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writes:I am talking to a nice lady who is a few years younger than me, and we are just casual friends. I have gone to a female massage therapist, for my back. While this massage therapist is very pretty and sexy to, it is strictly on a professional basis. I like going to her because she is very skilled and has done wonders for my back. Do you think my lady friend would get mad at me if she found out I was going to this massage therapist ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): Well yes I do enjoy going to the massage therapist because she is female, and yes pretty and sexy and all that. The main thing is, I once had a medical massage by a male, and while the guy was good about being able to correct problems in my back, I was not comfortable in any shape or form because it was a guy. And yeah, I have thought a time or two of the massage therapist naked, and yet I brush that out of my mind, cause my real purpose there is to get my back taken care of properly.
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (8 August 2010):
 Your friend would have to be SUPER SUPER SUPER jealous and controlling to begrudge that. Firstly - it is all professional. Secondly - you're friends, not dating, so you can do whatever the hell you want with whoever the hell you want and you're not cheating and she has no say over who you have physical relations with.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (8 August 2010):
 A casual friend doesn't need to know all your business, whatever your motives and what you get up to.
If she was your wife then I'd say tell her and be open, but it sounds like you wouldn't be seeing a masseuse if it were a man...be honest,you get a kick out of the sexy woman massaging your back!...well there is nothing wrong with that unless your in a committed relationship with someone...then there may be jealousy and trust issues.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (8 August 2010):
 If she thinks you are going to a health professional for services then it would probably be no problem. If she mistakes 'massage therapist' for a prostitute working in a brothel that calls itself a 'massage parlour' then she may get very upset. If what you say is really true and this lady is just employed to treat your back then I don't know why you would want to mention it to your new friend at all.
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