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Dating: Help and advice

Typical "I'm in love with my best friend" scenario.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - Typical I'm in love with my best friend scenario. She was dating this player type guy until recently. The guy had been in well over 20 "relationships" if you could call them that, and had always broken them off, he had never been broken up with. My ...

Is my girlfriend over her ex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - Okay, I need a some different points of view on this to help me understand. As of 6 months ago I started dating my current girlfriend. She is a wonderful girl and I'm totally in love with her and she says she is totally in love with me. However,...

I feel really battered and bruised by my boyfriend's constant abuse...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm looking for advice re my boyfriend of ten years. I feel really battered and bruised by his abuse. He has called me names over the years, insulted my daughter (he is not her father) and he has even threatened to 'slash' my face open and ...

I lied to her and now she won't talk to me. How can I make this right again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - I need help... i lied to my girlfriend about this girl that i liked way before she came along and i just told her the truth and she says she hates me now and i need to fix this before valentines day, we've been going out for 10 months almost 11 and ...

My girlfriend is depressed and I'm going in circles trying to make things better. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of almost eleven years has an exotic bird that she's had for about two years. Before you ask, we're not married because all our parents have been divorced several times and it seems pointless to us. She is depressed because she hate...

Is there anything I can do to inject some life into this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - I'm in an extremely boring relationship with a girl that I really like. She is very kind, considerate and giving. She takes exceptionally good care of me and takes care of a lot of my needs, like my laundry, helping me keep my place clean, ...

Help!!! How can I last longer???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - i was watching porn the other day and i got very excited over it. at every exciting part my penis will "jump" as if i was cumming. after that i decided to go masturbate and i realized i came really fast. is there any way to not cum fast other than ...

How can I stop getting so nervous before I meet with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Hi, i am a 14 year old girl and ive been asked to meet (french kiss) a guy before but my problem is i get so worked up the day before i meet them that i end up getting sick and completely losing my appetite got any suggestions on how to stop this? I ...

How can I tell if my shy friends likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - How would your friend act if he liked you but was to shy and unsure to tell you? maybe through lack of confidence etc. I think my friend likes me, and so do some others that have seen us together but i really do think hes shy and doesnt have a clue ...

Was her reason for breaking up with me valid?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - Hi guys, Recently, my girlfriend broke up with me for a reason I didn't understand. Here's what happened. We were talking about her past (dating, first kiss, making out, etc.) Then she asked me, "did I turn you off?". The reason she said that be...

Is it worth trying to fight for the relationship before he gets too close to this new woman???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Hi, my long term BF and I have been arguing a lot mostly because of his problems and we have been kind of on/off over the last year but I still love him. I saw him a couple of weeks ago then he suddenly told me he had seen a woman at work he liked ...

What's wrong with him? He's like 2 people and it's making me super frustrated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - I'm currently a sophomore in college. My boyfriend and I have been dating since spring quarter of last year and since then, I have pretty much been staying in his dorm room (even though I have my own) apart from the summer when we both went home. ...

Is this spotting, or was something hurt during sex? I'm starting to worry!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I need advice please. I'm 18 and I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 2 months ago. Very soon after, I went for my first visit to the gynecologist. My tests turned out fine and I was put on birth control. I have had quite a f...

He more or less wants to play the field for a while before committing to me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Ok well i was going out with this guy "Nikko" and we hit it off. It started off slow, with movie dates and hanging out ect. I told him that i was gunna move soon so i didnt want to get to attached, but he was so addicting. We rele liked each other ...

I want to feel like am 100% in love with him again and I don’t know how to do it.

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12 February 2010 (F) - I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year now. We have been through more than the average couple. I love him but I don’t know if I am in love with him anymore. I want to want to be with him so badly. I really care about him and I want to marry him ...

I'm mad at my boyfriend but is my anger justified?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Okay hi people.. basically ive been with my boyfriend 2 months today and we had been talking for long before that.. anyways on the 14th(yes valentines day) its his birthday and of course valentines day, i think thats kinda sexy lol, his a vlanetin...

He treats me really badly but I just can't seem to leave him... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Ok, so this will be a bit long. I am 15 years old and have been through a lot, I think.. Alcohol use and drug use. My mom drinks a lot and my dad isn't in the same country, he also drinks a lot. They both smoke. I'm saying this because I find it ...

Help! Having issues with getting over a break up.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - So I'm 28 and my ex girlfriend is 24 and we dated for just over 2 years. To make a long story short just over a month ago my girlfriend became very distant and I suspected there was somone else. Well after looking into the matter more I figured out ...

