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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend is in a totally different place than me. How do I change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What am I supposed to do when my boyfriend is in a completely different place to me? I'm 22 and he's 23 we've been together for two years and we decided to start house hunting a while back, although I don't feel he's taking it seriously, when we viewed a house we got quoted a ... (157 words)

What's a good way to become focused and determined to succeed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4077 days ago

19 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - A few years ago I had my first crush on a girl. I did tell her I liked her but I got nowhere. However, I still liked her and right now I like her as a person and not someone I would like to date. My problem is that I have never been inspired to work hard and my life is in di... (210 words)

My ldr says I spend more time with my sister than with her. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

19 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - guys am in a long distance relationship with some chick,she introduced me to her sister some months back,weeks after the intro to her sister we had a misunderstanding that led to a breakup,i used 2 call and chat wit her sister during our breakup,we ended up as great friends ... (114 words)

My mom has made sacrifices for me but I don't want to be a nurse!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. This is a bit of a complicated question. I am currently in college studying to be a nurse. It's a great job and it's needed everywhere, but I just don't love doing it at all. I have volunteered and taken most of the prerequisites to get into the program, but I just... (461 words)

How can I let him know that I'm interested but not straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

19 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So I’m an Asian guy and recently I met this guy, the first time I saw him I was like: omg, who the hell is this gorgeous guy? The second time we talked for 1 or 2 minutes and I didn’t even know his name, but his accent showed he comes from England. I hit the gym with 2 other ... (427 words)

How long do you wait for someone to respond or do you just give up hope?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy at a friends holiday party. We had a great time. We end up kissing at the end of the night. We shared a cab ride home, and he asked me to go to his place to continue making out. I declined and he asked for my number. I gave him my number and he text me two days ... (565 words)

B/f broke up because he can't trust me but I worry about him hurting himself since he's doing drugs

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - After dating my ex for about a month, he decides to break up with me because he can't trust me and feels i am always lying to him. The first time we broke up was because i cheated. He wanted to give me another chance because he says he really loves me. After he found out i had ... (123 words)

Is this younger guy just messing with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4077 days ago

19 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a gay guy. I met this guy about an year ago. He is 21 and I am 35. He used to hang out with the girls of his age a lot,and I have seen him talking with the girls without his shirt. He goes to the gym and stays in shape, and although he makes a show and tell with the girls ... (236 words)

His snoring is keeping me from enjoying our bed with him and he has given up on his appearance. How do I tell him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, am 5 yrs into marraige and my husband started balding 2 yeses after our marraige. He also snores badly tht its difficult for me to sleep next to him. And fr so many years I have been trying to tell him tht he should do something about it. But he just ignores. I feel really ... (277 words)

He gave me the boot with a cliche break up line, why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi friends! I just got broken up with by guy I've known for almost 2yrs. We have been together for only about 6mths. I told him I had feelings for him then got the kiss of death email. He wrote this: "I think your sweet too nice and too cool of a chick to make you feel bad ... (185 words)

Should I try to reconnect with my mother in law or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having a hard time reconnecting with my mother in law and don't know if I should. My mother in law has always been pretty nice to me, even though she said something very offensive about me before we even met. She did not want her son (my now-husband, we recently married... (751 words)

I am 3 months pregnant but my boyfriend pulled that "I am scared" crap. What's the next step?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am confused wether I am being lied to or not by the guy Ive been seeing for 6 mnths and am now 3 mnths pregnant too. When i told him i was pregnant he was happy but we had an argument after being in each others company for too long as we have both had our hearts broken in the ... (208 words)

I am afraid of letting my family know about my relationship as previously there had been problems.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 22 and in a relationship for 2 years now. We are in the same college and see each other very often. But we never really hang out elsewhere. We both really want to but my mom doesn't know about this relation and something bad happened with my previous relationship my mum ... (124 words)

