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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can I date my best friends ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m in love with my best friends ex boyfriend, they broke up 6 weeks ago after a 22 month long relationship, and can I date him or not????? I have been her friend for 19 months since we started high school together. She was dating him since Gr.9. this is a really long time... (245 words)

Why did sex hurt the first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i had sex for the very first time last week, but it wasn't my boyfriends first time. It hurt i know thats normal for the first time and it was hard to get in at first cos i must be tight, but what i was wondering is does it feel different for the guy if its really tight? I... (83 words)

My trekkie friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am exactly twenty-two years and two weeks old, my best friend is just over twenty-two years and four months old. My best friend is a man we shall call "Quinton". He and I have been in acquaintance with each other for a little over twenty years; we have been "best friends" ... (495 words)

I don't want to scare her but I LOVE her...

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like a girl and i finally got the guts to tell her i like her she is a close friend and ex girlfriend to my best friend i don't talk to her at skool because we both hang around in different placs. she said it was sweet that i liked her and i don't want to go out with ... (145 words)

I think I'm in love with someone but I don't know what to do...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and a half and in the middle of taking my GCSEs. An IT tech at my school turned 40 2 days ago. What's the problem? I think about him all the time and love being around him. He's really funny and we have similar interests. My friends think I should tell him h... (104 words)

What do I do during sex, I've no idea?

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15 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my gf are planning to have sex for the first time soon. (We are both virgins and 16) Im not sure what im supposed to do, do I just do what ive seen in porn?? If not can you please advise??... (45 words)

Stressed out for dumb reasons

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with this guy the other night who i have had a thing sort of going on with for awhile. i really like him. but he is pretty laidback, almost too much to where i'm afraid of upsetting him or pushing him away, and we're taking things slow but i hadn't seen him in awhile a... (112 words)

My 'friend' called me a cow no one wants to milk. What the hell is that even supposed to mean.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) age 36-40 - 'friend' called me a cow no one wants to milk. What the hell is that even supposed to mean. He also said I'd become fat now. What in the world is it any of his business anyway. I am so mad right now- enough to not contact him again!... (49 words)

How do I find her G spot?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, Im a fifteen (soon sixteen) years old guy with a serious girlfirend. We have had sex since... I dont know when... earlier than last summer at least. well, enough about me, I came here for a question. By GF and I have sex quite often and... well... I... mostly go "down the... (189 words)

He's going through a hard time right now, how can I be his friend?

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys . i love my boyfriend and i would and do go out of my way for him , he has been feeling a little -off- lately , not doing that great at college , job going nowhere and he lives alone so i guess he is lonely sometimes, i dont what to do but listen - when he talks which ... (124 words)

Situation gone bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I kinda got a little situation going on here... so me and this girl have been talking for 3 weeks and she was like all over me, I really saw a future with her and I wanted to commit to her, but the problem is that I recently found out that there is another guy trying to win ... (172 words)

What am I for him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am two years and a half older than him, I knew him three years ago via internet, we were chatting almost every day.. he lives at 5000 km from. I thought that the age gap and the long distance would keep us from falling for each other but I was wrong.. three months ago we had ... (672 words)

If he doesn't love me now will he ever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I stay or go? I have been in a relationship with my partner for nearly two years. To begin with our relationship was great he really showed he cared and took the time out always made me happy... Now things have changed, he is distant and doesn't make much ef... (265 words)

I just want my roommate to respect our agreement and my feelings. is that too selfish?

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I'm living in the room of 3 bedroom apartment... and i have one room mate sharing this room with me since I am living in a very expensive city and cant afford to pay the rent of the room alone and the rent is too high... I been living with my room mate for 8 months ... (474 words)

Why doesn't he notice me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I really like this guy but he doesn't pay attention to me. It's like I don't exist to him. I don't want to like him but I can't help it. I would just catch myself staring at him for like a really long time. Right now he is going out with another girl. I always try to look ... (121 words)

My husband is texting another women, but says it's for the thrill, he does not want her, what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age - Found out my husband has been texting and phoning a another woman and sending pic's ! He says doesnt know why he does this! He doesn't want her,he just enjoys the thrill the chase what should I do? Any ideas ... (53 words)

