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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Mixed race woman attracted to a professional white guy.

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21 July 2010 (F)

age - I am a mixed race woman attracted to a professional white guy. this is the first time I have REALLY been attracted to a white guy. I got to know him through my previous job. He was a senior manager and that is where the two way attraction started. I would like to develop ... (221 words)

This married woman wants to leave her husband... FOR MY BOYFRIEND!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years now and during this time he has cheated with many times, but when i do find out he calls off the relationship them but this always happen after lots of fights and tears. Recently i found out he has been with sleeping with a m... (241 words)

How can I emotionally distance myself from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - About a year and a half ago I started talking to someone online, and she quickly became my best friend and for about a year now, we have been roommates. The problem is that even before we moved in together, I have been in love with her. She knows I've had feelings for her... (422 words)

I'm 15 and paranoid about certain things people say to me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hi im 15 and ive been picked on most of my childhood and it realy effects my mind when people call me gay and i know im straight but when im in bed i am paranoid about what people say about me nd i dnt act feminine or anything, i only masturbate to straight porn or women ... (145 words)

Help! What would you do if you were in this long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I’ve been in a LDR for 2 months and I just got back from visiting my significant other last Wednesday. I really like this person otherwise I wouldn't have been going to visit them. I really enjoyed my time spent with them and I told them that. However I didn’t g... (267 words)

How can I let him have my son when he follows a totally different routine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

- I am at my wits end with my ex-boyfriend. We have a 3 month old son but we split up when i was pregnant. I live alone with our son and he lives with his parents. He pays me maintenance each month and we both do our best to raise him. The thing is, my ex thinks that he can just ... (295 words)

What do you think guys... Is it over???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - need some advice! i've been seeing angie, exclusively for 8 months, she is on a rebound from a previous ex, last friday we were having some drinks on her porch. this man from the neighborhood showed up, we are both 40, this guy is 27. well she started digging this guy a lot. ... (232 words)

Health risks when sharing toys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone :) some advice would be much appreciated thanks. my girlfriend and I believe we are ready to get intimate and use toys etc however were wondering about the health risks of sharing toys. I mean we have both had sex ed at school but they never cover same sex rela... (113 words)

He didn't call to give me closure on our relationship...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Today is a month from the day my bf stopped talking to me. He hung up promising to call after a trivial dispute that happens between any two. from that day till today he did not call. I tried to call him, he never answered and when I sent him an SMS asking him to talk to me for ... (193 words)

I can't get aroused with my boyfriend... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I'm 24 and I lost my virginity at 21 with a guy I was with for 5 years. The thing is were not together anymore and I'm with my second bf since him and the problem is I can't seem 2 get aroused sexually with any other man! I mean I really love my bf and I try it just ... (97 words)

He wants to wait to have a baby but I have this nagging ticking time bomb inside me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25, and before we got married I told my husband I wanted to try for a baby.. Well, I got off the pill but we werent trying but if it happened it happened.. Then we discussed after we got married we would try for a baby.. he promised me, we would try then i would track my ... (195 words)

How can I find out whether or not I am bisexual without leaving my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, it's me again. I have a rather confusing question that may need a little help from someone with an open mind, and little prejudice. Lately, I have been highly curious about my bisexual side. I have always had an odd affinity for the female body. I love the ... (151 words)

Bent penis!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi... my bf and i really love each other but he has a penis bent downwards during erection... it pains when he penetrates and we cant try many new positions... wot shud i do?? wot is the solution.. pls help....... (40 words)

Can I sue the Other woman that had a love child with my husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm lost at this time! My husband cheated with the mother of his 1st child. And this other woman got pregnant I come to find out two months before our church wedding that "WE" have been planning for a year. This Aug would of been our two year anni. and celebrating the union ... (206 words)

Dating questions that need answers!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is stupid, but I have a few little questions need answering. 1.If you meet up with a guy for the first time, and he saids hes not disapointed, is that a sign that he might like you? 2.If a guy saids "Hello stranger.", does that mean anything? Does it mean that... (140 words)

