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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he interested or just keeping me hanging?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex split up with me 2 months ago. I didnt want it to end but he felt we were fighting too much and needed to not live together anymore. I wanted to work on things and he agreed to date but us live apart for a while and work on our problems, but after the initial two weeks ... (389 words)

Is my mom in a bad relationship? or am I just too sensitive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having trouble deciding if my mom is in a bad relationship or I'm just too sensitive. She started seeing this guy Tim last year and at first he seemed okay. Kind of loud and rude, but fine. I never liked him much but he seemed to make her happy. At the beginning of ... (480 words)

I'm not sure if I want this anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs but not sure if its what i want anymore im so confused i just dont no how to feel about him. He doesnt really show me any affection unless i ask and sex is a very sore subject to approach to him because every time i do, it makes him feel ... (360 words)

Should I just be patient and give him more time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - my ex and i have been recently talking-0---i reached out a year later (he ended it but our problems didn't consist of anything that couldnt be changed)b/c i still had feelings and took a chance..well basically he said he can't just jump back to this which i agreed with and he ... (351 words)

Should I go ahead and ask her to be my girlfriend even though she doesn't want a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - so i have been seeing this girl for about a month now. i feel we are really well together. i couldn't be any happier and i want her to be my girlfriend. but she just got out of a relationship where she had been cheated on and has told me that she doesnt really want a boyfriend. ... (109 words)

Why do I always seem to want sex when I'm a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Why do I always seem to be wanting sex even though I am a virgin? When I was grinding with a guy and I felt his boner I was about to explode, why? And another guy that I was grinding with had his hands by my bladder a little lower and that made me want to be all over him, why?... (61 words)

Will a DWI prevent me from having a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've got a bit of a problem. Over the weekend I was arrested for a DWI and had my car impounded, and I probably won't be driving for about a year. I am single and really worried that this is going to prevent me from finding a girlfriend. There are a few girls that I've been ... (207 words)

It doesn't seem like a proper relationship anymore. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 years and we now live together and have been living together since March. We were both so excited at first but now my feelings have started to change. We don't argue or anything like that but I see him now more as my best ... (154 words)

What is the theory on being friends with exes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm looking for some advice on being friends with ex's. I've gotten some great answers here to other relationship questions. The girl I'm seeing wants me to commit to her in a relationship, but she told me that she still keeps things from every ex boyfriend of hers. She said ... (96 words)

How can I resurrect my marriage when I don't feel the same about my wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

19 October 2009 (M)

age - I have not had sex with my wife for over 6 years. I have been unfaithful over the past three years. I had been meaning to talk to my wife for a long time about all the problems in my marriage e.g. Lack of sex, differences of opinions about how to handle the children (especially ... (712 words)

When will this explode?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife is actively searching for a new exciting relationship with men, so she said to me. She denies looking for sex or having ever cheated in the past. I honestly believe she has not cheated. She is a sexy young women who attracts alot of attention. Anybody have experience in ... (77 words)

He shows a blatant disregard for my feelings. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I were having sex and i just wasn't in the mood I asked him could we stop repeatedly but he just pretended like he didn't hear me. I started to think how wrong it was that he wasn't listening to me and started crying, then he got really mad and stormed off and ... (160 words)

What do girls look for in a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Simple questions to the girls. Pls, consider you re lookin for a bf. And what are the features you ll be lookin for. Everything as a whole,what you girls look for when looking for a boyfriend.put everything you feel like you need in a boy friend. So,pls answer me. So,that i ... (56 words)

Hmmm...is he interested or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have known this one guy for about two months. he and i go to the same college. I took the iniative and have been texxting him for a while now. Two days ago, he decided to stop texting and called me directly instead. I like him from the start and my feelings are growing for ... (112 words)

Am I the only pregnant woman living apart from her significant other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help me. My fiances family kicked me out of there house cause I got laid off. They say I can come back after I get a job but I'm pregnant and don't think ill have much luck in it. Also my fiance told me if I ever got kicked out that he would come with me but he didn't cause he ... (163 words)

