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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is my first love ultimately "the one?"

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Subject: maybe he is "the one." C and I dated for almost 9 years. Met at 18 in college, love at first sight, and broke up officially last May. I called it quits because I wasn't happy. We spent little time together, he was always busy with one business venture after another and ... (185 words)

What causes me to cum so quickly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 27 years old and when I have sex I tend to cum no more then 5 seconds. I guess I'm looking for a technical way to work on it and maybe a reason why it happens??... (38 words)

What do you guys think? Does he like me or is he just friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so there's this guy i like that's two years older than me- he's a senior (18) and I'm a sophomore (16). I kind of get the vibe that he likes me back and he's just shy, but I'm not 100% sure. Here we go: Well, we know eachother through the high school swim team. He used to... (782 words)

Is it because of him or is it because of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for little over a year now, and we both live in different states. He's a really nice guy and he visits regularly, and we always talk on the phone. Recently he just admitted to me that towards the middle of last year, he went on a trip to a ... (248 words)

Can I be arrested for this? Is it wrong to love your cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid i live in the uk i am having a good relationship with my first cousin, I have been told one of my family will tell the police please tell me if they can do anything i love her so much.... (42 words)

Boyfriend getting divorce and wants to be left alone now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a man for a few months that I have found myself getting very attached to. He filed for divorce in June of 08', but the divorce has not been settled. We have had a great relationship, but he does get very moody at times and "goes into his cave" without ... (364 words)

She assures me she's not with me on the rebound... what do you guys think?

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20 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Soo... ive been hanging out with this girl for a while now and when we started hanging out she had a boyfriend... there was a lot of tension between me and her in which we really like each other and have for a couple years.. and at the same time she was unhappy with her ... (168 words)

I haven't heard from my lover and I'm worried!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age - I have a lover of four months, we have had wonderful times together, not very much contact but he did explain that he forgets, this I can understand as he has a wife and family and its been Christmas etc. However last week he sent me a reply text saying he was sorry he had been ... (202 words)

Last night he told me he had no sexual desire and he did not know if he ever would.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age - I am 70 years old and my boyfriend is 65. We have been dating for 6 years. Sex has been g-r-e-a-t great! We went on a trip in the summer of 2009 and we only had sex twice. Normally, when we go on vacation we have sex every day, or every other day. This time he was ... (185 words)

Should I take the morning after pill?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm wondering if I should take the morning-after pill. My bf and I had sex last night and although the condom didn't break and we didn't notice anything wrong with it, I felt a lot of 'wetness' afterwards. He also said that I was wetter than usual. I'm freaking out that it ... (115 words)

How do I make a guy go nuts in bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am not what you call experienced in bed, I'm shy and body concious around men so I would like to know how I can make a guy go nuts in bed which I think will help my confidence x... (40 words)

Problems with penetration...

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm just married about one month back. My problem is that when my husband starts penetration, i feel intense pain, although i enjoy foreplay a lot but intercourse does not give me pleasure at all. I want to ask if i need time for this or there could be some actual problem. ... (59 words)

Concerned about weight loss...

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20 January 2010 (?) age 36-40 - okay, um... this isn't really a relationship question, but more of a lifestyle question which is really starting to scare me. I'm becoming quite obsessed with weight loss at the moment, and its starting to freak me out. A lot. Just to give you a little mental picture of me, t... (263 words)

My husband seems to have taken a fancy to my breast milk!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 5 years and have a 4 month old son. My husband has always been a "boob man". And could spend hours of forplay on my boobs. Normally it doesn't bother me but lately he has tried a new thing and it worries me. A few weeks ago during sex he ... (263 words)

How can I move on from this horrible experience? It's not fair to the people in my life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last summer i went to a party during which i was forced by a boy of the same age to perform oral sex,i'll admit that i was drunk however i did say no and tried to resist. He was quite forceful when i tried to resist, for example he pushed my head back down when i tried to pull ... (499 words)

Should I go to prom with her and/or ask her out, or just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

