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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why does he want my trust when I can't have his?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16, my boyfriend is 17, I have met his family and we are very close but here lately I haven't been able to see him. He called me last night and we broke up, 20 minutes later he called me crying and I'm not sure if he wants to be with me or he just felt bad about me ... (147 words)

I'm 13 and my parents won't let me date till I'm 17.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and my parents won't let me date till I'm 17. I'm in love with this guy and he's in love with me but I've tried everything for them to let me date. They won't even let me talk to him barely because they don't want me dating so how can I get my parents to let me date ... (61 words)

After all this time I still hold a torch for my ex...

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am really confused, me and my ex boyfriend have carried on being friends since we broke up our realationship two years ago. It was my choice to end the realtionhip as I felt that he didnt have feelings for me. In the last year of our relationship he used to spend... (470 words)

The only way for a woman to get pregnant is if she's having sex right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The only way for a woman to get pregnant is if she's having sex right? If not, what other ways?... (20 words)

Am I pleasing her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

12 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - She tells me that her legs get numb and that I please her but she has also told me that she has a girl she goes to and two sex toys... am I pleasing her?... (35 words)

Abortion effects

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a grade 12 student and I am researching abortion. What I need is for women who have had an abortion, to tell me abit about the experience. Was it a negative experience? Was it a positive experience? Did you feel regret or releaf afterwards? And the Aprox. cost It woul... (96 words)

My husband seems to be choosing his friend over me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some help please. I have been married over a year and been with my husband for six. Last year we had a very bad year and split for a short while, he was constantly chasing me trying to get back with me. We did get back together but when were split he made a new guy ... (167 words)

How do I approach this sort of conversation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello all Just need advice on how to approach a tricky situation with my newish bf, or if I should at all. when i was younger i was sexually abused by a family member, close friends know, and i'm not asking for help to get over what happened but i'm not sure if i s... (250 words)

I love him dearly, but I blew the chance of us ever being together again. Where do I go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I got married at 18 because i was pregnant. We had been together for about 3 years. I cheated on my husband about two years later. We split up. I tried to reconcile with him to make our marriage work. He didnt want to hear it. Soon after, I became pregnant by the other ... (255 words)

I need to know if she feels safe around me in situations like that

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and my girlfiend has just turned 18 years old we both love each other very very very much and both very happy but she isn't ready to have sex yet and I understand that I have been waiting for gd 2 years and she said she is scared and i dont want her to feel ... (97 words)

The girl I love is still in love with her ex, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

12 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl I love is still in love with her ex, what can I do? I know thers nothing basically i can do but i am now at the point where i am willing to be patient this girl wants to be with me, and truly does like me but right now she just doesnt feel right pursuing somethig... (278 words)

Help with ex and strech marks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have two problems 1. My boyfriend of 8 months dumped me shortly after Christmas saying he wasn't too sure he loved me anymore. I thought I was over it, but he's had another lasses name on his msn and it got me really upset. I've taken all the stuff he gave me and put them ... (238 words)

I told her, that It's 100% now, that I want to marry her. But now she is frustrated, that I didn't surprise her with an engagement.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Hi! I'm with my gf for 4 years. She knew from the beginning that I would be her Mr. Right, but I was not sure about her until 2 month ago. She told me to finally think about it half a year ago... I realize it was frustrating to her, because she wanted to get married and I st... (143 words)

Love Tactics - How to Win the One You Want - Advice from anyone who has read it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm interested to hear from anyone who has read the book 'Love Tactics - How to Win the One You Want' by Thomas McKnight and Robert Phillips. I've been following the advice in this book with someone I care for since last summer but I'm finding it really hard for a number of ... (410 words)

He finally asks me to marry him and I'm filled with dread...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my guy for 4 years and even though we have had loads of ups and downs, very little in common I have always been desperate to make the relationship work. Madly in love with him basically. Then recently he started talking-finally- about getting married and I ... (136 words)

Is stuck-up and conceited the same thing???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Is stuck-up and conceited the same thing??? People talk about me behind my back and think I'm stuck-up but I'm not. I just think very highly of myself but I dont think I'm too good to talk to anyone else. Can people tell that your conceited even if you dont say anything? Do ... (63 words)

