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Archived questions from: 21 January, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

My boyfriend of Three years cheated then left. Why am I being treated like this? It feels punishing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me and then left me for his 1 month affair girl. He was perfect to me and i honestly don't know why he has changed this dramatically. I was never formally introduced but i heard that the mistres is 7 years younger ...

He started texting me after we broke up. Then just as suddenly he stopped. Why would he do that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I'm just looking for a second opinion. A couple of months ago, I slept with this guy a few times. We texted, then i made the tremendous mistake of asking his friend about one of his ex girlfriends. So he stopped texting me. However, each time I ...

Should I stay or move on? I can't seem to convince my gf that we could be good together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - It's been 3 weeks since my girlfriend and I broke up. The reason we broke up was because we fought too much, and our intimacy reduced, but we did have a great friendship (she was my best friend as I was to her). We did have trust and loyalty, befo...

How can I make this easier?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - i am 18 so please dont say i should have waited. Me and my boyfriend, he is 18 as well, are expecting. well he is now my ex boyfriend. we broke up last night because he had said earlier that he wasn't happy. so i broke up with him. the thing is...

How to get her back???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I started dating a girl i work with about 4 months ago, over the time of the relationship i got very jealous and paranoid as she is polish and when she spoke to other men or her friends in polish i got worried what she was saying. She always told me ...

I've never met a more irrational, selfish person... and I stick around!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my husband for 4 years. 3.5 of the 4 years, I have been unhappy. I want to leave him and have tried so many times, but I always keep coming back. Why do I do that? Hes mad all the time about everything. He really believes that ...

How do I get over her, it just seems so hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I just recently broke up with my fiance in June of 2010 but we kept talking for about 6-7 months. It was me trying to fix things but she did not want to fix anything. She left because earlier in the relationship i talked to a girl onl...

I said sorry for everything that happened in the past but she is still acting different with me.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I was in relationship with a girl since 4 years. I was kinda careless about the relationship and about her. But i loved her. So after 4 years our relationship came to an end and we broke up ! .. but after 3-4 months i started missing her and ...

Was I insensitive towards my friend? Or did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - My friend is going through a hard break up and was really sad in front of me. They started to cry and started to talk about there relationship. At first I told them "its okay you can cry" and they felt bad for crying in front of me. So I told them, ...

Relationship limbo: what do you think is happening, and where should I go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I'm in a tricky spot at the moment. My boyfriend of almost 4 years broke up with me just before Christmas. He hadn't been himself for awhile. He told me he needed this so that he could "find himself" and that he needs to be alone to sort out his ...

She helped me get a job before we broke up, and now I feel guilty for leaving!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - Me and this girl dated for just over a month(but felt like a year). She was extremely verablly and emotionally abusive, and i still dont understand why she insulted me, belittled me and harassed me so much because i treated like a queen, gave her ...

I cant move on even though it has been a year and a half since my ex moved in with his mistress!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Its been a year and a half since my ex moved in with his mistress. He didn't tell me about it, I found out about it. He knew I was pregnant when he left. He said he wanted to still have a relationship with me, I asked him flat out do you want to ...

Is he playing games or does he want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - hey people, well me and my "ex boyfriend"...i say it like that because i don't i know if were together still. We've been friends for months already and when we were friends we kissed two times on different occasions. A little after he asked me out.. ...

Is it a bad idea to bring a baby into the world based on the current state of our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - Im in a four year + relationship and up until 2 years ago our relationship has been real rocky and we would both drink a lot. one night of intoxication has ruined me. i cheated and it haunts me even now that its out in the open. i love her so much ...

She wants to take a break because her dad does not like me, will she ever come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - well heres the details of what my problem is, i was with this girl whom i am fucking crazy about. she says she realy likes me, we was together for about 6 to 8 months but her dad hates me we had always had to sneak around to be together. finaly we ...

Confronting my girlfriends lying has brought our relationship to an end.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I am in a longterm relationship with a girl from another country. We were casual for around 6 months, and connected immediately. Being able to be very open with each other on everything including past relationships, sex etc. We got together...