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I found my dad's been surfing porn and maybe using escort services, what should I do now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

14 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - I was on my dads computer and I found sexual escort websites...I also found pornography on his cell phone. I am really worried that he is using these escorts and really don't know what to do. I would rather not confront him but its one of those things that is stuck in my mind.... (54 words

He said she was "just a friend".... should I believe it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

14 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - Sorry this is long, Im just so frustrated! I'm not sure if I even want to know or not, but this thought has been troubling me for a while now. I recently broke up with my boyfriend. During the relationship I was concerned about him having feelings for another girl, and the ... (1518 words

I know my sexuality but my love for my female teacher is making me depressed. What should I do?

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14 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hello im 14 and i am extreamly In love with my teacher. Ive been having a rough time at home lately and shes the one who i would trust telling her anything. I think she likes me too but not in that way. Shes 23 and sooo pretty and im definatly not lesbian or bi. We once hugged ... (132 words

How long does it take to get rid of water retention?

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14 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - Could someone please tell me how long it takes to get rid of water retention? I'm aware of the ways to get rid of it but I can't find an answer as to how long it will take?... (38 words

Is the ex just bitter or is he a lying cheat?

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi yeah how are yeas ok im 20 and my bf is 25 we have been going out for almost a year. He left his pregant gf for me well anyways she was angry at the break up and she said he was a cheat he said she just saying that cos she's p****ed so fast forward to present day he doesn ... (134 words

Depressed, Unhappy, I don't see the light at the end of the tunnel.

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14 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - I am 22 yrs. old from Europe living in Canada. I use to be full of life and the kind of person that would light up the room when I walk in ever since I was a child. Everything changed when I was 15 and I started to feel attraction toward guys, which I did not pay much att... (579 words

Should I let my friend the world traveler say with me or not? What would you do?

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14 July 2011 (F age 41-50 - dear cupaid, I am having guilt and disappoinment over some friend issues. My Fabulous and popular friend the Pro world travler(and aspiring travel author) wants to come and stay with me and my DH again for 3 months. She wants to stay with me for 3 free months to have a ... (537 words

He is spreading untrue rumors about me!

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, im having a bit of a problem with an ex of mine. Recently i just started dating a boy been dating for about 2 weeks, but one of my ex's when who i was in a relationship for a year is trying to cause problems! So my ex who i will call 's' has been telling my new boyfriend ... (542 words

What is his problem?

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - Basically I don't know what's wrong with my friend. We used to be so close but things have changed. I don't get what's wrong with him. Last summer it was the first time he started flirting with me and I told him not to. So he avoided me for literally 3 weeks. But within that ... (821 words

I'm 24 and still a virgin, is this normal?

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14 July 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi cupid, I'm a "straight" guy age 24 and im still virgin.. is it normal? ... (15 words

How do you reach an agreement on how many children to have?

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - When your married how do you and your partner decide on how many kids you want? He doesnt really like kids and he only wants one but i love kids and want atleast three. Is there a compromise we can make so were both happy? We dont want kids yet but we are talking about the ... (116 words

How long does it take for breast size to increase while on the pill?

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello all, I've been on Microgynon 30 contraceptive pill for just under a week now. I am 22 and this is the first time I've been on the pill. I went on it mainly to try and calm down my bad periods. But I am hoping I may increase my breast size a little. I've got small breasts ... (120 words

Married having affair with married man but need to break it off

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14 July 2011 (F age 51-59 - Please, I need your help! I am a married woman having an affair with a married man. We've been seeing together for 9 months. Now we both became emotionally attach and even express the love for one another. To complicate things his wife is pregnant back in January. I felt so ... (163 words

Is dating this girl worth losing a friend over?

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14 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - Okay so im haveing alittle trouble deciding what to do. So ill start off in the begining So my freind started dating this girl. they were going out for the past 4 months and in that time the three of us would hang out alot. Now my friend is kinda of quite and wasnt great at... (245 words

We barely talk anymore, but I can really see a future with her. What should I do?

