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Archived questions from: 10 February, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I don't know what to think now? Does she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - I am in grade nine and friends with this girl, Bree. She is also in grade nine and is in every single one of my classes. I live in a small town and just started going to her school, in a small town close to mine, this year. At the beginning of the ...

I want to ask her out but have never been on a date before. Advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - Sometime before Christmas (11th December)I attened an informal meal and get together hosted by one of my friends. Anyway, I started talking to this girl while I was there. She left quite early, but in the time we did talk we got along ok. So I t...

My b/f was fingering me and it hurt then and it hurts now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - ok, im only 16. and have never slept with anyone, or done anything apart from snog (sad i guess but ive just never met the right person) well anyway been a relationsip with this really nice dude for about a month, we havnt really spoke about sex, ...

Uprotected sex 3 days after my period, are there risks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - Im dating this guy and we had unprotected sex on 2/7/09 which was 3 days after my period and now im starting to think i might be pregnant am i just paranoid or could i really be prego?...

The guy I like cheated on the exam, should I tell him it's wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I really like this guy in my bio class... but today i caught him helping my friend cheat on our exam! and now, of course, they're both going to get great grades and i just think it's wrong. I want to tell on them, but i don't want them to be mad at ...

Any tips about asking her out after I refused her invitation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - the girl i fancy asked me to a party on saturday. i said no because i thought she was jokin and did'nt want to gatecrash someone else's party but i'm regretting it we are both 17 and only see each other at work once a week and have began gett...

My crush likes another girl, what to do, I don't want to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - okay, i am really confused. i have been talking to this guy for about 7 months now, and we are no longer talking anymore, He has been talking to this other girl and i have feelings for him still, i have been trying to get over him But every time i ...

Men, what do you prefer, experienced or unexperienced?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (?) - I was just wondering for the young guys, (16-25) what do you prefer, experienced or unexperienced? Would you prefer for a girlfreind who is a virgin for example, who you can teach, or someone who is very experienced? xx ...

Is this a good idea in order to miss school one day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (?) - whats the best way to make yourself feel unwell the next day, for example, if you need a day off school?x...

Tips about using dildos?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

10 February 2009 (?) - when i mastuabate I play with my clit. Ive tried a dildo like 5 times, though it never works. How do i make it feel nice? It does fit down there, and it doesnt hurt, i just get nothin sexual out of it. How do I make it more sexual? Thankyoux...

Is this fat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (?) - i am 9 and a half stone, 5 ft 4, and have size G boobs. Is this fat?...

My crush of 3 years likes my twin, should I tell her I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - Hey, ive never been on here before a bit of a new bee :) Well i have a big dilema, ive just found out my crush of 3 years is in love with my twin sister. My twin has come to me for advice as i know the boy more, but she doesn't know about my fe...

We have been dating for the past weeks but I don't feel attracted to him, what should I say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I recently started going out with a guy who I have known for a few years and who has always been a great friend of mine. A few weeks ago, he asked me out, and it sounded like a good idea to me becuase I have always really liked him. As we have been ...

What did I do wrong? All I did was love him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - It all started out very nice.. he was so sweet and charming thought he could be the one. After a few months he started being very distant, went calling me much and he would argue and yell at me all the time. When we made up everything was ok then he ...

Why is love hard?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - Okay this is not a question I just want an opinion. Why is love hard? Well my opinion is that love isn't hard its only something dificult to understand. Many people think that love is something u could find easily and live it without getting hurt. ...

I'm a loner and friends talk about me behind my back, I can't take it, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - my friend was being really nice to me when her other friend was away and i was really happy because i have no other friends but when her friend came back she dithched me and now im a loner! i tried telling her on msn how i felt but she got annoyed ...

After the first time you had sex did it mess up your menstrual cycle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - this is a question to the ladies. after the first time you had sex did it mess up your menstrual cycle? my 2 best friends said their period was delayed after making love the first time. i recently had sex and i was due to come on on saturday. ...

I like him so bad it hurts...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I really like this guy at work, im 17 and hes 22, i like him so much it hurts and i cant stop thinking about him, i drunkenly told him i like him but i dont know if he took me seriously, we always chat at work and he's always giving me compliments ...

Female vs. male masturbation - what is your opinion on this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I have always wondered why female masturbation is such a taboo subject. It is almost accepted that men will masterbate, so why isn't this level of acceptance given to women making themselves aware of their bodies in a completely natural way. Just ...

Ex is so mean to me since we broke up, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - i went out with this guy about a year ago and since we broke up (it was kinda a mutual agreement)and hes really mean to me ALL the time! its really getting me down! hes really mean to me! i was just wondering what to do?...

What I could do to make it up to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - in year 7 i asked this guy out and it went horribly wrong...i knew that he didnt fancy me...anyway i didnt really talk for like ages and then we were talking again (we werent properly going out cause i didnt want anyone thinking i was desperate to ...

He doesn't love me but is happy to receive my sexual favours!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - hey i just asked this guy "what would you say if i asked you out?" and he said no because it will mess up our friendship , i was like oh ok , but the problem is i have been doing sexual stuff with him , like tossing him off ect, but he will still le...

Delayed period, what could it be?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - i am a 19 year old lesbian ....i have been with my girlfriend for a very long time i usually get my period two days after her is been about a month passed is till havent gotten it i dont sleep with boys so what could it be im very scared...

