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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel ugly, insecure and depressed because all my friends have boyfriends and I don't

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Nowadays I feel as though I'm a jinx when it comes to finding love. Ever since my friends and I began college/uni, nearly all of my friends have managed to find boyfriends and move on with their lives, whereas I have not. I have had a male friend interested in me in the pas... (529 words)

I didn't like the message my b/f received on his phone

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now and things are getting serious. He has asked me to move in with him at Christmas and we see each other every day. Everything is great but the problem is he works nights, he is a taxi driver, and in the past he has given his ... (137 words)

He's got a reputation as a charmer and I don't want to be a number to him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all :) I've been seeing a guy for a while now and we both want to make our relationship official. However there are some concerns I have regarding his past and i am wondering I'm thinking too much about things. Basically he has been with a fairly large amount of women b... (274 words)

Are gay thoughts normal for teenagers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

22 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Are gay thoughts normal for teenagers? I'm very interested in girls. But I'm having gay thoughts that really scare me, I'm not attracted to other men in any way. These thoughts make me feel stressed and anxious. I don't want to be gay and I want to get married to a beautifu... (73 words)

How do I greet him and how do I figure out if he likes me too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently met this guy online and we really hit it off. We text each other practically every day. I'm going to meet him in two weeks, but I'm really nervous. I'm taking a friend with me, but I'm not sure how to react. I'm a really shy person and don't know how I should greet ... (101 words)

My wife and sex... help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

22 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - A. Hi, I wonder if you can help me. I really want to know the intimate details of my wife's sexual past. I know you may think it's weird but i'm really curious. Am I normal? I want to know what she did with them, how big they were, who was best in bed etc. Should a husband ... (200 words)

Is it ok to date my 5th cousin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

22 November 2011 (M)

age 22-25 - ok is it wrong for me to be dating my 5th cousin.i told my mom and she says that is my choice of who i date but is it wrong?... (30 words)

I am so scared to see him, I feel like I look even worse than I did when he left!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4560 days ago

22 November 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hey everyone, so the guy who I've had a thing with for awhile, a very long while actually(two years almost), is coming home from college for the week. I wanna see him so bad, but at the same time I don't...I'm not good enough for him and it hurts me so bad. We would be official... (253 words)

Husband expects me to take his side and cut daughter out of lives. I can't do it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for 16 years and have 2 children together. My daughter is 19 and my son is 14. For as long as I can remember, my husband has always been mean to my daughter. Recently, she has moved out of the house with her boyfriend. He wants me to take ... (331 words)

Does the contraceptive jab protect from STI's, does it hurt and should I tell my mum I'm having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have asked my mum to book me an appointment and she has...the appointment was for me to get the contraception impact done. I am having in up in my arm on thursday, but my mum asked why i wanted it :\ i said to her that i cant handle having periods every month because i am ... (135 words)

How can I help my sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a girl age twenty three and me and my family been thought a pretty rough time. Me and my sis was abused by a family member and when it all came out this person then ended their life. We had counseling, but now my little sis is going off the rails; sleeping around and not ... (74 words)

Drunken night led to sex with college mate and now I don't know how to handle seeing him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - oh dear I have really made a HUGE mistake. I'm a mature student, and on a night out recently I slept with one of my peers. I rarely drink (holidays and special occasions) and this evening I was totally out of character and got so terribly terribly drunk. I actually do... (328 words)

Help me to understand my girlfriend and how to get her back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been in my first ever lesbian relationship for 3 months, everything was perfect apart from the fact that one of my mates has liked me a lot. I told her nothing would happen with her, but I didn't realize how much she liked me, so I naively met up as a mate not seeing ... (404 words)

How can I become emotionally stronger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend advices me to be emotionally strong because of my past reactions to many situations.and whenever i have a problem that I share with him (about any difficulty outside our relationship or a problem I have related to him) ..he begins to talk as though he knows ... (669 words)

How can I encourage my depressed ex to get help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, what is the best way to convince a depressed person to get help? my ex-boyfriend is currently struggling with depression; that's what caused him to end our relationship, and he's kind of getting distant from his family, too. i really hate to see him like this, a... (160 words)

He told me he had a g/f but was he just letting me down easily?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I apologise if this is long and confusing as it is very confusing for me. I started college in august and have made some good friends but i got a crush on one of the guys on my course and i just kinda thought it would go away. Anyway it hasnt and i really like him he's funny ... (299 words)

Should I move in with b/f? Feelings are conflicted

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am on placement in the city and he is in his graduate job so we are both hardworking adults in our 20s (I am 21 he is 22). He keeps mentioning us moving in together when I graduate, even looking at places we could potentially live (this would be in 2 years time after I return ... (431 words)

My girlfriend of 7 yrs isnt putting effort in anymore what should I do? is she scared of committment?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

22 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 7 yrs isnt putting effort in anymore what should i do? *warning this is gonna be long i apologize and appreciate any feedback*thankyou* Ok heres the situation.. Ive been with my girlfriend for 7 years and also have a beautiful daughter to her.. basicall... (555 words)

