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Archived questions from: 28 August, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I don't want to disappoint my pastor by dating someone.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - So, there's this girl that I really like. Last night we spent over 5 hours Skyping and playing truth or dare over Skype (It got pretty hot) and, by the time it was done, we had both seen each other PARTIALLY naked. But she is just SUCH a sweet ...

Should I avoid befriending single men in case I give off the wrong impression?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm in need of some advice. I recently graduated from university and have been quite busy with a new career and new hobbies. I spend what little spare time I get with my family and friends. So having a boyfriend isn't at the top...

Traveling girlfriend's lazy communication is making me nervous!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - My girlfriend has gone traveling for 6 weeks to central America.We have been seeing each other for 4 months in what has been a whirlwind romance, we have both declared our love and said that we would be faithful. All was well sending emails, ...

Reading other's texts--snooping? or confirmation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - I am curious to know what other people's opinions are with reading each others texts when you should have nothing to hide? I seem to look at the topic from anoter point of view or maybe I am just right?? help ...

What does "working on things with someone" mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - If a person says they're working on things with someone, does that imply that they're a couple or that they aren't together but in talks of getting back together again? I'm confused by what that means since its not coming right out and saying yes, ...

How can I like him if I don't really know him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Hi guys, A little bit about me. Im 18, turning 19 in two months. Ive never had a boyfriend. I've never been serious with a guy. I've never had the closure with a guy. Yet to experience it all. I've kissed one guy in my entire life (well ...

Its hard to fix a problem when we can't talk about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Me and my man have been together for 8 years. I've been posting different questions/problems to figure out some sort of clarity on what I need to do. He has 3 kids I have 2. Currently we live long distance. We have a huge communication problem. ...

Going back and forth for years. Are we meant for each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Let me start from the beginning. My sophmore year in high school I started dating a guy which turned into a first love. We were madly in love that we talked about children and marriage. we were 16 and I was his 1st sex but he was not mine. At the ...

I know he truly wants us both!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - hello, I'm not sure what to do about a situation I've been involved with for two years and need other peoples advice! i met a man by accident two years ago. from the moment we started talking we couldn't leave each other alone. texts run into at ...

Is he into me, even though he has a girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Okay so I've just started in a new school where no one know eachother so it's a new fresh start. I like my class and everyone else in the school. But in my class, one guy has catched my attention. I started talking to him on our introduction trip to ...

Now that he's got new friends, he's not talking to me enough!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Okay so let me start this off by saying for the last few years my boyfriend hasn't really had any friends, and has basically only had me to hang out with. Anyway, he moved away for school a few days ago and is having a great time with all his new...

Not ready to let this 'camp fish' go!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Dear readers, I am in need of some serious advice. I worked at this day camp for two months. It just ended on Friday, August 26. There was this guy on the first day of pre-camp that I met through another guy I knew from last summer. We'll ca...

What are the attributes and conditions for a successful relationship that works? And what hinders the development of a successful relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I would be intersted to hear from others on what attributes and qualities represent essentials in a successful relationship. And what are deal breakers that can ruin a relationship? By a successful relationship I mean one where both parties a...

He never calls, Accuses me of things. should I break-up with him for good or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Hi! i have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months its a long distance relationship. At first things were ok,he would call every day and now our relationship is on and off. i ended up breaking up with him for a week and we got back together, since we...

How can I tell him? Have I lost him forever? Or could I make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - So there's this guy i feel in love with. We went to high school together we both recently graduated in may. He left to go to another state for college. There was no time nor room for a relationship. I don't think he wants to do a long distant ...

Why my one kiss has changed my girlfriend so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - My girlfriend, until recently, used to scold me quite with full throat even for little human errors. But for the last two weeks, she has got changed because she when was scolding me last time, out of nowhere, I got closer to her and shut her...

How do I tell her I am truly really faithful ? And avoid her getting mad at me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - I need help I know a guy at my age still had hormones and can't help but to notice a pretty girl. I have a girlfriend of 2 years and she can't stand it if I so much as look in a direction of another girl. She says her friends have boyfrien...

How can I help my bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - my boyfriend has been really stressed out and has a lot on his plate to handle and lately he has been abusing prescription meds and marijuana to help him feel better. I'm not okay with it, but i cant make him stop, he has to want to stop.and i want ...

The one that got away. Did he care? What could I do to get him back, if ever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - So I’m sure we all have a story about someone we loved and it didn’t happen or wasn’t meant to be for circumstances beyond our control but for me, I messed up a good thing completely. So it’s the same old story girl meets boy, girl likes boy like...

We want to moved in together. How do I tell her parents? They don't know we have been dating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - Okay, so I've been dating my girlfriend for almost four years now. I'm 19 and she is 18. Everything would be great except that her parents are very strict, in fact they don't even know we are dating since i have been hanging out with her and her ...