How long do you have a break for before its to late to get back together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi me and my partner of 6years decided to have a break 2weeks ago due to him drinking to much he dosnt drink every day maybe 2/3 times a week but when he does he gets totally drunk acts stupid and nasty he only acts like this when he goes out on his own never when hes out with ... (246 words)

Can you have sex with a person for a long time and not feel anything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ? 4 men! Can u really have sex with Some1 4 a long period of time and Amd not have any feelings 4 them?? Whn u have sex with the 3or more times A week and the sex is the best??... (49 words)

My husband's ex lover cannot accept the fact that he came back to his family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My husband I was separated for almost 1yr,now he's back to us w/my two kids.He's involve w/a woman who can't accept the fact that my husband was back to his family.Now she's sending me a lot of malicious pictures of them and e-mails telling what happened to them and even ... (151 words)

My boyfriend is making great efforts to communicate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I have a 10 months relationship with my boyfriend. Recently, I kinda started to push him into being more communicative (sorry, didn't want to make it sound this brutal). He's 25 years old, never had a relationship before, but that's not the cause of his quietness. ... (688 words)

I like him and a part of me thinks I have a chance with him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 17. ok so theres this guy. i've liked him since i've meet him and that was 2 years ago. we've never actually went out and dated, but we have messed around a couple times and stuff like that. and well i have like very very strong feelings for him. he's always on my mind and ... (405 words)

Woman and loving the "BIG ONE"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - A lot of questions on here about penis size, and most women say it's not the size, it's what you do with it, it's the motion of the ocean, bla, bla, bla. BUT, most women at least joke about meeting a guy with a big one. Some women love it. Some can't even do without it. Most ... (146 words)

We got close but now he doesn't call me. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age - I meet some someone eithmonth ago. We had a womderful first date. Then my ex came to pick up some things he left at my apartment. he sneaked into my phone and listened to a voice message from my date. He called my date and made it seem that i was not available. Date ... (155 words)

Is it normal for guys to sleep around after they lose the love of their lives?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for guys to sleep around after they "lose" the love of their lives? Is this "forgivable behaviour" if one were to get back together with them after a three month break up?... (35 words)

Condoms and sex in the shower

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - if you have sex in the shower, will the condom break? Or will it not work all together?... (18 words)

Should I try to contact her or leave well enough alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I hope you can help me with a slight dilema I have. Just over a week ago at work I had to have a medical with one of the occupational health assistants. The problem I have is that the OHA who saw me was very attractive and I could have been reading the signals completely ... (188 words)

Whistling when I talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, i've had braces for like 2 years and i had an underbite, they are working on that now. and now when i talk or say my S's ... my teeth whistle!!! what do i do to get it to go away!?!?!?!?!... (42 words)

What do I bring as gifts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hello guys im not sure how to start however i am going to my boyfriend's country next month which is portugal and is going to be the first time i am going to meet his family. im just not sure what type of presents should i take it to them. i would like to give a present t... (68 words)

My girlfriend wants me to wear makeup and dress up like a woman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, i'm 28 yrs old. During our intimate sessions me try to be innovative to make it fun. Last week my girlfriend made me wear her clothes. We had fun so tried it once again. Now she wants me to wear her lingerie next time and also dress up as a complete woman with make up after ... (72 words)

I can't control my anger towards my husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) age - I can’t control my anger toward my husband and don’t know what to do. When I get angry, I am unable to control my temper, I talk continuously and hurt my husband’s feelings and abuse him a lot verbally. The argument continues until my husband gets real mad and go into sile... (290 words)

My wife cheated on me before we got married.should I divorce her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello there. I have a big problem that i need help to, amy wife cheated on me before we where married. We have being married 5 years, we never had sex before we got married, she was my first and i though i was hers. We have a 2yr old boy.i found out from the guy she slept with ... (184 words)

