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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Risk my heart for passion? Or not have passion but have stability?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - "John" is the father of my four year old daughter. He hasn't seen her in four years. My choice, because I don't like his lifestyle. He's a player, has to be out every single night, and my daughter is only one of three of his kids, all with different mothers. He left me when ... (264 words)

How did our relationship change so drastically in just a day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4368 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't understand what happened. We had got to know each other briefly a few month ago but I was with someone at the time, that relationship recently went down hill and he came back along. I was reluctant to get involved at first because as I told him I've recently just... (693 words)

Lady parts are in pain, could I have caught something from oral sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I had sex last week twice with a guy I am seeing. We used condoms apart from when we done oral. This week I am in a lot of pain down below I think it's probably thrush but I am a bit worried that I have caught an sti through oral sex though I don't know if that area would only ... (93 words)

Guys, how would you feel if an old flame sent you a message on facebook?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a question for the guys.. how would you feel if an old flame sent you a message on facebook? just to ask if they had the right person? (am pretty sure it is the right person) Would it be a shock to see an ex after 17 years? I sent a message to a guy I dated in high sch... (128 words)

Boyfriend says he won't cheat but is bored in the bedroom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together almost 2 1/2 years and we have a one year old little girl. he has no interest in me sexually anymore though, he says hes just bored, says he wont cheat but is bored so nothing ever happens in the bedroom. how do i make him want me again? ... (86 words)

I'm not sure when or why my feelings toward my B/f may have changed. Does it mean I am with the wrong guy? Am I stringing him along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a dilemma about my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been dating for over a year now and we get on well, but there are occasional times when I feel I have to 'tolerate' him. When we started out, I was really into him thus kissing and hugging him often. As time ... (222 words)

He has forbidden me to kiss him. He will not speak to me. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a female 21 year old medical student.. i love my lecturer who is a doctor and married also.. i have some different feelings for him. I want to see him all the time..i want to spend a lot of time with him. once i came to his clinic and told him about what i think about him.... (95 words)

She's hot and sexy. Yet I'm a little confused about my own feelings for my girlfriend. Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I need advice. I could be quite jealous with my girlfriend. She's really hot and has a really sexy body. However, when when i fantasize about her, of other man touching her, looking at her, and even having sex with her I get way tooo turned on. Then, when I'm actually ta... (114 words)

I'm over eating and trying my parents alcohol as a solution. Could it be depression doing this to me?.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiya everyone, I'm feeling a little bit worried about myself recently as I've been feeling really down and miserable for no reason. I'm 16 and thought it was just my hormones but since I was 14 going on 15 I have always felt a little bit down and upset for no reason. I no... (501 words)

It terrifies me than I could have another panic attack. What if he is that mean again?

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1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The other day, I experienced my first panic attack, it was absolutely horrible, I thought I was going to die as I couldn't breathe at all. The thing that triggered it off was my boyfriend telling me he loved his ex to spite me in an argument. We've been together three y... (142 words)

Her female friend seems a higher priority than our relationship. I'm seething. But how do I raise the issue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been in a new relationship about three months. I could get into the details of our relationship let me say its Good on all levels. I trust her. when she goes out with her friend i don't question her although it is a bit fustating, but im not trying to crowd her of cour... (226 words)

Should I feel badly that I dated him 3 years ago and now have given his brother a kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok , so three years ago I dated this guy, me and him broke up,he had 2 babies when he was a teen ,now I recently hooked up with his brother at the club. Didn't go further than a kiss. Should I feel guilty or bad about this ? It was just a one night fling ?... (57 words)

I'm 17 and don't know if I want to lose my virginity or not

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 17 and basically, confused about weather I want to loose my virginity or not. I'm one of the oldest of my friends and I'm the only one to be still a virgin. I know that at least a small part of me wants to loose it, but the other half of me is scared stiff, I have ... (77 words)

Should I should embrace my gay solitude?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I'm a guy that is 17-years-old and I'm gay. I already came out to my friends and family and luckily, everyone accepts me and respects me. However, I have issues with approaching other gay guys. I suppose it's because I'm afraid of the gay community, but i... (250 words)

What can I do to keep myself from falling for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4368 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My situation is complicated. I went on a date with a guy who wanted sex..it was more a hook up then a date. But he couldn't get it up b/c he wasn't attracted to me and liked a girl he had dated that is our mutual friend. We made a plan to meet the girl at dinner so he co... (183 words)