If we go on a date, should I shave my pubic hair, just in case?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i like this girl very much and i am sure that she has feelings for me bu the thing is is tha imsure if we every go out or even as friends she said t would be funto have sex together. as any boy im ok wih that but the thing is that i don'tknowwhere to shave my pubes or not ... (107 words)

I'm so jealous of my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my bestfriend are unseprable. But she always in a great relationship and when she's in one guys try to break them up bcuz they like her sooo much. You don't understand how much I want my ex boyfriend back when she could have any guy in a snap. And guys hate me. One of my ... (86 words)

Best friend's girlfriend is evil

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

15 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Im very confused over my best friend. This boy, I'll call him Allyn, and I have been very close friends for 6 years. We had a serious relationship that lasted for about a year and a half. We broke up about 10 months ago. He's been dating this girl recently who's been treating ... (453 words)

He knows I like him now and is not talking to me, what do I do to change this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - At first it was just my little group of freinds who knew I fancied him, then my English teacher (who likes to think she's cool!) decided to ask what the latest gossip was. Then somewhow, it ended up with my teacher quizzing all my friends; trying to guess who I fancied!... (254 words)

He's my best friend, but I love him otherwise, how do I approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! im 16 years old girl and im inlove with my bestfriend! he's a great guy and all of our class's are together and we talk and see each other like 24/7 and he keeps saying i love you but i know he means it as a (friendship kinda love) he keeps flirting and saying how sweet... (142 words)

Can I be optimistic that we might get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago. Bc of snowballing miscommunication. In the first month I tried to do everything to get him back until I realized laying off was the best thing I could do. A week later, he started contacting me. Then, to make matters worse, he receiv... (130 words)

Is marketing a good option to major in, I want to do something special with my life, not just get a job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

15 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, is marketing a good option for a course beacause ive thought long and hard deciding and my family and friends just laugh when i say what i want to do, they just want me to get any type of job, but i want to do something with my life!... (50 words)

I need help communicating with a girl I want to take out, what do I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

15 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - where can i take a girl out!! we've only been out once together and that was just at a party and we went for a few drinks n that together. what should i say if i ring her up? how can i ask her to go out? why am i not ringing her, am i scared incase she says no. what could i say ... (87 words)

Am I just meeting the wrong guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, here is a question, I am 25 and have never had a boyfriend (not by lack of trying), everytime I go out with work or friends, guys hit on me but never want anything more, for some reason guys just wont date me and I don't understand why, I have an alright job, I am normal ... (117 words)

She is going through changes, and I am confused, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not really sure where too begin. Shelly and I met over a year ago. She was in another relationship but still there was some crazy deep attraction going on between us even we can't explain. Her relationship ended around oct. of 08`. Feb 20th 2009 we got together. Shelly is ... (493 words)

I love her after two days, don't want to scare her, what do I say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (M)

I don't want to do something I don't know how to do and look stupid!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been getting well with this guy and he sent me a text the other day saying he missed me and was wondering if I could he help relax and de-stress with smilley faces and asked if I had any suggestions. I am thinking he possibly want "oral" how should I reply. I do like ... (83 words)

I desperately need help with answers to what I should do after the birth of my child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well my wife got me looking for this anwser now idk i just want to know...well what do u do after your wife gives birth i mean like i know u are soupoce to like fill out a birth curitific or something but i mean i know after they get the baby out they take it somewhere and ... (102 words)

In love with a guy but he only wants me for "fun"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't now what to do I feel like I am in a catch 22 situation. I have fallen for this guy in a big way, he is gorgeous and when we are talking he seems really into me, but he doesn't always talk just when he feels like it and it's killing me because sometimes he will talk ... (185 words)

I think he wants me to make the first move and I don't know how!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i go out with the boy i really like and he really likes me too, we don't speak that much but i think he's wants me to make the first move but i don't know how to start the conversation. what subjects should i speak about? we're not in any of each others classes in school so we ... (107 words)

Three weeks and no contact and now he wants to spend all his time with me?