20 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, i'm 15 years old, i live in the UK and im in high school. There's this girl im crazy about... but its very complicated, i was in a relationship at the time and i started talking to her, as we hadnt talked for ages, we had known each other since primary school and we were ... (198 words)

How can I curb my flirtation habits?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted a comment about a picture a friend from high school had posted on his page. I commented "grrrr that's sexy" and "nice smile, makes you look sexy" about 3 months ago. Today my boyfriend read my comments and now he is pissed. He feels that everything I have told him is a ... (119 words)

Is this girl he loves ME?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - right i need some help now I have been having a bit of trouble. my ex and me always go back to each other and tell each other that we love each other but we haven`t in a few weeks now. but he has recently put lots of stuff on his facebook to do with love and commented on how... (100 words)

I don't know what I'm doing wrong but I've never been kissed by a girl... Help!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

20 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm 17 years old and I'm a junior in high school. I have never kissed a girl nor have I had a girlfriend. I have no self confidence in myself even though girls tell me I'm cute. I am puerto rican and have guido spiky hair and am 5' 8''. Most of my friends are girls and I ... (208 words)

My best friend is confusing me about our friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend is confusing me about our friendship! It seems like he’s into me and then he’s not? These are the good and bad things he does: Good: • Smiles at me and stares a lot • He always smiles when I touch him • If I make fun of him he just laughs it doesn’t bother hi... (177 words)

Does my girlfriend really love me, or is she just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm in high school. In the beginning of the year I really wanted to have a serious relationship with a girl, and I thought I found her, but now I'm not so sure. My girlfriend and I have been going out for about a month and a half now, she's not a virgin, but I am. Were both 15, ... (460 words)

How do I break the big heave ho to him... gently?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I really need help! I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, I love him very much, but I don't think I'm in love with him anymore. We met in college, when we were 16/17 and everything was great until about 5 months ago. We have both been faithful and tru... (547 words)

How can I be more confident around my maths teacher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay i need help, i have this problem that is bothering me a lot, okay here goes, so i like my maths teacher and when he looks or comes over to me i go all red, and i find it really embarrassing, i keep saying things in my head when hes around to stop myself from getting ... (100 words)

He's not everything I want in a man... and I'm marrying him in a months time!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i am a 27 year old female getting married in a months time. i met this guy a year back and liked him, he proposed to me and we dated for 6 months before saying yes to the marriage. But I am very confused whether to get married or not as i like this guy but he is not a... (148 words)

My long distance relationship girlfriend doesn't want to share he problems with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, so me and my gf have been in a Long distance relationship for about a month and 18 days now, but recently something really strange happened last week. I called and texed her but she didn't reply or call back (which she usually does). i was really worried so i ask... (167 words)

A question for men on attraction...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a question for men. Have you ever found yourself attracted to women that you may not have been attracted to when you first met. Or is the determination set from the moment you meet.... (38 words)

I watched gay porn but I don't think I'm gay.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been having this problem for a few days now. You see I don't want to be gay and honestly I don't think I'm gay (I have nothing against gay people I just don't want to be if you know what I mean) but its become a bit of a problem for me. The first time this happened I ... (157 words)

I would love to make this relationship work, especially after my last one didn't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If you got into a relationship about 1 month after your break up with an ex... you've been in a new one for about 3/4 months... and your committed to making it work JUST BECAUSE your old one didn't and you want this new relationship to be perfect. But your new partner is ... (203 words)

How can I tell her I would love to date her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So i used to be really good friends with this girl, we were the best of friends, we'd talk on the phone every day for hours, would talk on msn all the time and always text each other. I guess through all that i liked her but she always seemed to have a boyfriend and i didnt ... (189 words)

He hurt me on purpose... but I still can't get over him. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1833 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to go out with this guy just over a year ago for 2 weeks, but I broke up with him because there were no feelings from my side. I didn't want to lead him on to like me even more and then get him hurt even more in the future so I left without giving him a reason, we didn't ... (593 words)

I'm desperate to fall pregnant

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am desperate to fall pregnant, so much so that i get so depressed every period i have. i cry all the time and i physically hurt whenever i hold my niece. its got even worse since my fiance's best friend found out his gf is pregnant, it hurt me because they haven't even tried, ... (177 words)

