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Archived questions from: 24 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My Bf is ignoring me. No contact for 2 days. Yet he's active on Facebook? What's up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

24 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend made NO attempt to contact me for the pass two days. He is on vacation. But usually, before he sleeps (even on vacation) he would call me. He knows what those calls mean to me. He also did not reply my msgs. He's not busy all the time because I've se... (73 words)

I'm shy, so how should I handle my crush on this seriously cute personal trainer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

24 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do? This is driving me crazy!? So this cute personal trainer at has been starring at me for months now! He's friendly and talks to everyone there but he doesn't speak to me. He just stares. I really like this guy and I can't seem to get him out my head. ... (140 words)

I've been flirting with guys the last 6 months. Should I leave my husband and start afresh in a more meaningful relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

24 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my husband when I was seventeen and married at 21. Now 28 with a child I am so unhappy! We argue a lot, over stupid and small things! I will admit I am bad tempered and may indicate things! Sex life gone down to a point I ask and be let down! :( I have been naught... (252 words)

My professor seems interested in me. How should I deal with this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

24 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. Last year, my professor stared twice at my body during the lectures. I am aged 40. After the course, he asked me to go to come to his office to help me with my thesis. I went there every week. He was soo nice, kind, heplful and a gentleman. Two months later, he asked m... (186 words)

Help, in a relatioship I'm insecure if it's not all about me in a relationship. Would any change to my approach help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

24 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem that I don't know if anyone has ever had. When I am dating someone I can't stand anything sexual that's not to do with me. I have always moaned at anything in relationships that involved a female or picture of a female that wasn't me. I had to split up with... (243 words)

7 months pregnant and sex has dwindled. Does this make my husband more likely to cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I am 7 months pregnant and me and my husband no longer are as sexually active as we were before I got bigger. This is not my first pregnancy but more unexpected. He says he is just not attracted to pregnant women like that and never has been. It was a similar experience with my ... (173 words)

Been having an affair. If I don't tell his wife she may be ruining her own life with a cheater!

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

24 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been having an affair with a man who's wife doesn't currently live with him because of their jobs. I am also not sure he's even married to her yet. They live in two different states. She has decided to keep her job because of seniority and the amount of money she makes. ... (369 words)

I'm not attracted to women but I made out with a female friend. What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

24 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have never questioned my preference....but I am confused on what this may mean. I had my lesbian friend over a week ago and we would make sexual jokes/ gestures to each other but I was only joking as she knew that I wasn't being serious. At one point after I had gotten my ... (168 words)

I keep bumping into this guy, I really like him but he's never spoken to me! What can I do to get closer to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

24 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - 2 months ago I saw a boy walking in front of the house. He was looking at me, I got surprised and I tought: "Oh my god, he is really handsome!" (Ive never seen him before ). He turned his head back and watched me till he didnt turn right to the other road. Then I saw him... (573 words)

Women's perspective on a guy's height please.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

24 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ladies, I'd like to hear from you how you feel about height as it relates to attraction. Is it a non-negotiable for you that your man be taller than you are? What about when he's taller than you, but not taller than you in heels? I'm 5'8" and lately it seems like most women ... (150 words)

Is it possible to be addicted to masturbation? It's becoming distracting.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

24 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it possible to be addicted to masturbation? Can't stop fantasising and it's stressing me out. It's not like I want a boyfriend or want a sexual partner. I rather not be sexually active and get tangled in at all that at the moment.It's really distracting you see as I ne... (102 words)

Ended affair last night.What can I do? Is there any point in hoping she could leave him? Or was I just played by her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

24 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have no one else to talk to. For past year I have been in affair with coworker. Last summer we agreed that we will leave our partners and be together. I did it, she did not so I went NC for next two months. This autumn she started chasing me, promising heaven and ear... (446 words)

Was he over the top to break up over this after 2 years together? Was he looking for an excuse?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

24 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I broke up in April of this year. He had found out I was on dating sites again. I did not want to meet anyone, because I was in love with him. I used to go on dating sites to tease the guys on them and had no intention of meeting them. My boyfriend didnt ... (144 words)

How should I apologise to keep this friendship? I want to stay friends. But I think all he wants is sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

24 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I went on two dates with this guy. He seems really nice, complete gentleman. however he is only visiting for a week and i think he just wants to have a nice time while here and i don't know what i was thinking. I went to dinner and drinks with him once and second day went on ... (181 words)

Child Support issues. Am I asking for too much? He thinks so.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

24 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - After separating from my husband if many years, I started to claim for child support When he got to know this from the agency he sent me a text saying, "can't believe you're doing this to me, taking my kids and family away and now also causing me further stress" Then again whe... (194 words)

Is it wrong for me to do this? And even if it's not, is it wrong not to tell my new Gf that I do watch this type of porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

24 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I just got into watching cartoon porn nothing like animals or tenticle types mainly just like girls from tv shows like avatar or american dad any way I have a friend who broke up because his girlfriend didn't like him looking at henti I'm starting to date a girl that want... (107 words)

I think he wants to try S&M, how do I bring it up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

24 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I'm trying to read my boyfriend. :P He's an alpha male, which I absolutely love. We play around, and I enjoy when we tickle-fight and he pins me down on the bed, we both do. ;) Earlier in the relationship, he mentioned that S and M might be fun, since he's a sai... (359 words)