My ex is coming back into the picture and I don't like him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well like i said before me and this kid have been dating for two months now. and its going good and everything, no problems. but now my ex is coming back into the picture. i dont like him. we dated about four times off and on. and each time was only like a week. so me and ... (281 words)

How can I stop watching hogtied porn?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

21 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi guys i feel so ashamed of myself, is beacuse i always watch porn and i mean not any. i like to watch bondage and hogtied which it makes me feel like doing it and i like to see the girls going through the pain. how can i stop watching hogtied porn? plz help... (57 words)

I really like my boyfriend's friend and don't know what to do about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend, Justin, and I have been dating for almost two months. i really like him but i just met his friend Drew. I felt really attracted to Drew and Drew even treated me better than Justin did. Drew was major flirting with me the whole time and im sad to say i liked ... (115 words)

After three years, why would he call? And lie about it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Last night I got a voicemail message from an ex boyfriend who disappeared on me three years ago. The message said he was "returning this call. Someone called me from this number. Thanks, bye bye." I never called him, and unless the dog has learned to use the phone, he didn't... (75 words)

Will he want to have a relationship when September gets here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been hooking up with this guy for a month or so and the first time we hung out we had amazing sex and since then we've continued to have sex. We've talked about relationships and he said he didn't want to have one over the summer. But once September rolls around do you ... (82 words)

Overactive Sex Drive at My Age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone! So, I've got a little bit of a problem... I'm 16 years old, and I know for a fact that I have an overactive libido. Before, I used to masturbate every day. I've settled down a bit - but that's only because I've become busier and don't have time to do it anymore. ... (225 words)

Friends with the ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i just have a general question. how do you guys feel about your partner being friends with their ex. Would you feel insecure? ... (23 words)

Is my boyfriend a spy or something?! Lol.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't understand my boyfriend of one year. What's going on?! My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, it's been great...until recently. We've been living together for six months, we have a great sex life, do a lot of activities together, and have da... (219 words)

What did I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - "Op Own Title" Just want to start off by saying this is a fabulous website thanks to all that make it that way... the first thing I need to say is I have told this girl I like how I feel she knows we are just friends and I said and stand my this I am fine with being just ... (199 words)

I have never gotten girls I am attracted to to date me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I got to move on in my life and have because I have a date with this other girl but I still think about this girl I have a crush on. what are some things I can do to get over the first girl, I don't want to lose sleep over her and think about her but I want to stay fri... (196 words)

I'm I just the rebound?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 months now and we’re at the stage where we really start to get to know each other. He talks about his ex-girlfriends constantly, whenever we hang out he always brings up at least one of his ex-girlfriends and tells me stories about them ... (213 words)

What does double penetration mean?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

21 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - "OP Own Title" what does double penetration mean? Does it mean to have sex with 2 guys or to have anal and vaginal sex at the same time using your finger or a vibrator? I'm a bit confused.... (38 words)

Trust is broken by myself towards my bridesmaid/best friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - "OP Own Title" trust is broken by myself towards my bridesmaid/best friend. I have none to blame but myself. I'm not out for sympathy or anything because I don't want it or deserve it. my best friend who is also my bridesmaid and who I have know for 8 years went to london ... (532 words)

Is it normal to have an excessive amount of discharge?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I dont know how to put this, so ill try my best. i had a boyfriend for about 10months its been 3months since the breakup, his only ever fingered me his asked for sex but i keep refusing because i promised my mother not till im legal age. i know discharge is normal but i hav... (135 words)

I don't like it when other guys especially older stare at my Girlfriend, and when my GF goes on webcam. how do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - "OP Own Title" Hi , i have a girlfreind and have been with her for almost 7 months , i really do love her and she loves me , i trust her 100% and she trusts me, but there are 2 things i hate about this relationship ,because she has big boobs every guy stares at her even oldmen ... (233 words)