What should I do about this married man setup I have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone! my ugly situation that im facing right now is that im 24 and im dating this married man that is suppossely 34 but, only God knows if he is telling me the truth or not. i have known this man since Sept of 2009 he was a trainer at the gym im goin to and how we got ... (711 words)

Does my science teacher fancy me...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm pretty confused right now.... I'm almost certain that my science teacher sees something About me, or fancies me for some reason. I've been noticing some pretty weird stuff going on between us lately... Anyway, here's some information of what he does- ~When he ... (794 words)

Our wild sex life has gone stale! How can we keep it hot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Any ideas on keeping sex exciting? Me and the better half have hit a bit of a brick wall, we started fast and now have no where to go When we met my other half had not had sex for 3 years and I was just out of a marriage where I hated having sex, so as you can imagine we were ... (120 words)

I found a girl's hair on a cup in my BF's house. Do I have a right to doubt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was over my boyfriend's place , and i found a girl's hair attached or clinging to one of the cups on the table , it got attached with some juice , because it was left for a day or two, my boy friend previously told me that he had friends over before and there were no girls; ... (137 words)

If she slept with him while we were all living together I could never forgive...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i have two friends, a girl and a guy. i fell in love with the girl years ago, recently i told her how i felt but she only wants to stay friends. i've suspected the two friends had been together before we were due to go travelling (via an accidental text)they denied it. i still ... (184 words)

I think my teacher likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi all, ok well everyone says to me that my teacher has a crush on me, but im not sure if this is true? im 15, a girl and she is in her 30s i think. im not sure if this is a coincidence but she always seems to like touch my hand when handing me a sheet, and the other day i ... (210 words)

Why does doggystyle make her hurt?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Why is it that when I put my partner "doggystyle" she says that something bothers her and that it hurts?... (20 words)

What is the most painful thing so far in your life?

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20 January 2010 (F) age - What is the most painful thing so far in your life? After this earthquake, I felt so lucky, even so my life is full of pain. But, I was wondering to ask others, what are the worst things that have happened to you. Like relationships, or parenting, or financial, or health? And ... (127 words)

Their extra contact makes me uncomfortable... am I being unreasonable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I will ask in advance that you please don't judge my relationship because of it's settings, it is a real relationship. I met him online! We have been in an exclusive relationship now for a year and we have visited each other 3 times during this year, so it is like a long ... (842 words)

My angry feelings towards my teacher are coming back after he announced that he's leaving.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I need some advice on my current feelings because they are getting me down, It sounds extermly stupid, but I am currently doing my A2 levels and am studying ICT, and my teacher got married last xmas and i was strangely jealous and thought about what their life would be... (138 words)

We have a good connection, so why hasn't he asked me out yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been chatting to a guy online, text, phone and went out last Sat. We got on really well and he text me afterwards to say he had a great time. He then rang me two nights later and we chatted for about an hour. But he hasn't yet suggested going out again. I am thinking ... (90 words)

After 4 months of marriage, my husband is no longer physically attracted to me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I met almost three years ago. At first the sex was amazing; he was insatiable and couldn't get enough of me. After three months though, he stopped wanting me. I tried lingerie, candles, everything I could think of and yet we still often went two months without ... (448 words)

Jealous of the blonde downstairs who is getting in between me and my man.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this blonde girl I was really jealous of who spends time with my bf and talks to him all the time and it was really bothering me, I recently found conversations between them that were really disgusting and hurt me a lot, she even sent him pictures of her in her ... (118 words)

I'm 18 wks pregnant and my BF is still trying to get me to have an abortion or miscarriage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am 18 years old im 18 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend of 2 yrs is still trying to get me to have an abortion or a miscarriage he said if i love him i would do that for me. mind you dat 1yr ago i had an abortion of havin 2twins 1girl n1 boii - he said he would be there by ... (167 words)

If you fall pregnant while on the pill, would you still have your period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If you fall pregnant while on the pill would you still have your period within the 7 day break even though you're pregnant?... (23 words)