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14 July 2011 (M age 36-40 - I have been dating my girlfriend for 2.5 years and everything was fine until a couple of weeks ago. I moved home after graduating from college and she is still at school for another semester. The long distance was going well, I would visit her and then she would visit me. A ... (390 words

How can I convince my boyfriend to put just a little bit of effort into our relationship?

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - Im going out with this one lad for nearly a month now, I havent seen him for 4 weeks because he was on holiday, and last weekend he told me that he didnt wanted to come out because he looks horrible, when in my opinion he is gorgeous. The next day we had an argument, but in the ... (159 words

If an identical twin turns out to be gay/bi, would the other twin also be gay/ bi?

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14 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - Lets say theres a pair of identical twins, and the one twin comes out, would the other twin also be gay or bi? I'm just curious. I was watching the simpsons episode where patti comes out, and I was wondering if that would that make selma gay, too. When I was little and asked... (144 words

No one wants me, there must be something wrong with me

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14 July 2011 (F age 41-50 - i was married for over 12years until my husband went back to his fiance from 15yrs ago...since then (and even during our marriage) i have been approached by many guys obviously only after one thing...but i have been single for nearly 2yrs now and still not even been on a ... (86 words

My online relationship has fallen to pieces, what now?

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm not sure where to start. I wrote on here a week or two ago asking if people thought they could fall online. I don't question my feelings, but I have had to end things with my 'online love' because his true colours have started to show. Well they started to show a long tim... (221 words

Is weekly sex causing all of this itching and scratching?

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - This may sound silly but is just the truth. I have being having sex with my guy every week. And recently my vagina{i.e private part} has be scratching me seriously,but yesterday i use mirror to look at it and i found out that there were tiny things like rashes that scratches me ... (93 words

I don't know how to handle falling in love with my best friend...

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - What is the right thing to do if you're falling in love with your close friend which is also a girl and you can't still accept the fact that you're in love with her? Is it right to just avoid her? Is it necessary to tell her your feelings towards her? ... (51 words

I'm sick of being hurt and lied to by my girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

14 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hey, Dearcupid. This may be a bit long..but please bear with me because I desperately need help with it! I've been with my girlfriend for just over 2 years now, and we're both 17. My girlfriend went to a party with her friend and my girlfriend, having only recently being i... (526 words

How can I get closer to the girl I like?

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14 July 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hi, i need help because i like this girl and i really want to be more than friends with her,I To Know How Get Closer To Her So ill start from the beginning, this school year i met this girl who lives in my neighborhood. we go to the same school,she is 15 and im 16. i real... (351 words

I have a boyfriend but I dream about lesbians?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - Im a 21 year old beautician. I am in a relationship with this handsome 22 year old guy, who I love so much! But i have a problem, which people might think is wrong. I LOVE watching lesbian porn. I tell myself im not a lesbian and I have a boyfriend. But I always see... (133 words

Help! Red marks on my girly bits!

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - How do i get rid of the red marks on my girl bits after shaving? I shave upwards, is that the reason why? ... (23 words

Dating a guy with a child: Good or bad idea?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

14 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've recently met a guy and we hit it off, so have planned a few dates over the next few weeks. We have been texting daily and getting to know each other better, and today he told me that he has a son. Now I have never dated anyone with a child before, and I must say I was a... (268 words

Relationship going nowhere, need advice on how to break up with this girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

14 July 2011 (M age 36-40 - After seeing this girl for about a couple months now, I have decided that things simply aren't going to work. Despite dropping hints, she still has no direction, drive or make any real effort to land a real job. Given that we are at the same age, she should be spending more of ... (234 words

Ex Call Out of the Blue.

