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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend says that he can see no future for us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age - Hiya! I am a little confused! My boyfriend has told me that he could see no future for us. I thought that we were getting on fine, I live in Dublin and he lives in Northern Ireland which is about 100 miles away. But I go there at least once a week, He has said that it doe... (121 words)

I have a boyfriend I care about, but a friend I prefer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i'm Shadow Tears, i have a problem. you see, I've been dating this guy for a while now, (a little more then 2 months) and i care about him, (i'm not madly in love with him but I've known him for like five years, so i care) but i seem to be enjoying hanging out... (296 words)

Wife very upset that I have lost my sexual desire

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5 June 2009 (M) age 51-59 - I totally lost my sexual desire,and I don't know why? My wife is very upset about this,and she is not understanding about it. How,is it effecting usually a woman,when their husband losing sexual desire? Is it always that gloomy feeling ,that the end is close?... (50 words)

We started a fire and want to pay back the damage annonymously

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - ok so we kinda started a fire. Basicaly we were filming a short movie and ,well lets put it this way. Dont use homemade pyrotecnics. We destroyed £80s worth of corn. How do we pay back the farmer while remaining anonymous?... (41 words)

I should have told him in person that I like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

- Okay well, i'm in the sea cadets and recently i went on a training navy course on a ship called ts royalist.. and on the ship .. i met this guy .. who is the perfect guy for me.. i can barely breath everytime i think of him.. but he lives in wales and i live in england.. my ... (217 words)

How to go about telling ex how I feel

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - the end of the school year is in a few days for me...and i want to tell my ex how i feel without looking stupid (were not going to the same school next year so it will probly be the last time i ever see him) how do i go about all this?? and i think iv got what i want to say al... (134 words)

What next when sex happens too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I had a question about sex happening too soon. I've been friends with this guy for a few months. On my first date with this guy he took me back to his place. I've been resistant with other guys for years about sex. I wanted to be in a nice relationship before I had sex. ... (198 words)

Wife wants to mend an old wound with a sweetheart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Should I be concerned that my wife of 10 years wants to "mend an old wound" with a high school sweetheart? She had a very emotional situation when she was 15 with her highschool sweetheart. He fled and does not know what happened after the incident. I have known about this... (345 words)

Are platonic relationships possible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a gril at my best friends house on game night, I like her as a friend, we get along well and she knows of my current relationship. Is it a bad idea to try to contact her to hang out only as friends or should I just forget about it? Can a guy and a girl just be friends? I ... (64 words)

Uncertain about my feelings towards him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Ok so Ive been with my bf 4 years now. At the beginning everything was perfect. We didnt have our first arguement til we had been together almost 6months and everyone around us couldnt beleive how well we fitted. Even after a a couple years, there was still a spark. Abou... (295 words)

Too soon to tell or this is a good sign?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I met this guy a few weeks ago. In a spurt of bold flirtation, I left him my email. He emailed me a few days later and it unfolded from there. We started talking online and then on the phone with two/three hour conversations on average. I've only known him for a few weeks, ... (94 words)

I keep saying "What"?? and its turning into a problem!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, completely crazy question here. Not sure it's relationship related... but anyway. I keep saying 'what?'. Like if my boyfriend turns and looks at me smiling, or if he has an odd expression on his face... I just ask 'what?' - not in a defensive tone, more curiosity I thin... (101 words)

Why is he denying this other porn viewing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married and very sexually exclusive with my husband, we even watch some pron together. But when I'm sleeping at night I often catch him watching porn, some of it I can visually see, other stuff he exits out of and disposes quickly. I ask him about his fantasies and he ... (109 words)

How to stop his communication with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been married for 5 years. My husband has this "friendship" with another woman, but she is really manipulative. He denied having communication with her, but I had found information that show that they are having communication. How can I made him stop having communication ... (59 words)

Do I love her? Should I get her back? I need help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I started dating this girl in HS. She was my first g/f and we dated 2 yrs. I broke up with once after a 1 1/2 years then asked her out again for another 1/2 yr and then broke up with here again. Soon after I started dating another girl for 10 months and then we broke ... (241 words)

How to fix our lesbian relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age - I've been with my lesbian lover for twenty years. Her oldest brother has lived with us off and on for several of those years. Now I'm finding that while she has rebuffed all my overtures at physical attention, for the last year or three, I'm having to deal with his attraction ... (86 words)

