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writes: I was recently dumped after a long relationship and my ex now has someone else, she left me for him although she will not admit this. I still have feelings for her but realsie we could never get together again if she left her new boyfriend as the trust is lost. I have always got on well with my ex's younger sister and last weekend I realised she likes me as well. I don't want a full relationship just yet, but wonder if it would be right to get together with my ex's sister, several months after the break up, or am I just confusing my feelings for my ex with her now available sister? Should I just make a clean break from all of them. Please reply!!
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reader, Dr. Reality Check  +, writes (27 June 2006):
 Really it's nothing to do with your ex unless dating her sister is just to get back at her or a way to eventually look at getting her back. She left you for someone else, so there's no reason that you shouldnt be happy if you think you could have something meaningful with this sister. I would say as long as you feel you're doing it for the right reasons, it wouldnt be wrong for the two of you to be together.
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reader, Smiler +, writes (27 June 2006):
 Hey Babe
Well to be honest it sounds a little like your confusing your feelings for your ex, i mean it would be a little uncomfortable if you and her sister got together and your ex and the guy she left you for turned up don't you agree? i mean personally if i were you i would concentrate on getting over your ex forget about dating her sister you said yourself your not ready for serious relationship any how not yet give yourself time to heal and be completely ready to date someone new and open your heart to them i feel your ex will think your only dating her sister to get back at her I'm afraid this would only end in heartbreak for all those involved :o( don't go for the sister on the rebound honey wait till your healed inside and find someone new
I hope my advice was of some help to you sweetie :o) good luck ok... If you ever need someone to talk to or just a shoulder to cry on or maybe a little more advice, truly I'm always here for you ok :o)
You Take Care Babe And Good Luck X
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (27 June 2006):
 Question asked, question answered, so it would seem. Quite honestly, I would cut your losses and move on, as her sister would always be wondering if you were going out with her just to keep tabs on her sister, and it would also cause trouble and heartache amongst their family, as sisters can be close, but put a man in between them and it will drive a wedge between them.
That, coupled with any sight of your ex she will be watching you and guaging your feelings. That will surely cause rows and upset. Nope, too much s**t on the same doorstep, as they say!! Be lucky!
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