She really wants me to give her some oral sex. I don't have a clue what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey I'm using my sisters account. I'm a sixteen year old guy and I need some help from guys and girls. I have been with my girl for about a month and she really wants me to give her some oral sex. I don't have a clue what to do! I mean I kind of do but I really need help here. ... (76 words)

He's all I ever wished for in a guy... so why am I so discontent...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone - I hope you can help me! Basically, I've been with my boyfriend on and off now for around 4 years. When I met him, it wasn't instant attraction but that all devleloped and we had a very nice (not amazing!) but nice relationship until I finished it because that ... (210 words)

We've been together 11 months now but I want to be with someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend who I have been with for 11 months, but I'm starting to feel like I'm losing the spark with her and I'm starting to get feelings for this other girl, Julie, who my girlfriend hates. I tell her I don't speak to Julie but I do and I want to be with Julie but I ... (77 words)

I have lost all respect for my husband over the 20 years we've been married and would love to leave...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age - I have been married for 20 years. I knew before we married I was doing the wrong thing but still went ahead as I hoped my feelings for him would grow. My husband had been married before and his ex wife was divorcing him when we met. He has a 22 year daughter from hi... (314 words)

Living with an alcoholoc...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey, I am wondering if anyone can help me? I have been with my partner for over 10 years and we have 3 beautiful daughters but for the past few years he has been drinking heavily. I had finally had enough in the middle of 2008 when I was pregnant with our third child. I moved ... (168 words)

I wish I could turn back the clock and undo what I did...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

- Back in the summer my ex dumped me and started seeing another girl. I was so in love with him it really hurt and for months I hated them both. Deep down I know it wasn't the girl's fault, he didn't dump me for her, she was unaware of what he done to me. But I still hated her ... (342 words)

Boyfriend not off well financially but its draining me both financially & mentally--I'm tired of it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have spent 5 years without a proper job since I graduated from university. Those have been the toughest times of my life. I was trying very hard to get a job but it was getting more difficult. I did part time jobs and went as far as writing for newspapers as a freelance ... (573 words)

My wife is gorgeous & I hate men looking at her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

12 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ive been married to my gorgeous wife for 7 years. Im very insecure about other men eyeing her up in public. When we go out she looks amazing, the trouble is this makes me feel very uncomfortable as im constantly being hyper-vigilent to see if any blokes are looking at her. I ... (432 words)

Should I do oral?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend, which is 18 and im 15, where playing around in are secret spot at school this morning like always. and this weekend we got to know more details about each other, like small things about his future and past, and how he felt about me. we he was supose t... (279 words)

Why don't any of these guys have feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Brace yourself people this is going to be a long one Grrr, right what is wrong with all the males I meet after reading this question please do not tell me that I need to stop going for the same kind of guy because really everything about the guys I meet are different except... (519 words)

"It just seemed right" what does that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So my ex and I have been broken up for almost two months now. On his birthday and on Christmas we wound up making out. I asked him why he kissed me and he told me he'd have to considerate it. A couple weeks later he was able to answer my question and said "it just seemed ... (69 words)

Newly married husband looking at porn, I'm disgusted

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age - My new husband has been looking at naked women on Craigslist and now I feel disgusted with him. It makes me feel like we are not special. It makes me feel like he thinks of other women when having sex with him and now I don't really want to have sex with him. He says he ... (159 words)

Is it the 11 year old that loves him? Or me at 16?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have sent this problem before but i didnt get any responses, so i decided to try again, because i still need advice :) When I was younger, about 10 or 11, i was best friends with a boy. We grew up together and I think that in some weird way i always loved him in the way t... (156 words)

Do good looking people get advantages in life?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - does being goodlooking/cute looking have advantagaes in sport,getting job,finding love etc not talking about me just in gerenal.goodlooking people get treated better then plain looking people... (29 words)

We're both really shy! How to move our relationship along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really, really like a guy who i have known for years now, and im about 99% sure that he likes me back (i got someone to ask him). However we are both really shy, so i dont know how to move our relationship to being more than just friends, so i'm not really sure what to do. ... (58 words)

What does "All is fair in love & war" mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is just a general question, and the internet doesnt really help so i thought i'd ask it. Ive heard the saying "Alls fair in love and war" alot lately and i just wondered what it actually means. Lol i feel a bit dumb asking people who have said it. . . thnx x... (54 words)

My b/f does things and doesn't think how it will make me feel

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of about 2 months is starting to irk my soul and I suppose I really don't know how to deal with it. Last Thursday evening we were going to hang out after he got cleaned up, that didn't happen though. I got one txt from him that said he didn't realize he was s... (702 words)

Wanna break up a 2 year relationship..need advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing a girl for the past two years who i now believe is to young for me to date, i went home on a christmas vacation and met up with another girl who i have had a crush on for more than 6 years,and am now in love with the old flame and dont know what to do about he ... (95 words)

Going to a party to snog, don't know how!