What did she mean by this comment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What did she mean with this comment? Ok, so we're eating cake just celebrating my boyfriend's B-day and he's joking around about how he got no presents nor anything to unwrap. And she says, 'Well I'm sure she gave you something to unwrap.' And just laughed. I was shocked ... (83 words)

Don't want to push him away, but don't want him to seem I don't care.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met up with a guy i use to go to school with in February of this year. He was so loving and did everything he could for me. He txt several times a day and rang until the beginning of May. I was on a night out with friends and at the start of the night i hurt my ankle and tore ... (505 words)

Should I tell his new girlfriend what he is really like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Help me ive been texting my ex bf from a different number under a name ? which is a girl, thing is hes got a gf and he says there happy but whys he texting this girl ie me with i want to suck yor tits and do other things ive shown him pics of her as my mate hes never met agreed ... (143 words)

Problems with my husband - help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband hates my brother in law, before marriage we are like friends he doesn't have any intention but he speaks very jovial to me, but my husband hates whenever he speaks with me.i told him if u din like him u dont speak i will speak but he got angry and beat me.i thought ... (213 words)

Sex with my ex but he has a pregnant girlfriend, I feel I'm going mad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Help me please im really messed up i split with my guy last year but im still in love with him we where only together for 8 months, The thing is he now has a gf and sees pregnent and i wish it was me that was having this baby, and the other day i actually meet up with him and ... (170 words)

Help! My Friendship Is Going To Go Down The Drain If I Dont Sort It Straight Away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, my problem i have is that my friend has been through of of crap over the years and i have been there all the way for all the family, but my friend (the same age as me) is treating me like sh*t! I don't know why, how can i confront her into stop arguing towards me and m... (95 words)

I don't want to tell my g/f about the cheating but the guilt is too much of a burden!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I love my girlfriend/complicated relationship deeply, I can see a life, kids, and marriage with her, she is my everything. I had an ex-fiance though that came into the relationship after the first 6 months and my feelings came back for her. Everything was perfect before ... (288 words)

How long can I hide it from my parents that my dad is my boyfriends boss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i am in total fix i need advise asap!thanks so here it goes i am 20 years old and my bouyfriend is 21 he is a hotel management student,he is done with studies and now interning in a hotel for experience but here is the problem my dad owns a few hotels in the city and he ... (216 words)

How can I hide birth control from my mom?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - MOD NOTE: poster age stated as 26, believe that is incorrect based on the info in this post. Okay here's a classic: How can I hide birth control from my mom? I know, I know. Half of you will read this and be like "Honey, you shouldn't hide this from your mom, talk ... (324 words)

What are all of these girls really looking for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi.. i met this girl we connected instantly.. we hung out after we met and we kissed and had a great time.. we talked on the phone and she told me that she did have a boyfriend but that she really liked me.. we talk all day every day for a week now.. and we hung out 3 days out ... (182 words)

He says his feelings haven't developed as much as mine!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im 19 year old guy, hes 24, we have been seeing each other for about 4 months now (not actually in a relationship way). he has just came out of a long term relationship (3 years) as well as his bit on the side leaving to go home (far away), well yeah we became friends and ... (225 words)

I hinted that I wanted to be his girlfriend and now he's been distant

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody, I started seeing a guy I've known through work for about 2 years 6 weeks ago. He's absolutely lovely as in paying his way, taking me to the cinema and generally looking after me. However, this is when we're together. We live about 45mins drive away from each o... (137 words)

I think my ex wants to get back together but not so sure and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys my ex recently sent me an sms saying he miss me and yesterday he asked if i still love him and i ignored him.i think he wants us to get together again but im nt so sure.what can i do because i want to ask him what he meant.plz guys help me i love this guy alot but i ... (67 words)

Do you think my sister in law might have been trying to seduce me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age - Dear Cupid... I have been married with my wife for about 7 years already and we have two daughters who are still in their grade school levels. We live just a door away from my in-laws who were concerned with our situation. I am a sensual and sometime a sex crave person, ma... (704 words)

I'm afraid that boys will only see me as a friend. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey =) I'm 13 years old, and alot of people call me weird,stupid, dumb even my friends haha. I am always laughing and happy, although I can be serious when I need to be. I laugh at alot of things that people don't and I am always friendly towards people and apparently I am ... (219 words)

Deeply in love with, or confused about my sister in law!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am seriuosly confused and struggling to understand the root cause behind my feelings. Short version: I sometimes think I am deeply in love with my sister in law (wife's sister), so much so that often days go by where I can't think of anything but her and fantasize about how ... (929 words)