My lazy husband! I feel like a single mom but I'm married!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband is lazy! I work 40hrs a week, take care of our 13 month old daughter, cook, clean, heck I even do yard work, and all he does is work, which I understand he might be tired, but he doesnt help with anything. I feel like I am a single mom, who has to do everything. He ... (121 words)

I just wish I knew why he broke up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating this guy for three weeks and he just broke up with me yesterday by setting his facebook relationship status to not listed. I wrote him a message saying honestly how i felt and i no longer want to talk to him. I just wish i knew why he broke up with me? Should i ask ... (208 words)

Does he like me or not I'm getting mix signals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this lad over a year ago at a sports club, and when we went away on to the annual competition, I realised I really liked him. When we arrived back home, I told him I liked him, and we became very good friends from that point onwards. About November time I asked him out, ... (286 words)

Is it possible for a woman to sexually assualt a man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i have a question and its something that happened to me a while ago that i have never told anyone as i just dont know who to approach about this.... I had been to a gig one night and by chance met an aquaiantance there...whom i get along well with, she had missed the last ... (705 words)

I'm attracted to my wife's cousin.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been married to my wonderful wife for 2 years now and everything has been great up until just over a week ago. My wife's cousin decided to come and visit us for a little over two weeks. When I first saw her I thought she was a moderately attractive person but that was it ... (287 words)

Husband his mom in strange relationship or is it more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i dont quite know how to ask this. my husband and his mother act like their attracted to each other, and possiable more it would take to long for me to explain all the situations as to why i have come to this conclusion of it being a possiability the very thought turns my ... (80 words)

I would never date a man with 'baggage'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and his son is 5 years old, we been seeing each other 5 months. He never told me he had a child till 3 months into our relationship as I had told him, a few times before that I would never date a man with 'baggage' he still decided to see me though and not tell me the ... (340 words)

Would I be accepted in an america college with just my gcse's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everybody i turned 17 a few months ago and when i left school i made the mistake of not following on my education but i am interested in applying for some courses at my local college but unfortunately it looks like i may not be accepted in any of them. also ... (131 words)

How do I get my friend to talk to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, Well i gave a girlfriend who lives 30mins from me and i am only 15. The problem is that she has a terrible mum who wont let her have a social life and that she is upset about something and she wont tell me. I was messenging her about having the best day of her life soon ... (117 words)

My boyfriend's half sister is sexually attracted to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'll try to keep to keep the background story as detailed but short as possible (which isnt gonna work haha). I am from the UK and my boyfriend is German, we're both in our early 20s, met abroad and everything was perfect. When the time came (6months into our relation... (752 words)

I've never felt an intense orgasm with my husband and I can't figure out the reason why!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) age 41-50 - i dont always come with my husband and when i come its not at all intense. i never felt intense orgasm with him. please help... cant figure out the reason... (31 words)

Should I stay because he treats me well or leave and follow my dreams?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone pelase tell me what matters in a relationship? Is it how a person treats you or how fulfilled you are? In short- I am with a man who is very respectful, loyal, puts me first, and is always there for me. He always keeps his promises and has never lied to me. He w... (194 words)

My girlfriend wont come to my sisters wedding or spend any time with my family at all, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'll try and keep this as brief as possible. My sister is getting married next week and my girlfriend of 2 and a half years (maybe more) won't come to my sisters wedding because 'she wont know anyone'. This upsets me a lot, as I'm giving my sister away, and its also off... (259 words)

Am I doing the right thing by leaving him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all My boyfriend is a great guy, but he recently had a secret friendship with a girl that, when I found out, broke my heart, as it felt so deceptive and I have always been honest and straight-up with him and expected the same. We've been plodding along in this relationsh... (316 words)

Why cant he treat me at least as a friend in front of other people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Me and my bf are dating for the past 6 months. We usually talk in phone in daily basis and we work in the same company but different location. I know his friends, they know me too. Whenver i visit his office he bahaves as if he doesnt know me. His friends used to talk to ... (222 words)