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im going to my boyfriends party soon and my other 2 friends are going to snog and i havent done this before so i dont know how to do it i want to do it, but i dont want to mess it up and get taken the mick out of. i dont know what to do. ... (56 words)

Why is it that racism has all of a sudden become a big joke to people?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that racism has all of a sudden become a big joke to people? I know some people (like me) HATE racism in any shape or form, and get really angry when people say racist things. To me, it's not right. Whether it's religion, skin colour or nationality, teenagers... (310 words)

Guys advice! In a FWB relationship and want more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Any guys out there, I need your help. If you were in a friends with benefits situation with a girl, and you both treat each other with a great amount of respect and get along great, and both are very attracted to one another, what would be a good way to break it to them that ... (109 words)

My ex cheated with my best friend and now wants me back

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was in a relationship with Eric for almost half a year. After we broke up i found out that he went out with my best friend and they chose to keep this from me until i found out they went out for about a month or two. He keeps saying how he really fell in love with her while ... (288 words)

Did his mental problems affect our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, my boyfriend just broke up with me over the weekend. he didn't give me a reason though. he told me once before he didn't really love me. but he said he was going to try to make it work. anyways he has a lot of problem, mentally. he is bipolar, split personality, ADHD, ... (116 words)

He made plans and then never called me back

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi..i had this really good guyfriend who use to confuse me by talkin to me either all sex stuff or treat me like m his little bro..i mean kiddish but tomboyish kind..i had a crush on him but could not figure out his stand..later he called me up after a long gap n yapped a lot ... (162 words)

If you took an abortion pill for how long are you protected from an unwanted pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Was wondering if you have a pill abortion can 8 months later you get pregnant again? [Moderator's note: I rephrased your question to make it a little more clearer.]... (30 words)

My wife won't admit she is cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

12 January 2009 (M)

age - Happy New Year to everyone!!! 2008 was not a particularly good year for me, I found out my wife cheated and continues on ... some background for all of you: - We have been married for 8 years (my second, her first) - I am 10 years older than she, 47/37 - We do not have child... (1149 words)

Is it ok for him to touch other girls at parties when he doesn't like me touching other boys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is my first question so im kinda nervous anyway I have been dating my boyfiend for some time now and there are somethings that he does that hurts me and gets me thinking things. For example he has letters in his room from his ex girlfriend and when i ask why he still ... (129 words)

I don't feel anything during sex, why could this be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, basically i have no feeling what so ever during sex. My boyfriend is experienced so i know he isn't just not doing it right, he's doing everything fine but i can't feel a thing! he gets really paranoid about it. is there something wrong? i can't get it checked because ... (88 words)

I can't trust him because he keeps pictures of womens' parts on his phone. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 years has been texting and talking to other girls on the phone. He has pictures of girls on his phone, he says they are just random texts that his friends send him but they are close up pics of girls and their body parts. I know he has never physical... (298 words)

Any advice about healthy weight gain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need some advice about semi-fast and healthy weight gain. Thanks in advance... (17 words)

How do I get her out of our lives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for about six months now, we get on amazingly and are very happy together. however, his ex girlfriend is clearly still not over him, they broke up over a year ago but i can see she still loves him. when she first discovered he was seeing me it wa... (290 words)

How do you relax around guys when you have low esteem and weight problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) age 41-50 - hi i was woundering how do i relax arounds guys if a guy touched me i go weak in the kness and get nevervous and tense up.the last time i was in nightclub a guy had his arms around my waist and i felt very nervous and shy.i was weak in the kness.the guy told to me relax and i ... (163 words)

Betrayal... my boyfriend was hurt that I discussed our problems with other people.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I had a fight over the fone while I was sitting with a friend (who happens to be his friend's wife). After the converstaion, I commented to the lady that it hurts to see us fight the way we do. The next morning my boyfriend was hurt that I discussed our ... (135 words)

What can I do to show her 11 years is too much to throw away?