I miss who "we" were. Is there any way to get it back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend and I used to always joke around that we were soul mates. And for a while, I believed it. But as time progressed, she started to get really into partying and drinking, and I cannot tolerate it at all. I feel like we're becoming two different people very rapidly.... (121 words)

Is a relaxed state of mind optimum for having a vaginal orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been told that having a relaxed state of mind is optimum for having a vaginal orgasm however i struggle to focus on anything other than cumming and how long its taking me, if he's enjoying it, if he's getting bored... Does anyone have any tips as to how to achive and main... (61 words)

Uneasy feelings about his ex are resurfacing again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok...I'm feeling very upset, frustrated, confused etc. I've been with this man for a year. We have broken up several times (for an hour or two - once even for over night). No we are not young, however his not use to being in a relationship where you properly communicate, ... (342 words)

I'm tired of being the sweet, pretty lady. Can you help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help.im breaking down slowly inside.this whole year has been totally rough for me.my love life is just pathetic.im a beautiful lady with a beautiful heart and great sense of humor.im giving but all i receive is heartache.ive been broken so hard that im starting 2 not ... (86 words)

Do you think its important to know about your partner's past sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Im 18 years old. I have been sleeping with my bf for almost a year now. The first time We did it (which was dumb on MY behalf), and everytime after that, we did it unprotected. He's a lot older then me..31. And has a 4 year old daughter. We have never talked about each ... (115 words)

How can I make this marriage work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I hope to get a female perspective on my wife's ideas. Our relationship has been very stormy for a few months. Such as: she stopped wearing her ring, says she doesn't want to be married, wants to talk to guy's on the phone in total privacy, is interested in someone(last ... (302 words)

Should I convert to Christianity for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi dear cupid. I need help again. I broke up with my boyfriend for one week but now we get back together again.(we're long distantance) We broke up, because of his family. And I told him if he stop listen to his family and move on with me (just me and him) then we can live ... (179 words)

I've liked him for several years! What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy for along time. We are both really shy. He may or may not like me. My preachers daughter works with him and she asked him if he knew who I was he said yes with a smile. His mom and uncle know my mom. His uncle always talks to me when I walk my dog and he ... (141 words)

Can little lies lead to bigger lies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I just started dating this guy, and I'm noticing some strange little consistencies that I think maybe I'm being over sensitive about. However I feel like I need to address them. First of all, when we started seeing each other, I asked him if he had an online messaging... (479 words)

She deleted me off her contact list. What's wrong with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

19 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well when my ex found out i had a girlfriend she was suprised and started asking me when i went out with her and that she wanted a picture of her then she kept calling and texting me all the time and most of the time i didnt answer her back and she thought i changed my number. ... (312 words)

Moral beliefs on fantasies?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering what people think about this one. I feel that if you're in a relationship with someone, you shouldn't fantasise/masturbate over someone else. To me, at that moment in time you're choosing to be with (think of) someone other than your partner. It may not... (461 words)

I was about to tell him I love him but now I can't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have finally come to realise that I don't just fancy him anymore. This weekend i thought about him so much and i think he is the first ever boy i have truly loved and cared about. The problem is.. he just doesn't know. It started out last year.. he became popular and the ... (249 words)

Can anyone please shed light on what the hell is going on with this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - For the best part of 2 years, I have been seeing my boyfriend most weekends, as he lives 60 miles away. To give you a bit of background: We had been living together previously in the same town for about a year and a half in what was a very intense relationship. He was, at ... (1507 words)

I snooped and found emails to different exes. Should I try and forget about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My. Boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years. It has had it's ups and downs but we have been getting along very well lately. I recently snooped on his computer even though I know I shouldn't have. But there were a bunch of messagages from old girl friends. One ... (168 words)