He didn't seem to excited over the trouble I made to bake him a birthday cake

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I tell my boyfriend of (4 months) that this bothered me a bit? Ok, so yesterday was his B-day. I baked him a cake and took a long lunch to drop it off at his house. I would see him until late so I figured I'd leave it with his sis early and he'd be surprised when h... (285 words)

Why did he treat me like this when he said he loved me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just dont understand what im doing wrong. Im trying to get over a ex who has hurt me stripped me of my self by his hurtful remarks.his flirtous ways.not wanting to spending time with me and making out his single!he knocked my confindence made me believe i was wrong and he was ... (356 words)

How can I not be so excited?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how can i not be so horny? Okay, so i've always been like this, when a girl tells me she's going for a shower or getting changed im thinking about it, but today i reached a new one. I was sat in class, and this attractive girl asked to go to the toilet, i over hear this ... (147 words)

Do all girls think that masturbating is gross?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, im a male 16 and i had a question to ask, i know all about sex and stuff like that and i do myself masturbate, but when girls i've gotten close to have asked and i've admitted they've said it was gross, and that they would never do something like this. why is it that girls ... (90 words)

Should I risk being too forward, or risk losing her to someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've known this girl at my school for a couple months now. We sit next to each other in history class. She is pretty flirty with me. We make jokes, poke fun at each other, etc. We talk a lot on Facebook; we've spent the last couple of days talking about completely random ... (133 words)

His wife is threatening me to abort our baby

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - the father of my baby is a married man.At first he said he is going to support me all the way but his wife finds it and she is harassing and threatening me just to abort the baby.Now she spread the rumors in my workplace because her husband works there as well.I dont know what ... (63 words)

With my girlfriend, but still in love with my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I first met her at my high school. I was in the 11th grade and she was a grade below. She had just transferred to my school. She was single,I was in a long distance relationship with my present girlfriend. We met up alot because she was friends with a girl in her class who i ... (1031 words)

Everything is really getting to me..I don't know whether to just pack my things and go away or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I basically just don't know what to do. I don't know whether to change my life completely. On New Years Eve I made an oath to myself that this year was going to be good. So far, its been awful. So here goes: 1. My nana died earlier on in the year, which ... (301 words)

We keep fighting, I don't want to, and I don't want to lose her but this is a vicious cycle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help me! I have been seeing this girl with an 8 yr old daughter since February 2008. She had mentioned that she wasn't looking for a serious relationship so we kept it mutual. A few months later (May) she read a few flirtatious emails I had sent out to another ... (625 words)

Husband wished happy birthday to his ex should I be bothered by it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found an email of my husband's ex thanking him for remembering her birthday and that he made her laugh. I've always felt that he stills has feelings for her and that he always remembers her for any insignificant reason. Am I crazy for thinking this is wrong and t... (71 words)

Husband doesn't feel a connection any more

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 6 years recently told me he wants a divorce. He says he is not in love with me and has only stayed with me out of obligation to our children. He admits to me that he doesn't understand why he feels this way, and that he feels I have been a good wife and mother, ... (305 words)

Would he like it if I did what he is doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not a jealous person and ive always taken it well when my boyfriends in the past have commented on a girl on tv or an actress and said how sexy she is. I dont really care, they're celebrities, you cant be with them, i like Daniel Craig as well but its not like i'll ever get ... (254 words)

Is it ok to stay in the girl after orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it ok and safe to stay inside a girl for a bit after coming? We haven't been having sex very long but I always wear a condom.It says you should pull out staight after having the orgasm but I stay inside a bit longer because I want to pleasure my girl for as long as possi... (123 words)

What is wrong with me? I broke up with her but now I'm sad she's dating someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and I dated this girl for 2 months, it was my first real relationship and it was really exciting for a while but as time went on that excitment turned into anxiety and I couldn't figure out why. Its like just being in the relationship was making me miserable ... (130 words)

My boyfriend makes me happy but not as happy as his friend does!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never been one to break anyones heart and ive definitely never been a cheat or a sleep around. I've been with my boyfriend for just over two months now. Things have got really serious between us, we've moved in together and were getting along really well. I know that i ... (302 words)

Does he want us to be a family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm pregnant and living with my boyfriend. yesterday I was the happiest person ever as although it was a shock that I was pregnant, he seemed to get used to the idea and I was quite happy from the beginning until, and I know I shouldn't have done, but I read his messages and ... (178 words)