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12 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has told me she is no longer in love with me even though I love her to bits. She says it will not work, we have two kids aged 3 and 6 and I am devastated... she said there is nobody else. What can I do to show her 11 years is too much to throw away. ... (60 words)

I found out he lives with someone and confronted him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I found out he lives with someone and confronted him when I did he said let's be friends what does this mean?... (22 words)

I honestly can't work out where my head or my heart is at?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so confused! I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly five years and things aren't going too well, in fact the last six months have been really difficult and we have discussed that we may have to call it a day... unfortunately we do love each other to... (495 words)

He disappeared on me... what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I've been seeing a guy for the last few months and all of a sudden, he (metaphorically speaking) "disappears" on me. Things were going great until one day he just stops seeing me. He suddenly became (in my opinion) "too busy" to see me. I thought i should give him some ... (103 words)

What can I do to tighen my vaginal muscles a little bit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had sex with a guy who had a big penis, now I think my vagina is too big for the guy that I am currently dating. It makes noises and his dick seems to be too loose when he is inside. He always asks me not to open my legs too wide because it becomes uncomfortable for him. ... (72 words)

Why do men tell you lies when they don't have to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I believe I've fallen in a deep depression. I use to be the girl that that loved life and people. I would hug strangers and always look for the best in people. Lately life has really beaten me down. Last year my husband wanted out of our 13 year relationship.... my career ... (406 words)

He says we're not together because we don't make love, so he is free to meet anyone else!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age - Couldn't sleep last night- snowy, wide-awake anxiety. Now am half-dead at work. Dismal thoughts. I can't bear it. My boyfriend of many years of togetherness now will not call himself my boyfriend, he says he loves me, and even outside observers have noted our "oneness". He is ... (180 words)

Is there a chance I can get pregnant if my boyfriend rubs his penis and ejaculates on my vagina when I have my panties on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there a chance I can get pregnant if my boyfriend rubs his penis and ejaculates on my vagina when I have my panties on? There wasn't any direct contact but my panties got wet, I'm wondering if some of the sperm may have passed through.... (48 words)

If she had a problem with my possesiveness she should have told me face to face,

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been having a relationship with my girlfriend for the last four years. I never knew (neither she told me) that indirectly I told her to do stuff she doesn't want to do (like going out with guy friends, talking to unknown guys on phone, taking part in public dance sho... (1038 words)

How can I forgive myself? I cannot believe it was me who lied and cheated...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with a guy only for a month. I really liked him. He was only looking for a relationship to get married. He was the only guy I respected and wanted to get married too though I have only known him for a very short period of time. He was always ... (464 words)

I'm 15 and have really bad period pains. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey there, sorry to bother you but what it is I'm 15 and suffering from really really bad period pains and I really need them to calm down, they are affecting everythin I do. I can't do nothiing, all I wanna do is sit all day and do nothing. I keep being sick and the pain in ... (125 words)

Is he just messing with my head or is he still attracted in his weird way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i recently got dumped by the love of my life he was my everything he made me feel like i was his everything he told me i was the one and stuff .. throughout our year and a half relationship i felt really close and trusted him with my life .. he knew that .... over course of our ... (379 words)

Is it over?

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - he people, just giving you an update on my last question. My Bf thinks I'm cheating, with my COUSIN but he doesn't know he's my cousin. Ok yesterday I went with my guy cousin to the atm, he's never met the cousin coz he's just visiting, well as we leave the atm we see him c... (304 words)

He blows hot and cold. What does he want from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with this guy, he has been through a lot in life, he had a girlfriend who was with him for 10 years she destroyed him and also his marriage. He is emotionally scarred, he visited a psychiatrist and with medication is fine now. He keeps giving mixed signals and I ... (128 words)

Is her mother's attitude unusual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 January 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I'm a 22 year old male. I am dating an 18 year old girl. I find her mom's attitude towards us a little unusual. She encouages the relationship at every level. She arranges weekends away for us. She sends her daughter to stay at my parents home without me being party to t... (242 words)