He says he likes me but won't take me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if I want to change or should I say I'm not sure how to. I am in my late twenties and have no friends, except this one girl who obviously wants to be my friend but everytime we go out I justthink I would rather be at home watching TV. I have no interests, I ba... (252 words)

How can I experience female ejaculation during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so i've always wondered, what is the best most effective way to have a squirting experience while having sex? i would love a detailed step by step or as close as i can get to it...... (36 words)

Is he really interested, or just playing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy is confusing me. We have worked together for two years, we have always got on and swapped mobile numbers, we text now and then not all the time, we have kissed quite intense, he has never asked me out although I have dropped hints a few times but then decided he ... (163 words)

How can I please him and make it look like I know what I'm doing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - its been a year since i last had sex , and i think ive found the one now , the thing is im a bit nervous, with my ex who i lost my virgnity to we only ever did the missionary position , he wasnt very passionate and we only had sex a few times, i dont know what my new man is e... (82 words)

Is my husband's deception entirely unfair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I am so much in trouble that i don't know what to do. I am 26 years old woman married to a man who has now broke my heart.We have been married for 3 and half years and have 2 kids together.Everything has been ok for us, he has always been a good father and husband.... (348 words)

Why does he go soft during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband been together for 4 years, our sex life has been very good.but up to now when he foreplays and oral sex, and touches me, he gets really hard but when we start having sex he gets soft in the middle of having it.i get upset because i feel unattractive or im not ... (90 words)

Did he lose interest after our first date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We had our first date..now what? It went well (from my standpoint) and I enjoyed it! We had talked a lot before the date and both expressed a big interest in each other before the date. We both said that after the date we would discuss where we wanted to take things. For p... (257 words)

Is anal sex safe while on my period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When i get my period,my husband likes to do anal sex.is it safe to do it ocassionally?... (17 words)

How do I get over the tattoo he has dedicated to his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my boyfriend for about four years now. Our relationship is not bad. I just can't seem to get over the fact that he has a tatoo dedicated to his ex on his stomach. Its her name and her eyes. It drives me crazy. I wish I could do something about it. How do I ... (72 words)

Does this man have any feelings for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I am new to this so please be nice. ;) There is a divorced, older man (in his 30's somewhere) with kids I am interested in and have been before I even knew him. But I have known him for a few weeks already and I am not sure if he is interested in me. I have also ... (355 words)

I can't stop thinking about her, but I can't have her. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

19 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am in my senior year in school. i have my final examination in a few months time-the results of which will exclusively determine which college I get into, my career and my life. hence, it is needless to say i have to really focus on my studies. but since the past few months i ... (110 words)

How do I show him my love without being overbearing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf is in the srmy and he has been army an has been over seas for the last 6 months. We have been aprt when he did training and such but this is his first time over seas, He will be coming home in 6 days (I can hardly wait). but at the same time I am nervous, I am excpeting ... (116 words)

I feel as though I've lost my morals...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate who i am becoming and i can't stop myself. I used to be the classy girl with a lot of respect for herself, but in a month and a little it has changed. I lost my virginity three years ago now and in the space of three years i had only slept with two men whom both i was in... (192 words)

Did he marry me for love? Or was it out of lonliness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Hey all, i have been married for just over a year now and my husband married me a few monthes after his mum died and his dad also died about two years before his mum. I have been a bit unsure about whether or not he married me for love or because he was feeling he had n... (193 words)

Is she faking it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - is this even possible because ive read alot of places that its not yet my gf seems to have 3+ orgasm just of vaginal sex? is she faking it? ... (29 words)

My parents are very stricked...how do I tell them I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I am 21 yrs old and my boyfriend is 22 yrs old, We have been dating since I was 15. For some reason my dad never really liked him even though he is really nice and sweet to me. My parents are very stricked and have always told me that I better not disappointment ... (92 words)

