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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The other day we where making love and he stopped to answer his phone! Is this normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age - Hi,I would like you aunts opinion on this please. I am in a relationship with a man and have been for many years, we both are in our late 50's so really i was shocked and very surprised by this action of his. The other day we where making love and he stopped to answer his ph... (225 words)

How can I get over my first love? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Last year I fell head over heels for this amazing guy. He was my first love, and still is my current love. The problem is that he has a girlfriend.I don't know how he feels about me and I don't know how his relationship with his girlfriend is going now. Of course the only thing ... (110 words)

Why is it that Men think they know Everything and have the need to be Right All the Time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is it that Men think they know Everything? and have the need to be Right All the Time? ... (20 words)

What is a great indirect & funny way to ask a female friend if they have a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

15 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - What is a great indirect and funny way to ask a female friend if they have a boyfriend? Any advice? ... (23 words)

Could you please point me to a good dating site? no one wants me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

15 January 2012 (M) age 30-35 - I am 18 years old an looking for a good dating site. No matter what I do how good I dress, no one wants me, and i'm sick of it. I want a good dating site. I enjoy doing many things like star gazing, exercising, hiking, biking, just about anything. I'm in pretty good shape ... (267 words)

Why don't men read maps?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is it that when your in a car and your man is Driving and you both are in an unfamilliar town, he wont Admit that he is Lost. My Question is why wont men ask for Directions? ... (39 words)

I was dumped by my boyfriend a few months ago, and I'm not attracted to any guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a teen girl and I was dumped by my boyfriend a few months ago, he moved on to one of my closest friends straight away and though that still hurts I know I dont love him any more. My main issue is that since then, I haven't found myself attracted to ANY guys, even celebs ... (146 words)

My ex said he misses me most nights. What did he mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex said to me he misses talking to me most nights. What does he mean by this? Does he still have feelings for me? We talk pretty much everyday because we're friends now. The other night he said to me he's got a soft spot for me and how he needs me. Was he just being friendly ... (130 words)

My son's wedding will be a disaster!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age - My son is 37 and marrying a 28 year old woman. My son is getting married this summer and im not happy with the way his fiancees family and friends re-acted at the engagement party 2 weeks ago because im afraid they will ruin the day of the wedding. She is a an irish gi... (445 words)

Is he attracted to me? please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

- If you were a single Mom and there was a cute guy at your office who seemed to go out of his way to stop by your desk each day and say hello, sometimes picked up lunch for you when you were working on a project; alway made a point of sitting across or next to you in meetings, ... (303 words)

Am I stupid for ignoring her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who I've been close to for ages. Me and her get on really well, she's fun to talk to and I trust her. Anyway, someone asked me if I liked her and I got worried incase the person told everyone. I've been avoiding her and I tend to ignore her now. Do you think I'm ... (194 words)

He didn't tell me the truth because he said I wouldn't believe him ... and I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys and girls I need major honest opinions on if my boyfriend is lying to me about cheating. Okay so in september when I was at his best friend house named (Steven) two girls came over and knocked on the door. Steven goes outside and about 10min later my boyfriend said ... (344 words)

I'm sick of being bullied, I'm sick of no understanding, I'm just sick of it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Im sick of feeling alone and depressed all the time, i have moments when im really happy then my mood can suddenly change i try to tell my mum and dad but they never listen they are like 'oh sure course theres always something wrong with you' etc noone understands me i feel ... (105 words)

My partner tries to 'edge' a past event into our lives

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age - My partner had a 3some with his wife and her female friend years ago. I was uncomfortable with this for most of the time we have been together. My constant struggling with it resulted in regular arguments and discussions. But, not any more, I truly don't think about it any ... (194 words)

Mixed signals: should I go by how he is with me or the way he is when we are apart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy he confuses me when we are together he is all over me in a big way - can't stop staring at me always trying to touch me in some way, holding my hand putting his arm around me etc but then when we are apart he hardly ever texts/calls he'll text me if I text first and ... (85 words)

Between two guys, shall I tell the one near NYC how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The thing is i have two penpals. Yeah, two. They are both american (same as me) but i am actually living in Perú. I have been writing to the first one 4 months ago everyday (6 hours each day) and i felt i was falling in love with him until i met my second penpal and i also have ... (295 words)

Am I too needy or what is really going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi well I am 8 years older then my girlfriend and we haven't been together all that long but I am completely in love with her. We are lesbians I might add however I have to say I have only been in a relationship with one other woman in my life which was for over 8 years. An... (535 words)

Fair enough she needs time to "heal" from learning I'm gay, but how long does it take?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