Second wife equals second best?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend very much and we are very happy together planning a future - but I can't get it out of my head that he has been married before. I feel like he has done every 'first' with someone else and nothing is new or special to him with me. Its making me more ... (98 words)

I am sure I am bisexual but I only see my future with a man, is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have thought of my self as Bi for a long time, been with males and females in non-sexual ways. But I was thinking it the other day when I was going to ask a female friend out, that even though I am Bi and am comfortable with women. I can't ever see myself with a woman for the ... (86 words)

If I had sex with protection and it broke would I still be able to get pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i havnt had my period for about... 4-5 months now. if i had sex with protection and it broke would i still be able to get pregnant?... (28 words)

Should I finish this? Or give him a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all, I have been seeing a guy for the last two months, and everything has been great up until recently. He was treating me really well, and doing all he could to make me happy, but then we fell out. Now, he is really confusing me. He stopped talking to me for a week, an... (355 words)

Will he want more sex from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - he is my cousins husband and my cousin passed away last year.i know it is sounds stupid,but the whole family knows,cause in my culture,if your sister dies while married,your younger sister takes over were she left off.we had sex for the first time.it was great,i even gave him ... (72 words)

For the men: What makes a woman beautiful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Not advice i'm after just feedback really. What makes a woman beautiful? Thanks... (16 words)

Why do I miss my ex when I'm happy with another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Heya its been something like 3 1/2 years since i broke up with my ex, mary, i have a gf of 2 years who i adore to bits and shes treated me the best a girl ever has so far - no physical abuse, no cheating,shes lazy but she makes me happy even though im happy, why do i... (284 words)

2 guys like me but I'm not sure about either of them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi I'm 17 and i have two boys that like me, they are around my age. one i have known forever we grew up together but his intentions i don't like to much. he wants his first time to be with me. every time he asks i say no or make an excuse. the other i met in high school i don't ... (93 words)

My husband and I have decided to separate, so is it ok to date a co-worker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is: my husband and I have decided to separate in 1 yr, should i consider dating a co-worker i'm very attracted to? See i have been with my husband for 16 1/2 yrs, married for 16 yrs. My husband is in the military, our first yr and half together was great, but w... (332 words)

He waited for a whole month before asking me out on a second date!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - 45 yr. old man asked me (42) out on a date "some day next week" (we work at the same location). He never gave me a specific date up front and I was left hanging for days wondering which date he'd choose, if any. Finally he said Thursday. Took me to a really nice restaurant ... (219 words)

How do I get my best friend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get my best friend back? Ok i definately need help. So my best friends are guys. But one of them is like my other half lately. My family loves him and he is like the perfect guy. I liked him a long time ago but i decided to forget about those feelings. Things have bee... (323 words)

Marriage doomed...because of one sentence

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21 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i think i should be worried. What do you think. Brief history when my wife and i first slept together it was magical. We had strong feelings and were best friends...then her family got a hold of her and we were forced apart for almost two months. When we finally talked again ... (302 words)

My wife never told me of her illness before we married, and she has not been able to perform any duties so far in our marriage so should I consider a separation?

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21 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i have got married 7 months back to a simple girl.ours was an arranged marriage. before marriage she used to have vomiting episodes and when enquired to her parents they told that she has problem of acidity. But after a couple of days of marriage she started vomiting. and after ... (142 words)

Unexplained attraction to motherly types

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm a girl in my late teens and I'm fairly confident I'm straight but I have this weird, pervasive attraction to motherly figures, generally women in their mid twenties to early thirties who are kind and caring (somewhat specific I know). I'm not worried about it or ... (111 words)

Why are my family so abusive to me?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok my family is really abusive to me, my dad especially, he hits me, he chokes me, he insults me, my sister calls me pathetic, useless, worthless, retarted, she has kicked me down the stairs multiple times "and we have 13 of them... it's a long way down" and she hits me with ... (193 words)