Why marriage?...in fact...why love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Reading through pages and pages of questions on dating, love and marriage i just see the huge amount relating to affairs (both mentally and physically), being in love with someone whilst married (perhaps even with children), obsessing over a married person, divorce...etc. the ... (220 words)

By cutting him off, will he realize what he is walking away from?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) age 41-50 - My husband walked out on me and our 2 children 3 months ago for another woman at work who is 17 years younger than him. We have been married for 9 years and together for 13. I have tried everything I can to try and win him back and I know he is feeling incredibly guilty for ... (315 words)

I want to sleep with my girl friend...how can I convince my husband to share?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 14 years to a wonderful man that I am very much in love with. However after I got married I realized that I was bisexual. About ten years ago I had a girlfriend that he knew about and I loved her very much. At that time he was very accepting of it. We ... (150 words)

Could he have recorded me on skype?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am wondering whether anyone knows whether when on Skype the other person viewing a video recording can record you to look at later on etc. I met a guy on Oasis at the beginning of this year who has been harassing me for the last week to get on Skype to perform anal sex for ... (248 words)

Married and falling for a married coworker...can I sleep with him to get him out of my system?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 33 and hapily married, with one child. I love my husband very much; he is a wonderful man. I have started a new job at the beginning of the year where I met this man. He is 39 and also married. His wife works at the same place. A couple of months ago we confessed ... (467 words)

Am I pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been sleeping with my boyfriend for a little while now, we always always use condoms as neither of us are that stupid not too. i have recently had an appointment with the doctor as i found out i had a water and kidney infection, although i was meant to come on my period a ... (122 words)

Should I leave it a few months and try again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey there. just though id give a follow up on the last question i asked. dearcupid.org/question/she-said-she-wants-3-days-to-decide.html i gave my girlfried the space she asked for and then a further 2 weeks to clear the air. we agreed that once the 2 weeks had pas... (361 words)

He say's his saying bad things is training to see if I can be his wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm worried,me and my fiance are born again christian and we have been together for ten months now.at first we were fine with each other and and loved one another so much,but these days he becomes too hard on me,he is every day quarraling and says bad things to me.i use to ask ... (111 words)

Can my abusive ex be any different second time around?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

- My abusive ex bf wants me back. But I dont understand why. The reason he dumped me in the first place was because I wouldn't let him control and abuse me, I would stand up for myself. So why would he want me back if I stood up for myself? Does he somehow think that he will be ... (78 words)

Why did he want me to move in when everything I does annoys him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been in a relationship for 3 years, he has asked me to move in with him, which is great but since then he has changed towards me. he talks to me like I am a child I feel like I am being told off constantly, I don't do that right I don't do this right, I had better ... (149 words)

She doesn't remember what she did when drunk - or does she?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I moved into a new flat a few months with two girls who were friends of my friend. i got a crush on one of the girls and then a month ago me, her and one of our friends got drunk and kissed her and touched her boobs but we couldn't do much. Afterwards we just joked about so I ... (287 words)

How do I 'move in for the kiss'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This may sound stupid, or a waste of time but, ive been going out with a girl for almost 2 months now, im really into her, the thing is im not sure how to move forward because we have only really just been taking it easy, hugs, pecks all that stuff, nothing major yet. I am... (120 words)

My parents are violent. Am I making a mountain out of a molehill?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I had a heated argument with my mum, which ended with me smashing a plate on the floor (which I shouldn't have done) and her hitting me repeatedly and screaming at me. She shrieked at me to clean up the mess, which I started to do but then when she started to call me ... (279 words)

Could Clarice be threatening our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I found something on my boyfriend's phone that has really been bothering me yesterday. I need some advice as to how I can get over this, or if I should trust him, or if I should just move on. I hung out with my boyfriend over sweetest day weekend and we had a good time. Sunda... (437 words)

I am scared to break up with my boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend on and off since high school, almost 4 years. He is a year older then me. We are both our the only people we have ever dated and our first loves. He used to hook up with a lot of different girls before he met me. Our first year together was amaz... (333 words)