15 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Its been about 2 and a half years since my mum has asked me if I was gay. She still don't treat me the same as she did before which doesn't help. Seriously how long does she need! She has always had gay friends she's loved her brother who is gay! Why the f*** is she just... (97 words)

Suggestions on where to go for the first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't decide where to go for my first date with this guy. He said he wants to go somewhere nice and quiet. Lol, i feel a bit nervous because he said he wants to go to a quiet place. I'm also nervous because he wants to call me to discuss it. I haven't spoken to him on the ... (283 words)

Why would a guy make a half-hearted attempt at sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - why would a guy make a half-hearted attempt at sex? very confused by my bf today. he is doing 12 hour night shifts, got into bed with me this morning when he got home, we kissed and fell asleep. 3 hours later, he wakes me up as he's touching my breasts, tells me he's been ... (129 words)

Should I move to be near the new guy? I'm getting nervous about my ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So the guy I been talkin to since june, I finally went and met him in person for the first time in december. I thought it was goin to be super awkward and I was so nervous. But actually it wasnt awkward at all and for the first time I felt like I actually made love. All we did ... (408 words)

Is this male coworker harrassing me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Abstract: Guy liked me from the restaurant but I turned him down he retaliates with subtle verbal insults and physical contact (his torso shoulder hitting me hard as he is passing by) and him snatching things out of my hand. So when I first started working at a fine dining... (540 words)

We started dating and then I find he's seeing another girl?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Last week I found that the guy I was dating (we hadn't gone public yet though his decision) was seeing another girl. When we first starting becoming more than friends I knew he was talking to her but didn't think it worth mentioning as we weren't dating. When I found out I was ... (135 words)

I'm bothered by her writing hobby

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (M) age 30-35 - Hello everybody, I've got a bit of a problem I need to talk about, but unfortunately, there's no way I can talk to my closest person about it. It's connected to my girlfriend. We love each other, everything is perfect except one thing... She's been writing erotic novels si... (182 words)

Questions about the soft cup

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Looking for a bit of advice mainly from the female aunts here. To anyone who's ever used a Softcup during sex, was it effective at preventing any mess? Could you and/or your partner feel it? On a scale of 1-10, how difficult did you find it to insert and remove? I've neve... (119 words)

I’m a 27 Year Old Guy with No Relationship Experience. How Do I Let Women Know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm over 27 and dating. One question I get asked a lot is about my past relationships. The problem is, I haven't had any. I've had one problem or head trip after another. I've also been a loner and a bit of nerd. I can honestly say that I am over all of that. I know ... (141 words)

Can we still be friends after he rejected me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Can we still remain friends after he rejected me romantically speaking? A friend and I were super friends and confidants.His girlfriend left him for other guy a year ago and therefore has not recovered from the loss. My big mistake was to became his FWB when he told me that he ... (270 words)

Have I hurt myself by masturbating too roughly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been too rough in masturbating. I'd been trying not to touch down there for a month or so (I have my reasons...), and everything was going well. But in a moment of weakness I slipped up, and I guess I was far less gentle than usual because I was quite angry at myself :( ... (119 words)

4 months after breakup I'm still feeling desperately sad

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Everyone I'm new to this site and really could do with some help. I split up with my partner 4 months ago. He wanted to break up with me and I was devastated. (we were both in our mid forties). We were together for 5 years and for most of the the time we were ver... (227 words)

Have we lost the drive to see each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 months now. almost 3 in feburary. recently hes been talking to me less and less when we arent together. he doesnt text me much anymore. and he doesnt ask to skype either. i confronted him about it and he told me that hes become more ... (189 words)

Why do I keep smelling like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - recently i've been having an odd smell from my vagina, it's smells of fish. i know for sure i havent got any infections or diseases because i've checked and they've all came out negative. i haven't been with a boy for 3 months and im scared then next time i will, ill smell.. i ... (71 words)

In love with a prostitute

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

15 January 2012 (M)

age - My wife passed away few years ago. I lived with teenage daugter. I did not like to make new connection with other woman. Now I am in love with prostitute. She lived and worked in another country. She actually doing her job but I am in love. I am so much older than she and prob... (72 words)

Is it normal to not want to kiss one's wife?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2931 days ago

15 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it normal to feel like I don't want to kiss my wife? It just makes me feel gross and icky like kissing a sister. Sure, we did kiss once upon a time, but after 10 years together it creeps me out. She doesn't seem to miss it either. She never tries to kiss me either nor ha... (307 words)

He tells me to get out, but when I start to pack, he starts to cry

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age - Hi I have been married for 23yrs thought everything was ok, 4yrs ago i found out that my h/b had been cheating not just once but all though our marriage on and off.To cut a long story short we stayed together to work out what went wrong he said he was sorry for all the pain... (376 words)