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14 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been broken up for near 6 months now. We were together nearly a year. Two/three weeks after the break up she gets herself another bf, who she is still with. The only time we've really spoken was a drunken argument about 2 1/2 months ago. I'm pretty much... (125 words

How can I come up with a nickname for my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

14 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - There isn't anything wrong with me and my boyfriend; the reason I am writing to you is because i want to come up with a nickname that my boyfriend will be ok with I don't know what is a good nickname for him we have been together for about 9 months now i think i am am not shar... (97 words

LDR boyfriend wasn't interested in sex this time. I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

14 July 2011 (F - Im really confused about my boyfriend. We have been in a LDR FOR 6 months. I had not seen him since february until he came and stayed with me on tuesday. I was expecting it to be amazing but Im really disappointed. We had sex, and the first time was really passionate, which is ... (215 words

I hate myself for being so brutal to her in the past...how can I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

14 July 2011 (M age 41-50 - I was in a relationship with a girl for like six years and in June 2009 , all of sudden I dumped her saying that she was hell of a talkative and belong to lower class than my family. She was begging and doing all sort of desperate things not let me go but still I moved out of ... (252 words

His friend told me he is texting another girl....how can I bring this up without getting him angry?

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my bf for a year and a half. With him its been more bad than good because every week I find out something new he lied about, but won't ever admit to... Recently I've had a gut feeling he's been talking to a girl more than usual... He has always been secretive ... (550 words

Everytime I'm with him my heart races and I have butterflys...what is it?

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14 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - Well i decided to go back out with my ex and we'd been going out for 3 months last year but ended it cause we both thouight we didnt see enought of each other. i had been out with a few other guys since that but every time id see his name pop up id instantly get butterflys.. A... (128 words

Does an ultrasound carry the father's name?

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14 July 2011 (F age 41-50 - I want to know something about baby ultrasounds. When a copy of the ultrasound is printed, does it carry the name of the baby's father on it? ... (27 words

B/f just vanishes on me and then has reasons, but I hate it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - hey.. i don't know if its a really big problem but its all i think about all day, so here goes. i have been in a relationship for 4 years and 5 months now. and right now i'm only 19. i have been with the same guy since i started dating. i really love him. but since school ended ... (222 words

Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating?

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14 July 2011 (F age 51-59 - Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating. This is past dirty messages and includes videos of them selves being passed back and forth. I have seen for myself. He says I'm overacting since he's not physically cheating. i have left him. He also flirts ... (91 words

Why do guys have sex on the first date and then think the woman is a slut?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

14 July 2011 (F age 41-50 - I met this guy about a month ago, and we were having a nice time watching TV and we held hands, not sure if we were attracted to each other and then we moved to the bedroom and started foreplay which was okay, and then he stopped and said "sorry, I can't do this, I can't do... (266 words

Wife not satisfied unless we are in the missionary postion

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

14 July 2011 (M age 36-40 - hi am mrd for 2 years .my wife never gets satisfied until we both have missionary sex with her on top of me she can never be satisfied under me am worried please help .and by her telling me am satisfied does it mean she had an orgasm she feels sleepy n wnts to pee ... (76 words

What would be safe times to go walking on my own?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - I know this isn't exactly a relationship question and probably comes across as pretty stupid but I'd really appreciate some advice on it as everyone I know doesn't have the experience to answer. In a couple of months I'll be going to university in a city. All my life I've liv... (262 words

I told him I wanted to wait but he keeps trying it on! What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

14 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - Im aged 13-15, and i've been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months,i'm still a virgin and i told my boyfriend i wanted to wait! but recently we were kissing and stuff and i had a short skirt on and he tried it on? Immediately i got up and sorted myself out and left but... (112 words

Why does my FWB ignore me when he sees me?

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14 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - hi everyone me and this guy are sex buddys have been since march now we get on really well when we see each other which is about once every 2 or 3 weeks just lately i have saw him twice and both times he has pretended he hasnt seen me even though he looked at me and put his ... (159 words

I love him but feel responsibility to my husband

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14 July 2011 (F age 51-59 - The two of us are matured and understand our responsibilities towards our families. Yet, he badly feels he loves me and wants to have romantic relations. For me, i understand,it is wrong. But i really feel good the way he speaks about boosting me up, his remarks,his ... (216 words

Should I try to forget her unless she initiates contact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

14 July 2011 (M age 41-50 - Lets not kid anyone here, I think I am in love with my married female colleague, and have been for some time. It started out as just an attraction (both ways) but I never really gave her too much thought. She one day started initiating conversation and it continued from there, ... (358 words

Do you think that he actually likes me as something more?