Did sex ruin my friendship of four years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay. A year ago I ended a one year "situation" with a guy who was afraid of commitment. He was so hot and cold, I never knew if he was coming or going or staying...I had to pull the plug on it. If I didn't, chances are we will still be going to the back-and-forth today. Fast... (376 words)

He's supposed to visit me in March and suddenly asks for "a break"? What's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known him since April 2009. Well, we used to know each other when we were kids, but then he moved away and neither of us cared cause we didn't used to like each other. He's 24, I'm 22. Either way, we've been dating for 7 months. He's in the UK. I'm in Canada. I saw him ... (472 words)

How can a girl ask a guy out without looking stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I want to know how a girl can ask a boy out without looking stupid? (I'm talking about a shy guy here!)... (24 words)

I'm so fed up with my life, how can I get out of this rut?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 20, 21 this year. i haven't had much luck with men, im not a virgin but i can still count on my 1 hand. i have trust issues, i dont usually believe any guy if they say they want 2 be with me and im usually right but i have no life, i dont go out i have no job, i still ... (185 words)

I'm burned out! He hits me, chokes me, and flirts and blames it on his drinking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am so sad and confused. I live with Bill and he tells me all the time he loves me but he hits me in the head, chokes me and when we go out he flirts with other females in front of me. One female said he wanted to have sex with her. Bill blames his drinking on his ways but I ... (120 words)

Am I being too protective of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice please. My boyfriend is doing some work somewhere away from me, and I can't see him. I would be with him but my school and education get's in the way :\ But I still talk to him on the phone, msn and facebook. But there is this girl who is writing on his f... (131 words)

I have trouble talking and relating to people...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey all i have this prob that i cant talk to ppl. i mean its not a problem when we are more than 2 ppl. but i always get stuck when theres only one person near me. i was always like this, and always was scared to be in a 1on1 situation. thats why i never asked a girl to ... (180 words)

How can I fix the sexual reaction I have when talking to girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

20 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Hope u wil get me out of the problem which is really daunting me. i am a guy of 30 years age. when ever i used to talk to my girlfriend whether in person or telephonicaly, my penis gets erected and starts secreting sticky fluid in huge quantity conseque... (109 words)

Did I make the right choice by cutting my losses and moving on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age - I am 51 years old and seperated 2 years going through divorce. I became involved with a 49 year old widower. In June of last year. His wife was my friend who died one month earlier. I was extremely reluctant but he pursued me relentlessy with gifts ,love and caring. In Nov. of ... (174 words)

I'm tired of being ignored. Is there anything I can do or say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, i need some advice. I have been living with my partner for nearly 3 years now. I do love him and he says that he loves me but rarely shows it. There is a 21 year age gap between us though i have never noticed it. My problem is that he keeps ignoring me as h... (179 words)

Should I confess everything to my husband?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a wife n a mother. i have been married for the last 5yrs. my husband has gone for offshore job for 2-3 months. last sunday i had sex with my brother-in-law. from that time i am really feeling guilty. should i confess everything to my husband?... (48 words)

I think he's getting back at me for dumping him when he went to prison. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy for about a year when I was 21. He went to prison, and although I tried to keep the connection going, he was going to be gone for 3-4 years and I knew I couldn't handle it, so I severed ties with him (never told him, just stopped taking his calls). When he got o... (740 words)

Bleeding while using the bathroom..sore insides! My bf is going a bit rough on me..help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay my fiance and I fool around alot. We do alot of kinky things. We have not had sex yet though. When he is fingering me or something I think he gets to rough maybe. Because now the my insides kinda hurt it only hurts on one side though. I am hoping it is not a cyst again... (131 words)

He hates me! So tell me... how do I get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a crush on someone who hates me. Hate might be a little strong but he is definately not interested. Yet I still can't stop thinking about him. It is making my life unbearable and I keep asking myself how could you be attracted to someone who dislikes you. Is there a ... (176 words)