Help! Does he love me or is he just using me for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone I have been friends with a guy for three years and we finally got together seven months ago (life was good) ...we started have a sexual relationship about three months ago, i am just abit worried that he doesnt love me anymore and just using me for sex :\ At the... (150 words)

He doesn't want me! How can I get him to change his mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to be his girlfriend but he's not ready for a new relationship right now. i don't want no one else i want only him what can i do to make him change his mind and say yes i want you to be my girl before this year end ... (50 words)

I just got married but the 'sex' is few and far between! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got married BUT I met my husband early last year and we just got married last month. He is 15 years older than me and in the begining of our relationship, the very first time he asked me for sex, we did foreplay but when it came to the real sex, he stopped...i was ... (366 words)

Is she playing games or not interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl who I really like. We went out and had a great time. She even planned out a second date for us to go watch a hockey game and then later our alma maters football game. I picked her up and she told me about her friends breakup and how this girl had been in her ... (245 words)

Does he love me if he calls rarely and never tells me he loves me on the phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When we're together he seems like he's crazy about me and always tells me he loves me... We've been together for two months and he really seems to care about me... I don't think he's only thinking about having sex with me, since he really seems to respect what I want: one... (156 words)

Should I worry about my boyfriend's response or am I nitpicking?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have read on a few websites that the direction that someone's eyes move in tells whether or not they are telling the truth. It says when they move their eyes up and to their right it means they are constructing a response (lying) and when they move their eyes up and to their ... (208 words)

My ex cheated on me so why can't I get her out of my mind?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Me and my now ex gf have broke up several times due to her cheating and addiction to dating sites. Each time she ends up turning up in an emotional mess and i get suckered,before i know it i am saying to myself, 'i am with her again'. Then within a month she has repeated her ... (88 words)

If online dating fails to work, what other options are there?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've tried every sensible dating site in the last 16 months. Paid and free. I have had two dates in that whole time. I've had profiles reviewed and everyone has come back saying my photos are good, my profile is interesting and they don't understand why I getting so little ... (309 words)

He pursued his ex but won't pursue me. Should I leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had known each other for 4 months now. Before we were in a relationship, I was the one who texted him everyday and he will Text back. We also went out because I was giving him hints that i'll be in town on my days off( I used to live outside London before).... (163 words)

Should your panties get wet when you're turned on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Simple question really. Should your panties really get wet when you're turned on and if so, how wet? And when does it become uncomfortable or embarrassing? ... (28 words)

Should I be worried that he was talking on the phone to a girl? We aren't together yet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy its been almost 4 months since we've met each other we've been sleeping at each others place.and one night when was taking a bath at his place i felt something was wrong when i got out i saw him talking on the phone with a girl but we are not ready to be in a ... (66 words)

If my friend never pays heed to my advice, then why does she ask?? She hangs out with me when her B/f dumps her, and ignores me when they get back together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

22 November 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I have a female friend, whose boyfriend is best friends with my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have a healthier relationship than they do in that we give eachother loads of space. They dont go to college so they are together everyday, practically living in eachothers houses. ... (263 words)

How do I make sure my husband doesn't cheat again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i am married for 2 years now. my husband has been cheating me.when i confront him he seems remorseful.what do i do to make sure he doesnt cheat again?... (29 words)

I know he's not interested in me and I just need to put him out of my head but I'm finding it difficult....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I would really appreciate some advice how to put someone out of my mind. Last month I was spending time up in my home town and was seduced by a local guy who is a couple of years younger than me. I was reluctant at first but spending a bit more time with him I realised there... (674 words)

I feel jealous when others find love so easily while I'm still single...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 and my cousins are all getting married and have kids. My co workers are always asking me if I've met anyone yet. I have taken a break from dating as I feel disillusioned. I got out of a really bad relationship last year. I have dated a couple of people since then, but ... (72 words)

Could he tell that I had had sex with someone else the day before?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ls it possible for a guy to feel that you had sex with someone else? l had sex with my guyfriend at a party and a day later my boyfriend showed up and we had sex. afterwards he said nothing and ignored me the whole night, in the morning we tried again but he just was cold. l ... (95 words)

How can you get someone who wants to be alone to start going out with you? I want my ex back but he says he wants to be alone!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you get someone who wants to be alone to start going out with you?? I was in a LDR for 3 years and he broke up with me in April as he had become depressed (he became depressed about his life and what he was doing and where he was going)…since then his life has got bac... (490 words)

My fiance is turning into groomzilla! How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there! I have an interesting case of gender role reversal for you all! I'm getting married for the first time next July. I was over the moon when my boyfriend asked me: I am really committed to him and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. However, the w... (479 words)

What's an appropriate level of intimacy to have with male friends when you're in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my wonderful boyfriend during my gap year (2010) but now we're LDR. I love him to bits and I couldn't imagine being with anyone else, but since starting college, I've been finding it tough not to be at least a teeny bit flattered by the sudden attention from other ... (275 words)

I feel like I'm in love with her just on looks, and I work with her. She has a Boyfriend too. How do I cope with mu crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like this girl who I work with. we have never had a conversation, but she's all I think about these last few weeks. Out of work a few months ago we both looked and checked one an other out and a few months after that we both smiled at each other at work. She has a ... (146 words)