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14 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - hi everyone so this is my problem i moved house and met a man that lives 5 minutes from me, we started having sex and thats it which he's cool with but im not. he's a very jealous person, like yesterday a family member was coming to pick me up from my house when this man was on ... (114 words

Advice on how to have a relationship with my family that is emotionally safe for me?

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14 July 2011 (F age 41-50 - God I feel so pathetic writing this. I am a grown woman, in my early thirties! And I am writing a message like some emo teenager about how hurt I feel by the behaviour of my parents! I recently went through a divorce. I left an abusive partner, who didn't lift a fi... (994 words

Should I try and get him back or not? He said he wasnt in love with me....

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14 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - so Me and this guy were just supposed to be a hook-up but then it turned into much more, i fell head over heels and he said he did too. but now he dumped me and im completely lost. He sent me a text that said " im sorry i do love you but im not in love with you you are not the ... (113 words

Problems with our adopted daughter.....

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14 July 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hello everybody, I'm much troubled with my baby's behaviour and i want to know if the things r normal? Or what i should do to improve the things? At the age of 34 i adopted a 3 1/2 months girl child from an orphanage. Since the beginning i found her crying horribly, spl.in... (381 words

I'm interested in my friend's brother. What do I do?

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - Long story short, I have no way of being able to spend time with the guy I'm into, let's call him Cole, unless I start spending a lot of time with my friend who is his brother, let's call him Ethan. But I don't want Ethan to feel shafted when I start ditching him for his ... (83 words

Is it possible that someone hacked my phone?

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14 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - Okay this isn't about relationships but someone please give me a semi explanation for this!! So my friend and I were texting and all of the sudden she Gets a text from me that's says "boobity boo" over and over again like 5 pages of it...so she asks me about it and I have no ... (84 words

Life is miserable and I don't know what Iv done to deserve this..

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14 July 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hi guys. I just really wanted to get some stuff off my chest. I'm a 16 year old closeted guy and I just don't know what to do anymore. I've been sad and depressed for the past 3-4 years, and I've tried my hardest to cope with it. But when does the whole 'it gets better" ... (462 words

Why would he want to know if I'm a virgin or not?

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14 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - So my ex boyfriend who now has a new girlfriend asked me today if I was a virgin when I answered yes he seemed surprised which offended me... Why would he want to know if I'm a virgin or not?... (40 words

What if I break up with my boyfriend and regret it and I'm not happy with the other guy? Or what if I don't and I end up completely happy? How do I decide?

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - So, I have been dating my boyfriend for over two and a half years. We broke up after about 6 months because we were both in different places, but got back together afterwards. Since then, things have been great and our relationship turned around so much. We share dreams about ... (230 words

Why isint he sure of what he wants? I'm tired of the mind games...

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14 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - Ok I am in serious need of some advice here as I am super depressed.. here it goes. Nine months ago I moved from Canada to Australia to meet up with some girl friends and stay on a one year visa to work and travel and have fun. I met a guy almost right away, who was also my ... (742 words

I always wonder if I am doing something wrong in the relationship, or am I with the wrong man?

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14 July 2011 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend had mentioned that he is bothered because I seem analytical and cold. I am very affectionate. I give him hugs. I tell him I love him. I asked him why he is bothered by me being analytical. He said he couldn't tell me. Do men just expect women to always act lovey ... (234 words

Is no contact working?

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14 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - Ok so my girlfriend for a good one year broke up with me... telling me that i been stressing her out too much and that she's not feeling the same thing anymore and that she finally lost love to me. i mean we were really good friends before we started dating. during our ... (383 words

BF broke up with me, then apologized and said I don't need to move out, but I read his FB conversation with a friend where he said he just wanted me gone!

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - I just recently broke up with my BF of a year. I came home late one night and he said I dont love you anymore, Im not atracted to you and its over. This was really hurtful but I sort of knew it had been comeing for a while. Anyway I went away for the weekend, the night I ... (255 words

I don't trust my boyfriend even though he has never done anything wrong! What is wrong with me? How do I fix it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is so sweet. We've been together for over a year now and for some reason I don't trust him. He trusts me completely. It never used to bother me, we used to be fine before but now I get upset all the time when we watch movies with girls that are trying to be sexy or ... (230 words

What should I talk to my crush about? And when should I tell him I'm gay?