Am I wrong for fooling around with my ex because he is still involved with another girl?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I am in a situation wher me and my ex-bf have been back seeing each other for some time now, but when we broke up he meet a new girl so he is still with her! I mean we see each other daily, I go to his house and he comes to mine. We go out together, bring our kids ... (97 words)

Will he laugh at me if I tell him my secret?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a secret, well i went to camp in 3 grade summer, and well we were forced to get a shower with another girl, and well i mean it was a long time ago, but my boyfriend is childish so im scared if i tell him he will laugh at me, but if i dont he will feel like im keeping ... (68 words)

Need tips on better communicating with my wife

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21 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi I am having problems in my relationship.I love my wife of three years but I need to better myself in communicating Does anyone know any good books or good advice I need it Thank you... (38 words)

Why do you think so many people have so many negative things to say about me?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't really a love question. I've heard from several people in my lifetime that 'people don't like me' 'people have unpleasant things to say about me' or 'people dont care for me and if I come up, it's negative' or that 'i talk smack about people and that we shud all... (354 words)

I so am sick of the way my ex treats me and our daughter I am thinking of cutting him out of our lives completely!

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a 7 year old daughter by my ex-boyfriend and we can't just seem to get along. He is very disrespectful towards me i cannot have an adult conversation with him without it turning into a huge argument. i don’t like him at all but i respect him because of my daughter and ... (677 words)

My sister refuses to sleep in her own bed.

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21 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - A couple of months ago, my Mum lost her job, and we had to move into a flat, which only has 2 rooms. This means I'm now sharing a room with my sister whos a year younger than me. We each have a bed, but she will only sleep in mine, and it's really uncomfortable. I asked h... (123 words)

Where Do I Stand? Do I Wait?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically my story begins in school (college). I started dating a guy in February, who had a supposed 'dangerous' reputation for being a 'user' or a 'player'. I received multiple warnings from friends about him, however, when we started seeing each other it seemed as though his ... (622 words)

Is she cheating on me??

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21 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, so right before bed my gf and i text and she tells me shes going to bed usually sleep well and goodnight. 98 percent of the time.. well a couple days ago she was being all " ohh hunny bear, i hope you sleep well xoxo muah etc.. just really lovey dovey stuff out of ... (519 words)

She was intent on holding onto her virginity, now she's trying to lose it

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21 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My best friend isn't acting like herself. As long as I've known her she's thought sex is something you should wait a long time before partaking in with your partner, which was a view I completely supported. We talk about these kind of things all the time and suddenly lately ... (185 words)

My cat is peeing on my couch!! HELP PLEASE!!

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My cat is 2 years old, and he is peeing on my couches.. I just moved so he is a little mad but I want him to stop... What can I do to get him to stop. (He is fixed) ... (40 words)

I don't want him talking to her because she still likes him

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay So my boyfriend We have be going out for a year, he says he loves me and He used to do all kinds of things that I didn't like so I told him to stop and he did, and Now There is this girl she is like his best friend she used to like him and still does an I tolod him that I ... (98 words)

Is my vagina sore because it was rough or another reason?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - it had been a month at th longest since ive had sex, and i just recently had sex on saturday night just gone, it is now wednesday. i have a really sore vagina, like it hurts when i pee, th sex was rough though. is that normal? should i go see the doctor? or just wait it out?... (58 words)

Is there something wrong with me or it?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I fool around almost every time we see each other. He goes down and me and is fantastic! I go down on him and he won't stay hard. He insists that it feels awesome, but his penissays otherwise. He claims to just get really nervous when I go down on him. I've ... (91 words)

Should I come clean about my real age?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi met my boyfriend in class i'm 32 he's 21 we hit off right away studing for test and hangin out at school over spring break i noticed he liked me and he said he did and we started dating. i have already met his family including grandmom and have went to plenty family ... (249 words)

Does a look mean alot?

