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Archived questions from: 25 January, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is it right to believe that he still has feelings for his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - A little over a year ago, I started a relationship with this guy who seemed too perfect for words. His last relationship before me ended about 4 months before we had started ours due to the fact that she had kissed another guy. At first, our ...

Is he now avoiding me?

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25 January 2009 (F) - I recently wrote asking advice about my bf who has been blowing hot and cold. No intimacy since April and did not see over xmas. He's tried to make contact and I could not/would not speak to him. Got his son to phone and he tried to speak t...

Fireman blues...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I went out with this man and he has now started shifts as a fireman for the first time. Working 2 days shifts 9am till 6pm and then 2 night shifts 6pm till 9am and then 4 days off. Everything was great until started working these shifts, he even ...

Did my man's mind ever leave his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

What's the difference between seeing someone and going out with someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - What's the difference between seeing someone and going out with someone? The guy I am with says we're just seeing each other. ...

My boyfriend is losing interest in me slowly.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is losing intrest me in slowly and I think it's because even though I'm 'mature' for being 15, I'm not perfect and him being 18, almost 19 makes him super mature, and sometimes I can't always keep up. Any advice about what I can do s...

Does winter really affect mood?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - hey, My boyfriend and I are together for almost 2 years and we are about to move in together, that freaked me out at first but now I'm fine with it... I am in this confused period where I don't know what I want from life... they always come around ...

Footie Thug But I Love Him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I've met and fallen in love with the man of my dreams. We started in September last year and we are besotted with each other. He's 15 years older than me - I'm 26 - but it doesn't matter. We just click. However, there is one snag. He comes ...

Gain back trust (NOT after cheating)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is terminally ill (cancer). She kept the information from everyone, including work, her family, other friends. She told me that she wants no one (including me) to interfere with her choices about medication, doctors and the like. I...

Do men like having their anus aroused during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a great sex life and have recently started exploring each other a little more... by that I mean he will now finger my anus as well. Although I enjoy this I know I will never have anal sex because it does hurt a lot when ...

How do I ask him out? He's shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Ok well I really like this guy and we have great chemistry( we almost kissed once).hes really really shy I'm shy but not as much.well the problem is that we both hint around going out but no one actually asks.how can I ask him out or just ask to ...

Player actually could be serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - If a guy with a player reputation is already getting sex from a girl now, is he just being polite when he asks to have a serious relationship with her or does he actually mean it?...

Is he interested--no contact for 3 weeks but then says yes to an invitation

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - hi - is this guy interested? i was introduced to this really great guy - he was in regular touch and we met up for lunch, but then he didnt call for three weeks, but when i asked him if he wanted to come this show he said yes and apologised a few ...

Busy? Or just lost interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Hi i met someone and we wnet on a date. After that we saw each other nearly every day and he kept in contact with me. He started a new job as a fireman which means he has to work shifts. He told me that hes too busy to be seeing anyone at the ...

I only like men who are like 20 years older than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I have a problem! I'm 14 and have only had one real boyfriend, sure ive had ones for like 1 day but only 1 real one. Since i turned 11 i havent liked one single person!! Is this weird? Ive been trying to think why, and iv'e realised that i onl...

If a couple is perfect for each other, then how can one of them go on and find someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - Ok recently, I made a huge mistake and I let a girl I've been going out with for 7 months that was perfect for me go for someone else because I thought she lost interest in me and I didn't want to seem alone and really lame. We had a fight and ...

How do you casually ask a guy if he's single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Does anyone know how you can casually ask a guy if he is single? I really like this guy and he says he likes me and we flirt all the time, the thing is I heard someone say he s with someone. I don't just wanna come out and ask him, I just want to ...

What is the best way to kiss someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I need some kissing advice, my two front teeth stick out a bit and everytime I go to kiss someone we always bang teeth, this has made so nervous I have stopped kissing, am I doing something wrong. What is the best way to kiss someone?...

I don't want to have sex with him, would a BJ be acceptable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - This guy I work with I think just wants a one-off, he has asked me round to his place, I want to go because I fancy him but I don't want to have sex the first time we are alone, what can I do instead of going all the way, would a blow job be ...

My g/f never wants sex now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - im a 21 yr old guy im pretty good looking. ive been with my girlfriend for 3 years. the first 9 months our sex lives for great. we would have sex at least once or twice a day. my girlfriend is 22 yr old. we had a baby about a year in a half ago. my ...