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15 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, Am dating this guy for 3months. We spend almost all weekends together but recently he went for a holiday in africa for three weeks and i didnt her anything from him. He is back now and he wants to spend all his weekends with me. I am very confused because of the lon... (115 words)

I like him, but he calls my breasts saggy and grand-ma tities. I'm losing my confidence, help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old and guys say im hot and im wanted by many(sexually) my breast size is 36 c..and this guy that i really like commented that they're getting saggy and he calls them grandma tities and no one else does! and now i think they're saggy (HELP) is 36c saggy?... (54 words)

Like her a lot, but need someone to interpret her e-mail message please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Does this mean i shouldnt persue her? I always thought the girl in my office liked me, we've been working together for a few years now and im still crazy about her but now I get the impression she just sees me as a friend although she really sends mixed signals, every t... (178 words)

She still has pictures of her ex's on her PC...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (M)

- Hi guys, I have been seeing a new girl for the past 2 months or so. We get on great, shes loveable, gorgeous, smart, everything I want her to be however, there is something that concerns me. She still has pictures of her and her exes (like 4 guys) on her PC, some of the ... (176 words)

I told him how I felt...now how do I face him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a friend in year 11 (I'm a year 9) who I really like, he has helped me through rough times. We talk regularly online and say hello to each other whenever we see each other around school. Over time, I have really fallen for him. He said things too that made me think he ... (205 words)

I can't stop thinking about my stalker!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This man has been harassing me for years! We had a brief relationship 3 years ago, it was very intense but it ended quickly. He cheated on me with a hooker! We were sort of on a break though, and I was cheating on him too, though I don't think he knows! But he just went ... (377 words)

I feel like a ping pong ball going between these two guys...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i was 16 when i first met him (my ex), he was then 20. he was perfect for me, a drummer, he matched my personality and character, took care of me and was all i ever wanted in a man. however, he smoked, had a nasty temper (although he use it only once on me on the day we broke ... (559 words)

Why don't I ever have long relationships???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! Every relationship i have never lasts more than a month and a half..( thats really lucky) and i have been in relationships in the past 8 months and all ove thought about is my ex now were back togeher nearly for a month i dont see any point in it.. every time i like a g... (153 words)

Help which guy do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hii okay well basically im in a sticky situation i got 3 boys who like me ( and admitted including my bf which btw no one knows about ... ) and 2 other boys in my class who are also my friends ... one of em is one of my best friends and other is just a good friend. okay so l... (452 words)

Is it realistic to expect a guy in his 20's to be content with taking things slow?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been reading lots of questions and answers on here and there seems to be a general consensus that if a guy truly likes you as a person and is interested in pursuing a relationship with you he will wait for sex/intimacy, won't pressure you and won't up and disappear when ... (313 words)

He isn't there for me when I need him but I'm always there for him... what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Please Help Me! I broke up with my bf two weeks ago after he asked me for money and said he wouldnt talk to me. My mother passed away a few days later. I didnt contact him to tell him because he has never been there when I needed him only when he needed me. I changed my phone ... (293 words)

How do I snog with tongues?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to snog me at my birthday disco with tounges (tonight) and i don't have a clue how!!!... (21 words)

Why did he lie over something so dumb?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok two months ago my daughters 3rd birthday to be exact! I was throwing her party and he daddy didn't show up he was 2 hours late!(we are together! He told me when he phoned from his grandmas that his truck broke down after taking a wrong turn and his grandma picked him up! Ok ... (179 words)

Is he into me or just likes the other girl or trying to get me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have dropped by to say and ask for some advice. Well, First of all I *fancy* my brother's Friend. My brother’s friend is 16 years old but 17 this year. We both kind of did like each other but I told my brother and he did freak out but after was pissed off and went ... (908 words)

Problems in our relationship and need your help!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together exclusively for 6 months this week. We have been seeing each other for about 9 though. About a month and a half into our relationship, I had sex with an old friend of mine; I cheated on him. My boyfriend does not know this. My friend a... (497 words)

I want to get out and live!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since I was about 14 I have always been in serious relationships! when I was 15 I got into a relationship that lasted 3 years and I got engaged! I finaly left him due to problems that had been going on for a while and had, had enough of it! but then a week or 2 later got ... (253 words)

Boring relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship with a girl that is really boring and talks a lot about herself, she likes spamming me with text messages during school. post your comments on what to do please... (39 words)

How can I stop this overwhelming feeling of grief and sadness, and hurt, and disbelief?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi I've been with a guy for 19 months - I did everything for him, he lived in my house, I fell truly madly deeply in love. Suddenly he texted me one day and said he wasnt coming back. I was left utterly heartbroken, depressed, the sadness when I had to look around my house ... (244 words)

