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Your EX stories: Did you tell your ex you have strong feelings for them yet and how did it work out?

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Question - (20 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello agony aunts, I just wanted to know if anyone has told an ex they still have strong feelings for them and have it work out? Thank you all for your answers. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008):

No way, i wouldnt spit on either of them if they were in flames, so no.

take care

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008):

I did.

This was over a year ago that I told him, and we had been broken up for about 8 months.

The break up was terrible, and my then "ex" is very sensitive and was depressed all the time. The break up likely took about a month or so in total, and by the end of it, everyone was traumatized. Some of my best friends wouldn't talk to me anymore....Just really harsh all around.

And then about 7 months after that I was with one of these best friends who slowly reconnected with me (it was my ex's sister), and we started to hang out a lot.

That lead to me being at her house one day when myself, her and her brother (my ex) were all just goofing around and play-fighting.

That night he called me, and even though I didn't feel it was right, I told him I had missed him. I didn't ever want to put him through the trauma in which I had before...so I felt guilty about even saying that...

But then he called me night after night, until I finally told him that I still loved him, and he told me that he indeed still loved me.

Before we got back together we made a few rearrangements with our relationship. Basically, far more communication.

And then two months later we were "officially" back together. And have stayed that way now for a year and two months.

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A female reader, lexilou United Kingdom +, writes (20 May 2008):

lexilou agony auntYes i did once. I had not long split up from a bloke who wasnt really suitable, I didnt even fancy him at first but he wheedled his way into my life til I gave in and I fell in love. 7 months later it ended and it really hurt. I went on a night out with a guy who'd been eyeing me up for weeks (there were 4 of us out) and when we went for pizza my ex walked in, I still wasnt over him. My stomach lurched, I went over to chat and ended up telling him how i felt. We left together leaving the other poor guy with my mates and ended up bed. In the morning Im all lovey dovey and he made it clear it was a one off. So i looked a fool and felt even more hurt, never again!!!!! Since found true love and it wouldnt have worked anyway.

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