If a woman never complains about him, will a man take advantage of her or be more responsive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - If a woman never complains, and is always pleasant and supportive, will a man take advantage of her or will he become more responsive? My sister privately agonizes over a gentleman who has admitted he is only interested in dating. She, however, i...

Is it me? I 'm crazy? Smell bad?? WHAT???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - Is it me? Am I crazy? Do I smell? Am I gay, and the only one that can't see it? Why the hell is it that every girl I ask out is taken without me knowing, or not wanting to be in a relationship? Am I destined to be alone forever? I used ...

I have a hard time saying no but I can't yes to everyone either!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I have a problem... I think its simple,I'm just really really terrible at saying no... SO..heres the problem I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months,we didn't see eachother enough and that was my fault...I also split with him because I...

I'm 15, he's 21..what happens if someone finds out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - hi, im 15 and im seeing a 21 year old. what would happen to him if any one was to find out? is it really that bad ?...

I can't believe I went out with this guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I went out on a date with someone I would never find attractive. Now I just feel gross. Is this a cry for help? Temporary insanity? Boredom? What if I the guy I like finds out? What do I tell him?...

I'm pregnant, boyfriend doesn't understand I want an appartment of my own...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend has been living together for almost 1 yr now. I do love him, but I think we should get seperate apts. I dont want to break up with him but he thinks I does. By the way, I am 7 months pregnant with my first child, his second ...

Met him on the plane, we had one date, now he is ignoring me, why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - A few months ago I met a guy on the plane. We hit it off right away. He was sweet and kind and a great conversationalist. I had a crush on him and I was (literally) on cloud nine when he said I was pretty. It turned out that his final destination ...

I'm worried about his being so thin and I also dislike it! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Im 15 and I have a boyfriend. Hes great but he always keeps things to himself. He never tells me whats wrong or if anythings bugging him. Im really worried also because I dont think hes eating enough! Whenever I go to his house , theres never any ...

I feel like I have thrown myself at him and feel embarassed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Sometime ago I asked for your advice in relation to a single father of twins who works part time at his families hairdressers. I felt his sister was pushing us. His mother is very nice to me and my son. You all suggested that I make a move to t...

How can I find a bf who wont just use me for sex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - All I want is a boyfriend that will stick around and not just use me for sex. It always happens to me, I don't know whether its the people I choose or whether its me. I know I could be a good girlfriend and I would treat someone so well, but I ...

Boyfriend or crush??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend and have been with him for 4.5 years and for the past week we have been fighting a lot over nothing, i have recently been feeling attracted to another guy who also has a girlfriend, i know he is also attracted to me because he is ...

How do I meet women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - I don't know how to meet women. Well, I have been using EHarmony for a few months and it was great at first, but I do not get very many matches anymore and the ones that I do get are mostly inactive or non-subscribers. I would like to go to a club ...

Does he still want to get to know me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (?) - Ima try to make the story short.. Ok so I met this guy last year(he is now 22 and I am 18) and he asked for my number and he would call me almost everyday, but since he's older than me I didn't take him seriously. So we eventually lost touch and a ...

How do I let him know I appreciate him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm having a problem with myself and my boyfriend. He is a very hard worker, and works two jobs to make sure that we live comfortably, because I go to school and can only work so much so my grades don't suffer. But lately, he hasn't been ...

Too jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I go out to a club every week and every time he will see a girl that he finds attractive and will check her out. I don't like it and I will ask him why did he do that. He says I should not worry about it as he is just looking. Is ...

Are there any nice guys who are good looking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I have been with a good looking guy who treated me like crap and I have been with a nice guy who I felt absolutely nothing for. Are there any guys that have both qualities? I dont mean to sound shallow but the physical attraction always has to be ...

Wnats the big deaL?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

25 January 2009 (?) - Me and my girlfriend (of 4 years) went to a bar last week (it was her birthday). Long story short I had a bit to much drink. (this is what she told me b/c I don't really remember the night very well) I started flirting with a random woman in front ...

I'm not comfortable with the woman on top position

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I really need your help! I have been dating my boyfriend now for 2 years and i am now trying to avoid sex. Im very shy about it and have started refusing it. Im very embarrased about the fact that i cant get on top of him. When i have tried in the ...