I feel like I'm living in a nightmare.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone just looking for a bit of reassurance again. Me and my boyfriend of 5 years have been apart for 6 months now, but I'm not handling it well at all. It was my choice to end it, and now I feel like I'm being punished. I'm on anti-anxiety/depression tablets and seeing a ... (136 words)

Should I hire a PI to follow my wife???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I found 2 texts on my wife's phone. 1 sent to her, and 1 was her reply. I checked her contact list and the text was from a guy named Jim. That's it, only Jim in her contact phonebook. His text was 'so, how do you like my hang-down?' My wife's reply was, 'Love it, but it's a ... (142 words)

8 years going... and I'm not happy inside.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Help Needed 8 years later I'm a Gay man who is with my first guy for 8 years, after the second year i decided to go to France to meet someone else, it was hard but i told my partner that i was not happy and why i was not happy, 6 years later we in the UK for about a year whe... (445 words)

Can someone explain what she means?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, Ive been with my girl for a month now, not long I know but its going really well which is great :) On several occasions shes told me she loves me, all well and good but it does seem too soon to say that. Anyhow, she called me last night to say she doesnt love me ... (166 words)

He wants to break up because of the age difference but it doesn't matter to me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help, I have just split up with my boyfriend of 8 years. He is 20 years older than me (I am 30 he is 50) and he says he has just woken up to the fact that he is so much older than me. He feels he has to let me go so I can go off and marry someone else and have children ... (189 words)

The first kiss...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - today im going to kiss my boyfriend for the first time and im so nervous. I know that the first kiss does determine the relationship but why must we be so nervous after all is just a kiss. what if the kiss is not what i expected it to be. should i still carry on dating him or ... (67 words)

Help! I miss my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex, who i dated for 2 years in Jan. Recently, I started to miss him, especially when my current bf is not around. At night, I usually feel lonely and want to talk but I don't feel comfortable calling my bf. One night, I couldn't help it so I called ex and ... (356 words)

He betrayed my trust and lied to me about something so stupid it doesn't make sense!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay... well this guy and I were best friends for almost 6 years, we started dating a year ago. Since then we have been discussing marriage. well we have been doing the long distance thing since christmas and lately I have felt things are different between us even though every ... (401 words)

Are we a joke? Should we end it once and for all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all Ok I hve been with my boyfriend for the past three years, we have been tru a hell of a lot together but the problem is we cant seem to really make a go off things!! We really love each other and when its good its brilliant but when things are bad we just have a massi... (190 words)

Views on faith???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What are peoples views bout faith?! Is it really mapped out for us or do we create our own destiny in life??????... (25 words)

Can I have an abortion without my parents knowing?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok heres my question - At the age of 13 if you got pregnant can you go have an aboursion with out your parents coming with you or even knowing i would really like to know it would really help a situation i am in Thanks x... (51 words)

Skipped almost two periods now...am I pregnant?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okey i really need help im 13 nearly 14 and i think im pregnant. the last couple of times me and my boyfirnd had sex we did not use protection as he pulled out before he came so i thought it would be okey but now im realy worried because i have skipped one of my periods ... (134 words)

B/f needs texts or calls me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

- My bf doesnt always reply to my messages or phone calls. This really frustrates and upsets me, and it also makes me worried. We have a long distance r/ship- this makes it even harder to deal with this. Last time he visited me, he was all over me like a rash!!! He wanted... (321 words)

11 years and we break up, any chance of us getting back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age - my bodfriend and i split up just before christmas after 11 years. its his birthday and he 30 i am 47 i love and miss him so much he says he happy but still texts me at least once or twice a week asking how my new job is. he rung me last week to ask if i had any funny texts as... (257 words)

I don't know how to act around women but my friends do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to act around women. When I go to a club, I see my friends casually walk past girls in clubs, rub up against them/touch them up a little and then carry on walking as if nothing happened. Other times it'll happen when they're dancing, and some girls seem to like ... (189 words)

When he's in a bad mood he ignores me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

- When my bf is in a bad mood, he ignores me. He wont tell me about his problems or what really happened. This really upsets me because I feel like I must be a bad gf because he wont let me be there for him. I want to support him, but I dont know how becuase he pushes me awa... (313 words)