Should I stay with him or let him go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i`m 24 years old and i`ve seeing somoeone for almost 8 yrs now and we`ve got a 2 year old daudgther. the thing is i don`t think my bf still loves me anymore cause we always fighting and this has been going on for months now, to tell you the truth i hardly see him when he comes ... (150 words)

I'm confused - shoulkd I keep the baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi! im 23 years of age and have been dating a guy for 1 year and a month now...ever since we went out 3 times and yet he says he loves me. he calls me everyday and texts me with sweet msg's. at first i had to cope up with his father who didnt want me near that house because ... (228 words)

What do you make of this strange story?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everybody! :) Something happened today that I have been mulling over in my mind for hours! Here's what happened: I was in a lesson (there were 6 of us altogether: 4 girls, 2 guys) and we were split up into two groups, each one with 2 girls and 1 guy in it. W... (409 words)

Since getting engaged my fiance has changed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy early last year in May and we have been happily in love ever since... He engaged me last year October and i agreed...I love my Fiance and trust him, i have never had any problem with him...but lately things are turning out very bad... we forever argue about stupid ... (163 words)

How do I know if I am ready to move on?

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12 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I do not know if i want to move on in the relationship i am in or stay with the girl. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and i really love her and she still loves me too but our relationship is not moving along like it should be. She is not sure if she wants to ... (92 words)

We're both married to others, but can he really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - can a married man ever love another woman. i am a married woman who still lives with her husband and kids but have told my husband ive been seeing someone else. i met this other man through a work conference. hes married for 16 yrs me 9yrs. at first it was just sex but for ... (211 words)

He hasn't called in 2 weeks

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me every day..last time I saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... saying I am not giving him sex then someone else is ... (232 words)

I can only express myself through text

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend one night asked me how i felt about him, and i know exactly how i feel about him but for some reason just can't get it out, i guess i'm just scared but it's really starting to drive me crazy because i've always had this problem in relationships, its as if i dont ... (126 words)

She's my best friend & I love her, I'm losing her

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12 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - there is this girl who ive known for a few years now, we used to be bestfriends. then one day we started talking further, we didnt have a real "relationship" but we told eachother that we loved eachother, she is two years younger than me, and i get along with her family and ... (125 words)

Who do you think is in the wrong... Shelby or Nick?

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - sorry this is going to be so long. these 2 people "shelby" and "nick" a while back hooked up, while "nick" had a girlfriend. Now this is there Msn, conversation, who is in the wrong, Shelby or Nick? (these are my friends by the way.) Nic says: Hey u shelby says: hi... (1044 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating with my cousin!

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My Bf thinks I'm cheating, with my COUSIN but he doesn't know he's my cousin. Ok yesterday I went with my guy cousin to the atm, he's never met the cousin coz he's just visiting, well as we leave the atm we see him coming in a car, but my cousin didn't want me to go to him coz ... (261 words)

Mistakes are numbered 1 through 90

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I've learned a lot from my ex, S., and I am grateful that he taught me I could love again. We never made it to an exclusive relationship, and we were dating for about two months. We broke it off half a month ago. I am 20 and S. is 33, and although he knew some tri... (697 words)

His mom is sooooo controlling!!!

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are 20 years old and we live with our moms! His mom is controlling and it seems like we can't enjoy our own relationship without her telling us what we can and can't do. I feel like we are in middle school or something... she gives him curfew, we have to ... (180 words)

How do I tell my mom I'm dating?

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12 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This is really embarrassing and I really don't know who else to ask. I am a 26 year old man, who because I lost my job had to move back in with my mother. The problem is that mom, now wants to know everything I do, who I hang out with, which is fine, I don't have many friends. ... (171 words)

Is she over reacting?

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12 January 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have been very stress out with planning my wedding, my work and my family life. So sex have the last thing on my mind. My fiance and me haven`t had sex in 3 weeks because I haven`t really been up to it lately. One night my fiance and me were going to bed. And she need to take ... (125 words)

Would you forgive me and take me back???

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been dating this guy for three years. He was wonderful to me and I really loved him. He found out that had been online messaging his sis bf.The messages were a bit suggestive but I was not in my right mind because I was under the influence. We had not sent eachother ... (224 words)

His age is messing with my head.

