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Archived questions from: March, 2014 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Why do guys ask for my number but never call?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3699 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - Everytime i go out dancing with my friend (girl), I meet a really cool guy we have a good time, and at the end of the night they ask for my number. I give it to the ones I like, and they always end up not calling/ messaging. I'm sick and tired o...

I think my vulnerable friend is being taken advantage of

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3698 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - This woman was previously abused in a very long term marriage. (slapped around then forcibly Raped on her wedding night by her husband.) He abused her in many other ways as well. He made her feel guilty and took great advantage of her. She is n...

Do you my find it appropriate for a woman to sit on your husband's lap?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - My husband and I were with friends last night. We were playing a party game and my husband drew a card which made him "Santa Claus." Two of our male friends sat on his lap as a joke and I also sat on my husband's lap. But then one of our friends ...

Problems with boyfriend, Facebook, and other girls.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and when we first started dating he would put stuff on his facebook without me having to ask him. But now it's like a war. I feel like its not fair to me that his ex's got sweet statuses and got to be his ...

Regaining sexual confidence after wife cheated

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

30 March 2014 (M) - I have a question on confidence lost for a man after my wife of 20 years cheated on me. Basically we had been together for 20 years, I was 17 when we met, she was 16. About 2 and a half years ago she cheated on me with an old friend of hers. ...

How do I just let these go and enjoy my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3701 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - In November last year, I had a huge fight with my boyfriend where he then went out and got drunk.. Kissed another girl and took her number. The fight had started because I snooped on him and accused him for a whole year of still having feelings for ...

I try my best but he gets angry and irritated with me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Why is my boyfriend behaving this way? I'm really upset.? My boyfriend is really upsetting me. He's get angry and irritated with me and is making me really upset. I'm a good girl. I try my best with him. I go to gym regularly to keep fit lo...

If he can't stop I wtll walk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3649 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. My Fiance and I have been together 5 years, we have two soon to be three beautiful children together (4, 2 soon to be 3 and our last due in june) We are getting married next month. My deliemma is that I found he posted a ...

My boyfriend wants me to break it off with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3702 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Any one good at body language?? I think my boyfriend I had over a decade is trying to get me to dump him but I can't he started a fight today.. even during the fight he said I'm not breaking up with you, your gonna do it this time is what he said.. ...

I need help in understanding ......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - MOD NOTE: Two questions from same asker, combined. Firstly let me say that this is kind of my last hope of getting some actual real advice. I have been with this guy for a year now actually a year since yesterday. Lately he's been really distant,...

She lied and said she wasn't a virgin. Now that I know she is one, I feel like I can't trust her if she would lie about something that big!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

29 March 2014 (M) - Can I be annoyed at this girl I've just started to date for lying to me about something big like this. She says she did it to protect herself, but I feel insulted she judged me to be like those guys... We got to talking and I asked her how ma...

My boyfriend seems to be touching himself while he thinks I'm asleep!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - Sometimes when I sleep over at my boyfriend's place and we sleep in the same bed, I think he touches himself or masturbates otherwise while he probably thinks I'm asleep. It somewhat makes me uncomfortable, because it's like "hey I'm RIGHT HERE!!" ...

Is the problem with me or with the boys I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. ok its bit long but please do help me out. Im 28 years old. When i was 10 years old then my parents passed away and from then till to date m living with my elder brother. Im a reserve nature person...most of the time i spend alone in my ...

How can my grandparents and I come to some consensus? My grandparents don't agree with gay marriage and parenting

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

27 March 2014 (?) - Hi. I'm struggling with accepting that my grandma and grandpa don't agree with gay marriage and parenting. Their reasoning is that marriage is a religious thing (though I pointed out that many non-religious people get married) and it would be unna...

I love my teen sister, but do not like her behaviour.She disrespects our parents and causes mayhem. What can be done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Hello everyone, I really need some advice. My younger sister is 13 and she is currently causing a lot of problems for my parents. I am in my 20's so there is a big age gap, but whenever I go home she almost always plays up. She swears at parents,...

Feeling fed up. Job going no where. Haven't met "The One". Has anybody experienced this situation and have any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, just looking for a bit of advice. I'm 26 and just feeling really fed up with life. I spent 5 years in uni and trained as a teacher but I currently work as a sales manager. I didn't love teaching and jobs were few are far between ...

