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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm a sponsor my niece but don't really want to be. How do I tell my sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

7 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm seeking advice on something. When my sister had her baby she asked me to be one of my niece's sponsors, which is a God Mother but since we are Lutheran we call them sponsors. I really didn't want to be her sponsor but how do you tell your sister you don't want to be ... (122 words)

How can my FWB partner accuse me of cheating when we aren't together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I went out at the weekend a man that I have been having sex with for 11 months was working on the doors as a doorman this is some background so you know the full story you might understand why I did what I did we met nearly a year ago I really liked him he propmised to ... (347 words)

How can I tell if this online guy is for real or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I met this guy in a chat room he is 21 and I'm 16 I live in Ohio and he lives in NY. We really hit it off but I lied to him about having sex I told him Im a virgin today and he was like what have I not been honest with u and I was like I was just afraid u wouldn't like ... (150 words)

How can I love someone that doesn't appear to 'give' a lot and has hurt me like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'd just like some feedback and just wanna have a vent to someone impartial. I've been split up with my ex for 3 months. I'll keep it short but we were friends/housemates first but there had always been 'something' between us. We decided to go for it when we moved out but ... (484 words)

I want to do things with my best friend's older brother don't want her to find out!

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7 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so , I am falling for my bestfriends brother and he is 2 years older than me. the thing is that he sent a picture to me and we really like each other , my beatfriend (his sister) found out about pictures we've sent before and she didn't talk to me for a couple days , him ... (159 words)

I have yet to be in a relationship and am not sure why and I'm running out of options!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

7 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll start off by saying that I'm a 23 year-old male currently in college and fixing to graduate in May. My undergraduate degree is in very high demand and, barring something unforeseen, I should have a pretty well-paying job when I receive my diploma and have performed very ... (631 words)

I feel my ex still loves me and I love him. But he's in a LDR. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently, i realised i still loved my ex a lot. I heard that he was in a relationship, so i left it at that. Then i ran into him one friday night and he seemed really pleased to see me. We began to chat and he told me that he was in a relationship with a girl he'd met wh... (237 words)

My boyfriend wants me to marry him and move to Hawaii but my parents/college are stopping me from doing so

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, My boyfriend is in the Marines, we've been together for 2 years and we are very much in love. I've known him for 6 years prior to this, as he was my best friend in high school. He is stationed in Hawaii currently and I am in my junior year in college in New Y... (622 words)

He's eager to get me pregnant, but not walk me down the aisle?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We're both divorced. I'm in my early 30's and he's in his early 40's. At the top of our relationship, I thought we were both on the same page of finding someone again to commit to and get married. Neither of us have ... (359 words)

Help ladies please! I'm petrified about my first smear test and need support please?

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7 February 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I am 23 and I am having my first smear test Thursday, I am absolutely petrified, im shaking thinking about it, can anyone give me advice I hope im not the only one that feels like this?... (37 words)

Affair with husband's brother, and husband is okay with it.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My brother-in-law (husband's brother) and I have started to engage in an affair. It started about a month ago. Initially after we first had sex, he was feeling so guilty that he said he never wanted it to happen again. I also felt guilty for what I had done. I decided to ... (349 words)

We've been dating for 5 years and never had sex so now he's leaving me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (F) age 30-35 - please help.Ihave been with my boyfriend for five years and we have never had sex.resently he stopped calling and texting me and i when i asked him,he said if he doesn't get it from me,where do i expect him to get it from? however when i told him that i will have sex with me on ... (149 words)

Is it Normal for an ex-wife to consatantly be around after being married only a year??