Do I support her in her wish to work in the porn industry? OrI find reasons to help her decide against it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - She says she wants to do porn.. my fiance is a very beautiful woman however due to her past (abusive mother and a father who was never there) she has almost no self esteem and because of that was often taken advantage of by men when she sought l...

Boyfriend has disgusting habits, will he ever stop? Everything else about him is good

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for several years and live together. For the most part it's been smooth sailing. Then we moved to a big city a few months ago, which made me germaphobic and him less careful about things. I don't know what to ...

Jack and Jill Are Crushing

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28 August 2011 (F) - Jack thought Jill was hot. She wore short, jean skirts with leggings underneath. She had nice legs. Her shirts were always nicely filled and her lips looked very...lush. She was smart too. Really cool. Jill though Jack was cute. He was funny, h...

Girlfriend wants to live separately but not break up. Am I being selfish resisting this change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2798 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I are in our mid-40's and have been going together for just over a year and a half. We've been living together for the last 6 months. She told me last month that after the year lease is up on our rental house that she wants us t...

Ladies, aged less than 30, would you date a guy even if he isn't ''FUN''?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - Would you consider a relatively young male to be dateable even if he is a 180 degrees from the hard party bad boy persona? I am not saying that I am weak, nor that I can't stick up for myself and who I care about. I simply have no interest in ...

His communication sometimes is tardy. Am I expecting too much from my LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have a long distance relationship. we see each other maybe once every few weeks. for the most part we text or skype sometimes. But seems like every time he is with his friends he takes hours to reply or sometimes doesn't even...

Why does she dress hot for work but not for me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - She dresses HOT for work, low tops, flouncy skirts, sometimes no panties. When she comes home she dresses down, pyjamas instead of negligee, baggy pants instead of skirt, baggy dresses etc. I see all the answers saying this is innocent and to just...

Are we both too proud? Why am I like this? I never wanted to hurt him or to get hurt so easily

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I am 19. Seeing a now 35yr old man. We have been seeing each other for nearly two years. I secretly love him, and he has told me he loves me. But, he has gone away on bussiness and I miss him. We spoke to each other on Skype every morning and nigh...

How do I get over the put-downs and insults, rather than feel hurt by them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I met a guy almost a year ago who came on very strong. At first I was not interested in anything serious as he said he didn't want kids. But, he then changed his mind, and really came on heavy with saying he was in love, he wanted to be with me, ...

He's been talking to other girls. should I let go of him or stay because of familiarity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for more than a year and a half. I love him dearly and would move mountains for him, and for a while, I believed he felt the same. He was my first, and I was hoping my last. But now our relationship is on the rocks ...

Can you please help give me some clarity? Because I am drowning in all these relationship troubles.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Okay I have many issues with my relationship but I will bring up one at a time and see what we can figure out solutions. First off I am a 30 year old female in a 8 year relationship with someone who is 1 year older than me. He has 3 kids and I ha...

My Family or my Bf? I am worried that the choice I make will ruin my other relationship(s

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I need someone else's opinion. My friends/family and fiance seem to be biased for obvious reasons. Here's my deal: I am 19 and my fiance is 24. My fiance went into the Air Force after 1 year of dating. Our relationship was great and he had to join ...

Do I believe my boyfriend or my friends who claim he cheats, and they hate him for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - What should i do with my boyfriend who my friends hate?! I have a boyfriend who my 8 best friends don't really like. They have heard numerous rumors about him cheating on me and texting girls weird things in the past 7 months that we have been dati...

Should I tell my parents that I am bi-curious? They have never known about my relationship with this bi-girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - A semi-quick question for anybody willing to answer; I don't know if this love is true blue? I'm going to have to explain this better for you to be able to analyze, so...I am head over heels for my best friend. The feelings are mutual for her, ...

This player has actually fallen for me and he just doesn't want to let me go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Long messy story so here goes. Met a guy a while back and he started flirting with me straight away. I thought he was interested only to find that he had made out with my friend while he was flirting with me. He said he didn't really owe me anything ...

He still has a thing for his ex. Can I compete with that and if so how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4669 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I met this guy a few months ago through mutual friends, i was automatically attracted to him, we have flirted online and kissed once(however we were drunk). My friend accidentally blabbed to him i liked him and apparently he seemed pretty chuf...

How can I overcome all my doubts and get my dating life re-energized again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - I'm a shy guy and about two years ago I was having a six year period without a single date. Then I met this girl and started dating and we clicked quite nicely, kissed, finally, on the 5th date. But she was from a different background, and since my...

I love this girl but I cant connect with her intellectually and its getting very complicated and difficult for me now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4669 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - I need help and advice. This is my first time posting on any advice site. I figured it would be best to get my thoughts down and see what other people have to say. Here it goes..... I have gotten back together with my ex girlfriend of 2 ...