any quick solusions to getting rid of love bites any help would be greatly appreciated...
A. 27 January 2009: Despire the suggestions on here toothpaste does not work (i tested the theory and it just made me smell minty and my neck sticky) im afriad only time will get rid of it ... (read in full...)
I dropped him off at the bus stop and left him stranded with no money.
Q. Today I made a harshest decision. I dropped my boyfriend off at the taxi rank and he didn't have money for the bus fare. I left him there to find his way. I know it is mean, especially for someone who has zero cents in his pocket. I have been dating ...
A. 27 January 2009: Good on you well done! If i was in that situaation i would not have the courage to do that i admire you. you did the right thing.
Its been two years your his partner not his mother! He needs to stand on his on 2 feet and not depend on you, whe... (read in full...)
B/f's fantasy is a threesome but I have reservations
Q. I'm in a stable loving relationship with a great guy. we are living together and engaged. One of his fantasies has always been to have a threesome with an older guy. I'm not entirely adverse to having a threesome but I have major insecurity and j...
A. 20 January 2009: i think you both neeed to sit and have a serious chat about this because from what i have heard about 3 somes they are best left as a fantasy.
You should not do this just to keep him happy relationships are about love and trust, if you are inse... (read in full...)
Should I have sex at the age of 14?
Q. im for years old i go to shaw high and my bf is well i really dnt kno how old he is but i kno he is in the 10th and go to shaw he respect the fact that i was not ready to have sex with him when i went over his house so we just kissed and just ...
A. 16 January 2009: you want to have sex with a boy you love and yet you dont even know how old he is? The fact you even asked if you should have sex just shows you are not ready.
You only a kid enjoy being young and care free sex complicates things and can lead to ... (read in full...)
Just finished reading a romantic book and now I'm feeling all melancholy...
Q. hi just recently i read this romance book that i can really relate myself to the girl it was the best book ever (twilight) and i finished it in a day but as soon as id finished it it was really weird because i felt so sad and melancholy because the ...
A. 16 January 2009: I love the twilight books and i think every girl who reads the book falls in love with Edward because the book is so well written, but the fact is its a book and he is a fictional vampire and as much as we all want a "vegetarian" gorgeous ... (read in full...)
Finger my girlfriend on her period
Q. Can I finger my girlfriend when she's on her period? I'm seeing her this weekend and she said she'll be on. If we wanted to should I just stick to the clit? She got fingered by her previous boyfriend while she was on her period but I don't know all ...
A. 15 January 2009: you can not really sure i would want to though the bloods a bit off putting, just ask her and if she says yes just do wot you usually do it will be the same just messy ... (read in full...)
I haven't had any luck with women tonight, and it's made me miserable. How can I stop worrying about being single?
Q. Why has coming home from a club become so depressing? I'm at a difficult time in my life. I'm not in a relationship and I feel like I really should be more capable at attracting women than I am. I'm 20 and I've only dated 4 women in my life, 3 of...
A. 15 January 2009: Ok meeting girls in clubs is not always a good idea as most the time there not looking for relationships (im 20 aswell and i know going clubbing isnt about looking for relationships)
Just relax join a club get a hobby dont worry about being in... (read in full...)
I got into his inbox and opened up Pandora's box!
Q. I moved halfway across the country with my boyfriend, and now I think I need to leave him. Help!? I messed up. I got into his myspace page and looked through his inbox. I know it wasn't right, and I'm going to confess this to him. I did it because...
A. 15 January 2009: Your not a bad person and dont let him make you think you are, he is the bad guy you deserve better i would get rid of him let him have his online girls. You deserve love and respect and you are not gonna get it from here move on huni. ... (read in full...)
Cheat, cheat and cheat again?!!
Q. i been married 20yrs and found out my husband was having an affair with a girl at work.she is 20yrs younger when i found out he admitted everything he had been seeing her for a few months he even took her to a hotel where our son had got married a ...
A. 15 January 2009: I dont think he is sorry for this and i definetly dont think this time will be the last time he has done it many times before and no doubt he will do it many times after. He took someone to your home thats unforgivable in my mind.
You deserve ... (read in full...)
He shagged like a porn star in his affair!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 14 years, with 2 kids. He is 40 I am 37. For a long time (possibly always) our love life has not been right. He is very highly sexed, and would want to make love every day, and several times a day if ...
A. 15 January 2009: I will be honest you dont seem all that happy with him and if he does things you dont like after being told countless time then it seems that he sounds pretty selfish to me and not the kind you should be stuck with because once they cheat and get ... (read in full...)