He is focussed on how lonely he is

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

15 January 2012 (?) age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, What's the best reply to a man that says he's lonely. We've just started dating and he says that he can't live life alone. I used to live in this romantic town in Spain and after I had left he visited the same town, he told me that he missed me and wished he had m... (149 words)

My girlfriend has depression

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

15 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been in a relationship with a girl who has depression for about a month now. I try everything to make her feel happy all the time but sometimes she will just feel sad and depressed for no reason. I often vent about my bad days. All that she can say was "I'm sorry to he... (171 words)

I feel guilty that I don't want a child with my wife, but I might with another woman

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife is now entering into menopause. We never had a child. We talked about it now and again, but it was never a priority for us. There was a time when she said she wanted that experience, but I didn't take her seriously because - for one thing - we never had unprotected ... (441 words)

I've gained weight and loss myself confidence

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel I am loosing myself confidence, I use to be able to go outside wearing my pj's and no make-up, and now I wouldn't dare, at least not without feeling like crap. This is all because of my weight, I can't seem to get control of myself, I am the biggest I have been my whole ... (93 words)

What the hell am I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I bisexual, or a lesbian? I`m more attracted to women than men. 9/10 times I fantasize about women instead of men. I search PlayGirl online. When I do think of men, its more on an emotional level. I cant see myself falling for a woman. I am completely uninterested in peni... (102 words)

I started to have feelings for my FWB so he told me to get a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been seeing some one for about six months.. But its susposed to be just a phsyical relationship if u get me. Because of our circumstances he wudnt have time for me properly and im 20 hes.39.. No one no's about it, anyway we decided to just have no strings but recently iv ... (176 words)

She's not like any girl I've ever dated, but I don't know what's going on with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4508 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm usually not one for relationships, I'm barely one for dating, I'm the kind of girl that seems to only get attention from girls with all sorts of baggage like being in the closet, straight and drunk, having girlfriends, husbands, etc, and unfortunately I'm pretty moralistic. ... (834 words)

I don't trust her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

- I have a girlfriend and we've been friend for many years. She and her husband have always had a rocky marriage. He has a reputation for fooling around on her and when this happens she sleeps with other men to get even. Maybe it's an ego boost. My husband knew both of them long ... (337 words)

If I tell my wife it's a turn on to see her in tight clothes, will she think I'm a deviant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - It is a huge turn-on to see my wife in tight clothes - leggings and a tight t-shirt, or skinny jeans and I'm turned on more than if she were wearing lingere. I feel like it's so strange though, that I hint around it but have never come out and told her exactly how I feel. Fo... (112 words)

What advise can I give my friend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, my girlfriend has been in an relationship with a married man for ten yrs. now she's also married. 2wks ago they were out of town together in a hotel. The guy paid for the room with his credit card and his wife tracked the hotel and called and asked for her husband's ... (147 words)

Why do guys lie?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - A guy asked me out, he is 6 years older than me and very attractive. We went on a first date. He said he was looking for a relationship. But when I didn't want to have sex on the first date, he laughed his head off and dumped me. Why are guys so cruel? ... (54 words)

I don't understand why we have to wait for his ex to get her head around things.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hiya Hope u can help me as I don't know how to feel about this situation. I have a lovely bloke, he has kids who are lovely.we have been together 6 months and it has been brilliant. I haven't met his kids, as I want to find out if we are solid, however it has now come t... (373 words)

When will be the right moment to tell him I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - it has been three months now that I love my boyfriend so much and I never told him how i felt about him, i was thinking to myself i wont say anything until he does, so now he told me that he is deeply in love with me and that making me happy was his reason to be, and that he ... (187 words)

He is so wrapped in his own world he can't see I like him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I have a crush on this guy in my class in college. He is very laid back, down to earth, kind, sensitive but he is very much too laid back if ya know what I mean. He's always wrapped up in his own sort of world and doesn't notice the fact that someone in the class likes him. Ho... (96 words)

Husband has changed in the three months we've been married

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and i have a 6months old daughter. Baby and i share same bed, husband sleeps in a different one but in the same room. Bedtime-inserts his earplugs, turns over and sleeps. I tend to the baby. My roles-take care of baby (every aspect), cook, clean the house. His role... (235 words)

Can the hymen be ruptured during a pelvic exam?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

15 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - is it possible for a pap smear to break your hymen? i got one yesterday, failed to tell them i was a virgin and as soon as she opened the speculum i was in so much pain i wanted to cry. i had a little bleeding after the test and now im fine but i was just wondering if breaking ... (68 words)