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Archived questions from: January, 2009 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Should I assume its never going to happen, or should I wait a little longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I've had an emontional relationship with a guy at work for nearly a year. We've never been too physical with each other because I was married and he had a gf. We've been good friends for almost tow years. But within the last year things have been ...

I've been seeing my daughter's father's boyfriend for awhile now, and my daughter doesn't approve. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - My daughter is 17 years old, her boyfriend is 18 and they have been seeing each other for over a year. I met her boyfriend father 3 months after they met, we went out and one thing lead to another. We tried talking both our children and they forbid ...

How can I stop myself from going too far with my fantasies of men I work with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I'm 39, happily married to a wonderful man who is a couple of years younger than me. I love him very much and we have a young daughter together. For the last 4 years I've found myself highly attracted to older men - at work, at school... anywhe...

Please help my ex-teacher situation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I'm not used to this, but I shall try my hardest There was this teacher that I had two years ago but things got a bit sticky as he got investigated because of his behaviour towards me and things. I haven't had him as a teacher since january 2...

My husband looks at pics of really young girls, how can I stop him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

29 January 2009 (?) - my husband looks at pics of really young girls, what can i do to stop him? hi every one, for most people, I have a perfect relationship, and to some extent i believe it. me and my husband are in our 28-29s and been together for 3 years. he watche...

My BF is being forced to marry - should we run away together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend of 3 years is being forced to marry someone else, my parents do not no about us as they are very traditional but his parents do. What should i do should i just run away with him, i cant live without him but i know it will destroy my ...

I don't know what to talk about

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - Im in high school and i have a girl in my class that i really like and I don't know if she likes me. I use to talk to her a lot because we sat right across from another, but now she's far away and i have trouble finding something to talk about. What ...

Cheating and found out!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I had been having an affair for about 2 years with a former co-worker (I recently got a new job). He's married with kids, I live with someone. We spoke everyday, multiple times a day, on our way to and from work, sent each other goodnight emails ...

Why does my professor tolerate me if he doesn't like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I've had him for 3 classes so far. I write love notes to him on my course evaluations. The most recent one I even signed my name to and gave him really melodramatic details about my life. I'm not even in any of his classes now, and he's helping me ...

Love my BF, but so attracted to this guy! What to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Hi!Well, today I woke up, and a stupid dream turned out to change me a little,just a little.... I am dating this guy almost for a year ,and I love him, I care about him, we´re friends and sex is really great. We work together, which is really f...

I love my girlfriend and her sister.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - Recently, I asked about what to do with my girlfriend's sister. I love my girlfriend and her sister. We all do things together and recently it's elevated to the point where my girlfriend's sister sleeps over all the time and on a few occasions ...

Please tell me the solutions to break down this illegal affair

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - Hi All, This is Smith, I know one of my friends where she is facing problem with her mother, where she is having sex with one of his uncles and it have been known by his father but he is not bothered about it because he wants to live his life ver...

I'm in love with a female teacher, I'm female too, what to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - When i was in year 8 I had a teacher for english. although i hated her then she grew on me. although she isnt my teachwer anymore i still see ehr everyday in school. she is always nice to me and she makes my stomach flip and my heart beat faster ...

In love with a female teacher and sinking into depression.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I'm in love with a female teacher at my school. I kno I can never be with her, I've accepted that, but it doesn't change anything. I'm finding it impossible to move on. I spend every moment of my day thinking about her, and ways to bump into her...

Questions about kinkiness, am I a pervert?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - I want to ask a question about kinks. I've seen some videos that's got women doing men with strap ons. I'm not gay and have got no interest in having this done to me but watching a woman do this is really kinky and gets me going. Is this freaky? I ...

How can I discuss things with my Mom's cousin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I used to have a crush on my mum's cousin, i'm not sure if i still do, since i havent seen him for afew years, but we are intouch online, although i havent spoke to him for afew months. I recently read that he wants to patch things up with his half ...

Is it possible to have true love for the wrong person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Is it possible to have true love (I don't think that's grammatically correct :S) for the wrong person? You see, there's someone who makes me smile and blush just when they look at me. When they talk to me it feels like my heart will burst out of m...