She doesn't trust me but won't show me the same courtesy that I'm supposed to extend to her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this girl for a few months i love her but the promblem is that she dont trust me she always accuses me of having other girls besides her..for instance she would read my text messages and demand to know who send them to me which in her case she dont let me see ... (152 words)

Is he nervous or just not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, So I went on my second date with a guy I previously dated a couple years back. We had an great connection before, and great chemistry. We kept in contact over the years and when we dated before I wanted "more" and he didn't. We kept in contact here and there and he alw... (304 words)

Why does he keep saying he'll ring me but he doesn't?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so quick question, at the moment I am really poorly and havnt moved from bed for two days my mums really worried about me and is looking after me. I have slept for two days and wake up every now and then, when I do I message my boyfriend on Facebook for a while then go ... (259 words)

I've liked him for almost 7 years and I really don't know how he feels about me even now

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've liked this guy for so long! I cannot stress how long I've liked him for, it's been roughly about 7 years. We started out as frenemies and since last year we've became really close friends. My friend decided enough was enough and she told him I liked him at this "fun ... (278 words)

Feeling worse for manipulating my cousin's feeling for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 21 year old, I am respected by everyone around me because I am academically an excellent student and I am pursuing a reputed course and in a year I would be yearning almost 8-9 lacks p.a. I have a bright future ahead of me. Although I am good in studies I am really shy ... (991 words)

Is it normal to have pains every time you have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i just want to know is it normal to have pains everytime you have sex and you dont enjoy it at all,i am 22 and never ejoyed sex, im very worried as i always end up crying during sex....and one more thing me and my boyfriend had sex about a month ago,now i feel nauseous yet i ... (72 words)

Guys: Is a bossy girl a massive turn off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, i was talking to my friends the other day about guys we've hooked up with and now im a bit worried. When im with a guy i tend to sort of tell them what I want them to do...like if they're not turning me on, i'll say 'do this is me...'. But my friends all said that was ... (87 words)

Is it possible to be single and happy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, just looking for some advice from anyone who's been in a similar situation. I'm single and have been for a while, which does particulalry bother me, except a lot of my friends have recenently got into relationships and im starting to feel like the spinster of the ... (79 words)

I'm hurt and confused that I didn't have my father in my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help me, I'm tortured every time I see fathers bonding with their daughters, When they hug each other and show each other how important they are to them. I never had that, I grew up with an absent father who stayed until I was 9 but cheated on my mom and then left us to ... (121 words)

I'm scared my b/f won't come back home!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend got a job out west. We were driving together as I decided to go with him. We got in a car accident and came back home. The next day I took him to the airport, and I stayed behind. He said he's coming home to stay with me in august but I am so paranoid that he won't ... (111 words)

B/f had 3 year relationship with me a baby, then I find out he was seeing another woman for 6 years!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and 3 days before i gave birth to our now 2 month old son the 'other woman' knocked my door and i found out he was having a on and off again relationship with her for 6 years! Even though she found out about me being pregnant 3 ... (185 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to acknowledge me more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - It feels like my boyfriend is taking me for granted and like he doesnt really care about me or the relationship. It has always been me all over from the start who has always taking the first step and engaged us to meet. It is still that way and Im trying to stop asking him all ... (181 words)

I don't like the way my older boyfriend acts when he's drinking

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4265 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure whether to stay with my boyfriend or not. We had a really bad argument on Wednesday night. We went to a cash machine so that i could get some money out for us to go and buy some food. I was in a bad mood because i have been worried about my benefits ( i am on ... (995 words)

Where is the best placet to look for the type of women I want to meet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm currently at uni but feel held back by my lack of experience. I want to meet fun, attractive and intelligent women that are outside of my course. I have no idea where to look for women to start a relationship with... Any ideas or help would be appreciated.... (52 words)

We haven't had sex in 5 years and sometimes I think about cheating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age - I'm a 60 yr.old male, married for nearly 33 yrs.My wife went thru"the change" a bit early I think(she's about 5 yrs.younger).We haven't had sex for over 5 yrs.now. Both of us were involved in an unusual accident 2 yrs.ago where she ended up having hip replacement surgery which ... (169 words)