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7 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does my Husband's ex-wife come around so much? They were ony married for 1 year. I have been with my Husband for 13 years (married for 9) They have a 12 year old Son. She has since re-married and has two kids. My stepson comes over and then goes home to his Moms house and ... (146 words)

I'm in love with the boy who broke my best friend's heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got out of a long relationship about a month ago. It had been failing for more than 4 months. Three months before it ended, I started becoming close friends with this boy and I only realized (after I became single) that I really like him... problem is, he broke my ... (81 words)

B/f used to take me to Las Vegas with him for work but now he goes alone. Is he cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - IS HE CHEATING? My boyfriend used to take me to Las vegas everytime he travels for work.. wERE supposed to stay again last month but then he cancelled and just dicided to come home every weekend.(we live together) Its been going on like this for a month now. I ask him i... (168 words)

Can you help me understand my HUGE crush on this guy who I have like forever please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I need help. Im in senior school (high school) and i fancy this guy who is really sweet. I have known him since we were 3 and I have liked him for about 6-7 years, but my friends only think Ive liked him for 3. He has always stuck up for me, and been like my big brother ... (300 words)

I tried to talk to my professor but he showed disinterest and now I feel really badly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is about a professor of mine at college. He's a little aloof, rude and a trifle arrogant.Yet he's a genius and extremely open to people who can approach him. I used to dislike him for his attitude, yet in the past year I'd begun to find myself somewhat fascinated by his ... (366 words)

I screwed up, lost my family. I've changed and I want them back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife left me in november and to be fair at first i was glad of the peace and quiet, the background is iv two boys from a previous relationship and my wife has one, we also have a daughter who is now three, we had a whirlwind romance and probably married to quick although we ... (293 words)

I need advice! I am pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm turning 22 this year,I'm here coz I don't know who's my friends I'm going to tell this problem...at this time I'm facing with the big problem that I don't know what I'm going to do,,,can u please give me advice. Cupid,in my situation at thi... (293 words)

Did he bump into me by accident?

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7 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, does this mean anything? Or am I reading into it too much because iv got feelings for him?..... He accidentaly bumped me with the door (I was entering, he was coming out) .... It wasn't hard at all and it didn't hurt at all.... He was very apologetic and kind of held the ... (200 words)

Is it wrong for a guy to get turned on by women's breasts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am getting a bit confused here but its I can't just help it. Is it wrong for a guy to be attracted and get turned on by woman's breasts?... (30 words)

My 27 year old schoolmate is dating a 79 year old billionaire. Isn't this a sign of complete materialism? Or am I an idealistic idiot?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I saw a question posted here the other day that got me thinking about a schoolmate of mine who is a lovely looking lass of 27, an aspiring actress, dating a 79-year-old billionaire. ok im not a complete moron i know that money makes the world go round. but please, isnt thi... (96 words)

She won't talk to me after our fight. What do I do? I don't want to be a stalker, but I don't want to lose everything just because I blew up!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Had a row with a girl I been seeing fortnight ago. She had been promising me to meet but kept cancelling or puttin me off. Told her how much it bothered me but she kept doin it. So I got very frustrated and blew up, saying it was over between us and cursing (not cursing her ... (178 words)

What do you think about people talking about their exes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you think about people talking about their exes? I'm dating this guy,and he has talked about one of his ex girlfriends a couple times. They went out with each other a long time ago. They started dating in 1997. I'm not sure when it ended though, but i know they wer... (158 words)

I want him and I don't want him but I don't want to get hurt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid Is there is anyone out there who can feel my pain and confusion? I hope someone understand my problem and help me for real I feel like sinking in the bottom of the ocean and need a hand to drag me out. ----------------------- I am 25 years old... (1127 words)

How do I act around an ex boyfriend with his new g/f?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I met him in school, and he was my best friend in class. Well, after a whole 6 months together, we broke up due to him suddenly becoming cold to me. We haven't talked since then(which is since around a year ago.). Coincidentally, I'm still in the same class as him and it's ... (140 words)

My daughter is planning on having IVF with her partner, but I know they are unhappy and she has been having an affair. What can I do in this situation?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age - my daughter is soon to be forty and has decided to have ivf with her partner of 6 years. it appears that for the last 4 years she has been having an affair.her partner is manipulative and calculating and i think he knows what has been going on her lover is single, and adores ... (90 words)

Relationships, boyfriend, parents......

