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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can sex affect your period flow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I was just wondering if having sex the day before your period can effect your period flow? Mine is usually normal, and always starts the same day on my pill, but I've hardly bled at all today, though I did spot early yesterday and bleed a little, though I don't know if that was ... (118 words)

I've helped him with money, with work, and find out that he's lying to me about this girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im close friends with a guy and up til 3 months ago he went a bit weird on me then i discovered hes 'dating' a girl.he told me shes a medical student and lives in london. the other day i fixed his cv and he asked me to go in his email. i was shocked as there was an email from ... (215 words)

How do I tell her I don't want to hang out with her friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I tell my fiancee that I don't like her friends, and that I am sick of her forcing me to hang out with them, and inviting them along on activities that were originally "just for us"??... (38 words)

I kept my love for my teacher a secret all through high school; now that I'm in university I learn he has a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

16 June 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hello there, I fell in love with a young man, who unfortunately happened to be my high school teacher. Although he was not involved with anyone during my high school years, I knew the implications of being in love with a teacher so I kept silent about it all throughout the f... (367 words)

My crush asked me out but the date was boring!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So this guy i liked finally asked me out, i went and had an okay time, the thing is i was bored through most of it and i dont like him as much any more. i dont want to hurt the guy's feelings but i dont want to lead him on either. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1... (53 words)

I just can't do oral on her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Howdy... So I'm in a long distance relationship with another woman and I have been for quite a while. I love when she uses her tongue and her mouth on me, and so I'd like nothing better but to reciprocate, yet... I cannot. We have tried about everything. We have tried ... (168 words)

Boyfriend's ex is living with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F) age 41-50 - Need help. Ok my bf told me he wanted me to come home. But how ever there is a little problem - his ex is still staying with him . He told her that she had a month to find a job and get her own place. Again another problem it was my idea to give her a month any way, I wish I ... (194 words)

When is it too early to ask for sex in a new relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, I have a problem on when to ask for sex with a new girl friend. They always say its early , but after so many financial demands from me; they will disappear. Am I not man enough? I do some times wait for up to six months but they tell me its early.... (57 words)

I loved her with all my heart and she turned me down

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4426 days ago

16 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. It has been almost 5 months since she left me for someone else after a relationship of 3 years when I came to USA forever. Of course like everyday of my relation with her, on my departure day, I again told her that I loved her so much, I will always be hers and ... (430 words)

Will we get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner of 14 months broke up with me last night due to the fact that he feels claustrophobic and trapped. (His an Aries, I'm a Scorpion) Last yr (October time)he gave me the key to his flat, without me asking or hinting anything. He told that instead of going back to mine ... (412 words)

How does ballet "objectify" women?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - How does ballet objectify women? I am a dancer, I've danced for 7 years, and i do ballet, jazz, tap, and pointe but have also done lyrical and jazz funk. I heard recently that ballet apperently "objectifies women". I have never felt this way, ever. I'm curious to know why ... (64 words)

Cheated on my girlfriend, in love with the other woman and my girlfriend is pregnant!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

16 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in a sad situation and don't know what to do. In October of last year I met a woman on the internet. We started seeing each other and things were going well. I thought I was falling in love with her. Then a monkey wrench came alone in the form of a married woman. We met in ... (380 words)

Girlfriend doesn't want to have sex after being raped 6 years ago

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

16 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl friend got rapped at the age of 18,and now she is 24 since then she didn't want to sleep with a man again.She is always afraid,that it will hurt her though she feel like doing it.Now it's difficult trying to sleep with her due to her past negative experience of sex,what ... (64 words)

I'm too independent, she's too needy....how to bridge the gap

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

16 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - This one is fairly long so bear with me. Easier to do it in one go then split it in a dozen posts. I have been with my fiance for 4 years, engaged for the last year and making wedding plans for sometime next year. Our relationship, to say the least, is a rollercoaster ri... (469 words)

Should I compromise my dreams to move to be with bf, or should he do the same to be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

16 June 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I'm dealing with a really hard problem right now. I'm graduating with my AA this fall and moving to attend UF. I'm pursuing my bachelors in psychology, and hopefully attending medical school after that. UF is supposed to be the best university in the state, and I figure if I ... (207 words)

