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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Have I messed up or is he just not that bothered?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3480 days ago

3 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, this probably sounds really futile but it's even driving me mad the past couple of days! Basically I've been seeing a really lovely guy for the past month or so, he does boxing and he had a really big match the other night. I knew about it since we met and a few weeks ago ... (318 words)

I would be leaving my wife of 12 years for her, so I need to know if she wants me too

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

3 November 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - First time I have done something like this online but there is no one else i can speak to about this. I am married with a child and 2 step kids, I love my wife but I don't know if I am still in love with her. I met a girl in her 20s a couple months back, she is beautiful, like ... (190 words)

My girlfriend told me details of her bad sexual experience and now I feel angry and jealous. How do I get over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

3 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I need your realtionship advice about this I feel like I am a bad boyfriend. This might be long sorry for it Recently my girlfriend and I started to try have sex. Ofcourse it is too painful for her so wer are just trying right now. I am not rushing things and I am ok if she c... (299 words)

Should I give him permission to go out dancing while I go to sleep? Or will it lead him to cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

3 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are on a 2 week cruise. I do not like to dance but my husband does. Every time we are on a trip, he goes to dance. Is it okay for him to go to the disco on the ship once or twice to dance? Seeing that he likes it and I do not. Even if he asks women to da... (217 words)

Scared to be in another relationship after my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

3 November 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I'm an 18 year old girl who is afraid to get into a relationship with another guy after my ex. I have had a boyfriend for around a year and a half who was my first crush and first boyfriend when I was around 15. When I was 17 and single I found someone else who I really ... (235 words)

Is this how people meet other people? I find him intriguing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3484 days ago

3 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - This might be a silly question - But, I met a man on a train. He was complaining behind me about how slow the line was while we were waiting for tickets and I turned back to apologize and say I too would be slow as I had no idea what I was doing. We were waiting for the trai... (278 words)

I have a crush on a shy girl and don't want to scare her off. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

3 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have quite a crush on a very shy girl. Problem is, I myself am quite shy and a bit unsure about her feelings towards me. We do spend time together now and again and it's quite fun, but I don't really wanna scare her off or make things awkward. Any advice?... (53 words)

He hit me again - should I leave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

3 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi dearcupid, My boyfriend and i have been together for 10 years but have only lived together for 12 months (because we were both at uni and persuing our own career goals). Since we've started living together its all gone downhill though and we had a fight this morning and... (215 words)

I think my one night stand recorded me with his phone! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

3 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi dearcupid, i had a one nightstand on Saturday night with a guy i know a little bit. I've had my heart broken recently and i wanted a bit of fun to b honest. So, we went back to my place sat night but we were both quite drunk. The thing is, the next morning we had sex also. ... (210 words)

Are these red flags? I'm nervous because of my past abusive relationship

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

3 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I was previously in an abusive relationship, that ended around 4 years ago. I am now in a new relationship, and we've been together for 3 months. Because of my past abusive relationship I am now very cautious of "red flags", and I find some things here and there that ... (432 words)

I'm bitter about my rich ex-husband, while I don't have much money. Will karma get him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

3 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't wish anything really bad to happen to my ex-husband, but some Kharma would be nice... My ex and I divorced about two years ago. He was not a good husband-treated me very badly and basically walked out on our son and I when he decided he wanted to be free and single ... (256 words)

I want to move back to my own country, but can't tell my boyfriend about it or he will kick me out! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

3 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I moved to a different country to be near family 4 years ago and i met a guy who helped me through some tough times. The problem is i was happy with the move at first but then i started getting sick of it. Fast forward four years - i havent been home since then and he has ... (294 words)

How can we take things to the next level? My g/f finds sex to be really painful

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

3 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I decided that we should take our relationship to next level. We have been trying to have sex but we failed 3 times now. I love her and I don't want to force her to do something that she doesn't want and she knows that. It is too painful for her to do because ... (218 words)

My boyfriend doesn't like that I hang out with guys, yet he hangs out with his ex girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

3 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So here it is short and sweet. My bf doesn't like me hanging out with guys and flipped out the other night when I did. Only to find out last night that, the same night he was texting me freaking out, he was spending the night at his ex girlfriends who basically stalks him, up ... (85 words)

My friend doesn't talk to me first when she's upset, and it hurts me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3484 days ago

3 November 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - i have friend, she is very close to me but we live in different cities and we only chat ,we rarely meet.. i have so much trust in her that whenever i am upset or mad or sad i text her, talk to her and she listens and i always expected her to do the same. but whenever she is ... (149 words)

Addicted to feeling desired/wanted???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

3 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - 2 years ago I moved 100 miles away from my hometown to be with my my partner after being together. Crazy I know but it worked! Until February this year when he left me and broke my heart. I'll admit the relationship was hard towards the end but I deffinitely wouldn't have given ... (329 words)

How can I erase what I've done and become friends with this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

3 November 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - ok so were the 1st 9 weeks into school and have developed unexpressed feelings for the new girl. she is very pretty and shy!!! now that u know a bit lets start from the beginning of the year i talked alot of crap on the other guys because im the starting running back on the ... (366 words)

I divorced my husband and now some of my family isn't speaking to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3484 days ago

3 November 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I just got divorce from my husband which is my second cousin too. I have not announced it yet but his family told some of our relatives. By my surperise couple of my first cousins that were closer to me and we grew up together started acting strange and now they stoped talking ... (135 words)

Is my best female friend flirting with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3484 days ago

3 November 2014 (?)

- Is my best friend flirting with me? I'm a single female and my best friend is a married female. I am starting to feel like she is flirting with me lately. We see each other often and talk most every day either in person or via email. There are things she does and says that is ... (361 words)

Co-worker has changed, have I done something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

3 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I started a new job and my male co-worker is training me. We would laugh about stuff at work and he would laugh at things that I said. He would check-in when I was working and see how I was doing. I dressed up nicely a few times (because I was meeting my boyfriend for ... (189 words)

How would you react to her suspicious behaviour?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

3 November 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I will try to keep this as short and to the point as possible. A few weeks back my girlfriend sent me a nude pic of herself in the shower on WhatsApp messenger, though I appreciated the pic, I told her I don't really like using whatsapp because I had a girlfriend who used it ... (565 words)

How much am I entitled to know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

3 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - How much asking about a bf's friends is too much? Do you stop asking once he says "I'm going out with a friend/friends? Or is it ok to ask what else they'd be doing? Or ask if who the friends are. Just curious. Many thanks for your replies... (48 words)

The relationship is toxic but ending it is complicated

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

3 November 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and the majority of that time has been just dreadful. He started off incredibly sweet and charming, helped me with money when I lost my job and took me places I'd always wanted to go. But slowly he's just started to become very abusive. ... (315 words)

Ex hasn't picked up his things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3484 days ago

3 November 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up a little over three weeks ago, we broke up once before about 4 months ago. Regardless he has been utterly cold and nasty. We have an apartment together, and he has been living at home since the split. He came once to get most of his clothes, but left his ... (511 words)