His Father's sudden death is causing too much stress in our relationship! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating around 2 and 1/2 years. A few weeks ago his father passed away very suddenly. Not only has this created the normal emotional stress that comes with losing a loved one, it also has brought all sorts of financial problems since his parents did ... (182 words)

How can I stop loving my best friends husband? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age - Where do i start with this one! a brief outline i have been happily with my husband for 19 years and then 2 years ago my boss made advances towards me. i went through a horrific two years with him where i totally lost grip of everything, my husband,kids,money etc. Nothing ... (557 words)

He wants his ex gf back but doesn't want to lose me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've met the guy im with from work, I have liked him for over two months and we have been together for two weeks, I'm normaly a really hard person to get through to as I have low trust in men due to past experiences and I always put up the barrier, but with him my barriers fell ... (239 words)

Not sure if he penetrated! Am I still a virgin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship with a great guy,love him to bits. The problem is we had sex a while ago for the first time and we both said it was our first time. The thing is I had dated another guy (for like 2 years) before going out with the new guy. We did "everything but"... (131 words)

Has anyone else been in my situation and can you offer any support?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey is anyone out there who was a victim of a sexually assault.. as for the past 2weeks i ahve had nightmares about the attacks and wonderd if some1 on here could surport me but private mail on this website?? im strugglein gettin thro eachday without cryin nonstop and its all ... (71 words)

How old do you have to be before age doesn't matter?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

20 January 2010 (M)

- How old do you have to be before age doesnt matter? Im 22years old and i really like a girl who is only 17, 5years is a big difference at this age i think, although she doesnt act or look 17, i feel as though we are the same age but i know when we tell people there will be ... (85 words)

What does he mean when he says I'm in trouble?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I made a silly mistake of having a one week affair with a man on my job. He was the cutest thing I had ever seen. I just wanted to sleep with him and nothing more-especially since he is married 33 yrs. I heard he was a play boy and run through women. I didn't care cause I ... (180 words)

How do I know my boyfriend wont break up with me again for the same reason?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

- My bf's friends dont like me and they treat me like crap. I am not 100% sure why they dont like me, Ive never been mean to them or anything. I think its just they see me as a stereotypical "nerd" who is boring etc and a "goody goody" because I am a christian and they like to ... (222 words)

I cannot carry on for another 20 years like this, what would you do if you were in this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - My husband and I moved to our present home 11 years ago because his job changed. Three months later it changed again and he had to go back and work in the town we had moved from. Since then he has been travelling about 100 miles a day for his job. It has taken a toll on his ... (394 words)

What could this small lump be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, now about a day ago i found a bump on the inside lip of my vagina and it doesnt hurt unless i squeeze it, then when i was just leaning over a mirror to look i also found like a little bubble of blood on the inside right at the entrance of the vagina canal. now im v... (75 words)

Am I being selfish for wanting him to man-up to his family?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over two months now. The only problem is I think he is a little too attached to his family. He is 19 years old, yet he still has a curphew of 11:30 pm, this includes weekends. We also don't get to see each other much outside of ... (186 words)

Is my marriage over for good? How should I deal with the sitution when he wont even speak to his kids?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I got married four years ago through a beautiful church ceremony. a year later we got our first baby who is a boy and last year january had our second baby, a girl. My husband started fooling around with other women a year into the marriage and I begged him to stop but it k... (512 words)

I know I've been played so how do I redeem myself?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - At one time, I was close with this guy. We were constantly in touch, whether it be online, texting, talking on the phone, or meeting up. I tried my hardest not to open up to this guy too much. But I couldn't help but trust him. First we started out just talking. Then one day ... (307 words)

I'm worried I will make the wrong choice and be unhappy forever!

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend for 3 years now that both me and my family love. We've talked about marriage, we spend alot of time together, he's an overall amazing person. The problem is that I had a relationship "vacation relationship back home in Portugal with this guy for about 5 ... (321 words)

What should I do? Continue pursuing Sofia and see where it goes? Or end it with her and tell my friend he can have her?

