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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Twice I had unprotected sex. Am I pregnant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

5 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - help! ok soo me and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago. but just last weekend, i slept over and we had unprotected sex twice that night and again in the morning. i usually get my period from the 10th to the 12th of each month. its the 5th now. soo when we had sex was about 6 ... (256 words)

How can I forget the emotional abuse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i met this guy off the internet 9 years ago. we chatted online and e-mailed each other for about a year. he would say sweet romantic things to me, and i thought he loved me. we went on a date, and had an argument about money. he stood me up for our second date. anyway, i called... (200 words)

Should I ask about this 'business' trip?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age - My husband and his good friend (male) spent a weekend away from home for business/fun. Shortly after I got an anonymous phone message suggesting my husband had a female with him. His work is extremely busy right now which I figured is the reason for his stress and distantn... (110 words)

Does he want more than friends with benefits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is a bit of a story but i'll try and keep it brief as poss! Basically, over the weekend I had my 18th birthday party, and obviously there was quite a bit of drinking involved. One of the people there was this guy G, who I have had a friends-with-benefits thing with in ... (424 words)

How can I make sure my asshole is completely clean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im guna try anal soon and i know this is really gross but how cn i make sure my asshole is completely clean?... (23 words)

Permanently dehydrated...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well this isnt really relationshippy, but i need help. I'm pernamently dehydrated, and i have some sort of mental block in me that makes me hate to drink. i refuse to drink tap water and am allergic to most juices, and i can only drink from small bottles with sports caps. i ... (150 words)

Falling for my husband's cousin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married to a wonderful person.I was having a very normal life until my husband's cousin's brother joined us for a vacation. He slowly started talking to me about his love life and lot more about his personal life but we both never crossed the limits in any ways. He cam... (127 words)

What is wrong with teacher/student relatonships?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - what's the big taboo with student teacher relationships? I know there's all this stuff about peadophillia, but why does it HAVE to be reported? And does anyone know how teachers react, like what do they say to a student who has just admitted to liking them? In Ireland, an... (114 words)

Is she really that busy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been exchanging emails with this girl. She has written twice that she is sorry it took couple of days to reply to my email, but she first mistakingly thought that she had replied me and only later realized she hadn't. Do you think it's possible to really think you have... (261 words)

Has he fallen out of love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I’ve been dating a boy named Coletun for nearly a month. When he first asked me out I told him yes, but then wasn’t quite sure. I was afraid I might have just been saying yes to him because he was the only good guy who had asked me out and I was trying to get over a ‘crush.’ ... (1234 words)

Drunken mistake won't leave me alone...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy i did stuff with while drunk keeps trying to contact me through facebook, but he was just a DISGUSTING mistake and I really don't want to have anything to do with him... How can I reject him without seeming like a bit of a b****?... (48 words)

Does he still love me? And why is he ignoring me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with this guy for a year and we both loved one another very much. But there was a lot of struggles we had to go through to be together and we both got tired of it so we decided that we should just stop for a while. Well... after that I text him telling him I was sorry ... (158 words)

Will I know if he is in love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am confused by my boyfriend of five months who avoids the elusive : "I Love you" words. He phones and texts me four times day we see each other every day and he is loving and affectionate. The trouble is I would love to know what he really feels inside... he said that "I ... (94 words)

How can I stop feeling inferior to people all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Its forever since I've been facing this problem. I'm actually pretty low on self esteem and confidence. I'm pretty, good with my subject and good at things which I have pursued. Whenever I think of the things I have accomplished I feel good but when I step out of the house, ... (255 words)

My best friend is dating my ex who I still love... what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to know what to do... my friend well "best friend" and i have been bickering back and forth for a while now over dumb things.... lately the reasons we've been fighting because every time i just break up with a guy she goes and asks him out then the net day keeps talking ... (250 words)

I might want more... Eventually

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. Well straight to the point. I've been talkin dirty over the net to this guy i've known for quite a long time. We've been good mates for a couple of years now. So, We're planning to get down and dirty, sometime soon in the future. But i actually think i could eventuall... (220 words)

Why, if she cares for me, does she insist on me earning as much as I can and accept the benefits that it brings, and yet despise me for it?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I work so hard at my job because we need the money. My gf wants us to buy a larger place with some land and outbuildings etc so I feel I have to work as hard as I can. On the other side my gf will not get a paid job. She says that she already has a job. This job is her ... (816 words)