Should I completely drop it or is it possible that he will come around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (?) age 26-29 - hey everyone... well this is very short and i honestly want to know your honest opinions and what you guys think.. anyways I have this guy friend who I have been talking to for a while.. we met in the begining of the school year in August and have been friends.. we are al... (579 words)

Attractive young woman got drunk, made overt moves on me and kissed my wife. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - TLDR; Attractive young woman got drunk, made overt moves on me and kissed my wife. What to do? This past weekend, my wife and I attended a party with a few friends as we try to do every other weekend. There has been a recent addition to our group, a young woman with ti... (699 words)

I'm really falling for him again, but the problem is that he is still with his girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! So this is a very long story about and old crush. In 2009 I met this guy and I totally crushed on him for about 2 years in total. I never told him how I felt, but we were both really great friends. He once asked me out but I took at as a joke, and there were times whe... (401 words)

My dilemma is, should I remain friends, talk, text and see each other, to rebuild a trust. Or tell her it's too hard and stop trying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

19 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My first post here. I've been searching the web to get some peace of mind for some months now. Still at it. So here's my story. I'll try and summarize as best as I can. My ex g/f is 5 years my senior. We met 1 year ago and we dated for 5 months. Little did I know was th... (851 words)

How do I get someone I care about to stop smoking?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some serious help. I feel like such a terrible person because I can't control my own emotions. Recently my friend started smoking and its crushed me, I've cried everyday since, just knowing he does it upsets me and I'd give anything in this world for him to quit. ... (259 words)

I don't feel my boyfriend is completely open with me and I can't fully trust him. How do I get him to open up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - If you are single or married to a business man please help with this concern of mine. First let me tell you all I have some trust issues that developed earlier on with how my father was with my mom. My mom trusted my dad and when he was out on his grind trying to establis... (634 words)

I never thought a long distance relationship would be so hard!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, first of all, I really want to thank you for your time and good will to help. :) I've been in a long distance relationship for 2 months now. The last time I saw my boyfriend was a month ago. The problem is - I just miss him so much! I don't know what to do, r... (166 words)

Why does my g/f say she'll have sex and then change her mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - my girl friend never shows any inetrest in sex , i can leave mentioning sex for months.. she dosent say a word. Then once in a while she will say we can have sex tonight but then drops her plans with out saying a word! She never gives me a reason.. (feeling sick or other). I ... (136 words)

How do you break up when you live together? How could I try and make our relationship better? Am I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years, but I have been not very happy in our relationship for a few months. I suffer from depression and feel very angry and sad a lot of the time, and my partner is the one who has to deal with it. There are several things ... (364 words)

My mom has been talking about wanting to see me happy with someone and have a child, which makes me feel conflicted!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately I've started to wonder if something is wrong with me. I'm 25 and I've never had a boyfriend. From the way things are looking now I'll probably never have any kids either. As a child and a teen I was bullied a lot, which made me very wary of people and insecure. Now, I do ... (232 words)

I'm confused...am I a virgin or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

19 March 2013 (?) age 36-40 - I was in a relationship 1year back but that guy ditched me very badly. We once tried to have sex. That time he didnt enter me compltely but I was having some pain when he started entring me therefore I ask him to stop and remove from inside me. Then I never think of having ... (117 words)

Why is she blocking then unblocking me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl I was pursuing blocked me at whatsapp but not at facebook and later four five days passed and she unblocked me suddenly. Why? Little background : I met this girl and she thought I was weird at first and later, she asked me for a coffee together! I did go and a... (260 words)

How do I make him regret leaving me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfrnd left me for no having sex i am a muslim and my religion doesnt allows sex before marriage what should i say to him so that he remebers it all his lifee and regrets wat he did with mee after promising soo man times that he wont leave me or ask for sex agian... (56 words)

I believe my girlfriend is lying about an encounter with a friend. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