Open marriage made me realize I'm no longer in love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and feeling horrible about my marriage. My husband and i have 4 kids and we have dicussed open marriage. I have had 1 partner with in that agreement. He has had none. It has really played a serious role in where i am today. I am i believe addicted to the high ... (285 words)

Haven't been taking the pill properly...am I pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 and on the bc pill but i tend to miss it, but this month i seemed to miss 5 tablets, first i missed the 6th or 7th non sugar tablet on the thursday or friday had sex on sunday night, i missed 1 tablet again the next day (monday) then missed it again on the thursday, i had ... (136 words)

What makes a man lose interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

- This is just a general question for anyone who thinks they can shed some insight. What makes a man lose interest? I can guess that early on in a relationship it could be that the partner is needy or clingy, too pressurising etc, but I'd like to know aswell as what other factors ... (135 words)

Her budget for the wedding is making me have second thoughts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm getting married in a year, asked her months 6 ago and now i'm not so sure on the marriage. I love her but she took the planning/cost too high for my taste and doesn't want to budge on any cost cutting that I come up with. I want to get married and love her, but having ... (138 words)

I don't want him to know I am inexperienced

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm don't know whats wrong with me, I am so uptight when it comes to guys. I have never had a boyfriend but this really good looking guy hit on me and we kissed and it was great, he was very upfront and said that he doesn't want a girlfriend he just wants some 'fun' which ... (154 words)

Are these signs that I can't trust my wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age - My wife continues to buy weed and smoke it behind my back. She cannot wait till we are together to share in the stuff that we buy together. She hides it, she hides her useage, and she hides her connection and of course when and where. I see nothing wrong with getting high. But ... (548 words)

I'm really interested, but I don't know how to approach him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

- Hi, I'd love it if someone could help me, I'm being driven insane! There's this guy that I like and I've only seen him around for about a year, and up until about 2 months ago, I never really paid much attention to him. But now he's all I think about! All I know about him i... (416 words)

Why cant I get aroused anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been on the bc pill for over 6 months but out of no-where all this month i havent been able to get aroused by anything not even my partner i dont no why and dont no what to do advise plz... (42 words)

How do I tell my partner I want to start trying for a baby at the end of this year

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my partner have agreed on ttc at the end of nxt year but after the abortion we had and i regret, i just want to start trying for a baby when we come back from england mid oct and that i dont want to wait for next year but i dont know how to tell him and i know he'll ... (90 words)

The doctors say I haven't got a womb - could they be wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi !!! i hav a very strange problem in me ? i am 23 years old now and finished my MBA and planning to get married to my boyfriend , but the problem is that i am not matured mean i still dint get periods till now after docters scanning , testing and all , doctors said that i ... (138 words)

Love triangle among friends - what would you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I want to know how different people respond to situations like this. Heres the issue. Guy A, Girl A and Girl B are both your good friends. Good as in the few of your always hang out together. whether it is a gathering, group studies or parties, this few close friends of yours... (173 words)

Will my boyfriend notice that I slept with someone else?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem that needs some answers. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend and we don't have sex all the time because we don't live together. But when we are together we do. But I had sex with someone else and it was really good. I know when I see my boyfriend today he ... (98 words)

My friend goes on spending binges.... I really like him and am not sure what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so herre it goes.. i have been hoooking up with some one for a while now we run in the same group of friends and all of his friends say that since we have been a thing he ha s been acting strange i didnt see it untill they told me. what should i do should i ask him what his ... (189 words)

I think my sisters want to make my dad move house.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age - My elderly father is now living alone in our family house and I know that he really likes being there, though of course he is lonely since my mother died. I can already feel the vibes of sisters who want to try to make him move or something just for their own peace of mind, an... (93 words)

Is he interested or not? It seems he only wants to hang out at the gym!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I was wondering if anyone could offer some insight into my problem So I meant someone at the gym I go to, a couple of months ago. We exchanged phone numbers and we would talk and text daily. A little over a month ago, he, finally, asked me out on a date. On our ... (335 words)

Should he be a part time dad with the woman he loves? Or a full time dad with the woman he doesn't?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with a man off and on for 4 yrs. We recently made plans for me and my children to move in with him and start a family. Until we found out that he is going to be a father, with a woman he had a sexual relationship with over the winter when we w... (254 words)