Am I gay or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hullo, I guess I am gay. If I see a cute guy I get an erection and I often find myself looking down at their trousers. But every now and then I get to know a nice sensible woman who I find attractive, however the 'pull' just is not as strong. I often see girls caked in make up ... (100 words)

I had to cancel a date so now he cancelled a date! Is he losing interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive met this guy online and we've been on one date, I was meant to see him yesterday but I had to rearrange to today. After i had rearranged it with him, he was being really blunt and short and even ignored some of our texts which makes me think he's loosing interest. ... (131 words)

Is my friend really gay or is he just playing around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

16 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hullo, I have a friend how acts really gay, hugging guys ect all the time. He can be quite camp at times as well. When I used to study maths he was sat next to me and he would often put his hand on my leg and sometimes rub it. Other times he would take hold of my hand. He did t... (75 words)

He gets horny over my baby bump. Is this normal?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

16 June 2011 (?) age 36-40 - hey. i am 4 months pregnant. i have been with my boyfriend for 12 months, however it is not his baby. he knows, he's accepted it (i think) and he forgave me for cheating on him. anyway, now i am starting to get a bump. this seems to send my boyfriend crazy. he gets really h... (134 words)

How can I stop my "friends" from picking on me all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ever since i can remember i was always the one my friends picked on, at first I thought it was them just joking around but it sort of became a thing, if anyone wanted anything they would ask me, little things like if they wanted me to get them some water because they couldn't ... (263 words)

I am upset by my bf's remark that he is "bonded together" with his ex, who once carried his child. Should I be??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4725 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to think or how to feel right now. My boyfriend told me something about his romantic past the other night that has made me question my feelings towards him, my own attitude... everything. Maybe I'm a terrible person; I've only ever asked one thing of him and ... (596 words)

First time, split condom, could I be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm freaking out, i had sex for the first time this weekend and the condom split. how much chance is there that i'm pregnant? i'm on the pill, he hadn't ejaulated yet, and there was no pre-cum because he had ejaculated before we had sex. do i have something to worry about?... (58 words)

I want to hang out more with him but he seems too busy all the time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4725 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so i am really close to my best guy friend and we talk all the time now, but i've known him for the whole year and i've never seen him outside of school. Now its summer vacation and I'm really worried that were just never gonna talk and were gonna lose touch completely by ... (179 words)

Were the doctor's questions to my wife inappropriate and invasive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

16 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I would like some advice/opinions about a doctor. My wife of over 20 years went to the OB/GYN last week for her annual pap test. I went with her. It came out clear no issues, then the doctor (male) wanted to talk with her in his office. I went in with her, the doctor said to my ... (465 words)

Does your belly button change when you get older?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Hi, quick question, is your belly button supposed to get shallow (shorter in depth) when you get older or does that mean something that else makes a belly button get shorter?... (31 words)

How do I make the awkwardness go atfer tellin my teacher I loved him ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, For the past 10 months I have been in love with my English teacher. He is aware of this because I had the courage to tell him. Everything is fine only its awkward. I am leaving soon, but until then how can make the awkwardness go away. ... (58 words)

I don't know about his monetary status, should I suggest dates that won't cost much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just wanted to follow up on my original post. I posted on here recently saying that i met a guy in a bar, and he has said that he would meet up with me three times, to go out drinking, but then things have come up. The first time he cancelled, he said his friend had let him ... (535 words)

Boyfriend has short fuse. Is it me? Please help me understand

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Hi there. My bf and I have been together for 18 months. Things are okay but I have one issue with him, his temper. He has a really bad temper and loses his cool really easily. He is not violent and I don’t think he ever would be but I struggle with the way he loses his cool so ... (396 words)

Crush "technically single." What does this mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy who I really like , thing is I fell for him before realizing he was taken.. He never spoke about his gf in group conversations or never hinted he was taken .. I've recently became his friend on fb and we chat sometimes about everything .. Last night we were ... (168 words)

BF upset younger sister is having a baby. Anything I can say to help?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 38. Yes I know it's a big age difference but we've been together for over a year and a half and he is the love of my life. He has an older sister, a younger sister and an older brother. Obviously his older siblings have children but his younger ... (110 words)

I'm a grown adult, so why am I still getting acne?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had bad skin ever since my teens. Taking the pill helps, but it only masks the symptoms. If I go off it, the acne reappears soon after. And my back gets completely covered in it. I really hate it. I'm 24 so why is this still happening to me?... (50 words)

Should I end the relationship based on this one factor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am wondering if I should leave my boyfriend. We have been together for nearly four months and everything is going great, except for in the bedroom. He has barely touched me the whole time we have been together and we have only been intimate twice. I have discus... (198 words)

She wants to be with me but she loves her boyfriend more.....