I was too clingy and my girlfriend has drifted. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'am whit this girl for about a month now,(this is my first relationship by the way), at first it was great we were totally over each other and I could see that she is attracted to me, but I was too clingy and followed her wherever she went and as a result I see that she... (69 words)

Is it possible for a woman to fall in love after spending only 3 intimate weekends together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Is it possible for a woman to fall in love after spending only 3 intimate weekends together? We are both divorced and single. We both have kids that are grown and on their own, so in that aspect there is no problem. Even if they were small or "young" it would not be an issue. ... (296 words)

Why does he not respond? Does he need space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The guy I am dating had a birthday and I text him happy birthday and something nice at the late evening, on that day and the day after in the morning I text him happy good morning and happy birthday and some very nice sentences about that, he is the only one I like. I wrote ... (431 words)

Can you get a urinary tract infection from anal sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Can u get a uranary track infection from anal sex?... (10 words)

2 questions: My little brother searches for porn and I don't have my period yet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - [MODERATOR NOTE: The same (13 year-old) poster has presented two questions, which has been combined into one post.] ok my little brother is on youtube serching on sex and i know cause i checked the search on my laptop what shold i do??? Also, why havent i got my peirod yet ev... (113 words)

I can't tell if he's just not interested or if he really is busy. Do I respond or just let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy about 3 weeks ago and we went out and we had what I thought was a great date. So great in fact we decided to go out the next night as well, which in retrospect was probably not a smart move. Then he just didn't call me or anything. I left it for about five ... (151 words)

I'm worried! Is this an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay this is wierd!..but when having oral sex, and the guy is fingering a girl, and she tells him too stop, and he smiles and says i could feel that thing a jumpin, but he talks about having sex again, the next night...is that bad? Like should the girl be scared if he told a ... (83 words)

How can I show my ex-friend I am happy without him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have an ex-friend who I kinda dislike. But today I felt upset because he was with other people and I felt lonely and like I had nobody. I do have my own friends but I feel alone too sometimes. I want to show him that I'm happy with not being his friend. I do not want to go ... (151 words)

Is it normal to prefer sex during the first days of menstruation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age - I am curious. My wife tells me that she is most interested in Sex about the 3rd or 4th day of her period. Is this quite normal?... (27 words)

I'm depressed after my abortion.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and i had an abortion in February, and know im depressed and want a baby. what do i do? please help me. i have never been this depressed in my life before please please help me ... (43 words)

How can I build up my confidence so I can ask out this great guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Ok here's the scoop. Iv heard from some mates that a really gorgeous, fun guy likes me. I want to ask him out but whats holding me bak is that im out of his league. I am pretty but i get the impression that hes more experienced and will be disapointed. I'm also shy and have ... (76 words)

Is it normal for him to be unsure or am I clinging to false hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so some background…we are both in our late twenties...my ex broke up with me nearly 2 weeks ago. We got together about middle June (4 months ago) but had known each other for years. He had broken up with his long term live in gf in April (I know, warning signs! It broke ... (672 words)

My girlfriend is hardly ever in the mood for sex, have I done something to cause this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 years now and we hardly have sex anymore. she had cervical cancer last summer and since then shes never been in the mood for sex.. is it something i did or what should i do? [Moderator's Note: Poster is a female aged 20]... (54 words)

Do men that are abusive and violent always act like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question is it normal for a guy to always make me feel like his the victim. The scenario is that I have been with a guy for more than 4 years who is not the father of my 2 boys..Some violent incidents have occured in the past were I actually don't feel safe living with ... (238 words)

I know I can't get over our break-up while we have contact, but I can't abandon him while he is treated for cancer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in such a difficult situation at the moment. I split with my boyfriend 2 months ago, but I still love him. We've stayed in contact since that day which I know we shouln't have because it's made it impossible to get over him. He still loves me too but doesn't want a ... (139 words)

My teen pregnancy inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and pregnant, and I keep telling my family about how much I love it, and it inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What should we do?... (31 words)

My boyfriend can't open up and I feel lonely in our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im living with my boyfriend for 11 years now,and feel that he dont love me anymore,we never go out together or talk properly to each other,this could last for weeks and then when we make up,it lasts about a day,and then its back to square 1,its like he dont care about anything ... (202 words)