Can someone truly be forgiven?
Q. I had a one night stand while in a relationship. It wasn't planned and in no way could be considered an emotional betrayal. The following morning, having realized what I had done and what I stood to lose, I confessed. Fortunately for me, my ...
A. 14 January 2009: I think people can be forgiven if they show they are sorry and can be trusted never to do it again i think he has forgiven you but the question is can he forget or will he bring it up in an argument just to make you feel low? If he loves you then he ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend loves me but he still loves his psycho ex!
Q. My boyfriend loves me but he still loves his psycho ex! I don't know how to get rid of her. What should I do? My boyfriend doesn't want to give up one of us, he doesn't even want me to give up on him but how can I get him give up his ex?...
A. 14 January 2009: Make him decided ask if he wants you or her if he says both, then get rid of him relationships are generally for 2 people not 3 you deserve better then a guy who is definetly having his cake and eating it... (read in full...)
Poll question: What is the YOUNGEST age you think two people should get engaged?
Q. I have a poll question of sorts... What is the YOUNGEST age you think two people should get engaged? (ie. 19, 20, 25 etc) And how long do you think you should have been with your significant other before you get engaged? (ie. 1 year, 2 years, et...
A. 14 January 2009: I dont think it really matters as long as two people are in love and have seriously thought it through then they should do what feels right. My brother was with his fiancee a year before they got married they she is 25 and he will be 24 when they ... (read in full...)
Cure for insomnia?
Q. I just want natural cures for Insomnia. I have not slept in days! I've been going through this since I was a young child. I'm in the Nursing field, and I've asked fellow co-workers and students, they all telling me to pop a pill. I refuse to fi...
A. 14 January 2009: Its just i find it helpful becuase i tend to wake up in the middle of the night and i found if i wrote it down i could sleep better because i new it could wait till the morning and i would not forget it. ... (read in full...)
Cure for insomnia?
Q. I just want natural cures for Insomnia. I have not slept in days! I've been going through this since I was a young child. I'm in the Nursing field, and I've asked fellow co-workers and students, they all telling me to pop a pill. I refuse to fi...
A. 13 January 2009: Firstly do not eat after 6pm, do not drink any caffeine after about 12pm, go to bed at a reasonable time but take a warm bath first (not hot) try using lavender or rosemary oil, write everything thatsd on your mind down before you go to sleep and if ... (read in full...)
Why can't my b/f make me have an orgasm?
Q. i am 21 and i have had sex with a few guys in my life and 1 is my boyfriend now.and out of all them.i have never had an orgasm..and me and my boyfriend have sex about 2 times a weak.dont get me wrong it feels good in me.but i can never get there..i ...
A. 13 January 2009: Nope nothing wrong with you i have the same problem but my boyfirend likes it when i play with my clit at the same time as he is maiing love to me. ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and have really bad period pains. Help!
Q. hey there, sorry to bother you but what it is I'm 15 and suffering from really really bad period pains and I really need them to calm down, they are affecting everythin I do. I can't do nothiing, all I wanna do is sit all day and do nothing. I ...
A. 12 January 2009: I suggest you go to your doctors i used to have awful periods and i went to the doctor who put me on the pill and thankfully now there alot easier to deal with ... (read in full...)
I'm 21 want to date a 15 y/o afraid of what people will say
Q. I'm a 21 year old male.... and I found a girl whom I have feelings for.... the thing is she's 15 years old... I'm afraid to date her because of what people might think. Shes a great girl but the age difference is the only problem... Anything ...
A. 10 January 2009: Take legal advice because technically she is a child and as great as she is this is classed as child abuuse and you would be labelled as a pheadophile. Stick to someone of your own age... (read in full...)
B/f of 5 years doesn't want me anymore!
Q. i think this is it my boyfriend and best friend for nearing 5 years doesn't really want anything to do with me anymore. some my fault some his but he's now decided he doesn't want me. i don't know what to do. i am such a mess right now and i want h...
A. 10 January 2009: Ohh hun im so sorry but trust me when i say things do get better. When your young and in love and you get your heart broken it feels like it will never heal and you will never get over it but you do and after a while you find someone so much better ... (read in full...)
Losing the nerve to contact him
Q. Hey everyone! Met a guy over xmas, and we've been emailing everyday. We did swop numbers... and I really want to text him, but when it comes to putting his number in... I lose my nerve? Am I crazy? I just keep talking myself out of it! Any advice? ...