Condom wrapper and girl's scarf found in my boyfriend's car… I'm having trouble trusting him! Any advice?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 3701 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - I'm having trouble trusting my boyfriend of a year and a half . I have been burned in the past (cheated on) and am a naturally suspicious person. Here's my dilemma. 1) I found a ripped open condom wrapper in my boyfriends car. Near the drivers...

I'm worried I should have given it more time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - I met a guy and we dated for 3 months and it was amazing in the beginning he chased me took me to places I met all his friends. The only thing was that he ended a relationship for 2 years and after 3 months she started to date his friend so that ...

My husband has confessed but my best friend says she can't remember!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - While I was pregnant my husband and a argument and I've since found out that he went to my best friend one thing led to another and he gave her oral sex, she tried to give him it but he says it didnt happen as he couldn't get an erection, is this ...

Hpv in a long term relationship. Is cheating involved?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - I am a 36 year old woman. I have been with my husband for four years. I have had regular Pap smears my entire life. I have been tested for hpv every single year since I was 28. My hpv tests have always come back negative. Last month, I ...

What should or could I do, without ruining our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3705 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Hello. I'm 23, and for as long as I can remember I have never had any romantic feelings for women, but ever since I have got closer and closer to a girl I work with, it's getting more and more harder to pretend those feelings aren't there. She ...

Should I give it another try? Really miss him, but he's still broken over his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Ive been seeing a guy for 2 months, and i really like him, but hes not over his ex girlfriend. She dumped him and she is now seeing one of his best friends, so he's really hurting from it still. However we had an amazing 2 months together spe...

I want a child and can't gamble more time on dating and ending up alone. Should I have a baby with this guy even though he doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - I have been sleeping with a guy from work he is 32 years old and I am 38. and it just keeps going on and on and he says that he doesn't not want a relationship and he cannot be my boyfriend yet we spend weekends together and I go to his parents for ...

How can I control the jealousy I feel when he visits his daughter from a previous relationship, especially now that we have a child of our own?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Me my boyfriend have a child together and he also has a child from his first relationship... often he goes to spend time with his other daughter and it's really getting on my love. He loves his daughter very much but sometimes I hate the fact th...

Is it wrong to look at other women and come to the conclusion that some are better than my wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

25 March 2014 (M) - Is it wrong to look at other women if you find yourself thinking they are better than your wife in some way? For example you see a woman who has long shapely legs, and you catch yourself thinking for a second she has nicer legs than your wife. I ...

Falling in love with one of my best friends. How do I manage this without ruining our amazing friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - I think I'm falling for one of my best friends. Admittedly I was interested in him when we first met. We started out just running together after meeting at school, and I originally thought that was a precursor to something more, but nothing ...

Do folk think the likes me or not? How can I show him I am interested ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm feeling confused over a man I have knew for a few months. He blows hot and cold! I see him once a week at church, Some weeks he is great around me and comes up to me and chats away, putting his arm around me,rubs my arm, flirts ect a...

When do I know when he wants to become official? What are the signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - I need some help haha. I have been seeing a guy for some time now, we constantly text all the time, and we have also spent some time together. I asked a couple of weeks ago what was happening between us, he told me he wanted a relationship however ...

My GF is mates with her ex GF.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3702 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - my GF and i been together a few years but she is back in contact with her ex partner who she was with a long time also and lost touch with but are now friends and in touch again. they talk on the phone now and again and meet up. i havent said ...

I feel bad for making him suffer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - Hi, this is my problem: I was really in love with this bodybuilding guy. He was the only guy who had ever treated me with love and cared and pampered me and spoiled. He was almost perfect. We were really in love and by no means would we ha...

My Gf finds flatulence disgusting. I am afraid to share a bed with her because of it. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

25 March 2014 (M) - i cant sleep at night with my gf, we have been together for two years now but we are LD, we have reach a very acceptable level of comfort with each other, but i cant still pass gas in front of her, not yet. she finds it disgusting. Every nigh...

He's not ready to date anyone, and I want more. What do I do now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

24 March 2014 (?) - We've known eachother for nearly 5 months, but in fairness we've only met a couple of times. So in person we still have much to know about eachother. However, our chats on facebook got us very close, which we ended up having a couple of dates. After ...

Am I right to wait for this girl after she broke up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

24 March 2014 (M) - Here's my situation: I've been in a relationship with this girl for 9 months now. She's a wonderful girl, and complements me in so many ways that I really thought we were sort of perfect for each other. I'm more of a cynic and don't get 'happy' ...