My love has ADHD. What are all the things I may need to know to ensure our relationship stays healthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Allo! My girlfriend and I have been together for...ah...whoa...21 months, that's nearly 2 years, lol, neither of us realized. I'm 18, she turns 19 in a couple of months and we seem, well, absolutely fine. We'd like to hold on to our relationship as long as we possibly can,... (262 words)

I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age - 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with 4 other girls. 33 years go ... (267 words)

How can I show my ex-girlfriend that I've changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i dated this girl for 4 years on an off. we broke up about a year ago and sine then she has started seeing another guy. she told me that we were done for good and then about a week ago she started calling me and saying that she still loves me and that she is not over me but ... (322 words)

My fiancé won't spend money on the coming baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im 30weeks pregnant on sunday, me and my fiance are living in a rented house since august. we have no baby stuff yet, the only things we have got is the things iv paid for. he works and earns £1100 after tax, because of this i cant claim any benifits or job seekers.... (326 words)

Do my positive points outweigh my negative points? Am I a good catch?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a silly question maybe. I am 20 years old in uni never had a girlfriend. Been looking at myself and thinking about what I have or don't have... So looking at bad, the only thing is, a big thing in a way is that I am overweight. I am working to change that and am... (201 words)

Should I tell my best friend her boyfriend kissed me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friends boy-friend kissed another girl and guess who it was! ME!! But i dont like him .... I think he's a jerk. So should i tell her or walk away ?? Cause i dont want to tell her and ruin our friendship... PLEASE I NEED HELP!!!... (55 words)

My boyfriend keeps saying he has sex for my benefit, even though he is always initiating it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend always iniates sex and then afterwards tells me that he didn't want it and only did it for me. i don't care whether i get any or not and he is the one who gives all the signals and leads me to the bedroom so why does he keep saying this? did he actually want it or ... (65 words)

Should I trust my husband or my gut feeling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi People i really need some help!!! Please let me know what you think I am a 24 year old mum of an adorable 21 month old girl, and have been married to her father for 2 years this December. since we got married my husband has been lying to me about stupid little things li... (558 words)

What do these vivid and awful dreams mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - can anyone help me interpret these dreams? im so confused. lately me and my boyfriend have been fighting a lot. we broke up on monday night (its thursday morning now). on monday night, i had a dream that i went out and kept drinking and drinking, trying to get rly drunk bu... (564 words)

Is it wrong to love your cousin? If so, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I am in love with my cousin. I have feeling for her and think she does to, and I have not told her that I loved her, and i am going to wate to ask har to have sex or do any thing lick to marriy her tell we get older. I realy whant to tell her about them, but is it ok to ... (92 words)

Read this email message and tell me what you think!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I found a message in my husband's email. It was from the owner of a company he has done some work for (who is a male), and he has an email address at that company i just became aware of. He has been hiding all of this from me. The message read something like this. ... (234 words)

Would you believe a married man who......

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - would you believe a married man, who is not having sexual relations with his wife is taking extenz only for his own self esteem (like you would lift weights or work out) as he claims. Or would you belive he is having sexual relations elsewhere? Would you believe that a marr... (96 words)

Will my boyfriend turn gay if he enjoys it when I give it to him from behind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have a very good relationship....and sex can be a little kinky with us and I know sometimes my boyfriend likes me to play with his butt hole sometimes and I was thinking about using a strap on with him cause I heard that's where one of the male g spots ... (103 words)

She had sex with her ex, so I went out and had sex with another girl. Is this relationship doomed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi my girlfriend and i are together for like a year. we jumped straight into relationship literally the day after she finished with her ex of 3 years. a few days ago i found out she had sex with him again a couple of weeks ago. in anger i went out and did the same thing w... (136 words)

Will a penis that curves to the left be a turn off to women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey. Im 15 and my penis curves slightly to the left. I was just wonderin is this a turn off to most girls and will it still feel good to them when I do decide to have sex? ... (38 words)

I am falling for my "friends with benefits" guy, should I tell him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a friends with benefits relationship with a guy who is not ready for a relationship. I thought I wasn't ready either so the arrangement at first suited me fine plus the XXX is fantastic. But lately I have found we have both been getting very close emotionally too, he is ... (155 words)

Why do I find it so hard to approach women I am attracted to?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do I find it so hard to approach females I like, particularly good-looking ones? Last night, I went to Pizza Hut and got my friend to ask the waitress out for me cos I didn't have the guts to do it? Is it because I am afraid of rejection, that they may have a boyfriend? ... (63 words)

Pregnant with 1st child, Boyfriend distant...I'm so lonley.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 15 weeks pregnant with my first child, my boyfriend and I got pregnant maybe a month or two after we first got together and so much has changed. At first he was so sweet and when I told him I might be pregnant he was so excited and happy to start a family with me. I dont ... (311 words)

Can I get him back? Or is it too late?