Shall I stick around and hope he fancies me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - basically this guy i like liked me a couple of weeks ago round about august time, my best friend knew i liked him and she knew he liked me back, i only found this out after he went to a party and kissed another girl. i am really upset, i don't know what to do. he isnt dating ... (264 words)

Why is my b/f allowed to look at this kind of stuff and I'm not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an insecure teenage girl. Sounds like the typical teenager but even my friends think my insecurities are weird. The thing is, lately my boyfriend of 7months has been asking to by ZOO magazines [a 'car mag' with spreadsheets and pages upon pages of half-naked girls with ... (391 words)

How do I tell b/f I'm moving and he can't come?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Its a long story... I met my boyfriend over a chat site on my phone [via bigpond]. After a few days we got together. It was a long, looong distance relationship. I live in the Darling Downs of Queensland and he lived in Hobart, Tasmania. We talked on the phone EVERYDAY for the ... (385 words)

I have two boyfriends! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently in a relationship with my boyfriend which shall be named as K for 9 months now, the love for him seem to be fading . and i have feelings for someone else , M . K does treat me well and all but .. his job is in the middle of everything because he works as a sailor ... (185 words)

What does it mean when someone send you two blank text messages?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when someone send you two blank text messages?... (12 words)

How do I get her to trust that I won't hurt her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

19 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have liked this girl for nearly my entire life but up until recently didn't have the nerve to do anything about it. So was friends with her off and on, sometimes i couldn't stand seeing her with guys so we just sorta drifted apart. Just sort of sat back and let time go by as ... (761 words)

I really like this guy but he is shorter then me!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm currently finishing my last few weeks of high school and just very recently I've been falling for this guy. He's so adorable, cute and kind, but, he's shorter than me! He's heaps shorter than me actually, yet, he's still older. I don't know if I should keep pers... (89 words)

Does my boyfriend have herpes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some advice about std's. I was tested for all std's late july and all my test came back fine. Mid August I started dating this man and we soon became sexully active. About a week ago he found a few small red bumps on his penis. What do you think this is? He has no fever ... (97 words)

What do teenage girls whisper with each other about?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, can only teenage girls answer this please. I'm just wondering what you talk about when your go into circles and whisper.... It intemidates my friends and I lol so just wondering. ... (33 words)

I just don't see any hope of meeting anyone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm severely depressed. I just broke up with my boyfriend, and I just don't see any hope of meeting anyone else. My whole routine has completely changed I rarely go out I simply stay in my apartment all day, I've tried to go out once or twice but the sight of my friends with ... (126 words)

How can I tell if hes telling the truth about not wanting to be with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my boyfriend and i have been on and off for about a year now. he has and ex gf who he was with for a year but that was 2 years from now. we are living together at his moms and she still calls him and wants to hang out and normally he would say no. but last night we went ... (169 words)

Is it heathy for us to get bakc together?

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19 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Here's my situation....broke up with my ex over 5 years ago. I've dated a lot since then, but nothing even remotely serious. We've been hanging out again for a few months...I'm almost 30 and I realize that if I get involved now...it means long term committment and marriage ... (136 words)

I want to have longer conversations with him. How?

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19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this boy in one of my classes. (I'm a junior in high school.) He is very funny, very very attractive, and not to mention - NICE! He's got it all. We ever share a few common interests. We've had casual conversations before, never lasting more than two minutes, and ... (126 words)

Is it possible to fall back in love again?

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19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it possible to fall back in love again, when fallen out of love whatever the circumstances? is there any hope at all? i would really appreciate the advice, or and comments, thanks.... (33 words)

How do I get over a cheater and end it for good?

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19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - To make a long story short, my boyfriend of 4 years is a habitual cheater. I have kicked him out of our home after discovering another affair, but I still find myself thinking of him and wanting to work things out. We remain in contact via phone calls and text messages, and ... (185 words)

My boyfriend carries around naked pictures of his exes!