Should I visit my doctor???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Ok, so this isnt specifically about love or relationships but i really need some advice/your comments... I am almost a week late on my period with no signs of it showing up any time soon (no cramps, no soreness) which i normally get. Me and my ...

Am I worthy of a second date?

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12 February 2010 (F) - Am I worthy of a second date? Hi all! I would really appreciate some advice. I had my eye on a guy at my gym for like 6 months. the feeling was mutual. 2 weeks ago I felt really brave and out of character. I left a note on his car saying that I'd ...

Do women not like men to touch their breasts in intimacy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm really confused and I know this will sound weird to many people but I need some help. My boyfriend and I have wonderful intimacy. I love my breasts being touched as much as I love kissing and intercourse. I am also a very giving lover. M...

Thanks to all the great agong aunts/uncles here on Dear Cupid!

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12 February 2010 (F) - I would just like to say thanks to caring guy, angzw, tigerlily and pinktopaz for their advice with my problem. Helped me a lot and thankfully everything now fine. X...

Is it normal to have blood in your pre cum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

12 February 2010 (?) - hi, a medical issue that i would like to share with you all and need some advice. ok as my girlfriend needs me to take a blood test, she came with me and i gave a blood sample for test for normal blood sugar, urine sugar, jaundice and also she insi...

How fast does the penis grow during puberty?

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12 February 2010 (M) - I have been with my gf for like 4 years now and she said i had a small penis. my penis size is 3.7 in. she said she thought it would be bigger. i am only 14 years old and for the past year since i was 13 my penis hasn't really grown. im wondering ...

Age old situation - Boy likes girls, girl already got a BF

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - Hi everyone. I need some advice and help on a situation I find myself in. I am very lucky in that I'm single and can enjoy eating out regularly; being a person of habit I got to certain places on certain days. Over the course of goin...

What do I get him for valentines day?

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12 February 2010 (F) - What do i get my boyfriend for valentines day? Weve been going out for a couple of months and i know hes getting me something quite expensive, iv been thinking about it for ages but im really not sure. can anyone give me some ideas? thanks...

I seem to get unfair treatment all the time from men

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - can some one be a born reject.guys have always being rejecting me since i was 18 yaers old. that its is me not you routine. the rejection towards me is aggressive, they've treated me like dirt, belittled me,name called,even threatend me which is...

How can I connect more with a woman when I suffer from depression and she suffers from ptsd?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - How can I connect more with a woman for a realtionship, when I suffer from depression and she suffers from ptsd?...

Do you think I will get the chance to have a relationship with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - Ok here I go I went out tonight with a chick I knew from 3 yes ago I always thought she was cool she was dating a guy at the time so I never had a chance nor would I try getting involved with a mans functional relationship but I seen her at the mall...

How do I get her to choose me? I need help to make her see that he is a complete tool!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - So, this is all that has been on my mind for a while, and I want to ask for advice before everything slips away, and I ruin my chance. So, I was dating this girl, and I treated her perfectly. You may think I have an ego after that or somethin...

I have never been kissed! What can I expect?

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12 February 2010 (F) - I'm not proud of this but I have really never been truly kissed. I kissed a guy once and it was a little more than a peck, that's it. I need advice on how to kiss, what to expect, ect ect? (I know I sound like a geek and that girl off of neve...

How do I handle a guy who gets completely freaked out at the thought of having a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - What would you do with a guy who you're sure likes you but who seems completely freaked out by the idea of having a girlfriend? I like him, we briefly got together last year before he backed out and now we hang out mainly in groups, with his best ...

So what do you guys think is going on here? Does my crush like me?

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12 February 2010 (F) - So there is this guy I am attracted to physically in school. We're just friends- he's a bit reserved. I notice him looking at me when we are in the same room. We are friends, we have a lot of mutual friends too. He's a bit shy when he's around ...

I have no idea how to french kiss. Help!

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12 February 2010 (F) - im going to keep it short and simple my bf wants to french kiss what do i do can some one please help me i would appreciate it very much...

Do you think she would accept being my valentine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - I'm extremely shy and I'm not sure how to make this girl want to be my valentine should I get her flowers chochlates or something like a romantic card I know I just want to pour my heart out to her but I'm just so shy Ive known her for about 2 years ...

What does love really feel like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - I think I may be in Love with someone, but i don't know about it because Years ago I let go of most of my emotions. I think i may like her, i know she likes me, but there is another problem as well. She is only 15 or 16 i think and im not that kind ...