Why do teenagers feel like they know it all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My question is, "why is it that TEENAGERS think they know EVERYTHING?" Why is it some are very Stubborn and wont listen to their parents? At one point in our lives WE WERE all TEENAGERS. I remember when i was a teenager,i was with my friends we would always say, "PARENTS JUST ... (55 words)

My ex girlfriend's friend is interested in me but she's 2 years younger and I don't really know if I should pursue this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I turned 18 late July last year. The September after, I started dating a girl who was 16 at the time and 17 in March. I think that's a fairly significant age gap, but it wasn't really a problem mostly because her and her parents are fairly... open minded. In Fe... (510 words)

After hooking up with my ex, now FWB he doesn't respond back!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is going to sound petty but I'm pretty upset so it means alot to me :) My ex and I ( dated 6 mos) recently ended things but care fir each other and decided to stay friends. Well, then we realized seeing each other would lead to more then that, which it did. I ... (159 words)

I care for her but being in a relationship with her felt weird. Did I do the right thing by breaking up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this girl for over a year now and i've never really seen it as a relationship. Over the past couple of months I've started to feel weird and uncomfortable as it felt like it was getting too relationshippy. I'm quite a flirt but have never done anything wi... (266 words)

One question I get asked a lot is about my past relationships. The problem is, I haven't had any!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm over 27 and dating. One question I get asked a lot is about my past relationships. The problem is, I haven't had any. I've had one problem or head trip after another. I've also been a bit of a nerd. I can honestly say that I am over all of that. I know these women are... (125 words)

The bible says turn the cheek when someone hits you, but enough is enough, I want my own revenge!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all I'm a good decent guy. I treat people like I want to be treated and I live my life always thinking about others and caring for them. I recently found out my gf has been cheating on me from the start of our relationship plus shes into drugs and seeing a satanist guy ... (161 words)

My family feel that if my 27 year old boyfriend is having sex with me, then he should pay for ALL my expenses! And the poor guy does enough already!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been dating my boyfriend almost a year, im 19, he's 27 he also lives 3 hours away but visits every weekend. He pays for 99% of everything when we're together the hotels, dinner, movies, concerts etc. I havent worked in about 5 months i cant seem to find work, but my family ... (174 words)

I don't want to know about a girl's sexual past. Why do women find that shallow?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do women find my rule shallow? I have this rule when dating that I absolutely DO NOT want to know anything about a girls past sexually. I have this rule because I'm a virgin and I already know that everyone else has a past and to refrain from retroactive jealousy I put this ... (153 words)

MY LDR girlfriend broke up with me over the stupidest reason!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi im new here. Anyway so my Long distance girlfriend who lives in Chicago just broke up with me. We have been together a year and i truly thought she loved me. I would always go see her every month to two months. She lives in Chicago and i live in tampa Fl. Heres what happend. ... (934 words)

I'm grossed out about the fact that my boyfriend is really hairy, doesn't clean his teeth often and has a bad case of dandruff.!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I am a 16 year old girl and I am dating this awesome guy, and I have a problem. I love him 2 death but some stuff about him just creeps me out. Like the fact that he's really REALLY hairy. And for some reason hair really grosses me out. I mean I am not complete... (539 words)

My ex boyfriend is engaged but there is still something between us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4361 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so here is the long story and i apologize ahead of time. This guy and i met back in 2007 in high school (let's call him "J") Since day number 1 we knew there was going to be something between us. We became friends, and he would always be there for me. Even when i miss... (1301 words)

Am I her rebound or am I just paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4361 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Am i her rebound or am i just paranoid? She was with her ex for 4 years, (not live in relationship) more long distance/close proximity, but the catch is they were not very close , from what iv been told by her mates. She told me that it was relationship basede on no trust lies ... (446 words)

Why do these weird things turn me on when I masturbate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright, so I am a 16 year old girl and I have been dating this guy on and off 4 almost 2 years now.I really feel like I love him, a lot. He is like the perfect guy for me. But I have a small problem.... I kinda masturbate... A lot..... Like once a day at least but sometimes ... (321 words)

Boyfriend's best female friend has been showing him naked pictures of her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm not good with asking advice. So I'm sorry if I give you too many irrelevant details. Here I go My boyfriend, who I've been with for 10 months now, has one of his best friends (who is a girl) flirting with him. And I love him, He loves me. No doubt about it. I trust h... (198 words)

