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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend said I cant see my ex to get closure

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I need some serious help with this. I'm sorry this is gonna be long but I need to start at the beginning of this story. Well. Last year I started dating this, what I thought, was an amazing guy. He and I had some real chemistry. But little did we know that our... (611 words)

My ex is keeping tabs on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age - I honestly can't figure out why my ex continues to drive by my house and call me with a private number after leaving me almost 2 yrs. ago. In those 2 yrs. he has been with 4 different woman, the first being the longest (several mths.) and she is the one who ended it. Al... (245 words)

My teacher takes the mickey out of me. Is he flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4387 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my btec science teacher is flirting with me here's something's he does 1. He always takes the Micky out of me 2. The other day I had to have a meeting with my tutor and he comes along and starts talking to me and goes can I draw on you I was like no and he laugh... (251 words)

Maybe I imagined he liked me, or maybe he did and I hurt him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4395 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 22 and never dated. It was never important me until now. I had crushes but didn't care about them even if the guy felt the same. I wanted to make something of myself. I always thought there was more to life then to have someone by your side and let alone about marriage( ... (532 words)

I reconnected, got a little bit stalky, he disconnected

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I use to see a guy in highschool that contacted me on facebook he was excited and I was to get in contact again he is still attractive. We talked for a bit on chat and exchanged numbers so he can text or call me. Things went a bit awry and I think I annoyed and stalked him a ... (153 words)

Do you think that you can fall in love with someone after just spending half a day with them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - quick question here, do you think that you can fall in love with someone after just spending half a day with them? because i've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months now and we met at college, had coffee, talked for hours on end until we had to catch our buses home. we s... (191 words)

I sometimes just blank out and can't remember stuff.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't so much a relationship problem-well it half is half isn't. More of a medical problem which is causing relationship problems. Lately I've had a couple of black outs, both in work and most recently at home.I don't know why they've come on so suddenly, or what they're ... (255 words)

My friend is in an abusive relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend of 4 years has just told me she is now friends again with the abusive man she has dated in the past. I'm not sure if i want to call him a boyfriend because he never acknowledged her in public or called her his girlfriend. Instead they would meet up for sex or he ... (219 words)

I said no to being his girlfriend and now regret it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This Friend Asked me to be his girlfriend and I said no because I was afraid to lose him as a friend but when things got awkward and I felt like I lost him as a friend and I started to fall for him so badly ! I told him but he refused because he thinks I was only lookin for ... (104 words)

Boyfriend getting rough during sex, how do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm not sure if this is a problem or not, but any help would be appreciated all the same. my boyfriend and i have been together for over 6 months, we were each others first (which was incredibly gentle and romantic) and everything has been plain sailing. however i've no... (242 words)

She broke up with me so why does she want to be friends now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im having trouble understanding whats happened in the past four days. My girlfriend, well ex now, has decided to leave me for someone else.. someone she met the day before she told me it was over. For the last two weeks we had been arguing because she wasnt pulling her weig... (439 words)

He is everything I could want in a boyfriend but he is a terrible kisser

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy, he is everything I could want in a boyfriend but he is a terrible kisser. I just can't enjoy it but I am physically attracted to him and i really like being in his company. It's just...really wet and sloppy and his lips barely do anything, they barely ... (122 words)

Girlfriend said that she has had a larger past lover than me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - About a month ago I did what I know I should never do: ask about past lovers. I pried and pried, of course hoping to find that I was her best lover, beating out all the rest. Of course, as everyone knows, little good can come from this vain and naive expedition. She... (352 words)

"I love u," I texted. "Not a chance" from him when I asked if he felt the same way. Now this text. What does he mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hai. Okay i fell inlove with a guy at my school. He was always looking at me strangly for a year. It hit me by surprise and i immediately fell inlove with him. We never talked, im afraid of talking to him because he s one of the most wanted guys(Players), but still i couldnt ... (224 words)

Difficult boyfriend or ex-boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I was seeing this guy for one month. Lately he has been very stressed out and he kept telling me that he gets very tired and that he has many things on his mind. I know, it was all true and not lies. That was the reason we couldn't see each other often. So one night he ... (521 words)

Why do I feel so bad for breaking up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I'm 14, a freshman in high school and I met this guy who told me he was a senior and 17. He asked me out the same day we met and I agreed. The next day, when I saw him at school he was acting really weird. He tried to make out with me, tried to meet me after school to ... (267 words)

I really want her to be my girlfriend but every time I ask she says no! How do I get her to go out with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

5 May 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - hello everyone! I am 13 years old and in year 8. there's this really cute girl at my high school in my class and i really have very strong fellings (and thoughts) about her i even think about her when i masturbate. 5-8 times a week by the way... anyway i really like her ... (136 words)

His past one night stands are really bothering me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm seeing a man who is much older than myself, and i can't stop feeling upset because he told me that he had a couple of one night stands when he was younger. He had relationships as well, but for some reason, it really bothers me that he had one night stands. I know i ... (111 words)

I have constant chatter in my head.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have constant chatter in my head. I wanted to write down my deepest concerns here. And then there is the tiny weak sound of hope. Who tries to tell me my gut feelings are wrong. Maybe someone here has a comment to make, or an advice to give. Most of these thoughts have be... (689 words)

Using my tongue giving blowjobs

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been reading up on how to give good blowjobs, and I know that using your tongue well goes a long way, but I'm a little unsure about some things. I'm fine giving attention to his sensitive spots if that's the only thing I'm doing, but if I've got him in my mouth, ... (171 words)