I feel like he can't see past our rocky previous relationship, but I want to move forward and start a new one with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - Okay, I'll apologise in advance, because this may take a while. I met my partner when we first started university back in September. We got together in November and the relationship started off okay. There were a few things I felt uneasy about th...

Is it normal to be anxious after becoming engaged?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - Did I just make a huge mistake accepting a proposal? I've been dating a wonderful man for about six months, and he just proposed yesterday. I love him, and I feel like I can see myself having a happy life with him. I am freaking out right n...

How can I overcome my fear of relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3708 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - I'm sorry if this is long but lately I've been having really negative and pessimistic feelings about love and I feel like I need someone to talk me out of it and/or give me hope. I'm an 18 year old girl. I have good self esteem and I'm generally a ...

My boyfriend told me I'm no longer included in our group vacation

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - So I am with my boyfriend for over a year , and its your typical relationships with petty fights about jealousy and everything, but we do have a good relationship. Over the last few weeks, he has changed in some ways, like always saying before he...

If he was really that into me would he be secretly messaging another girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for four years and I've never had a reason to not trust him. Recently things have been rough but we seem to of worked through it together and everything for the last month has been great. However we w...

Is it even normal to spend so much time with someone who you dated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - I feel horrible for feeling like this but I can't stand the fact my boyfriend is still such good friends with his ex girlfriend. Is it even normal to spend so much time with someone who you dated?! We have been together for 8 months, and it w...

Why won't he dance with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - My husband to be dance competitively in college - salsa, tango and ballroom with his ex wife for many years. We've been together 3 1/2 yrs and not once has he taken me dancing. Our wedding is this summer and I don't know how to deal with the first ...

In love with my best friend. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

23 March 2014 (M) - I am in love with my best friend and it's starting to tear me up. I'm mostly all for truth and confessing, but this case is a bit different, so I'm going to start with the back story. We've known each other since summer 2012, after meeting on...

Should I worry about him checking out his ex on facebook ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We live together, have a puppy and were going to buy a house and get married next year. I just have a niggling suspicion that my boyfriend still has some feeling for his ex. Be it hate, longin...

How should I apologize to him? I wrongly listened to a manipulative ex-friend. He was not in the wrong.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - Hi there. I have never felt this guilty in my life before, which is why I want to seek help here. So, there is a guy in my new organization who likes me. It's been only a month now, when I joined a new job. He is different in all the ways. He comes...

Would put him off if my friend told him I like him?? Instead of me communicating to him, in some way, that I like him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - Hi I'm thinking about telling my crush how I feel about him but I'm not sure how to do it and I've been going over it so much that I think I'm confusing myself. My friend offered to tell him for me but I'm not sure if this will put him off if I don...

I am already pregnant. So how do my husband and I handle his parents who flipped about the pregnancy because my husband is disabled?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - I need some advice on how to deal with the things going on in my life at the moment. I Will tell u the back story. My husband and I were involved in an accident a few years ago and it left my husband significantly physically disabled and I'm now ...

My current boyfriend versus. my ex... help!!! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - Hi, just going to skip to the point realy, My ex-boyfriend- i still have little feelings for him,but they aren't as extreme as some people think, i don't know what to do though. We hardly talk anymore and i'm still in teenage years so you kno...

I hate seeing this woman hurt and string my friend along. Is there anything I can do to help her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - I need some advice. I have a friend who I am really close to. We share a lot with each other and have the type of friendship where we can speak openly. Recently she told me that she felt she could always come to me with a problem because I was ho...

My boyfriend has saved hundreds of images of women on his phone! Normal or no?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3151 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - My bf of 7 months saves photos of random nameless girls in his phone. A few of them are pornographic but most of them are girls in their lingerie. It isn't just a few photos but hundreds of them. Is this normal? ...

Over two years together and I still haven't met his family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - I have been in a relationship with this man for two and half years. he was married before and up to now he haven't take me to his house or introduce me to his family. he come to my house, he even spend the night at my house, but now am confused if ...

He stopped talking about this female coworker, what does this mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

20 March 2014 (F) - Ever since my husband had learned his younger female coworker was getting a divorce, it was non-stop talk about her for a good year and a half. I would hear she is attractive, why would someone divorce a beautiful woman like her. I would hear ...