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Would my BF really rather drink every night with his dad than see me?

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Question - (25 July 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

My boyfriend lived with me for a year, now he works out of town. He goes to have a drink every night after work

and sits at the bar with his dad and drinks.

He says he will call me when he gets in but I cannot call him or if I do he will not answer. Plus it really bothers me that he goes out and drinks every night. To me that is not healthy for a relationship. Am I right?

Also at Christmas time, when he came in for Christmas

he went to his parents' house, 3 days before Christmas and I live 2 1/2 hours away from them. I felt like he should have came and stayed with me, since I was working and we were in a serious relationship.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2006):

Move on, you need someone to be on the same page as you. What a sad existence your bf leads. You need someone to give you 100%. Imagine, could you see yourself married to this guy with a couple of kids? you'd be up to your eyeballs in dishes and nappies....where would he be?? down the pub. Make a hasty retreat now and save yourself years of heart ache...

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