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writes: Would you agree that most women would want to be secretive about getting sex when they want it?An example for the basic premise here, the single woman who is seeing a married man with kids? Would you generally agree that women feel they have to be more secretive because of pressure from societal norms? Or do they just want sex with out risking the downside that can happen from forming a relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2007): I think that women are better at letting people know what they want and do than me. Personally i have found that men moan that women don't do what they want in the bedroom, but women do ask for things to be done so i cannot see their problem. Women are much better at putting across just what they want. Well that's my opinion.
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reader, Cateyes  +, writes (27 March 2007):
 I personally don't believe that women are "more" secretive about wanting sex. In the example you gave, I WAS the single woman who was seeing a married man with kids, fell in love, however, he decided to work things out with his wife and might I add, we were not looking for each other, it just happened. Sex was great and many people knew we were seeing each other. I was married many years ago, however, it just didn't work out. Do I want another REAL relationship...you better believe it! Do I miss sex as often as I used to have it, BIG TIME! But again, it depends on the woman and how she may have been brought up to. With some women it's ok to sleep with everyone, with some it's not. Some women can be really verbal about it, some not. Some women can ask a guy they just met, and some would never even think about doing such a thing. I know a lady whose 52yrs old and she has never been married at all, no kids, but just 2 dogs. Every man in her life has been married, taken or the such. I ask why, she is a wonderful woman, but she had some really bad "things" happen to her when she was a teenager. That in my opinion has lead her to stay single and not form any type of real relationship. It's just very hard for her to get THAT close to a man. She just built a huge wall around her. Do I take it that you are married and your lady friend is keeping this on the hush hush by any chance, curious to know if you can reply back. Thanks.
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