Don't love my wife, wedding was a mistake, met some one else... Do I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm married. Have been for six months. I wanted to call it off a few months before but thought it was just cold feet and that I'd get over it. Also at that time i began an emotional relationship with someone else. Nothing sexual, in fact neither of us admitted feelings up ... (119 words)

Is it ok for me to strip online for other men, if he uses porn... it's the same right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Since it is o.k for a guy to look at porn daily because they are "visual creatures" and need that release. Then isn't it just the same for a girl to go to chat rooms and talk since they are "emotional creatures" and need a release too. The guy on the internet is just a face ... (238 words)

I'm scared. Should I have sex with this boy who is asking me? Or is he trying to use me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 15 years old and i need help i really do. when i was 14 i was raped by my ex botfriend and since then i have not been able to be in a stable relationship. its messed up my whole life. theres this boy that i really really like and he keeps asking me for sex but im s... (216 words)

My friend and I both like the same boy. Do I tell him? How do I not hurt her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - How to tell my admire that i love him? But i'm scare because my friend likes him too. I don't want to hurt her... (24 words)

Will he go away if I ignore him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i think my ex of 20 years of abuse is stalking me. me and our 18 year old son have left the area so he doesnt know where we live. the last time i was with him 18 months ago he had scratched my car and i involved the police and he recieved a small fine and was advised to leave ... (198 words)

How do I find out if she likes me without telling her I like her?

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There this girl at my school we talk sometimes, but we always talk on msn, i really like her and she new it but im not sure if she likes me anymore, how did i find out without asking her, and how do i tell her i have Loving feelings for her, i really need her, she's amazing... (58 words)

She hates me, but I love her!

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - there this girl at my school, i dont really know her well, and thats cos, for as long as she's been her, she's always said that she doesnt like me, and i wasnt bothered but lately, i've been thinking about her in a sexual way, i saw her today , and she was in some p.e shorts ... (119 words)

I'm worried she thinks I like her...I don't!

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay so here it is, Yesterday was our last day of school, we were all taking photo's and things, and anyway things quietened down, i'll cut to it, me and this girl ended up kissing, i think she's really hot, but i dont fancy her and i think she fancy's me, the kiss was just... (109 words)

He doesn't want to see me any more, but I know he cares?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been seeing a guy for the past 4years.its had its up and downs. he has felt that i have put constant pressure on him and am probably guilty of it. when we are together we normally get along fine. lack of time is the problem and i put pressure on him to see him. now he h... (101 words)

He always says how wonderful his ex is, I worry they might meet while I'm away!

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and I think is going ok. He talks about his ex since ive been with him and always says how wonderful she is, he split up with his ex when he was 22 years old, now he's 34. He keeps a photo of her that she gave him on h... (195 words)

Does this make me gay?

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm a weird? I get turned on by the smell of my own penis, i like to rub my finger over the tip and the sniff it whilst wanking, does this make me gay??? help :(... (37 words)

Snuggling...

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Does anyone have any tips on how to 'snuggle' with a girl? And maybe while 'snuggling' lead onto other stuf? thanks,... (29 words)

I will be introducem to her parents. How to make a good impression?

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am going to meet my friend with benefits parents tomorrow night and was wondering if anyone had any tips on how to leave a good impression on them. She will probs introduce me to them and we will talk for a short time, then we will go watch a movie or something. How do i ... (71 words)

A mother's advice needed - I'm a father who needs help understanding women.

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I truly feel I have to explain a little background. I just got out of a seven year rocky relationship with the mother of beautiful baby girl who is the true holder of my heart. I was in no way inocent in all our problems but definatly not the only one at fault. The sad thing is ... (464 words)

Is it wrong of me not to want to travel to far off Asia for my g/f's brother's wedding?

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it wrong of me to not want to go to my gf's brothers wedding early next year? He lives and is getting married in far off asia and it would be expensive and something i really just wouldn't want to do. I felt i had a valid point when i told her i didn't want to go and thought ... (148 words)

I want to want to write a poem for our anniversary. Any ideas?

