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writes: question for men.would you ever want to be with a women that is pregnant but with someone elses child.if u met a girl and she told u she was pregnant would u be put off Reply to this Question
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (15 June 2006):
 That is such as shame, but that is his loss.
If he was the type to walk out at that stage, then you are much better off without him.
I hope you meet a really nice guy, you deserve it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni was with the father for 8months and he left me as soon as he found out.we no longer in contact.im 14weeks preg
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2006): I was in this stuation last year, i was with this guy for about a year and i fell pregnant, he was fine with it all and was really excited until everyone found out like his family etc... and he split up with me and did a runner (i live right down the bottom of cornwall, uk and so did he and he moved to london to live with his parents) i was really upset and in a really bad place, until i met this guy who knew the hole story as he was friends with this guys older brother, anyway, we started of as close friends, then we started dating, he was there for the birth, and he is legally the father of my son now. he couldnt love him any more! we are also happily married and he tells me everyday how much he loves OUR son and how happy he is. What im trying to say, you and this other person are the only ones who can decide if this is the right thing to do. i dont think for one second i made the wrong choise.And my son couldnt have a nicer father. keep me posted please. xx
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (15 June 2006):
It would completely depend on the situation.If I really loved the woman, then yes and I would try to raise the child as my own.Also, the situation with the father would be an issue.As I said, circumstances are all important.
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reader, tux  +, writes (15 June 2006):
 Personally, I wouldn't because i'd be too upset the kid isn't mine. I have too big of an urge to father my own child rather than play father to another. I'm childless and right now I would rather be with the same. But that is just me. I'm sure there are other guys that wouldn't mind, but one note to take heed is that a woman should take care of themselves and their baby before a man. And the father should be in the picture. but that is not the way everything works all the time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2006): This is just my opinion, but why would you consider having sex with an other man thats not the babies father while being pregnant. I think thats wrong. You should focus on your pregnancy and worry about men or sex after you've had the baby and are settled with yourself or stable. If you have a high sex drive right now, get a handy dandy vibrator. You dont need a man right now for sex or for any kind of reason in this situation. Its not healthy mentally. You're just going to get used and end up emotionally hurt. Take care and good luck. I hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): For sex? Probably not depending on how far into the pregnancy she is. For love, definitely would put me off. But thats me personally. I'm sure guys who've been married before or have kids and are single will not care much about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): Probably. I'd either get the impression she sleeps around or the guy broke with her because she is a nightmare, unless of course she had a good chance to explain. If it was because of a one night stand though, definately not.
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reader, iloveamy +, writes (14 June 2006):
It personally wouldn't bother me at all...but depends on her history i guess.
Has she recently split with someone? Was it after a one night stand? if you can give us more details, i think we'd be able to give better advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): Almost certainly not, but if she was super amazing and had no severe emotional issues relating to the father of the child ditching her (assuming she is single) then, perhaps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno i dont work for a mag or a doctor.im in this situation so just wondering
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): Do you work for a magazine or are you a doctor of some sort?
Anyway, there are a couple of things to consider: 1) Is her reasons to be with me for security? 2) Why is she single with someone else's child?
The thing is, I might. Yes I would be put-off, but if she's interesting and attractive enough, I might go for her.
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