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy at a bar, sort of a friend of a friend, and I spent the night talking to him and having a great time. Afterwards, though, I found out ... I'm five+ years older than him. He's 23; I just turned 29. Is this sketchy? We've been emailing for a while, and we've... (144 words)

Why don't I have ANY close friends?

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont get it. I mean Im in my second year of college and have absolutely no one I can regularly hang out with. I had a best friend last year but we had a falling out and she moved away. I know this group of girls, nice girls but whenever I go over to their house, I feel as if ... (169 words)

Boyfriend has erection troubles and viagara doesn't work..how can I help him?

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12 January 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend is 57 yrs old and has trouble keeping an erection so penetration is impossible. He becomes so frustrated and upset and feels sorry for me. He satisfies me in so many other ways. I love him so very much and tell him that we can use a vibrator but he does not buy ... (115 words)

In love but hugely sexually incompatable - what to do!?

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12 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 year old gay man in a very loving and committed relationship of four years. Everything is perfect except for the fact that I have the strongest of desires to have sex at least every day while my boyfriend would be happy with once a week or maybe even less. We... (120 words)

Baffled as he says he loves me...but he abuses me! I need help!

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my bf for 6 years now... i never belived in love at first sight till i met my bf now. i love him with all my heart we have 2 kds one is 3 and the other is 2. my bf says he loves me but he has anger issues he said its because his dad used to beat him and his ... (143 words)

What was this wet spot on his pants?

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - While my boyfriend and I were messing around the other night; like heavy petting and stuff; he got wet down there. It was after he'd been rubbing my boobs for a while, he stopped and just grabbed his dick. All our clothes were still on, he had just been reaching under my shirt. ... (205 words)

Can we ever just be friends again, after having one night of sex?

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12 January 2009 (?) age - I am in a serious LDR, we plan to get together soon. Recently, I met a really nice guy online (not a dating site) We began "chatting" almost daily. We had very mind-stimulating conversations and it was very enjoyable. One night I had too much to drink, and we were chatting... (189 words)

Do black men really have larger penises?

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am white women who has only dated white men, but my friend has a black boyfriend and she tells me he is the best sex she has ever had, she only dates black men. she says they have the biggest penis'. I want to know if this is just a coincidence, or do most of thhem really ... (69 words)

I need oral sex tips that will drive her wild! Any Suggestions?

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What are good ways to please or suprise my girlfriend? We've been dating for a while and I just want to know some tricks that will drive her wild. Are there any girls out there that have some good tips about oral sex on a female? I know the generic stuff but I really want to ... (83 words)

He left me to go back to his wife and kids! Any advice?

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a married woman involved with a married/seperated man for 8 months. he moved out of his wife/kids house after 2 months of us being involved. things moved very quickly and before i knew it he was telling me he loved me and wanted me to move in with him. we connected ... (178 words)

If we are friends then why wouldn't she want me to be in the club she's in?

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend who I thought considered me a friend. I have done lots of favors for her, and we have done things together as our girls are in the same grade at school. However, her body language says very strongly that I am not welcome to join a club that she is in. What do ... (78 words)

Pregnant during period?

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im not on my period, but i bled on my bf today during sex(alot to), im pretty sure he had a lil pre cum get on the outter lip of my vagina, but im not bleeding now, but if i am suppose to be on my period and im not bleeding can i still get pregnant?... (56 words)

I'm 18, he's 28 and he's married

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this is so long, but this question requires an explanation. I like this guy who works at the same place I work. I am 18 he is 28. Most of my family works at this place too. I have had this crush for about 4 years, yes it used to be just a crush. However, now everyone at ... (254 words)

I drove 2 hours to see ex, pregnant wife found out and left me

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12 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ive been married for 1 year and my wife is expecting our first child. i receantly started talking to my ex girlfriend over the internet and i started to get all my old feelings back. i told my wife i was going to my brothers to spend the weekend. i drove 2 hour's to see my ... (162 words)

I slept with him when drunk, now I regret it so much!