Is my boss opening up to me emotionally so that we can have a closer relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I'm in love with my boss and we have worked together for quite some time, we both shared personal details of how we had been mistreated in the past which resulted in both of us crying openly and at length in the privacy of his office, I told him I ...

I've fallen in love with my teacher. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I think I'm in love with my English teacher. I KNOW I am because I have never in my life felt anything like this before. He's 20 years older than me. I'm 17, he's 37. The thing is, the only thing in that area of our friendship (he's more best f...

Can dating get us into trouble since we're minors?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - my b/f, 18, and me, 15 r going out in secret, and when were talking to a teacher, while i said things that made it obvious that im in his life alot, like a g/f, so the teacher asked if him if we were going out, and he said to ask me, and by then ...

I'm in love with my friend who is getting married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - i have known this guy my whole life. i moved away when i was 6 but i go back to where we grew up every year. about 4 years ago, we reconnected as adults when i was in town. there was something romantic between us instantly. over the years, we have ...

Should I tell my friend I like her boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - This is such a clichè question and it annoys me but I might aswell say it. I really like my friend's boyfriend and he says he feels the same way about me. He told me a couple months back that he was breaking up with my friend - she's cheated on him ...

I need to get over this married co-worker

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - Here is my dilemma, About a year and a half ago I noticed that I had feeling for a female co-worker (I was actually her boss for a few months and came into my office almost every day to "vent"). She has since been promoted and I had an opportuni...

I'm falling for my driving instructor

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - hi all, im falling for my driving instructor.He's in his early 40's and im 25.We both flirt and he often compliments me and touches my hand or taps my knee and we get on really well. He has never attempted to kiss me or made me feel uncomfortab...

My sister confessed she is in love with me & I don't know what to do

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - My sister is in love with me. I am 3 years older than her at 20. I never expected this to happen although we've always been very close. Recently she has been cold towards me and ignores me a lot. Even when I asked her what was wrong she wouldn't ...

We haven't to contact each other any more and it's killing me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - I'm a 15 year old..... and my guy is 17 years old and things were going really well as he was studying with me getting two years back. Anyways my parents knew that we were friends but due to some teachers complaining about us now there's no way how ...

I'm in love with a man and it is not my boyfriend! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - I'm in love with a man and it is not my boyfriend. This man makes me feel like I am on the top of the world, he is a amazing person the thing is he is much older than me and has a girlfriend in his hometown; we live in two different states. The th...

My ex-boyfriend/teacher is mad I hooked up with another guy in my class

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - well... i have a really stressful situation.... ive been going out with my boyfriend for 1.5 years now.. hes 23 and im 18.... im in my last year of school, and he's an english teacher... a few weeks ago, he got a permanant posting at my school!! ...

Is it wrong to love & be with my cousin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - i am in love with my cousin since i was in my early age. he is soo handsome and a lot of girls likes him soo much, i am a simple woman not pretty not sexy, i dont really think soo that he would feel the same way,he likes me also,every day we were ...

If I happen to see him there should I say anything to him?, and what if I'm his intern?, how should I act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - So I feel really dumb writing this but here goes, I used to have this massive teacher crush. I actually think I loved him, and we had this unspoken bond. My friends used to tell me that they saw him staring at me. We couldn't even say each others ...

I spy on my mother and think I'm going to advance on her

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - I know this probably isn't normal behaviour so I am hoping someone will assure me it is fairly common. See, although I have a girlfriend and have had a few girlfriends down the years, I cant help feeling sexually attracted to my mother. Every ...

Not allowed a boyfriend till 16...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - I'm 14 And I've liked this guy for ages, he's been my best friend for two years. And recently he asked me out, we've been going out for about 2 weeks now and our relationship is going great, but there is a problem. My mum won't let me date till I'm...

I'm 18, he's 28 and he's married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - Sorry this is so long, but this question requires an explanation. I like this guy who works at the same place I work. I am 18 he is 28. Most of my family works at this place too. I have had this crush for about 4 years, yes it used to be just a ...