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5 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 years old and at my ropes end. I got out of a really serious relationship about 2 years ago. I gave it my all and when it ended I was devastated. I felt I couldn't get emotionally attached to anyone for a very long time. I dated randomly but cared about no one and I ... (759 words)

How do I tell this guy that I am not interested in him and I have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have just been asked out by this guy i really like and have said yes, but i have a dilema and this may sound really vain and the truth is im really not, i know that i am not that great looking and that people fall for my personality not that i am complaining but there is a ... (94 words)

Is it best to confess your feelings for someone or ignore those feelings to avoid rejection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - when we like someone a lot and eventually fall in love with that person, we never think of rejection until later on, but in those situations is it best to either confess to that person or to ignore those feelings to avoid rejection?... (43 words)

My period still hasn't shown up, could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been on the pill since August (microlite) and sometimes me and my boyfriend don't use condoms. Normally he doesn't cum inside me (I know it's not a proper method of contraception) but my period's late now =( Usually my seven day break starts on a Monday and I get my perio... (86 words)

How can I make the guilt of cheating in a past relationship go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - 3 years ago, I was in a long term relationship. she gave up everything for me, friends, family, just to be with me. We lived together for years, but I developed feelings for another woman and began an affair. I hate myself for what I did to this woman, 3 years on, I still cry ... (140 words)

How can I make him like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy in my class every girl likes.he is the hottest and cutest guy and funniest. i liked him always.but recently he has started behaving towards me as if he likes me in a joking manner. he behaves like that with a lot of girls but he did it more with me. it made me ... (103 words)

Please help, how do I tell my parents and my bf I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well....i am 16 and my boy friend is 19 and i was ready to have sex so we did it some how condom broke and i am now pregnant...i was very thin and its now my 3rd month and you cant really tell i have never consitered abortion but i am just scared 2 tell my Bf and 2 tell my ... (67 words)

I've never kissed before and don't know how to do it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok the guy i have liked forr aggess has asked me out and he is my first boyfriend....well this is kindof embaressing but i have never kissed anyone before and i dont want him to think i am a rubbish kisser...so how do you kiss? ... (45 words)

He never feels sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

5 November 2009 (?) age 36-40 - hi i want to know about my boyfriend, he never feels sex.when ever i try to seduce or if i come naked in front of him he is not aroused.i tried everything kissing hugging but he doesn't fell anything and his little boy is not erecting even after seducing hm. please any sugg... (55 words)

Am I being too needy or is my boyfriend slacking on his part?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - To make a long story short... I met my boyfriend almost four years ago. We dated, life got in the way, broke it off, remained best friends the next two years, he was there through it all- good, bad, you name it. We recently got back together. We ended up confessing to each ... (623 words)

I always thought I was straight but now there's a girl I'm crushing on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm going a little crazy here. I've always thought I was straight, if I thought about it at all. I've just always been attracted to guys, but also I've always been more comfortable with guys because I don't fit in with most girls my age. Anyway, this year at college there's ... (160 words)

Have I lost him forever by cutting him off like this?

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5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my best friend of three years/boyfriend of one year over the summer. It was hard at first but our close friendship seemed to pull through, and soon we were able to talk fairly normally again, even after I agreed to give a mutual friend of ours a chance with me ... (227 words)

What does it mean when someone is considered the "backbone" of a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when someone is considered the "backbone" of a relationship?... (13 words)

Why don't I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i met last weekend ,we had a great time together, despite the fact we have been dating for six months i just do not seem to build trust on him.. i do know know where the problem is am so insecure and afraid of loosing him.. what do i do to make sure he really ... (60 words)