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About 3 months ago I got immensely hammered (drunk) and lost all my limits completely. My friend had recently split up with his girlfriend, however i'd been single for quite a while. His ex girlfriend was my best friend. I've always had suspicions about him, heard things from ... (236 words)

My current relationship suffers sexually because of my past

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a young mother I've been in a relationship now for 4 years before this started I was in a different relationship which I was made to do things I didn't want to as in sexually now in this relationship I can't enjoy sex which it upsets my partner! I feel uncomfortable and am ... (63 words)

I'm having health problems and the doctors say its just stress!

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really annoyed and seriously at my wits end. I have been having some medical symptoms and have now been to THREE different doctors now who have all fobbed me off and sent me away saying my symptoms are stress related or something of this nature or acted as though they are ... (570 words)

Does it give you strength if you make the first move in a divorce?

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12 January 2009 (F) age - Hello there, My husband never want to touch me , look at me etc. I tried marriage counseling,but he never did anything to make things better. Can I keep trying to fix this marriage alone,without his contribution? My question is... When do you say to yourself, that I tried it... (201 words)

I know he has a g/f but we are having an affair

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel terrible, I have started what seems to be an affair type thing with someone I know has a girlfriend. I am single and we started as friends/work collegues - but now things have progressed from flirting to kissing and now more intimate, we havent slept togther, but now I ... (252 words)

I want to salvage our friendship

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12 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have this really close friend who is a girl before Christmas we used to spend majority of our time together but after x mas she started getting very distant it caused a lot of rows because she said I was imagining it and I was accused of being jealous of a new friend she had ... (294 words)

The problems are numerous, I just want him to be my boyfriend!

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - so, i really really like this guy... steve. and there is about a five year age difference. but age has never mattered. he is my brothers friend and my mom loves him! and my brother doesn't care that he and i are an item kind of thing. so i really really like him and i try to ... (206 words)

Forget it never happened?

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend right now. we just recently called it official, but before that, about four months ago, we both liked each other, but i was scared i was going to get my heart broken, so i started pushing him away purposely and not talking to him. it wasn't until 2 months ... (342 words)

Boyfriend doesn't like sexy underwear?

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has recently told me that my efforts in wearing sexy underwear do nothing for him. He has told me that underwear has no effect on him, so I should stop trying and wasting my money. This upsets me for two reasons, one, I find it slightly offensive that he doesn't ... (100 words)

My parents won't let me have a boyfriend...

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok I'm 13 and this guy in my nieghborhood is 15 and we are both in 8th grade. I like him (I might love him) he liked me last year and we talk all the time we are like best friends I think he likes me and I want him to ask me out, my mom lets me and him go places by ourselves ... (138 words)

I need help with a letter....

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12 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi theres this female friend of mine we've been close friends since back in high school about 5 years back we even went to the matric farewell together we always there for each other, we talk about everything we spend too much time together but the problem is one, ive been ... (128 words)

Is death so bad?

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12 January 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Is death so bad? Is there anything, after we die? And if there isn't that life is just a big trip? Sometimes good, sometimes bad? How can we make sense of all that? I don't think death is so bad... It is just ending your long suffering. When life goes bad, death is good. What ... (59 words)

I love someone but he isn't in love with me...

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12 January 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I love someone but he isn't in love with me, he just wants to have sex with me although he loves a girl and does have sex with her. Am I just a best friend to him? What can I do!!... ... (43 words)

I want to tell her my feelings, but I am afraid by saying something, it will cost me a friend.

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12 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. Maybe you can help me. I have a friend that I met over the net. We have gotten together a couple times. With her job, she is on the road a lot. We talk to each other regularly. She is the most unique person I have ever met. I cannot stop thinking about her. I ... (120 words)

How can I convince her to start a relationship with me?

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12 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this girl for a while now and we have talked about dating a bit. She has reservations because she hurt one of her friends before this because she was hurt from another previous relationship. She had decided not to have any serious relationships for a ... (126 words)

I really don't know what to do with myself, I'm confused and depressed.

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I've been separated for about 10 years now and have a 12-year-old son. I've been through to a lot of relationship after my separation and my husband was remarried too and had a daughter already to his 2nd wife but was separated again 2 years ago. Last year he approached me ... (294 words)

Married young, no kids, divorce dilemma!

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12 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm in a love triangle and I need your help and advice.... I'm 19 years old and I'm married so I guess that would make this not just cheating but have an affair... I've been married a little over a year now and we dated 2 years before we got married... Let's start fr... (1467 words)