My married lover has cancer and I want to be with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Im in a unhappy marriage and i have 3 children.I met a man on the internet and we fell in love, he is married too and although he says he loves his wife he does love me just as much and i believe him.We have known each other for a year and we have ...

Is he just .... weird?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - my teacher is wierd he is always staring at me, on the first day I had his class I was in the hallway and he poked his head out all of a sudden which creeped me out and then he exited the classroom smiled at me waved his hand and left to another ...

18 in love with a 40 year old man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am an 18 year old and I am in love with a 40 year old man. He doesn't know. I can't help it but everytime I see him or talk with him, I just want to be in his arms. I feel like there is no care in the world when I am around him. ...

I can't seem to get him out of my head and this has me really down.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - It's sort of a two-part problem (although I think that the two parts are inter-related). I was overseas this summer at a place where I used to live and spent time with a friend -- we hooked up a few times in the past, but this was many years ago. ...

Why can't I get over someone I have never had?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I feel such an idiot writing this. I'm not sure how to even start this. I like my teacher, alot. Wow like I have never heard that before. I haven't told anyone about my obsession, about how I spend every living second thinking of ways to get h...

I'm on the verge of cheating! HELP! So confused!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I need some advice...I've in a serious relationship for 7 years, married 2 1/2 out of those 7. My husband and I have a wonderful relationship. The 1st year we started dating he took me home to meet his family (on west coast). As soon as I met his ...

Sometimes its like she's flirting...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I know lots of people ask this about their teachers but this is literally driving me mad. I am a 18 yr old lesbian from nrth england and i am madly in love with my 28yr old business teacher. and i have been for almost a year now. She is appr...

Crazy crush.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - hello dear readers, Many already posted about their crushes or about their feelings for their teachers. and I am one of them. My question is if you have a crush on a teacher but you don't want to have to, what should you do?? please help me...

I'm sleeping with my best friend's boyfriend. I don't know if I can do the right thing, can anyone help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - For the last month I have been sleeping with my best friends boyfriend and I don't know how I feel about it. I know that sounds weird but I honestly don't know if its just sex or something more. In my mind I have separated the guy I'm sleeping wit...

I'm attracted to this hot older guy, I think he likes me too. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Ok, this is a bit embarrassing, but here goes... I first met my God-mother's son about 4 years ago. The first time we met, I was too shy to talk to him so I chatted to my sister instead. To my complete shock, after the event, I was informed by ...

I've fallen in love with my best friend's girlfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - hi got a real dilemma! me and my best friends girlfriend have completely fallen for eachother. theyv been going out for 6 years. they started going out the same time as me and my ex. i didnt know her that well when i was with my ex because th...

Two close brothers that I don't want to come between!!!

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6 January 2009 (F) - Hey Cupids... Basically i'm with a my new boyfriend about 5 months or so. It's lovely. Initially it was a light hearted sort of affair, but now we're very into each other and it's great and as each day goes by i love him a little bit more...

How can I tell my parents about my White BF when they're so against dating other races?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I really need some help. How can I tell my parents about my bf? I am black and he's white. My parents are totally against dating people of other races and I know they will be mad about this. How should I break the news to them? I am afraid they ...

Incestuous thoughts about cousin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I am 20 years old and am thinking about acting on incestuous thoughts with one of my cousins as long as it is consensual. I personally do not consider it terribly wrong, just incredibly hot. II do not want to marry her; I just want to try to start ...

Am I really starting to fall in love with my brother?

This question has 117 answers - newest was posted 2234 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - My older brother and I have been sexually active with each other for some years now. I know this started as him abusing me but I no longer see it that way and I think I might be falling in love with him. He is 4 years older then me and started uni 2 ...

UK 1st cousin love...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - what are the uk laws with being with your 1st cousins...

My parents refuse to accept my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Please help i dont know what to do.. come from a strict greek family who dont accept my boyfriend - even though he is greek too. i have known him for years and are perfect together but my parents wont accept it, they wont even let me see him. i ...