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I need to wrote a poem for me and my gf's 7 month anniversary to give her tonight (it's a thing we do) but i want to write something a little less run of the mill and a bit different. Any ideas? :)... (43 words)

My brother has been stealing from my parents--why would he do this?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My brother is 18 and working for approx 10 months, It has come to light that he has been stealing my parents bank cards and withdrawing money from there account. We believe this started around march 08(when he was unemployed) and in total taken around £5500. I cant understand ... (80 words)

Is my husband displaying normal behavior for a man whose wife is pregnant?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am pregnant with my second child and I spend most of my time alone. My husband seems to never be home and have time for me. I always wake up in the morning alone and he is barely at home. If he do be home he wakes up and an hour later he is gone and is gone all day. He also ... (95 words)

I'm not sure about my equipment and feel they are too small and inadequate

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this must get asked a lot and considering i am mid twenties i should be over this sort of thing but i am and have always been concerned about my testicles. I read that each testicle should be about the size of a golf ball....! mine are that size put together if lucky! I ... (371 words)

Been together for 7 years, quit his job 2 years ago and things have never been the same since then

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for more than seven years. We started out as really close friends in college. It's not a perfect relationshp but I'd say we're really both happy. It's near perfect until two years ago, he quit his job. Probably, that's the reason why he's usually ... (281 words)

Lots of love but he's unwilling to get hitched

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in love with a man I have been living with for 2 years. We have been dating for 5 years before that. He is amazing, we never argue or fight, he is kind, loving , sexy and all the things I dreamed of. The only thing that he is not is the marrying type... He says he feels ... (169 words)

Unusual period and I'm wondering what it might mean

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if someone could help me on the subject of periods. I'm normally regular, and on time every month. My periods aren't heavy and only last three or four days. So anyway i was due to start my period this week. I can always tell when im going to come on because... (188 words)

I realise after 3 days that I don't like him, when/how to tell him?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok... so im with this new guy. his totally sweet and everything we have been together 3day today. The prooblem is, i had feelings for him before we got together but then yesterday i didnt have any, i dont know what to do. I dont want to dump him and make him feel bad, his a ye... (164 words)

I go to swingers' parties alone and it can mess up my marriage if it's found out!

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Although I love my husband dearly and he is the best father to our two children, he doesn't satisfy me sexually. My biggest fantasy was to have sex with many different men. Finally I brought up the idea of bringing in a partner. I even said he could pick the men or we could ... (525 words)

How can I have sex with her without her knowing?

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi am a boy,i want to do sex with my friends sister.She has a boyfriend but she likes me also.She always gives me hugs and kisses but never gives me permision to do sex.She says "DO whatever you want while am sleeping but i should not get any sensation.". We sleeps together in ... (76 words)

He had a foursome before we were dating, I'm scared this can reocurr after we get married!

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is really bothering me... I'm 28, Been in a relationship with this guy for almost 2 years, he is great but sometimes its like i dont know him at all!! Before me he had a very ugly break up with a girl that had cheated on him a couple of times. At that time he was is the ... (210 words)

Can people find new love while already in a relationship?

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - do people find new love while already in long-term relationships? i met a girl at a friends house on game night and took a great liking to her over the few times we ran into one another, i'm in a longstanding relationship and am very confused. the girl knows of my relationsh... (98 words)

Tiring and stressing job, wife is upset as I don't spend enough time with her!

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife is really pissed off at me because I haven't had sex with her in 3 weeks. I have been tired and stressed out lately with my job. She says I reject her to much and she's getting fed up with it. Her birthday was last week and I missed cause I was away on a business and ... (170 words)

I think she was raped: How can I help her?

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a delimma. Me and this girl I know have been friends about 8 or 9 years. she and I are best friends,tho we are both in relationships. She came to me the other night with a problem. She was at a bar having a drink and somehow some guy she knew was supposed to take her ... (154 words)

My friends say he might like me. Any suggestions?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i really really really like this guy more than anyone i've ever liked before i can never stop myself from staring at him, i think about him every single minute of the day and my heart beats 3894723847829374 times a minutes when im near him im not sure if he likes me or n... (150 words)

Could it be pregnancy or just stress?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. my name is pamela. i am 24. my question is:i am almost 3 weeks late on my period. i took hpt on sunday then went to the doctor on tuesday both were negative. i have gained quite bit of weight, i eat all the time normally i eat once or twice a day now its like every hour or ... (166 words)

How can I get to be something my parents can be proud of?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and really miserable. I have been fat most of my life, and I am just sick and tired of it. people tell me all the time that im stunning, but I dont buy it. I am so self conscious that Im terrified to leave the house because i know people will judge me for how... (336 words)

Do I have to take the pill at exactly the same time every day?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been on birth control pills for the past 2 months and for the first couple weeks, I was doing good about taking them at the same exact time every day, at 4pm. But, the past few weeks or so, I've taken them around the same time between 4-5 but not at the exact same time. ... (84 words)

Is it normal to expect satisfaction from married sex?

