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Archived questions from: 12 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I get her back? She means everything to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

12 May 2009 (M) - I was in a long distance relationship for 1.5 years. Was the hardest relationship i have ever endured. When we first met it was instant attraction and the trust didnt take long. She was up front with me on how she felt but i thought i was being cool ...

How can I keep my friend and my boyfriend apart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I've had this crush on this guy for 4 years and when he asked me out, I was so thrilled. We have been dating for 5 mouths now. But 3 of those months have been on the rocky side. I was getting a feeling that my boyfriend had a crush (huge one) on my ...

Should I just leave my fiancé??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Should i leave my fiancee? My fiancee and I have arguments almost every day but what relationship don't. He is so jealous of me when I was talking to an old friend guy about a lady who had surgery, he wouldn't take the time to listen to me whe...

Can I think of her as a cheat for seeing someone else when I'm still living with my wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

12 May 2009 (M) - I met a young lady a few years back. This lady really meant a lot to me. I told her that I was looking for someone who would be faithful, because my wife cheated on me. This young lady was really a nice girl and had been hurt herself. The only ...

Should I make him happy or continue to be selfish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Hi, thanks for reading on, in advance. So my problem is, my boyfriends birthday is in august. His mum and dad want to take us to scotland to visit family. I have been once before and for me its not a holiday, I'm on edge all of the time as I can't ...

How can I win back the control with my fella?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - For the past couple of months i feel as though i have lost control in my relationship and now all i do is hang on to my partners every word. i want to feel in control again! i seem more keen than him these days, and when we argue i am always the ...

Do I really have to let her go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Reality check... Do I really have to let her go. My ex girlfriend have split now for over 5 months and I'm still finding it very difficult to move on. We were together for 3 and a half years and most of the time it really was the best time of our...

Update: He is overly protective of his email and workplace

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Hi I was on here before about my boyfriend being over protective of his email and Blackberry. He viciously protects his office and the vicinity and wants me nowhere close. This is an update. He found that question here on DC, plus your a...

Should I keep our baby? Please help me...

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I'm in a bit of a tricky situation. I'm almost 17 and my boyfriend is 19. I just recently found out i am pregnant, my boyfriend says he doesn't feel he's ready to be a dad and feels i should abort but says it's my decision, he'll be there no matter ...

My boyfriend prefers to have sex with his computer rather that having sex with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I have a problem. I am living with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and our sex life has decreased a lot. We are only 24 years old. We pretty much don't have sex anymore. I been dealing with this for about a year. It seems to me like if he dont feel ...

Am I a stalker as she says I am?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

12 May 2009 (M) - Would anyone here consider it like stalking if the person your with says they're somewhere and you drive by to really see if there are where they say? Especially if they've lied before? it blew up today with the girl i was seeing she said she was at ...

We've dated 2 years...and his ex will not allow me around their son!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I am 29 years old and have been dating the love of my life for 2 years now. He is almost 10 years older then me. He was in a past relationship for 13 years and they have a handsome 7 year old son together. We are kind of in a rut I guess you coul...

He cheated on me and then he gave me an STD! Keep him or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for three years. Hes always been the love of my life, until about a week ago i found out that he had cheated on me. Due to his dumb actions i now have an STD. He knows he messed up, and has apologized. I truely believe he ...

Should I leave my husband or try and fix this mess?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Hi..so here goes. I am a recent newlywed and I have also just had a wonderful baby. I have been with my husband for a few years before we got married. He had cheated on me in the past but our relationship was long distance, the problem is he ch...

Can a man just forget the person he dated for 3 years after a bad breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - My days are less painful after my devestating breakup with my boyfriend a month ago. Although we had difficult times and great ones. After 3 years with him, I think about him everyday, do men think of the person they brok e up? We knew what we ...

I feel down...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

12 May 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been dating a girl for 3 months up to february and she asked to seperate for a while. We have met a few times as friends, but I have just found that she has found someone else and I feel really upset. I don't know what to do to make me...

Is he still in love with me or is it her he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - my ex broke up with me 7 mothns ago during the duration of the breakup weve slept togther on a few occasions... to him it was a friends with benifits situation but to me it always felt like more .. at times i think he doesnt really know what he ...

My b/f talk to his ex often, he says she does the calling but I know this is a lie!

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12 May 2009 (F) - I have been dating a man for 2 yrs and he keeps in contact with his ex wife, who he has no kids with. She cheated on him 3 times and he divorced her. He calls her 3-4 times a week and sometimes on the weekend when he's spending time with me, this ...

Bad patch is over...so why am I still in touch with this new man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Im 22 and I have a boyfriend of 4 years, we had a bad patch and i met another man gave him my number been emailing alot etc, hes a great laugh we have not done anything we just have the same personality, things got better with my boyfriend but im ...

Working on reuniting with my boyfriend of 4 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - i am working on reuniting with my boyfriend of 4 years. he has joined other singles groups and has reunited with old female friends. he is have a party at his home in a few weeks and i am not invited and am feeling very badly about this. does this ...

I feel so drained and worthless

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - i feel worthless i feel i should be talking to a freind about my problems, but then they just say what you want to hear. so im here telling my problem. i feel really down today after too many arguments with my partner of 6 years its really ge...

How can I make my boyfriend stop talking to other women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for the past almost 7 months. He has proposed to me twice already and I have told him that I think its too soon. I met him through my ex as they both played hockey together. After my ex dumped me I became even clo...

Frightened of my boyfriend and possibly pregnant

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Hi I am 16years old and my boyfriend is 19. We have been going out for a little over a year a recently he has been getting angry towards me such as when i have been text ed by a friend he will ask me who it is and if i do not say then he will squ...

My boyfriend is reluctant to go on holiday because of what I did whilst we were on a break!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriends mom wants him to go to Moscow for 2 weeks with her! i think its a great thing to do..i told him i wanted him to go! a couple months ago we took a break and i messed around with another guy he found out (before i got a chance to tell ...

Can my marriage be saved or am I kidding myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I have a few questions i would like your views on please,I have been searching for a year now and really need your advice to help me make up my mind once and for all. 1st can a man who has cheated more than once really change? 2nd He had a fl...

Money issues in our long distance relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Dear agony aunts I have started a long distance relationship. I am in it for two months and I have already spent a 4 day long weekend with my new boyfriend. He came to visit me... the problem is that the financial issue have arisen... I have...

My boyfriend left me after I became pregnant, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Am 26 and have been with my current boyfriend who is 36 for a year. When we met he was having a 6yrs girl with the ex-girlfriend. Our relationship was quite ok for all the time we were together. He didn't want us to have a baby until i become 28, ...

DId I really deserve all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I am in my 20's, my boyfriend of 2years is in his 30's but I love him so so much. First of all, the problem started when I found out he cheated during a period he was treating me somehow and distanced himself from me. I forgave him, we tried working ...

Very complicated situation and I don't know if I should leave my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Long story. Thank you for taking the time to read this! My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. When we first dated, I had just left an abusive relationship and eventually had to place a restraining order against my ex. I truly s...