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19 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 10 months, but we worked together for a year n a half prior ... Has a lunchbox full of nude pics of himself w/ him, exes end , exwife. They are all very tiny and apparently very comfortable w/ themselves. I believe that he loves me and may one day want to marry me, but ... (109 words)

Why can't I be happy and content with my life?

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19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's my main question: **Why can't I be happy and content with my life as it is, and not wonder about the possibility of things working out with my ex from so long ago?** I had a relationship that lasted for about 3 years...over four years ago. We broke up due to so... (558 words)

What are my options?

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19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Not a relationship question, but just wondering what my options are. When I started college I was a bright, motivated young woman. I wanted to learn. I wanted to do things. Now I have trouble getting myself to do things sometimes. I just feel unmotivated. Sometimes I care, ... (306 words)

I like him but I am not physically attracted to him. What do I do?

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19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i really like my best friend he's a guy lol and the only problem is that there is almost no physical attraction. i mean i love himm and his ways but there's not physical attraction and idk what to do??... (41 words)

My bestfriend or my boyfriend?

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19 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy that I've liked for a while finally asked me out. The only two problems are that my bestfriend likes him too, and even went out with him but she broke up with him a few months ago and has been seeing other people. Also, he's my first boyfriend but I'm not his first ... (93 words)

Are glass dildos user friendly?

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19 October 2009 (M)

age - hi my wife like sex toys and i have been looking at the glass dildo and anyone got any comments on them and what the bst kind... (30 words)

I think I need some reassurance here or just anyones idea

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19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 18 years old Throughout my life i have been through some sh***y relationships and broke up with my last boyfriend because he cheated on me I have gotten to the point now where i just want to lose my virginity (hopefully with someone i know). I know this is prob the wr... (146 words)

My boyfriend has a rather strong musk coming from his private area.

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19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a rather strong musk coming from his private area. It is quite potent. I have tried to get used to it but its just...really strong (as I have said before). Is there anything I can do to mask the smell? Will cologne help? Is it wise to put cologne down there? I ... (70 words)

Possible hooker interest?

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19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently was using the internet on my boyfriends phone and saw history of looking up local prostitutes and hookers. it caused a huge fight between us since he swore and will deny forever the fact that it wasn't him but i still don't beleive him. his close friends have used ... (100 words)

I want him to give in to me once in a while and not just yell at me when I ask him for a favor.

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19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. I love him with all my heart but in every case whether it be fights or what he wants, I have given in to him. I want him to give in to me once in a while and not just yell at me when I ask him for a favor. I know he's ... (219 words)

I'm so confused by this guy's behaviour towards me...

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19 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so confused by this guy's behaviour towards me... Of course, I like him which is why I can't work out what's going on! We've been hanging out together and going on dates for months now and he still doesn't seem to want things to get more serious. I'm not quite sure what to ... (115 words)

Me and my ex just got back together and I don't think she wants to be with me.

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19 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex just got back together and i dont know what it is but i dont think she wants to be with me. Two times when i ask her for us to go out she tells me lets just be friends. I ask her y and she says cause she dont like going out she would rather be at her house. I dont ... (208 words)

If a friend asked you to follow their woman for them would you?

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19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - would you stalk someones partner/ex partner for them for money?If it was a friend or relative would you stalk them for free?Would you stalk a complete stranger for someone for money-would you stalk someone for fun-I need to know what percentage of the general public would do ... (52 words)

I just broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. Now I like his best friend.

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19 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I just broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. Now i like his best friend. I want to ask him to our halloween dance but i dont know how. can anyone help.... (33 words)

I am in love with my manager who is 12 years older than me!

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19 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need big time help. I am in love with my manager who is 12 years older than me. When I first got the job this june i thought he was around 19 or 20 and he showed great interest in me thinking that i was at least 18 years old although i was 16. After awhile a mutual ... (222 words)