I hate waiting and am wondering if he's doing the 3 day rule?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age - I had a date on Tuesday and we got on really well... at the end of the date we kissed and had some heavy petting. I texted him (know I prob shouldn't have next day, saying 'you are lovely, and we were very naughty'. He texted back saying 'so were you and yes were were'..... (142 words)

Help me to be thin!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hello. i have a problem. please help as best you can. well i am 14, 5'4'' and weigh 9 st 9 lbs. i am really fat. i want to weigh 8 st 7 lbs so i am going to do a pro-ana diet and lots of exercise etc. now someone told me that ana can make you put on weight, how does this wo... (107 words)

He always accuses me of being unfaithful

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ive ben with this guy for almost two years now and whenever we havearguments he threatens to leave and when i tell him to go ahead he turns everything around on me saying im the one looking for ways to leave him.then recently we had a fight oversomething stupid and he called me ... (145 words)

Legal boundaries for students/teachers

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Yes, yet again another student-teacher relationship question/s.................. I was just wondering what the exact boundaries are for students and teachers? Just for the purpose of this question, disregard the age gap issue even though I know that's one of the main difficu... (209 words)

How do I tell her that I am in love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

15 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone,i am in luv with girl who is 2yrs older than me,we melt when she came to my store almost lost i offer her my phone to call the person she is looking for,since then we are friends how do i tell her that i am in love with her ... (51 words)

In love with your best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey im in love with my best friend... i known him for 3 years.. when we first met i liked him alot, now 3 years on i cant stop thinking bout him... i love him so so much but he doesnt feel the same.. ive told him so many times and he is not interested. ive tried to forget ... (124 words)

I have a healthy sex drive but she is just not interested in sex anymore!...

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 24, in college, trying to start a career but there is a problem. My g/f and i have been on and off for about 3 years. We've had relationships with other people and even went almost a year without talking once. We are back together and she is great but the sex just isnt ... (346 words)

The meaning of love - please help - I am confused?

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - OK is what i would like to know what is the difference between in love with you and I love you? The reason that i ask that is that some times my husband will tell me that he loves me but he is not in love with me so what does that mean??... (53 words)

I am perceived as not a convential beauty - can guys still want me?

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do guys prefer the more convential beauty to some one who isn't - like me. I am 32 year old which is old and who has a fat face and short teeth. Now will you please print my question since you printed every one else's but mine every time. I really would appreciate it. A... (66 words)

In love with my first cousin, should I pursue it or not?

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im deeply inlove with my 16 yr. old first cousin. I had my first kiss from him, i dont know if he loves me too. I sometimes caught him staring at me, what does that mean? And I dont know why did he kissed me that time? I loved him since I was 6-7 yrs. old until now. Should I ... (91 words)

Why is body image so important to men?

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, what if you don't have them, hmmmmm? What does that make me? Obviously, not a real woman. I know society puts pressure on women to be thin, but I don't understand why they need to listen to this crock of nonsense, since men prefer women with curves, supposedly. What ... (338 words)

Am I reading the signs right re this guy who shows interest in me?

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy that I work with started flirting with me out of the blue one day. We have a very strong physical attraction. But he told me from start he doesn't want a relationship right now. But, lately he has given me gifts and we have been hanging out without doing anything ... (76 words)

Best masturbation toys - any advice greatly received please?

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What are the best anal masturbation toys and teqniques i could use pls any advice would be most app. ... (19 words)

I am in an open relationship, should I lay my cards on the table with this other woman or not?

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. There's this woman at work who loves e-mailing and instant messaging me for long periods at a time about all sorts of subjects. She is single and on the look out for a man. I have a partner but she knows I am disgruntled and have shown a desire to stray. We've both ... (353 words)

I want a saucy romantic military kind of book to read!

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15 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - hey girls, this is a question for you. i'm not much of a book worm so i don't know where to look but i'm looking for a book, not one in particular, but a romantic erotic love story that involves the man being in the military. my guy used to be in the army in the artillary, and ... (159 words)

I think its impossible for me to be pregnant!

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner has been on holidays for almost 4 months, so we havent had sexually intercourse for a while. He got back a 2 weeks ago. I am now 9 days later havent had a pregnancy test not sure if i want to. i was talking to my partner about this and we both agreed that the sex was ... (110 words)

My husband makes decisions alone not part of a unit!