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5 June 2009 (M)

age - I am getting married soon. My fiancee is divorced and I have always been single. She is also almost 2 years older to me. I have very high desire to have sex. She does let me love her not the way I want. My question is : Is it not my right to seek physical satisfaction from my ... (213 words)

Wondering how people's 'first times' were?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay so I've been awfully curious about how different first times having sex has gone. This isn't like an advice needed thing. I would just like to hear how male and female first times went. Did you regret it after? What made you feel like you were ready even if you were or ... (143 words)

Can someone tell me how to chose one with out hurting the other?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well this would be similar to my other question i had..but anyways ive been really stressed out lately because i cant figure out what to do in life..im stuck on 2 different guys and i want to move out already ive got 2 daughters im 18 and going to school...the guy im currently ... (237 words)

Now that I found my true love, why is it so hard?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a few months now. The time span seems to be short and new yet so many things have happened already. Infidelity (on both parts), hitting (I will explain this further), and just disrespectful ways that couples sho... (671 words)

I've always practiced safe sex, but now I have a genital wart. I feel this will ruin my life. How can I get rid of it?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just found out during my annual pap smear that I have HPV or a genital wart about 1cm inside my vagina. Its a single tiny hard lump but the doctor says its a wart all the same. Im a grown woman, educated (have 2 degrees), intelligent and cant beleive this has happened to ... (202 words)

I need help making an important decision. Is Scotland better than the US?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have to make a life altering decision. I have to decide whether or not to stay in my home state and finish my education or start afresh abroad in Scotland. I am an aspiring filmmaker and I think Scotland will offer more artistic outlets and the ability to live in Franc... (288 words)

Should I be worried about this vein on my penis?

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am freaking out! I have made an appointment to see a doctor but couldn't get in until four days time. Hope someone can give me some advice to tide me over until then. Today I noticed that a vein through the head of my penis seems swollen, and at the base of the head of my p... (144 words)

Does he just want sex?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and this boy have been communicating for like almost two months, but our first hookup was like 3 weeks a go. we usually like text for 2 hours eveyr night, except this week we barely have. whenever we do though, he says real cute things, and mentions kissing and hanging out ... (128 words)

Guys, would this scare you?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a very large penis and intercourse has always been somewhat painful. A few time's i've even bled or had a vaginal tear. I don't think he's ever noticed how painful it is for me and i've never expressed it to him. today was the first time we've had sex in a whi... (138 words)

It's been a long time since we dated, should I still try for her?

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and she's 18 now. We dated for a short time starting in December '06. Every few months she still reminds me that she loves me and would like a second chance, but I always said no because since then she has dated around 22 guys (not even kidding, some for like 2 weeks-1 ... (377 words)

Is he in love, or am I reading too much into it?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've written you guys several times in the past couple days, and wanted to thank you very much for the advice ya'll have givin to me. It has helped me to take a step back, and analyze my life, and put some pretty important issues into focus. My boyfriend as of today, has told ... (127 words)

How to get over first love after years.

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'll try to explain my story the best i can, i guess i can be considered to be someone with a tough time getting through an old love story and, i guess, some self-esteem issue. I'll just tell you my story a bit so, i don't know, it might help to give more detailed... (619 words)

Should I just get it over with?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m 16 and I still haven't had my first kiss. All my friends tease me about it and I’m just not that type of girl to go on dates and kiss. Plus I want my first kiss to be special and with someone I really like. And I also am a virgin. Sometimes I just feel left out from the ... (106 words)

Ex wife wont leave us alone!

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 7 months and we are as happy as can be. Everything is great except for his ex wife. They have a child together and he is a wonderful dad. We get his 7 year old daughter nearly every weekend and he is great with her. Him and his ex ... (420 words)

Should I leave him so he can be with his daughter?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey just need some advice on my situation. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and the problem is his babymother. He has his daughter cause his baby mother had her for 2 yrs and she was out the out state, so she finally brang her to him cause he didn’t see her for 2 yrs so ... (137 words)

Am I not over my ex yet?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been single now for about six months after a pretty bad break-up with a guy who was emotionally abusive. Well, the other day, I was getting into the mood and about to hook-up with a guy I've known for a couple years now. We also only really started talking about three ... (261 words)

Should I stay with him or leave?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for about two months. He says he really likes me and almost told me that he felt he loved me. The thing about him is that he has a VERY rocky past. He has slept with over 40 girls and was the "player" type. Everyone insists that he has changed since he ... (387 words)

She got feelings for me and our friendship is ruined!