A. 10 January 2009: well if he gave you his number then he obviously wants you to text him, maybe he has no credit or his battery died? ... (read in full...)
First she said it was sex, then she said she was raped..I'm really confused
Q. Okay, I have a huge problem. Long story short my girlfriend broke up with me and we were apart for 6 months with no communication then she called and we picked up right where we left off. Once we got back together she told me she slept with ...
A. 10 January 2009: You need to think long and hard about this and whether you believe it was rape or not and if you believe it was rape then you have to learn to deal with it, rape is awful trust me i know and i know hpw my familt coped when it happend to me and lucky ... (read in full...)
Why is he sleeping with me when he has a girlfriend?
Q. Hay i need help!! Here is the Story. I am gay and this lad is straight, His name is Lloyd. I know him from school we used to hang out after school get drunk on a Friday night and stuff. Then one night he courts me and this over straight lad doing ...
A. 8 January 2009: Oh huni this guy is using you because he knows he can, dont put up with this any more you are only going to get hurt and you deserve some one so much better.
I think i feel sorry for his girlfriend if he messes around with you who else is he us... (read in full...)
Losing the nerve to contact him
Q. Hey everyone! Met a guy over xmas, and we've been emailing everyday. We did swop numbers... and I really want to text him, but when it comes to putting his number in... I lose my nerve? Am I crazy? I just keep talking myself out of it! Any advice? ...
A. 8 January 2009: Babe go get your phone take a deep breathe and text him! You have nothing to loose and i bet he is waiting for you to text him! ... (read in full...)
First she said it was sex, then she said she was raped..I'm really confused
Q. Okay, I have a huge problem. Long story short my girlfriend broke up with me and we were apart for 6 months with no communication then she called and we picked up right where we left off. Once we got back together she told me she slept with ...
A. 8 January 2009: As a victim myself i know how hard it is to come to terms with what happend and telling someone else is soo difficult so you do have to be patient and not keep brining it up.
I do think its strange she said they had sex and then when you talked a... (read in full...)
Are tatoos on the small of the back considered slutty?
Q. Heya - I'm booked in to get a tattoo on the small of my back in about a fortnights time. I'm getting a little yellow aztec sun with a moon inside it - to always remind me to look on the bright side of life :) I'm really pleased with what I'm ...
A. 7 January 2009: i have a tattoo on my lower back and i dont think its slutty afterall not very visible (but i warn you lower back hurts) dont listen to other people get it if you want it its your body personally i think all tats are beautiful (thats why i have one ... (read in full...)
I've fallen hard for him but it's long distance...
Q. Ok im in a long distance relationship, but I think I want a non available, not really that long distance guy. This is all based from a chat site by the way, anyway, I met this guy for the first time the other day. I've told him before that I really ...
A. 24 December 2008: Well you can always go up and see your boyfriend and then it will give you a chance to see if you like the other guy better then your boyfriend and if you have brought gifts then you can still give them to his family (i tend to think breaking up ... (read in full...)
I've fallen hard for him but it's long distance...
Q. Ok im in a long distance relationship, but I think I want a non available, not really that long distance guy. This is all based from a chat site by the way, anyway, I met this guy for the first time the other day. I've told him before that I really ...
A. 23 December 2008: ok bit confusing you are both in long distance relationships him with a girl he has never met? And you with a guy who lives 150 miles away?
Right you need to figure out if you want your boyfriend or this other guy and he needs to figure out if h... (read in full...)
I've given her space around the office... what more can I do?
Q. Hello. I've had a bit of a thing for this woman at work for a good few years now (unbeknownst to her). Recently she became divorced and so I made my move... rejected... she was already seeing someone else from the office! I don't know how long she ...
A. 23 December 2008: Leave her alone not everyone goes for looks she is with this guy because she likes him more then you, stop comparing yourself to this guy and trying to figure out why she is with him, move on get over it and find someone else ... (read in full...)
Am I anorexic?
Q. People say that Im under weight and that I'm anorexic because im 5'6 and I only weigh 118 lbs.. Even my family says I am..am I where I'm supposed to be??...
A. 17 December 2008: if you wanna loose wait you are breaking the one big rule you arnt eating enough! Yeah i know doesnt make sense right?
Well when you skip meals your body automatically goes into starvation mode meaning anything you do eat your body automati... (read in full...)
Can't sleep without my boyfriend!
Q. I am sitting up right now, I can't sleep when my boyfriend's not a round and just sit and think about him. I haven't seen him for 5 days it's geting to me. What Can I do? plzzz Help P.S. Is this site just for relationship questions?...