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you get your husband to understand that as part of a family you are suppose to make decisions together, not one without the other. My husband continuosly goes off and makes decisions with others without even asking me or discussing it with me. I dont find out until he's ... (71 words)

My wife pregnant by lover from open relationship I encouraged

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife is pregnant by her lover I encouraged an open relationship, she now wants to move in with him, H e is black and big I am white and 5'5 inches tall.... (33 words)

Crush on my teaching assistant!

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush for a teacher assistant at my school; what to do?! He really only talked to me and rarely other students because the kids he teaches with in my class don't really like him. I try to avoid him now because I thought I was being a little bit of a freak...... (193 words)

Hard to trust him! He's telling me one thing and doing another!

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my name is jennifer im originally from columbia,sc and im married to a navy sailor we have a 3yr old son together i have been knowing my husband for 4yrs but only been married for 11 months now and in january i found out he was cheating on me with some other navy chick,and ... (139 words)

Would sex be better for him if I acted more like a porn star?

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15 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Would sex be better for him if I acted more like a porn star? We usually have great sex and I can tell he loves it, but I've noticed how in porn, women always moan quite noticeably. I understand this is all fake because there's no way that a woman can feel extreme pleasure the ... (163 words)

Over a year later and I'm still not over her

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Over a year later, and a few women after I'm still not over her. I feel nothing when I kiss "new" women. The only relationship that I've been able to salvage from dating is one friendship. Two women have "confessed their love" for me since her, but I can't help but feel nothing ... (261 words)

Has he grown out of being a slut?

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am dating this super wonderful guy and he asked me to move across the country with him but he used to be like the biggest player ever and I don't know how to tell if he is really outgrown it. He just turned 18, he is probably the hottest guy to ever live, like his face and... (817 words)

Should I forgive the cheater I'm in love with?

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this great guy Chase for 9 months. I though he was Mr. Perfect. I loved him then I found out with was cheating on me. Well actually he was cheating on his finacee with me!!! I found out he was cheating 2 months ago, when I showed up at his house unannouced ... (158 words)

I'm afraid I've already screwed up the relationship by being too clingy.

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and this girl I really like got back together on Monday the 4th and the same day she found out a good friend got killed in a car accident. Everything was fine and I took off work and went up there with her and we were okay till Saturday. After Saturday she acted like she ... (361 words)

A long string of bad luck. Any thoughts?

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I was wondering ,what is the general opinion, about chance in your life. I'm having a really hard time right now, and it seems in the last ten years ,i just simply became very unlucky. I lost my job, my marriage, my son is very ill, have several health problems, my lis... (132 words)

Moved in with b/f and now am lonely and depressed.

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my boyfriend started out great he was so sweet and we got along great. we moved in together 2 months ago and it wasn't just down the road its 3 hours away from my friends and family.. so I haven't been able to find a job yet and I just sit at home all the time while ... (116 words)

Formally requested RSVP, got nothing... Do I say something? Just a party.

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Backstory, good place to start I suppose: Just moved across town. Not many friends, but the friends I have are solid (ish) Anyways, invited a mess of people over for a party, I usually dont throw parties and the roommate was going out of town, and figured I'd jump on it... (208 words)

Can you get a sore throat from deepthroat?

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was actually curious if it's possible to get a sore throat from deep throating? I did if for the first time and did gag twice bit other wise it all went really well...until the day after when I relized how sore I was, kinda like when you get a cold. Any ways to help ease up ... (64 words)

Falling in love with a second cousin

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 years old and I fell in love with my second cousin. His father and my mother are cousins. We didn't grow up together. I remember him from when I was 5 or 6 but almost two years ago we met again. We both thought it was weird at first but then we were just so happy it ... (250 words)

She's against the idea of a LDR. How can I change her mind?

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a year and I really, really love her and she loves me similarly. She's 14 and I'm 15. The problem is that both of us have a parent in the military, so us being apart is a very likely possibility (She might be moving ... (100 words)

My dad makes me feel ugly

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have albinism. I can not tan at all. One day about maybe two years ago i had this two piece bathingsuit and my dad got wicked mad. He said that i looked ugly in it because it showed to much whtie. That made me feel horrible. and i didn't listen to him but it made me f... (164 words)

I don't trust him sometimes because of past experiences

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I have been in a long-term, off-and-on relationship with a man for going on 4 years now. Of course I cannot possibly tell the whole entire journey but I will basically tell the most important issues I have. I am 21 years old and he is 23. We have had good ti... (828 words)

Do you think they think I'm creepy?