His spending and saving habits are giving me pause!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My b/f is a nice guy, lovely company, helpful around the house when he stays over. We've been together 2 years. He's 5 years older than me. I have realised we have very different opinions on work, money, savings and planning ahead. I like to be organized and plan, he always ... (313 words)

Any advice for a breadwinner about to buy a house?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi every1. I'm 32 yrs an in a relationship bt not married. I'm a breadwinner at home. I'm about to buy a house with my boyfriend an move out at home. My problem is I'm not sure what's going to happen as I don't know what to do as ill have pay school fees for my sibling an take ... (104 words)

Should I take this job offer for the reality show?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I take this job offer? Basically, I am currently the youngest assisstant head teacher in Britain and I have been approached by a TV network to make a reality show where I spend a week in different schools around the world to see what teaching is like there. They also... (283 words)

I'm not asking for much, just for the dog to be on the floor and for my boyfriend to give me a bit more attention than he gives the dog!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend to bits, but I feel like he doesnt appreciate me. Now we are both students and are very broke have no money, he has a part time job so gets a bit more than me. He drops me off to my house one day and I ask if he would like to see me later. He just says he ... (381 words)

I feel betrayed! My B/f is always lying to me and then turning things around as if its my fault for "not trusting him enough" or "getting angry about stupid things"!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a long distance relationship and i love my boyfriend. Ever since i left, he has been going out to clubs, bars and parties. Even though it bothers me, I try to be okay with it because i cannot expect to have him stay at home until I return. Anyway, about a month ag... (341 words)

Looks like if I want to be with my boyfriend then I better not talk to any other guy for the rest of my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My LDR boyfriend of 2 years always gets mad at me whenever he sees me talking to a guy even if it's just a normal conversation, no flirty talks, no hooking up whatsoever. He'll become so mad that he'll bring that into arguments for days. He even got mad seeing me in an old ... (142 words)

I am 20 years old..and I have never been in a relationship or even on a date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old..and I have never been in a relationship or even a date.All my friends are in one,I feel like there's something really wrong with me,like I'm not pretty enough. People do tell me I'm pretty,but I dont feel so,maybe they lie. Total strangers do flirt,but the... (112 words)

What can I do to save my relationship?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have three beautiful children together. Over the years we've had ups and downs like most couples but recently its been getting worse. I have gained wait since the birth of our last child who is about to be 2 and I cant lose it no ... (210 words)

"Well, I fooled you, didn't I?" What did she mean by that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was talking to this girl I met the other night, incredibly interesting more so than any other girl!! She was also very beautiful, great figure and really good fun to be around it was infectious! But it was strange because later on in the night, she went outside to smoke and I ... (328 words)

I thought everything was fine, why hasn't she gotten back to me?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

5 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello so me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and it's been great and we have a lot in common. She's been really cool but we had an argument a couple days ago but made up that night. I went over to her place and stayed the night and everything was fine it seemed. ... (171 words)

I feel an aching pain when I listen to certain pieces of music or watch a movie about selfless love. Why doesn't love like that exist anymore? And why am I feeling this way, when I don't want a relationship nor do I believe in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I listen to pieces of music that somehow pulls on my heartstrings and makes me ache with sadness inside, I look at couples and I feel happy seeing them together, I watch films with tears in my eyes that makes me wonder why love like that doesn't exist anymore, like titanic for ... (247 words)

How do I cope with Loneliness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4397 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been hurting lately. Not to the point of complete depression but enough to make me feel a little sad and unsure about myself. Even though I never knew her, I had a sister who died when I was only a baby, so I am an only child. My father tells me stories about how her an ... (529 words)

Why are girls wearing clothes you can see their butts in?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age - It is starting to get warm out now and why do a lot of the girls wear their shorts so short? I have seen sport shorts and cutoffs and they all seem to be extemely short, to the point that their cheeks are hanging out. I have also seen dresses that barely cover their butts. In ... (104 words)

My boyfriend is driving me nuts, he's always busy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4397 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is driving me nuts! He is in the last year of college and seems to have a lot of work now, which I don't mind, I just want him to sucseed in life! But he is a nightmare when it comes to doing any work, when he is in school all he does is mess about with mates and ... (285 words)

Now that it seems my husband and I are going to succeed his vile sister wants a piece of the action!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I am in need of advice about my husband's sister. (ugh I feel odd just typing that) My husband moved to my state from one up north to get into a college he wanted. Well of course life throws twist. He met me!(I am a mother as well) We fell in love and got mar... (970 words)

I wonder if my ex still has feelings for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically myself and my ex girlfriend were broken up for about three months. Then I get text messages just talking about how I'm doing and how my family are doing and so forth. It was a long distance relationship and suddenly I got a text message that said she misses where I'm ... (455 words)

I no longer love my boyfriend and have met somebody else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so a little about myself I am 20 currently pay for everything on my own and ive been taking care of myself since I was 18. I have a puppy.and a fish. NOW for the issue..... ive been allowing my current bf to live with me. he is my highschool sweetheart we are going on 5 years ... (143 words)

My possessive boyfriend said I smelled like sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

5 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I spent a couple hours getting ready before going over to my boyfriend's house. I showered, did my hair and make up, and put on perfume. After I got there, we sat in the living room and he said, "Can I say something kind of weird?" And I said of course, and he said "You kind ... (333 words)