A. 16 December 2008: This is going to sound strange but i find it works for me while my guy is away (which is alot) borrow one of his tops that he wears alot and wear it to bed it should help you to sleep because it smells of him and is very comforting. ... (read in full...)
Can't sleep without my boyfriend!
Q. I am sitting up right now, I can't sleep when my boyfriend's not a round and just sit and think about him. I haven't seen him for 5 days it's geting to me. What Can I do? plzzz Help P.S. Is this site just for relationship questions?...
A. 16 December 2008: This is going to sound strange but i find it works for me while my guy is away (which is alot) borrow one of his tops that he wears alot and wear it to bed it should help you to sleep because it smells of him and is very comforting. ... (read in full...)
I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???
Q. Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks...
A. 15 December 2008: Take no for her final answer and never ever think she means yes and dont bring it up again find someone else prefereably not someone related to you. ... (read in full...)
I'm missing him a lot but don't want to appear clingy, what do I do?
Q. Hi. I recently started dating a guy - we've been together for about 4 weeks but live really close to each other so have been seeing a lot of each other. I go to his and he makes me dinner and we spend whole days just visiting places and getting ...
A. 15 December 2008: I feel for you my fella is in the army he is away for weeks at a time and next year will be in afghanistan for 7 months. Missing someone when you love them so much is a nightmare but we txt call email even chat online its not clingy and doesnt make ... (read in full...)
Why did she write me this email?
Q. Hi Background- boy meets girl in 2003 at college, fancies her like mad, and she seemed to like me too. I heard through the grapevine that she was, well, a slut.. so this put me off. By late 2004 I was still thinking about her despite having been ...
A. 15 December 2008: Email sounds like she is trying to maninpulate you to email her back even using a bit of reverse psychology "i sure as hell dont expect a reply".
Maybe like sarcy24 said she isnt happy with her life and hopes that you are as miserable as her and ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher I love him
Q. I am in love with a teacher at my school! and I really like him but he isnt good lookin well not really anyway! but he has some kind of sense to him that makes me love him. he is my wallpaper on my fone and i think of him all the time before i go to ...
A. 15 December 2008: Dont tell him he is your teacher and i dont think he would feel the same infact he would loose his job if he did.
You need to stop looking for him and stop thinking about him there are plenty of boys in school who are more your age. Nothing ... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm normal "down there"
Q. basically im 16 years old and in a relationship with this guy who is i think pretty much in love with me. i feel like i am ready for sex but have this constant self conscious feeling when doing any sexual related things with any guy as i have al...
A. 11 December 2008: Every woman is diffrent dont worry so much and if you think he loves you chances are he wouldnt even notice... (read in full...)
Is this also a form of abuse?
Q. I was wondering if throwing someone on the floor, or pulling them by the hair, or putting your hand over their mouth so they can't breathe, or even pushing your head against theirs so it feels like their nose will break is as bad as slapping or ...
A. 10 December 2008: Leave him and do it now! Women die from this kind of abuse yeah he is not hitting you now but give it time and he will.
Dont believe him if he says he loves you or he will change he doesnt love you and he will NEVER change, leave before you end ... (read in full...)
Am I anorexic?
Q. People say that Im under weight and that I'm anorexic because im 5'6 and I only weigh 118 lbs.. Even my family says I am..am I where I'm supposed to be??...
A. 10 December 2008: Anorexia is an eating disorder, where you basically starve yourself and excercise because you believe yourself to be fat.
If you are eating fine and not losing weight stupidly then i dont think you are anorexic.... (read in full...)
What should I do next? And what steps can I take to finally move on?
Q. 7 months ago the love of my life left me after 4 years together. We were just a couple of kids when we met, I'm 21 now but I was only 16 when we met he was 17, we grew up together you could say and were like two peas in a pod, completely ...
A. 4 December 2008: Huni what he put you through was terrble and although it does not feel like it now but you WILL get through this you will be happy again and find someone who loves you as much as you love him.
He broke up with you to go out with another girl who... (read in full...)
He told me that if I ever talk to him again, he is going to call the police.
Q. I've asked this question before, but didn't go into a lot of detail. So here is my situation... I've liked this guy for 5 years now. Anywhoo, I knew him from high school. (back in the day) We knew of each other, but never spoken. Until.....
A. 4 December 2008: Your annoying him he dooesnt know you and you didnt talk for 5 years and now your bugging him with messages and he ignores you because he does not want to talk to you and didnt add you on facebook because he does not want to, he talks and adds your ... (read in full...)
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