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20 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well I am in a wee bit of a predicament. So last Friday I met this cute girl at a party and chatted her up. I think we hit it off pretty well, I knew her friend from class. For these purposes, her name will be Sofia. The following night at another party I told one of m... (456 words)

Can anyone shed any light on this infection? Is it bacterial or a yeast infection?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi and thanks to all reply to me =) Today I went to get a pap smear and when I got home I had a message on my answering machine from the doctors office telling me to call them back and so I did and they told me I have a vaginal infection and I could pick up some meds from the... (244 words)

Is it worth staying in this marriage when my husband admits to wanting to have sex with porn stars?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Usually when I read questions about porn the answers state that the men are usually more interested in the acts than the women and 'he wouldnt really want to have sex with them'. However my husband openly admits he wanted to have sex with the porn stars. This hurts me incredib... (65 words)

Can exciting sex and a serious relationship coexist?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Can exciting sex and a serious relationship coexist? There is a story: A country girl is about to marry a rich guy in the city, who she is not really attracted to. She wants to have sex with the rough country boy. The rich guy provides for her financially. The country... (168 words)

Is my boyfriend embarrassed or did he straight up lie to me?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I had sex with my boyfriend the other night and Im not a virgin and he started acting strange and then said he cant do it and I asked him if he came and he said no. It was only like 2 minutes. It seemed like he did but I dont no for sure. Is he embarrased by how long he ... (78 words)

How can you tell if a girl really does love you?

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20 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - how can you tell if a girl really does love you, what are some signs that she may show... (19 words)

How can I ease my nerves so that I feel more comfortable around guys?

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20 January 2010 (?) age 36-40 - When I first meet a guy, I act normal and am fine. But when I start to notice that he likes me or I begin to like him, I turn into this nervous spaz. I feel like some lovesick teenager, even though I am in my 20's. I become this tongue-tied idiot! It's just so embarras... (121 words)

Am I just his rebound relationship?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey so I just have a question. I have been seeing this really sweet guy for about 3 weeks now and I'm just wondering if it could be a rebound realtionship. He just broke off a 4 year relationship(engaged for a year) back in August and he is super sweet, askes me all sorts of ... (108 words)

I'm obsessed with another guy who wants nothing to do with me, how can I forget about him and focus on my boyfriend?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't stop thinking about this guy but I have a boyfriend. My boyfriend knows but still is with me. I want to forget about him because he wants nothing to do with me. If I were to pick between him and my bf I would pick to be with him. So if I can't I would like to stop ... (70 words)

Is it possible to be pregnant from this?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Today my boyfriend and I dry humped. He ended up cumming and we humped for like 15 seconds after he went. He had his boxers on and I had my underwear on. We weren't aware that the tip of penis had slipped right above the elastic of his boxers. He ended up cumming on the ... (130 words)

What helps to get rid of stretch marks?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I was just wondering what would get rid of stretch marks? I have stretch marks due to pregnancy, really bad ones. My belly looks like it has pink Zebra stripes. I've heard Maderma helps them to fade, what else helps them to fade? And in the future what helps to get ... (60 words)

Help with workplace relationships!

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - this is related to workplace r/ships - need advice! sorry it's long. Im a shift worker and can work any shift 7 days a week, I have been working mostly night shift for the past 22 months,with a day shift only once a week. My boss tell me that no more permanent night shi... (287 words)

Does he like me or just too scared to say anything?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy n we are really good friends. Everyone at school thinks he likes me because he flirts wit me all the time. And when its just me and him he will kiss me and stuff. But when people at school or even me ask him if he likes me, he says "no" or "idk". And he's ... (79 words)

Is he too scared to admit he likes me?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - does he like me, and just to scared to admit it? There's this guy who I go to school wit n we are really good friends.when I first started goin to that school he would helop me out n stuff.well now that we no eachother n stuff, when we r at school he flirts with me like cra... (107 words)

Confront now or later, Stay or Go: Boyfriend of 3 yrs found with account on adult social site AFF

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. We met through friends and we fell for each other quickly. I moved in with him about 7 months after we got together. A couple of months the move in we discussed marriage and were both in favor of making the commitment. ... (715 words)

Should I divorce my long distance wife?