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, so i have a playstation 3 and on my ps3 i have a 'friends' list. i currently have a few girls on this 'friends' list and my problem is that they ignore me unless i text them and ask them how they are doing and things like that. it's always me who initiates the conv... (254 words)

If a person never experienced true heartache can they know what true love is?

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - If a person never experienced true heartache, like a broken heart, can they know what true love is? To me, they have nothing to compare it to, so in my eyes one cant possibily know what love is until they experience how much hurt love can bring upon a person..am I just being ... (57 words)

How much time is enough 'space' before I should try contacting him?

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I had a fight and he basically moved out of my house, and won't talk or see me. He's a sulker, and is still fighting the ghosts of his last relationship, and has done this once before, but it wasn't this severe. The last time he did it, he said he needed space ... (146 words)

This guy wouldn't give someone like me the time of day!

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so there is this boy I like and he has a girlfriend, but she is one of my best friends. I didn't realize I had feelings for him for quite some time, and he is really cute but i'm not sure if he even likes me as a friend...but...idk! He is sooo cute but he wouldn't give ... (82 words)

I am happy because he is happy but I cant forget him! Help!

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! During uni last year I met a guy studying here from overseas, Abdhul. I initially talked to him a little bit and didn't think much of it, but as i got to know him better, i fell deeply in love with him. We got along really well, and although it was obvious i liked hi... (159 words)

What should I do? I can't keep feelling like this.

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok, this is strange one. what have i done!! this is even weird and awkward for me to type but... for years ive been really anxious and worried about what happened to me and my sister when we were young. i was about 12 and she about 6. we played 'doctors and nurses' for want of ... (337 words)

How can I gain my pride and keep my cool in front of her?

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - pls read it to the end i have to quistions to answer there is this girl who i like very very very much and i know that she likes me becasue we always flirt and keep gazing at each other often but she is playing hard to get and she is very good in it indeed. i wanted to surpri... (200 words)

Why does it seem like certain people get all the sex in the world?

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I am getting older and I am still a virgin. I am about to go to college, so hopefully I will meet someone at some point in the next few years. I was just wondering why it seems like there are a few people who get a TON of sex, and others like me who get none. My brothe... (190 words)

I'd just be a burden in a reletionship with all my baggage...

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 24 year old guy and I am suffering from constant anxiety and what I think is depression. I can't stop thinking about all the stupid things I have done in my life but rather than laughing them off I have caused a link between them so whenever I think of one it inevitably ... (769 words)

An intimate moment...

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I live in Texas and I recently went to North Carolina for my nephew's baptism. While over there, I meet my brother-in-law's cousin named Abel. We stayed over there for a week and I got to know Abel and I started to like him. The night before I felt, we went out clubbing and ... (196 words)

I like this girl but I didn't know she had a boyfriend

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i like this girl but i didnt know she had a boyfriend. Two days ago this Friend of mines asked me if i liked her i told her that i kinda sorta had a crush on her and she told me this really you Doo :]] ok well your so awesome and well i like you but not like that i do think ... (160 words)

Now that he's no longer my teacher should I tell him how I feel?

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to make this short because I have final exams to study for. In June of 2008, my high school closed down. I September I transfered to another school. I was in love with my history teacher, and to this day I still am. I plan on inviting him to my graduation, and if he does ... (254 words)

I can't be sure of what he's doing as we live so far apart...

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend, but we live far apart. I only see him on major holidays, like summer and christmas. We talk a lot on the phone and we don't have a lot of problems. The major problem is that we miss each other badly. I sometimes feel like he doesn't love me and he always ... (155 words)

Her Boss, her lover, it ended, it started and now it's ended.. advice please!!

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15 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex girlfriend have split now for over 5 months and I'm still finding it very difficult to move on. We were together for 3 and a half years and most of the time it really was the best time of our lives. We never argued, we laughed all the time at stuff that other people ... (1146 words)

What can I do to make her find me more interesting?

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15 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i really like a girl that i met on myspace so i recently invited her to my house and she came over. we talked and i think she kinda likes me but im not sure. what can i do to make her like me and what can i do to make her find me interesting?... (55 words)