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14 July 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hello :), This is kind of two questions but I could really use your help...so I'm a gay teenager, still in highschool and still in the closet. There is this really cute guy that I started talking to a few days ago and I know almost NOTHING about him. We text each other and neit... (137 words

How can I find out if she likes me too?

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14 July 2011 (M age 26-29 - So there is this girl that I really like. We've known each other since 1st grade and are really close friend. I've been told that I should date her, but I'm not sure if she likes me back. We have been really close on several different times. I'd like to know ways to see if she ... (64 words

Did he ever really love me seeing as he could go into a new relationship so quickly after our break up? Did he not need time to heal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

14 July 2011 (F age 51-59 - Ending a 3+ year relationship with a man who you truly loved and thought would spend the rest of your days with (he said he felt the same way about me throughout), he's in a new relationship after 3 months of the breakup. It hurts knowing he could move on so quickly. Did he ... (272 words

I am attracted to my cousin, she hasn't given me an answer but she hasn't said no either....where do I take it from here?

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14 July 2011 (M age 41-50 - I have been attracted to my cousin for years now and have actually talked to her about it. She says i am a good looking guy and would date me in a heartbeat but since we are cousins we cant. She said she would think about sex but has never given me an answer but never said no ... (81 words

Young love-Is it impossible for us to last? What must we do to last?

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - So I am in college with my boyfriend of 6 months. We have been through a lot together, and have fallen in love. We have spoken about being together for a while, living together, and possibly even marriage. Our families get along together and eachother's households we fit in ... (115 words

After I told him I was a virgin he doesn't talk to me anymore! What is going on?

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - I met this guy at a basketball court he seemed nice meaning as he introduce himself to my mom,so any ways we decided to kik it the next day with his friends in the night on a hill,it seemed to go okay and wed write eachother on facebook but after he ask me if i was a virgin and ... (71 words

Can both parties actually get over cheating? Will I stop feeling guilty for what I did and will my BF actually ever be able to forgive me?

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - I recently got very very drunk and cheated on my boyfriend. I hardly knew the guy or what was going on at the time, there were no emotional feelings whatsoever, he had a girlfriend too and we were both pretty embarrassed in the morning. I went home to find my boyfriend in tea... (234 words

If I don't message her we don't talk at all! What should I do?

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14 July 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi just a basic question. I was in the romantic love stage with a girl and the tension was unreal between us she was even glowing so i knew i was in romantic love but i also knew that it was temporary and so I thought i'd speak to her over facebook for a while and try to figure ... (195 words

This one girl is always contacting my boyfriend, how can I stop worrying?

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14 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - I just recently got back with my 7 yrs boyfriend. We agreed to settle things after we got separated for a month and he said he will make up for the times we have been in bad terms and I told him I would do the same. Well we spent the entire week together and being with him f... (310 words

My daughter's father broke up with me but wants to be friends with benefits!

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - ok here it goes me and my boyfriend of 5 years just broke up a few months ago, he is also the father of my daughter. i figured we just needed a break, but he started acting like its a permanent thing, he stayed at friends houses for awhile, then when he had nowhere else to go, ... (109 words

I'm pregnant and worried about losing my scholarship, what should I do?

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am a college student with a scholarship and in december 2012 i will finish my career, but now i'm pregnant. My boyfriend also goes with me to college and decided to support me but I'm very scared about this situation (and about my relationship with him as i'm not sure if he ... (82 words

In an affair with a married woman, her pattern is always the same, but it always hurts.

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14 July 2011 (M age 41-50 - I'm in an emotional affair that is based on sex...lol Well, the affair started with a married woman that I work with. We were both very unhappy sexually at home and those conversations led to us developing a close emotional attachment. I call it an emotional affair because it ... (353 words

What do you think of this tattoo idea?

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14 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - soo i turned 17 in april.. and lately ive been thinking a lot about wanting a tattoo. the problem is my mother will probably nott let me get one. she wont even let me pierce my tongue but has let me pierce my bellybutton when i was 15. the past couple days we have been ... (224 words

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