19 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a frustrating spot. To get you to understand where I'm coming from I have to add as much detail as possible in my story. Please try and stick with it if you plan to give me feedback. I could really use help with this. A short background: I met a girl, (we'll call ... (1493 words)

I keep forgetting not to expect any favors from him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid Whenever i ask my bf of 3 yrs for a favours like picking me up from office or doing some errands for me, he will pick up a fight and stop talking to me for days. I have to beg him to talk to me. I stopped asking him for any help or favors. Stupid me, i forgot ... (141 words)

My girlfriend is calling me selfish because I have no emotional connection with my biological son. It's not even her child so I can't understand why she's bringing this issue up

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend is calling me selfish because I have no emotional connection with my biological son. I told her about the situation 3 weeks into the relationship but now over a year later she is bringing it up and pressuring me into getting back in contact with him. Backgroun... (599 words)

He knows I like him, and I wonder why he hasn't talked to me or asked me out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've liked a friend of mine for a while. He isn't looking for a relationship but he knows I like him according to his best friend. I see him everyday, I go to his house to see his sister, I have time alone with him every week. I know he's never had a girlfriend, or kissed a... (115 words)

I'm unhappy with the lack of support from my g/f. How can I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, My father is suffering from some serious medical issues that came up suddenly and there is a chance that he may not ever come out the same again. He is in the hospital and has been for a month, and we're not sure how long he'll be there. My mom is also getting ol... (1138 words)

What is it about a short man that women find so disgusting?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

19 March 2013 (M) age 30-35 - I have been rejected by a few girls and have lost heart. My track record keeps me from trying as I have no reason to believe I will succeed. I have been aware that women do not find short men attractive and recently i have been following "exposing hieghtism" on twitter. What... (166 words)

I am questioning whether my boyfriend is a faithful guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've wondered whether my boyfriend is a faithful person. I always notice inconsistencies in his stories concerning his past relationships. Like he has told me about a girl he dated for five years, and I remember the time frame that he said he dated her, from like when he was 2... (611 words)

Swept off my feet to be dropped on my butt

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I insane? I met a guy on match.com. We messaged eachother at the same time. He was stationed in afghanistan and would be home in two months. He was in special forces (i won't say what but it is pretty badass). we exchanged texts and emails daily and he would send videos a... (1294 words)

I want to have an open marriage but don't know how to discuss it with my husband

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I know I will probably hear a lot comments like just leave him, and find someone else. But that's not why I m telling you my story. The thing is that I am more and more think about having an open kind of relationship with my husband. I know it sounds bad for many people, but... (743 words)

Wwhat do you call it when a man goes from one woman to another woman within six weeks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I wonder what do you call it when a man goes from one woman to another woman within six weeks? But at first he would constantly call her then he quit calling her now he is back calling her. Could he be in love with this woman? Has he already forgotten about his ex that he h... (141 words)

What is my ex up to? Is he just playing games with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So my ex and I have been broken up for a couple months now..and he was my first official bf. We texted last week and he brought some stuff up when I asked what he was up to, he mentioned "I was sitting in the garage with my dad, and we saw this guy dropping his girl friend off ... (210 words)

Army girlfriend problems...should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - H everyone! So I'm dating someone in the army for almost a year although we've known each other for years. He's based in Hawaii while I live in Illinois. We're vey much in love and I know this is the man I'm going to marry. He has three years left to serve and though we are ... (212 words)

Is our relationship breaking apart? I am questioning whether he loves me anymore.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have been with my fiance for almost 3 years now and things have been very bad for almost 2 years. The first year of our relationship was amazing but now it is nearly 2 years of him not treating me right and then apologising and me giving him chances and chan... (798 words)

Why should my boyfriend's awful mother expect me to pay to fix the roof of the house we are moving into?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

19 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My son father and I, been together off and on for four years. During this we didn't always get along. He slashed my tires, you name it we did it. After I'll last fight I got po against him. We been on a real good streak, going to church, doing things with the kids and all.Now ... (325 words)