My boyfriend is pulling away from me

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1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend seems to be pulling away from me. We have been together for 9 almost 10 months now. And When I lean in to try and kiss, hug, or do anything with him, he pulls away. And He's not the kind of guy that does that whole "I love you, one day, and I don't love you, the ... (156 words)

Ladies, how would you react if your boyfriend was complimenting another girl in your presence?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ladies, how would you react if your boyfriend was complimenting another girl in your presence? In my case, the girl was not a close friend of his but rather someone he knew, like an acquaintance. I didn't know her at all and he told her that she looked pretty tonight in front ... (133 words)

I can't be a regular teenager because of my trouble family life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4368 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - im not really sure where to begin to so guess ill just start. Lately things at my house have been choatic and crazy. As of last year during fall my mom started doing pills again. i didnt find out about this till i met a girl who im very goodfriends with told me cause her mom ... (567 words)

My wife says I'm a worthless man because I cheated. She cheated first!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife keeps calling me a worthless man. I work two jobs to support three kids plus my wife and I feel she is being ungrateful. My wife cheated and I cheated after to get revenge, she has been calling me this ever since. She also says I have don't spend time with my kids,which ... (88 words)

B/f helps support me financially but says he doesn't want me with him. What does that say about our future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my guy for 7 years he is in Canada for the year. I was living with my step father while I was preparing for my masters degree in occupational therapy and he kicked me out due to the fact I lost my job with the economy. I'm in a hotel for the past 2 months and ... (205 words)

My BF cheated on me, I cant get over it but I cant leave him because I have nowhere to go, no family, no job and no car

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me with my problem. I do not know what to do. Last month I caught my boyfriend cheating on me. It was graphic and a very bloody fight happen. After a week from that horrible day, I could not leave him. Since then he has tried everything in his power to show me ... (254 words)

Can this rebound relationship last? What are the signs it's a rebound relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - ModNote: two questions about the same issues combined. How can you tell if your being used as rebound? What are the signs and things to look out for ? (for guys) Women advice please, or guys if you have experienced being used as rebound before, what things should i look out f... (212 words)

Lazy b/f makes me feel like I'm his mother. I want my own life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, i'm a college student who already has a daugther (3months) with my boyfriend who goes to college with me, he moved to my place and our family helps us with the baby, i really love my boyfriend but he's too lazy, he says he wants to study but he doesn't make any effort, ... (249 words)

I want to date her but she's not over her last crush

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm best friends with this girl. I like her, like a lot, and she loves me as a friend, and I know she does. The only thing stopping us from going out is that she's not over her last crush. She had a HUGE crush on him, and still does. And I will admit, her last crush was more ... (126 words)

I feel like something is missing, should I not be dating my b/f?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4301 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for two years. We do get on great, he's my best friend and we just have an amazing connection yet I always feel like I'm missing out on something. I'm fairly young (19) and he's a few years older. He experienced various girls and the party life ... (398 words)

B/f broke up with me, he's moving on but I can't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, about 4 months ago, my boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me, apparantly because I was leaving home to go to Uni, and he didnt want to stop me from living the uni life and having a good time. I was heartbroken and it doesnt seem to be getting any easier. I know that ... (144 words)

She claims to be a virgin. Am I wrong to have any doubts? She acts like a piece of wood during sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

1 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hello dear readers i do have the same problem, my girlfriend claims to be a virgin but during her fist sex she didnt bleed nor feel some great pains.to be honest she is so naive about sex, in which i trust her. she too is worry abut the situation because she prepared her min... (93 words)

My father passed away and I don't understand why my friend has taken his car. Shouldn't it go to family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone... I just wanna ask this question, it's not a relationship question. Ok so my dad passed away and he had a car he used to drive when he was alive, but he didn't finish paying off the car before he passed away, but it was remaining only 3 months of payment... It... (128 words)

Are all women capable of having orgasms through intercourse? Anyone know a good technique?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Are all women capable of having orgasms through intercourse? I think they say only a small percentage of women can orgasm just from intercourse. I'm 33 and it only happened once for me. I would love to figure out how to have more. I can climax from oral sex and masturbation no ... (115 words)

I feel like he's not over her -- am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

1 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing a guy for the last year and recently we had the where is this going chat. He said he feels he wont be ready for a serious relationship for some time, I asked why this was and he said because he doesnt want to hurt his ex. They were together from a very young ... (168 words)