He isn't happy with her. Should I pursue him? Our co-workers think we are already an item.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I work with and I've really grown to care about this guy. We don't see each other outside of work much, but we are around each other at work all the time. We started out as just friends, but lately I started noticing a different side of him. I feel like we ... (304 words)

He abused me so I left the relationship. But how do I stop emotional binge eating I've been doing since the split?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - August, I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship. He would call me fat then try to get me into nude modeling (makes sense right?). Also I was 17 and he was 27. He'd say I belong to him and other manipulative ^^^t like that. Anyways one day he took stuff too far I re... (131 words)

Why is she pushing me away? Why is she seeking me out only to reject me again? My offer is love and stability

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

22 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My Ex Gf and I have lived together for 18 months. We’ve supported ourselves this entire time, paying the electric bills, insurance, groceries, etc We broke up a month ago. For domestic reasons she has chosen to still live with me, despite the break up. She has limited opti... (947 words)

My teen daughter is staying with her gran to finish her studies. Now she does not want to come home. How do I resolve this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone We relocated to a new city... My mom is currently staying with my 14 year old daughter in our house just till the end of this school year, then she will have to join us in the new city. I think the move is constantly on my daughter's mind because every chance she... (187 words)

How can this happen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I was dating the girl of my dreams for almost 4yrs and the wasn't a fairy tail ending as we had issues(losing a child) and then she got raped and that was the turning point......She started falling in love with her rapist and she had an affair with him behind my back and they ... (125 words)

What are healthy fantasies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 26 year old male, and like most people, I masturbate. I am saving sex for someone I am in love with- but in the meantime I have to make due. I'm wondering how many people can relate to my issues or what their opinions on my concerns about this sensitive topic are. I... (287 words)

I need to find out if we're going anywhere or are we just friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - On another note, my guy friend and me have been talking for almost a month now. During this almost month we've kissed, held hands, and hugged. When we started talking, it was a day after my break up with my 2 year long boyfriend and my friend told me it was hard because I just ... (201 words)

I "insulted" my husband about his performance in bed and I think I deeply wounded his ego. How do I fix it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I "insulted" my husband and I think I deeply wounded his ego. He cant please me in bed and he has stopped trying to quite a while back. I told him that what he is doing isn't working. He told me he never had problems pleasing women in the past. I said that women arent going to ... (148 words)

Was sex with my new boyfriend awkward because I just got out of such a long relationship? Or do we just not have that kind of connection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got out of a 2 year relationship to a guy that I was actually engaged to. I was very unhappy with the relationship and he was more concerned about his happiness than mine. I couldn't take it anymore so I left. I'm in a new relationship and the guy is really sweet and ... (119 words)

Do I still want him and does he want me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been exclusive with this guy for 6 months now and our relationship has been progressing. I've been recently contacted by a guy I used to see on and off. We would Have a good time then disappear from each others lives. We've been speaking through emails very platonically ... (122 words)

Impotence without a medical cause?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a 49 years old husband. He is impotent at the last few years. He is ok medically. What could be wrong with him? Is it possible to be impotent without a cause?... (34 words)

He rejected me, but still acts interested. What's his deal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - See the question? Yeah, why do guys do this? It's not only irritating but disrespectful. I asked a guy out at the end of September that i had been crushing on for the whole summer. (he's 29 i'm 21). I was proud of myself that I was so straight forward with him. I asked him on a ... (422 words)

He was a player, should I just end things with him even though he has done nothing wrong towards me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy for the last 6 months and in the beginning it was just meant to be a bit of fun. He was considered to be quite a player and when he started to pressure me I played along because I never thought it would turn into anything. 6 months later and I have put ... (267 words)

He suddenly stopped all communication, should I give up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy at University through mutual friends. We texted constantly for a few days and things were going really well, when suddenly one day he just stopped replying and when I saw him though we spoke he seemed distant. I don't understand what I've done wrong. My friend ... (86 words)

Feeling really depressed and lonely, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

22 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I recently started going to college, after breaking up with my ex-girlfriend due to her cheating on me. At the time, I was really hopeful that I'd be able to find another girlfriend at college. But I can't really find anyone. Almost every girl here is more interested in ... (124 words)

STI test, did I do something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I went to have an sti screening today, just because I wanted to put my mind at rest. It involved taking a vaginal swab test and a blood test. When I did the swab she just told me to put it as high as it went, which made me worried I wouldn't do it right so I put it up quit... (99 words)

Are we just not compatible in the bedroom, or does she just need more time and experience?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Our relationship is great... but the sex isn't at the moment. Me and my partner have only been together for a month now, which I accept is not a very long time at all. She was a virgin when I met her and as our relationship got underway, so did our sex life. Things started o... (242 words)

I need help getting a guy friend out of his depression...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 November 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so long story short (Because I tend to be long-winded), I have a friend who was dumped about 2 weeks ago, I didn't want to ask too much about it, but I did want to help, because he's a friend. But this guy will NOT do anything! I told him to open the windows and let ... (198 words)