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writes:Hello agony aunts, I just wanted to know if anyone has told an ex they still have strong feelings for them and have it work out? Thank you all for your answers. :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): No way, i wouldnt spit on either of them if they were in flames, so no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): I did.This was over a year ago that I told him, and we had been broken up for about 8 months.The break up was terrible, and my then "ex" is very sensitive and was depressed all the time. The break up likely took about a month or so in total, and by the end of it, everyone was traumatized. Some of my best friends wouldn't talk to me anymore....Just really harsh all around.And then about 7 months after that I was with one of these best friends who slowly reconnected with me (it was my ex's sister), and we started to hang out a lot.That lead to me being at her house one day when myself, her and her brother (my ex) were all just goofing around and play-fighting.That night he called me, and even though I didn't feel it was right, I told him I had missed him. I didn't ever want to put him through the trauma in which I had before...so I felt guilty about even saying that...But then he called me night after night, until I finally told him that I still loved him, and he told me that he indeed still loved me.Before we got back together we made a few rearrangements with our relationship. Basically, far more communication.And then two months later we were "officially" back together. And have stayed that way now for a year and two months.
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (20 May 2008):
 Yes i did once. I had not long split up from a bloke who wasnt really suitable, I didnt even fancy him at first but he wheedled his way into my life til I gave in and I fell in love. 7 months later it ended and it really hurt. I went on a night out with a guy who'd been eyeing me up for weeks (there were 4 of us out) and when we went for pizza my ex walked in, I still wasnt over him. My stomach lurched, I went over to chat and ended up telling him how i felt. We left together leaving the other poor guy with my mates and ended up bed. In the morning Im all lovey dovey and he made it clear it was a one off. So i looked a fool and felt even more hurt, never again!!!!! Since found true love and it wouldnt have worked anyway.
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