What can I do to make him stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend was together for 10 months now and we`re not in love anymore.He wants to leave me.What can I do to make him want to stay?...

He stood me up, now we're on a break again and I worry it's over for good!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been going out for neerly 4 months we started out great but just after christmas we started to argue really badly, he wasnt spending no time with me he went weeks without answering to any texts and when he sed he'll come ...

My birthday surprise didn't exactly work out, help?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - it's my birthday tomorrow, and i don't really see my boyfriend a right much anymore after a few complications, we're still the same just not always with each other like we used to be. Anyways, he told me yesterday that i could see him today but then ...

Will I ever get over this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - i liked a guy for a really long time and finally after years we started going out.i was ecstatic.i loved every moment.he told me that he loved me and i believed him.but he never wanted anyone to know that we were going out cause he 'thought' that we ...

When someone says you've got too many hopes for someone what do they mean?

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10 February 2009 (F) - When someone says you've got too many hopes for someone what do they mean? Like my mate said it about me n this lad i like, i know we'll never be any more than good friends but stuffs happened in the past that drove me and him apart and now we're ...

Why is he giving me the cold shoulder?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - At a new year party I met a great guy. We were both drunk and ended up spending the whole night kissing and talking, we had so much in common and I really fell for him. We text a bit after that and last week I went to a party at his house. He ...

Am I gay or not? I really need an answer.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - I am 14 years old and I wanted to ask a question as I think I could be gay because I get on when I think of a mans penis. I was thinking about it for a one and a half years. But I don't get on when I think of women, I get a nice feelings but not an ...

I think I like her, and might even ask her out in the near future, Am I being hasty to think that way?

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Why does his penis slip out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - i lost my virginity a year ago and everytime me and my boyfriend have sex his penis slips out half way through. is this my fault? can anyone explain why this happens?...

Now it only takes 5 minutes! Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - In the beginning of me and my girl friends relationship! When we was having sex it would take me hours to actually cum! But now it only takes me but 5 mins! We have the same amount of sex and we still use condoms! Why is it that now it happens so ...

Has he lost interest already?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I kissed one of my friends room mates two nights in a row last week. He wanted to have sex and started touching my boobs, and put my hand down his pants but I stopped him and left. My friend told me that the next night, he tried to do something with ...

Sometimes his negativity is hard to deal with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little past 2 months and I'm definite I'm satisfied. Sometimes though his negativity is hard to deal with since he always claims that I am "too good" for him which I don't believe and I constantly mention ...

I constantly think about sex, undressing women, thinking about sleeping with them, stopped having sex as often with my wife, anyway to stop my urges?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - Am I a sex addict? Pretty much what's on my mind most of the time is either fucking porn or fucking... I feel I got a problem with it. I've talked to my counselor about it and he said I might be addicted to sex. When I first got with my wife we ...

What does he mean by "dress up nice"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

10 February 2009 (?) - What does it mean when a guy says to dress up nice? What should I wear? ALSO I need sights with easy but nice looking hairstyles to wear out that aren't too hard.. Preferably a sight with step by step instruction and curled hair. But whatever. ...

Should I just give up/ is it too awkward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - Hi I could really use some advice please. One weekend, I met this group of 5 guys through my friend and partied with them. I was drunk and made out with one of them two nights in a row. He wanted to have sex but I didnt let him and left. My friend ...

He went running back to his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years i paid for his car and help him financially. his ex girlfriend called and said she want him back and he went back to her. she doesnt even know about me. but i still love him n cant get over him what...

My best friend wants more than friendship, I don't feel the same, how do I let him know definitively?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - ok so i have a very big issue my best friend jordan is in love with me and has been since 7th grade. we've tried it out a couple times to just talk but we for some reason would argue about little things. And i guess it doesnt help that im not ...

Could I have gotten pregnant after having unprotected sex, the first time we had sex??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - i am 16 yrs old i had sex about a month ago..my bf took of the condom i remember him stoping several times inside me with out a condom..it was my first time..2 days after i did it i stared an early period it only last about4 or 5 days then i just ...

I like him a little too much to just forget about him, but I need to, please give me suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I was in an emotionally abusive relationship with my last boyfriend. He constantly called me fat and treated me like crap. I was scared to break up with him because he had horrible anger problems; and since he knew where i lived i thought he'd hurt ...

Is he a player who likes everybody, should I just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - okay, so im 14 years old, and i met this guy at the movies, and wen we met we clicked pretty well. the only problem was, he was one of my acquaintances' ex. but she cheated on him so he didnt like her very much at the time i met him. but they still ...

How do I become more secure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - i am a jealous person, but i feel like there are rational explanations for it. i do trust my bf, but i'm just iffy about a lot of girls he hangs out with. like, my first impressions of them would not be the greatest, even before i knew they were ...

Can I masturbate near the end of my period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - What happens if I masturbate toward the end of my period, if there is no flow?...

I don't think I know how to masturbate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I am very confused. I have tried to masturbate in the past, but, I am worried I am doing something wrong. My boyfriend and I have sex alot, but I am confused on how to masturbate properly. I am 18 and have tried to masturbate since iwas 14. My ...

Terrified to ask her out in case she says no and it ruins our friendship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - I have a few questions... I have liked this girl for a few years now and we have just been good friends. We have alot in common and I have the sense that she likes me too. She is always giving me random hugs and whatnot so I think it's time to ask ...