Do I have a chance of getting him back in my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When i was 13 i lost my Virginity to my 4th grade crush 13 is young but i felt we were meant to be. And the relationship took a down fall..Now he is dating one of my Closest friend...she is like Family...my feelings for him hasn't gone away...On my Birthday He came to my house ... (131 words)

How do I get her to stop her accusations?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this young lady for 3 or 4 months that I have started to have feelings for. But the problem that I am currently having with her is for the past month and a half or so, she constantly accuses me of cheating EVERY WEEK!! This only happens when we are talking ... (194 words)

Do you have to have relationships to know your sexuality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always considered myself as straight. I guess I didnt really think about it too much. I still had my doubts that I could be gay. Now I am having strong feeligns for a girl at school. These have lasted for a year. I have sexual and romantic feelings for her. I find hot ... (114 words)

She's on the fence, how do I get her back?

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5 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So, she broke up with me because she felt emotionally drained. Drained, from feeling like she had to make all the decisions, was the strong one all the time, had to cater to me too much etc. Essentially, I was too needy, and that came through and broke her during an intensely ... (217 words)

Married, but still thinking about my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my Ex boyfriend and now am married, after 6 years into my marriage I started thinking about my ex till today and it has been going on for the past 5 years. I am haunted and regret ever breaking up with him, what should I do? Is there any possibility of getting ... (61 words)

We both really like each other but she has a boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

5 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is kinda long/confusing but i'll keep it simple. I'm a senior in high school and have had a great friend since my sophomore year. Back then when she was a freshman, she had a big crush on me but i was oblivious since even if i was great friends with her, i was dating ... (248 words)

Arranged relationship -- where do we stand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - One of my parents friends from another country proposed for his son .. I am in Canada. My dad told his dad that we have to get to know each other, so we started chatting online and I told him, if he wants to know when I am going to marry him, his dad has to call my dad.. but he ... (106 words)

Should I leave things alone or try to get her back?

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5 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this may take a while but please read all of it. I really need some advice on this. I'll start this story in with my 7th when I was 14 grade year. I met this girl named Laurinda and I'm not gonna lie at first I thought she was just some annoying little girl, then I met her ... (713 words)

I am struggling to keep up with my boyfriend's sexual appetite!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need help with this problem so any advice would be greatly appreciated:) So my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and in the beginning we had XXX almost 3-4 times a day! He is very sexually active and so was I. Now that our relationship has cooled ... (391 words)

How can I get condoms discretely?

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5 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i'm only 13 years old and my girlfriend want us to have sex and i said i wont do it until we have a condom. she said she cant get one. i want to know a way to get a condom with out my parents finding out and not having to be imbaressed at the store... (56 words)

I'm 13 years old and have dating and kissing questions.

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5 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok i need help!!! im 13 and never benn kissed. And everyone else i my school has already have a boy-friend . Ok this guy i like him but my best friend likes him too!! but i think he likes me not her .... and the way i know it is because he comes into the girls bathroom... (93 words)

How can I encourage my boyfriend to drive to see me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months, and we both live an hour away from each other. In the 3 months that we have known each other, I have always driven to see him weekly (sometimes twice a week), and he's only driven down to see me once. I know he loves me and ... (201 words)

Am I headed towards divorce or is this normal?

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5 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My 2nd husband, no kids, and I are living different lives with very different lives. He seems semi-concerned (probable to guilt to my daily affairs and i s'pose i to his) I am flirting back to men who flirt with me in a semi-(im)proper manner, he does not care nor notice and I ... (75 words)

I can't tell if he likes me!

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5 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy who is two years older than me. I told his cousin, who is my friend, and she told him. He doesnt want a relationship because he doesn't want to get hurt. I've been cheated on four times and well here I am trying again. He's only had one girlfriend and ... (385 words)

Can a smaller penis look bigger from a different person's perspective?

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5 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i am about 18 years of age, and I have a question on measurement in penis sizes. When i put the ruler next to my penis it shows me that i am 8 inches. Now the problem is, when i was in MMA the men had to take showers when the session was over. I wasn't nervous to get naked ... (128 words)

What are the "three bases" people refer to with making out or sex?

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5 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so i feel really dumb for not already knowing this but what are the 3 bases? i mean i feel that i rally should know but for some reason i dont and i think its just cause when i was younger i just kept telling myself i will know later and now i thought about it and really ... (62 words)

Should I ask my boyfriend for space?