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21 July 2010 (F) - there is a guy in the area i work in at my job..he is pretty popular in the office and just overall a friendly, cool guy. I am pretty quiet at work and not really a social butterfly at all. I was also going through alot of things so i didn't really have my head together th... (427 words)

Why was he suddenly in a hurry when I rubbed it?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so the other day it was the first time i touched my mans penis and i was surprised i wasnt scared at all. nothing like i thought it was going to be. but after a while of me touching it and rubbing it he moved my hand and sat up quickly and like covered himself. i was just ... (64 words)

Is feeling loved different than someone loving you?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - is feeling loved different to someone loving you? i feel it is but my partner is happy to just tell me he loves me and to him thats him loving me. is he just incapable of connecting with me emotionally and caring how i feel? does this mean he doesnt love me afterall? ... (53 words)

Why does the creep factor go up the older you get?

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21 July 2010 (M)

age - Why is it when a young man craves sex, it's just young a man craving sex. But when that young man gets old and craves sex, he suddenly considered a Dirty Old Man, or even a Sex Addict. Someone help me with this. ... (44 words)

I never feel anything during sex.

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I do not get pleasure from sex. I have been in 3 different relationships with three different guys but each time I felt nothing during sex. Could there be something wrong with me? Its really upsetting and frustrating when you are with someone you care about and then just feel ... (84 words)

Were we not compatible?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - After recently dating this guy, when we broke up one of the reasons he stated was that he felt "I was too comfortable with him" This kindof threw me through a loop b/c I thought it was a breath of fresh air that I was comfortable with him to be myself. I didn't act rudely or ... (149 words)

Is it an affair if it's an LDR with a married man?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it called an illicit affair if you are involved in a long distance relationship with a married man? I never met him but our relationship of 3 yrs are through online chats only. ... (38 words)

My boyfriend said he wanted a break, but how long should I give him?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf has asks for a break a week ago. He said he was too stressed about his college work and family problems. He also said that he is a sucky bf.The reasons are he got no car and no money.We are both college students,so i don't mind whether he is rich anot right now.He s... (223 words)

Is he just scared to tell me how he feels?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't stop crying my eyes out. I just told my boyfriend of 4 months that I love him but he didn't say it back. I thought all the right signs and signals were there that he did and that he was just afraid to say it, so I said it first. Sign 1: I just started a new jo... (514 words)

Could it work between myself and a much older man?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - To make a long story short (or try to) I've known "Will" for maybe six or seven months, he lives five hours away, owns a business and is always busy. We communicated via phone for the first few months after meeting by chance and then, I went to see him. I saw him again a ... (186 words)

What tips can you give me on masturbating??

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I am 16 years of age and am a virgin. It's kind of bad between me and my mum so I was kind of hoping to ask questions here. So my friends gave me ways to masturbate but none of them seem to work for me. Does anyone have any ideas? If so I'm all ears thanks :)... (60 words)

My period is late, could I possibly be pregnant?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex on the 10th of july and i dont use contreception with my fiance...we use withdrawel method, wen he pulled out he didnt do it quick enough and caught just of the inside of my vagina and the rest on my clitoris and groin...i was due on my period 4 days ago, is it to ... (79 words)

My wife possibly had sex with two of my co-workers, should I consider divorcing her?

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21 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hai, well il go straight to the point..i am a christian man raised with morals and i waited to have sex till i married, now 10yrs down the line my wife tells me i was not her first, she had slept with 6 men 2 of which i work in the same company.i asked her when we just started ... (145 words)

He treats me better than my boyfriend, should I switch?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - In summary, I'm a girl, who can't make her own decisions, so I could really use your advice... I've been dating this guy for the past nine months. I really care about him, but our relationship hasn't really been the best. He's been spending all his time at his beach house ... (356 words)

He is overly protective and it bothers me, any suggestions?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys just wanted some opinions! I have been with my new bf for only a few months and most things are going great i feel we have a really good relationship. Only recently tho i have started noticing how protective and jelous he can be. He queations all my male friends... (265 words)

He is not sexually stimulated by me, could he be gay?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known him for a long time and before I knew him properly I heard roomers about him being with a guy once. I asked him about it before we went out and he asured me that 'he was just a kid and confused. He wanted to see who/what he was and he know that now, he's ... (265 words)

Restrictions on the car driving me crazy, what can I do?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18, I have "supposedly" have a car and I say supposedly because to me its not mine unless I can come and go as I please. The thing is my parents(mostly my dad) wont let me visit my boyfriend often. My BF lives about 25 mins away the town right next to mine and its really ... (162 words)

Afraid of losing her, how do I stop worrying??