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7 February 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Okay so here goes: Well... how do I explain myself :( Last year (2011) I wasn't planning on having a boyfriend cause of starting tafe and wanting to focus on that and well, after my ex left me the previous year I was still not gonna do relationship stuff. I was eh,... (443 words)

Asked him out over email but heard nothing back...is he laughing at me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked a man out...which I don't often do..by email. And I've heard nothing back. I'm not wondering about rejection but more That is he somewhere laughing at me? Guys would you be thinking "this girl is a loser?". Backstory... We are in the same industry and knew people... (104 words)

It seems like he regrets messing our relationship up, but what does this all mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age - Im a little puzzled about my ex-boyfriend. We have been broken up for a while now but every time we see each other its as if we never have been apart. He recently called me and apologized for something he did. I told him I forgave him and I can tell he thinks of me often even ... (264 words)

Which guy do I choose?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help. Which guy do I choose ? Hi long story so I will try to make it short. I have been seeing this guy from another state and he drives up to see me on the weekends . It has only been 3 weeks of seeing each other but we can't keep our hands off each other. We laugh and ... (335 words)

He's changed and our relationship is going down the drain....I'm so miserable and don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, tonight im finding myslef laying in bed with to much on my mind and am really in need of some advice please and thanks in advance. okay so my boyfriend and i live together and have been together almost six years. we have had our fair share of ups and downs but ... (509 words)

My husband of 29 years is suffocating me and I want a way out

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age - my husband of 29 yrs. is sufficating me. everything he does and says annoys me.he calls me 5 times a day.hes at work and he knows im at work.hes 9 yrs older than me and wants to veg out and i want to go.he dont want to spend time with anyone but me and i want to have and see ... (117 words)

Why did he start flirting with me when he is married? Is there a possibility they are seperated but still living together for financial reasons?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I started having a crush on one of these guys at my work. We dont really work together since we work for two different companies but the grocery store houses the company i work for so we're not exactly co workers. Anyways... I started getting a little crush on ... (347 words)

I'm a nerd but I want a girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, (and girls). I just need an opinion or a few tips for this question. Alright. I really don't know how to start this, so I guess I'll just say it as quick as I can. I'm a nerd, I want to be in a relationship with a girl, and everyone in my school hates me (beside... (183 words)

I don't want to demand too much from her, but she hasn't mentioned meeting up again, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a nice girl on the internet, we chatted for 2-3 weeks, then finally met up on Sunday afternoon. We walked for around 30 mins, then we went to a cafe,had some tea and chatted for 2hrs 30mins, then walked home for 30 mins. I forgot to text her as soon as i got home as my... (238 words)

How do I learn to talk dirty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my boyfriend for a year...we are both grown adults...our relationship has been sexual for a while..i'm very shy and he wants to teach me how to talk dirty for him...I am willing to but I am so shy that I can't! How can I get over being shy and just do it? I ... (75 words)

Dealing with a break up..

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. I'm not looking for advice just maybe a forum to chat and cope. I will explain briefly what has happened: A few weeks ago I asked to take a break, my gf got really mad at me on her birthday. I was sick and suppose to take her out,... (541 words)

Do you guys think he's coming around a little and am I going about approaching him the right way?

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7 February 2012 (?) age 26-29 - For all of you who are aware of my situation, I have a crush on a very quiet boy who doesn't really respond to anyone unless it is a small question. I've been in the same class with him for I think a little less than a month. I've been handling my situation the sa... (419 words)

The guy I like is 2 years younger to me. Can it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

7 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I am a 24 year old female and I really like a guy friend of mine. I want to pursue a relationship with him. The problem is that he is only 22. Most people have told me that I'm a ridiculous for even worrying about an age difference that small but there is still such a ... (413 words)

I cheated, then she cheated but she's still in touch with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

7 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i cheated on my partner 6 years ago ,then she cheated on me around 6 mths later which i found out about 2 weeks ago , since i cheated i have been honest and true to her and i thought her to me she told me it happened once but she as keep in touch untill now by way of text ... (142 words)