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16 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Im a guy, i love a girl (its about 2.5 yrs). At first she was my friend, she had a boyfriend at that time. She got a breakup with her boyfriend and we became so close to each other. After 3 or 4 months she broke-up, we became together. we are having a good time together. again ... (135 words)

What do these signs mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

16 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi there... I'm 16 years old, I've never had a girlfriend before, though I'm not a total social outcast, I do hang out with girls. The thing is, I like this girl, but I'm not sure if she likes me. My friends say that she does, but they haven't heard it from her, so I don't want ... (156 words)

Kissed my ex as part of truth and dare and the feelings are still there, but I have a girlfriend! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - okay well my ex-girl friend of like 1year and half came into town a couple days ago. and my friends wanted me to hang out but i didn't no she would be there. so when i got there i guess she didn't no cuz we just looked at each other and tried to ignore each other. we managed to ... (288 words)

Will I ever find a more romantic and sexual partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This will probably sound like a dumb question, but will I ever find a partner who is better in bed than my ex was? First I want to be perfectly clear that sex is not the only thing that matters to me. I'm single right now, but if given the choice I would sooner have a happy, ... (180 words)

Is it ok to be with a guy if he treats you well when every other aspect of the relationship sucks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F) age 36-40 - im 25 and ive been in a relationship for almost 2 years now. i have to make myself fantasize if i want to get through sex with my boyfriend and he has really small you know what. he wants to get married but im so confused because of how i feel about the sex and also because ... (121 words)

I'm ashamed that I am into women, not men

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! i'm feeling really ashamed about my bi sexuality and liking more women, than men. I would love to be out,but i know that will never be the case when i think about being the way that i am. I feel sick, horrible. Sick to my stomach kind, like i'm making sins that are ... (211 words)

I would like to be friends with the Japanese family who moved across the street

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

16 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well first of all I would like to say im 19, I have always loved the Japanese culture, food, music, and of course the people. I have always wanted to have a Japanese friend but unfortunately that hasnt happened yet since there are not that many Japanese where I live. A couple ... (162 words)

Unexpected pregnancy, lost of grandfather and boyfriend and now my mom wants me to give up baby or move!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and have a 23 months old daughter with a lad i was with for nearly 4 years. Sadly my granddad died of cancer 11 weeks ago and i have been grieving for him alot. Me and my boyfriend split up on the same day that was 11 weeks since he died. The day after wo... (229 words)

How do I get over his random booty call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright, i'll try to make this short and sweet. During my freshman year in high school i started dating this guy. The first time we dated we dated for 2 months then i broke it off with him because i just wasn't feeling it, but i knew there was something still there with him. ... (350 words)

How do I help my fiance's wild sister?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

16 June 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I need some advice, i don't know how to help this girl! I have known my fiance's little sister since she was 12. I am 20 now, and she is 16. Shes very wild, rude, and out of control. I have always been there for her, she comes to me for advice, and tells me her darkest secrets ... (297 words)

Boyfriend says that the words "I love you" are just words to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for 7 months now First, my boyfriend has expressed through actions how much he cares for me and maybe loves me but he has not said he loves me yet. This is something he was worrying about a lot about a month ago and I was reassuring him there was ... (500 words)

Husband ignored me either on purpose or accidentally and refuses to take any blame for it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age - My husband and I are at odds. He is very secure. He has led a life like James Bond while I raised his two children in a small town. He has recently connected emotionally/physically with his love in 2010 from 50 years as I passively watched it unfold. We had a strong marriage I ... (140 words)

Does he even deserve me or should I just move on/

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright so theirs this guy ad we started talking end of may last year (2010) he's 4 years older than me. he went to basics and I promise I would wait for him. And I did. Well once he got back we were talking but things weren't right. Turns out he was going back to his ex ( my ... (252 words)