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend had a rocky beginning where we both had someone else n we got together from that I had told her I would choose her over my ex numerous times but in the beggining I had chose my ex.because she was still with hers at the time. Now 3 months into our ... (294 words)

Told him I loved him, but didn't mean it and took it back. Now I feel weird. What's going on?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a best friend and we've been "twins" for almost all the time we've known each other because we have so much in common. His girlfriend broke up with him a couple of days ago and I was talking to him about it. He was telling me about how his heart was broken and how he ... (439 words)

Should I make contact with a friend of a friend I saw on Facebook? Or is it weird?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - [OP original title] Hi, this sounds very stupid but... My friend lives 200 miles away, and i just went to visit him. Jokingly, i said "Know any hot guys?" he jokingly showed me some of his facebook friends. One was totally gorgeous! Just my type! i happily scrolled thr... (266 words)

Am I doing something to keep men away?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 24 year old woman, and I have no luck with guys. They rarely approach me, and I am kinda shy and afraid of rejection so I dont want to approach them. I have had one real boyfriend, but that relationship did not last long and was disastrous. Some people, usually other ... (88 words)

How can I deal with his crazy ex-girlfriend and her friends?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [OP original title] Hi..ok so I have a problem that I really don't know what to do about. I have been with my boyfriend for about 9 months and we are very happy. There is a problem with his ex girlfriend however. They were together for about 5 years from the ages of 15 to 20... (348 words)

My boyfriend told me he's more attracted to someone else. Should I be worried?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently, my boyfriend told me that he found a girl at his summer job to be more "attractive" than me. I'm thin for my height, and in his words, look more "fragile" than "fit" and "fragile" is not attractive. He also said that she is prettier, but that could be because of her ... (177 words)

I'm insecure about myself and dieting all the time. What can I do?

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old and hate my body. My body image is terrible. It all started 2 years ago, I wasn't fat but I started comparing myself to all my friends. It started to get worse and worse. By the end of 8th grade I had stopped eating breakfast and lunch and only eating a ... (200 words)

In a relationship for 8 months, suddenly he thinks I'm cheating!

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for 8 months now and now all of a sudden my guy thinks i am cheating how do i deal with this?... (28 words)

She's in a "casual" relationship, but I liked her first. Can I ask her out?

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21 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there! I have a question about a girl at work. She's been working here for 2 years or so I believe. Well, to start it out - I grew attracted to her when she started working here. However I never took the initiative to ask her out! We flirted a lot, and I felt she liked ... (262 words)

I'm scared to tell him I like him, how can I without scaring him?

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21 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. I'm gay and I really like this one guy that I hang out with at youth group at our church. We get along really well and we always find something to talk about. I'm going to tell him that I like him, but at the same time I want him to understand that there are no strong ... (171 words)

I want to move in with my boyfriend, but my parents don't approve of us!

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21 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i am currently 17 almost 18 years old and i have secretly been dating by boyfriend for about 10 months now and in a few months i turn 18, and i want to move in with him but my parents dont want us to be together. i have tried talking to them but they keep saying that the ... (353 words)

Question for ladies: Is this letter OK sounding?

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21 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - OK question for ladies..... I've loved this girl for soo long and im moving on. We were really close etc but i kno nothing is gonna happen. Long history which i wont go into but we met up recently and i just feel the need to send this... let me know if its a good idea or not... (137 words)