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5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i know i love my boyfriend, i appreciate everything he do for me. and i don't want to leave him. but lately i feel like a need a little space. i don't know if if it is because i am in college and i want to just have other options. but should i tell him i need a space although i ... (63 words)

I am concerned my friend needs help, but won't let me help her!

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5 November 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I am having friend problems. My family and I moved away and I’m now 30 minutes away from my friends. My friend “Abby” started hanging out with her co-workers and likes this guy at her work- this guy is a total player (he asked out every girl at the workplace and is known to be ... (496 words)

How can you tell a guy is really interested?

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5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - why is it when guys like q girl around her they are sweet but in front of their friends they can sometimes be jerks? how can u tell if a guy is genuinely interested in you?... (36 words)

My girlfriend is not ready to give me oral sex and I don't want to push her. Aside from hand jobs, what else can we do?

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5 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my girlfriend have made it to hand jobs. She is not sure about a blowjob and wants to take it another step without going to blowjob. What else can we do?... (34 words)

I want help to get over my inhibitions about performing oral on a man.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I've never givin a blow job, and im kinda nervous on it cause well i think its kinda nasty to put ur mouth on the guys dick, if u think about it.....anyways i want to but im to shy, and idk how to get over it, i mean part of me wants to but then part of me doesn't, i need ... (69 words)

Am I selfish for wanting to go abroad, or is he selfish for wanting me to stay?

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5 November 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I don't know who is right in this situation !.Me and this guy i used to be with have been together on and off for a few years. We haven't become very serious, such as moving in together, having kids, or doing many sexual things.He has said in the past that he'd like to marry me ... (483 words)

Are these signs she wants to pick up where we left off, or just remain a friend?

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5 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure if my married friend, who I have had a relationship with in the past, wants to remain my friend, or pick up where we left off. I'm terrible at picking up signals, and when we hang out, we usually just talk, and she always stretches out on my couch and puts her ... (137 words)

Should I apologize to her on the phone for trying to apologize in a letter?

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5 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Thanks for all help in advance. I finally managed to apologize to the girl I've been going after, albeit through a letter delivered by someone else. It said something along the lines of "Sorry for being a coward and a fool by having others give notes to you and shouting "I love ... (542 words)

Was it all in my head or did my professor have feelings for me?

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5 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So this is complicated, I was asked by one of my Professors like three semesters agao to join a Behavioral Philosophy Lab that he was going to start at school. One day he approached me and asked if i would like to join and he explained to me everything that we would do, like ... (621 words)

When we did it it, he didn't get his thing all the way in. Could I still be pregnant?

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5 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 13 right now and im so scared about if im pregnate...i know i shoudnt of had sex and i know i should have used a condom, but i didnt think of it....it has been almost 12 weeks and i dont physicaly feel different but i cant get this out of my head. i had only done it with ... (164 words)

He doesn't get it in before I push him away because of the pain!

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5 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i just truned 16 and me and my boyfriend who is 23 have been going out for a year in half and he said he will wait till i am ready to have sex as it will be my first time and now that i am 16 i feel that i am ready to have sex .. i have been reading up on sex since i was 14 a... (136 words)

Do opposites attract? Will I not attact him because we're so much alike?

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5 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had a crush on my boss for the past 8 months. I don't believe in having a work relationship so I have done nothing to pursue it. I would be willing to find a new job, its time for me to move up in my industry anyway, but I don't know how to tell if he would be ... (240 words)

Help me decide if I am gay!

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5 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help. I am 16. I dont know if i am gay and i want to know what you all think. I think i like girls. And i have only ever been attracted to girls when seeing them. However when i wank, (i tried thinking of guys once) i cum to guys before i do to girls. But i cant see ... (140 words)

I don't want to be just friends! It's too hard to pretend nothing happened!

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5 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this is my situation. My ex and i broke up in early june. Im a junior in high school so it so it was summer vacation. She went to school where i went but she lived two hours away so i knew i wouldnt see her the rest of the summer and that was great. I was really heartbroken ... (396 words)

How can my girlfriend say she loves me, when I feel like I am her enemy most of the time?

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5 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, How can my girlfriend say she loves me, when I feel like I am her enemy most of the time?.... I am a 27 year old international student from Norway currently studying and living in Australia. I have been seeing my girlfriend, who is Australian, for a little over... (617 words)