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20 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hie.. I just got married about a month ago and I am already thinking about separation. The reason behind it is that i do not think my wife is a good wife. We hhad a history where were were dating for about a year and broke up due to commitmant issues. We recently got bac... (738 words)

Is my wife having an affair with our son's coach?

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20 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - The idea that I am writing this is still odd. I was looking online to find signs of a cheating spouse and I came across this, so here I write. For the last year I have had this growing suspicion that my wife of 13 years has been having an affair. Of course she tells me that it ... (268 words)

Where do you go to meet nice guys?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been single for a while now and so I'm curious about where you would go to meet nice guys? I'm not interested in anyone I work with and I've been going to a few language and dance night classes lately but I haven't met anyone I click with. I've even been trying online ... (107 words)

Any hope for our marriage?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I love this man more then I can tell you. We have been together for almost 20 years. We have had are ups and downs but lately its just bad. He blames me for all the bad going on in our marriage. He recently told me that I was fat and dicussing and to see me naked totally turns ... (271 words)

Should I leave him and start over?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 and I have been with my boyfriend for 2years we have a 10mth old daughter togeather. We have had are ups and downs, I'm haveing truble getting him in the mood. Or he acks like he wants it then turns me down later in the day. I'm getting really upset at him about it ... (161 words)

She cheated, made promises to me and then sent nude pics to another guy...what is her mentality?

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20 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl friend cheated on me we broke up, she made a lot and a lot of promises. She told me and messaged the guy in front of me that they should not meet or contact. Recently I found out that she took photos of herself nude and sent it to the guy. She still calls me c... (167 words)

How do you break up with someone who says they will die without you?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm bisexaul but I lean more towards females, I'm in a relationship that isn't working very well, my girlfriend has cheated on me multiple times and has once gotten pregnant, she told me it was rape. I really want to break up with her but I can't, but she constantly brings m... (228 words)

She textes me and reaches out to me and don't know what to do

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20 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - hi, my girlfriend and i broke up about 3 months ago. she said she loved me but not inlove with me. it seems like all of a sudden over the last month we have been talking or texting . she seem to reach out to me with a text or something. see we had a awesome relationship ... (190 words)

Should I speak to him?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i just found out my first bf i havent dated anyone since because of trust issues he lied. and said we slept together when we didnt. its been over a year since i have spoken to him. im completely over him. a mutual friend jus told me his mother died a horrible death shot by the ... (66 words)

I'm quite daunted by the idea of first time sex.

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20 January 2010 (M) age 36-40 - I'm quite daunted by the idea of first time sex. I'm almost 22 and still a virgin. Not to mention I hear that women prefer men with experience and are quite turned off of having to 'teach' someone at all. I know there may be 'some' that don't mind, but that's not the view I'm ... (144 words)

Is it normal to fantasise about 15-17 year old males?? 13-17 year old only please

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so i am a 13 year old girl but i only fantasise about 15-17 year olds is that a problem or not i really need to know bc i dont like people younger than me or around my age they aren't very mature ive never dated some one younger or around my age before is that also a problem?? ... (64 words)

Is he... or isn't he an arsehole like my friends say?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm with this guy and he's got a reputation of being a player, he cheated on his current ex who is my homegirl but he says he changed the game for me, some people are starting to see the change and others still thank of him as a straight up asshole and I've already been ... (82 words)

My boyfriend's dad calls to much, how to control my irritated anger towards my boyfriend?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is he in the relationship with me or his dad dating us too? what can I do to stop me from getting so angry when his dad calls? ;I feel his dad calls to much and I know they have a close relationship and recently his dad found out he has cancer but It frustrates me on how much... (797 words)

Don't fall for me because I don't want you to get hurt... wtf???

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - the guy i been with for the last four months comes to my house ever weekend and sleeps over he gets along with my family really good and enjoys being here, he makes me smile and treats me good but one day we were talking about our feelings he said do not fall for me because i ... (70 words)

What are some useful tips to help becomes friends with your ex when you guys break up?

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20 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - What are some useful tips to help becomes friends with your ex when you guys break up?... (17 words)