Have I been too good and he's just capitalizing on my generosity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Seven months ago I met the man I thought I had waited my entire life for. He is kind caring supportive, great with my daughter and never too mired in his shit to extend himself to try and help fix my stressful situations. I knew two weeks in that all I wanted was to have a ... (192 words)

I'm a girl, and I like my friend(girl) but I don't know how to tell if she likes me back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, Im not too young, but im pretty young..... im about to go in high school (graduating on the 24th of June) but i think ive fallen for one of my female friends..... i never felt this way before! we just have so much in common: we both draw, were both shy, were both bi ... (333 words)

It worries me that I have such a hard time meeting men

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there. I'm currently 23 and still in college. I'll be graduating, hopefully, next year. Right now school has been really busy and there hasn't been much time to expand my social circle. There are practically no extracurricular activities where I study as the school wants you ... (360 words)

Is there such a thing as love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have never been inlove. Is there a such thing as love? And if so, is there a perfect man out there for me?... (30 words)

I don't want to be 40 and alone but I can't get a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

16 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I'm starting to get a little worried about the way things are going. I'm 23 years old. I'm friendly, maybe a little shy but i can come out of my shell quickly, i go to the gym a few times a week (i'm trying hard with that stuff right now) although i don't... (281 words)

I'm trying to stay out of relationship problems between friends. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. My friend broke up with her boyfriend of two months,and this happened a few hours ago. Friend #1's bf was her boyfriend, Friend #2 is another friend of Friend #1: Friend #1:(her status) Hah! You think I'm going to be sad because you broke up with me? You think I'm g... (325 words)

I've fallen for him but he's not giving me any reassurance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im female/18 and my boyfriend is 19 Me and the guy i absolutely adore have been dating for the last 3 weeks. it seriously feels like we've been dating for months. Even he agrees. the only thing is, hes started to get a bit weird after the other night, when i stayed at hi... (346 words)

My friend says that his approach was wrong

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy that i met out. But why does my friend find there is something wrong with him saying to let him know when i'm out next, so that we can meet to talk and have a drink? She said that he should of asked me out on a date if he was interested, but i spoke to him for... (226 words)

Could my friendship be more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

16 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with the same girl for over six years. It started in high school and I'm beginning to question it. We get along well, but I feel it's more of a friendship than a relationship. I talk to another girl a lot. She seems to be perfect for me and has similar experiences and ... (111 words)

Question about feminie hygiene

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - well i have a situation. i wash my vagina area everyday more than once and it still smells i am a virgin and everything i just dont know why it doesnt smell good?... (33 words)

Is kissing the girl you love is everything in a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

16 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I love her so much.. But we have not kissed each other yet.. Now she is in abroad for study.. Before i couldn't ask her for kiss because i didn't want to hurt her feelings.. Just last night of the day she was leaving the place, i asked for k kiss, but she denied.. May be she ... (185 words)

He broke my heart, I've cut him from my life, but ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i get over my ex He broke my heart Iv cut him out my life i.e deleting numbers etc How do i get over the whole crying over him at night when i miss him most?... (43 words)

How can I trust him when he puts a security lock on his phone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with this man for 7yrs which I have experienced everything from cheating, verbally and physical abuse which he say's he has never given me a black eye but tried chokin me twice..go figure!! Which thank god the last time he put his hands on me was 3yrs ago which I ... (262 words)

Lots of history, but I know she's the one

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4727 days ago

16 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I fell in love with this girl in 6th grade....we're seniors in high school now. i broke her heart in 6th grade and she broke mine last year when we dated for a year.... it took a while to hit me but everytime we talk i miss her more and more, she tells me that im the only guy ... (219 words)

He has a business relatinship with his ex that I wonder is more than business?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age - Im in a relationship with a man that I love. The massive issue is that he shares a company with his ex partner. We have been together for four years and the business trips away with her don't get any easier. He has swore to me there is nothing going on and just recently they ... (191 words)

Will he still talke to me after I scared him? Did I lose a good friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well I have a friend and I just became friends with him since last week and so I told him something I should of not told him. I texted him just to talk since i'm bored. It first started when I told him I went to my first counseling appointment and he asked me "what for?" and ... (156 words)