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so im 16 years old and my teaching set changed this year and there was this girl that i didnt usually talk to, but this year she sits next to me (alphabetical) and i got to know her and i was nice to her but as a friend and she started to get feelings for me and its ruined our ... (102 words)

There's a difference in age and maturity...what should I do?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this boy he's 13 and im 16..big age difference.im more womanly and filled out and mature acting and he just seems like a little innocent boy who sits back and listens to his ipod(typical 13 yr old).but he is really attractive to me for some strange reason and i like ... (124 words)

I'm dating someone who my best friend also liked...help!

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I just started dating but the problem is my best friend likes him and she liked him frist. At first I didn't feel the guilt because I was happy but now I feel sooo guilty and for some reason now I hate him. Please help me with my situation because I don't know ... (61 words)

How can I improve my self-esteem so I can enjoy my relationship to the fullest?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A few years ago, I was involved in an unhealthy relationship. He cheatd on me, though I took him back only to have it happen again. I tried so hard but he just let me down, while trying to keep me running after him. I got out of there and got strong. I am now in a relation... (295 words)

I have major trust issues with men. How can I overcome this?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I have a problem with men. And, I think this problem originates from the way I was taught to perceive men as a child. My father is not a bad man, not compared to a lot of fathers. He provided for his family and gave us the things we needed but also had an explosive ... (382 words)

How can I tell him that I actually do like him?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this boy a lot and I want him to know. I also think he likes me too. I have liked him since September and it's now June and we have 1 week of school left. He has asked me many times before did I like him but I have always said no thinking the negative. It makes me sad I ... (79 words)

Our affair has been like a roller coaster...what's his deal?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a married woman and I had sex with a married man. I was looking for no strings attached sex (the "why" is understandable, but not relevant here) on a regular basis. After our first encounter, I didn't hear from him till 2 weeks later when he sent a text saying how great it... (171 words)

He was perfect...and now he's married. What do I do?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so here's the problem: 7 years ago I met my dream guy, as close to perfect as a man gets...only thing is, I wasn't ready at the time. He tried to help me get into college...he was always there for me, we talked for hours, he was just amazing, but he lived 2 states away and ... (243 words)

My mind still wants sex, but my body says no. Help!

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5 June 2009 (F)

age - I am 62 years old, my partner is 40. I am tired, she wants to party. I understand that, I was there. WE ARE GAY. My mind still wants sex, but my body says no. I am scared of the future. Help me. ... (43 words)

Maybe I shouldn't have left like I did...was I wrong?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am 17 and my boyfriend is 19. A couple of nights ago me and my boyfriend slept together for the first time and the next morning I woke up before him and left. It was my first time but it wasn't for him. When I woke up I honestly felt like I had made a huge mistake,... (117 words)

How can I let her know I don't want to be her friend anymore?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my so called mate, has turned into suck a moody cow, ever since i got my first boyfriend, she tried to ruin it, now im finally with someone i love and care about she is still trying to again, and keeps acussing me of having mood swings, and bitching about me behind my back to ... (196 words)

I bought a vibrator...should I tell him?

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I love each other very much and have tons of sex, and I enjoy it a lot. He has been trying REALLY hard to get me to orgasm, but I just can't ever seem to get there (haven't ever had one). We've gone to visit our families for a few weeks, so we've been tal... (136 words)

What I found in his wallet floored me!!!!!

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - this one is a toughy! So I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half! just last week I took out everything in his wallet while he was at work (it got all wet the previous day so I wanted to dry it all out) and found a............. sex offenders registration card! I was at ... (218 words)

Straight guy with confused gay feelings and experience

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a normal straight guy with good job, beautiful wife, and kids. 40. Lately, I have been finding myself fantasizing about stuff that I wouldn't have even thought about untill now. Sex life with wife is great. But I guess I want more spice in life. Out of the blue, I ... (244 words)

"I'm sorry I fell for you..."

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5 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - If a guy left a message on the phone and ended it with: "I'm sorry I fell for you..." how would that make you feel?... (29 words)

My friend's BF's cousin is forcing her to screw her man and check him!

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5 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well Basically.. My best friend who is 14 years old has been checking this guy for about 2 months now, she didn't really want to go out with him but now its ok. But then we were on the bus to town and her bfs cousin come on he kept tryna flirt with ma mate and so her bf told ... (415 words)