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writes:Hi,my boyfriend and I have got into where I transform him into my girlfriend,we both enjoy it and the sex is GREAT.I have the chance to borrow a friends house for a long weekend and wonder if I should kidnap my boyfriend/girlfriend and keep him/her as my slave and totally dressed up for the full time we are away and make him do everything that folk normally do when they go away,i.e. go out for walks and drives,sightsee etc,I wouldnt put him in danger(well not much!!).I reckon he would enjoy it all but dont want to ask him as it would ruin the suprise .Should I take the chance or is this going to far with our private lives???,please any answers would help me decide. Reply to this Question
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reader, timara +, writes (10 January 2009):
HiWhat a great plan, did you carry it out? Please let us all know how it went and what you got upto.The idea sounded like a good one, i am sure he would have very responsive and slightly apprehensive. The idea of spending a long weekend dressed as female and acting as one in a place where no one else knows you, would certainly make me excited, and to be kidnapped and made to serve would be a thrill. I hope he felt the same way.What a dreamy girlfriend you are.RegardsTimara (the name my gf gives me when i have to dress as a girl for her!)
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (27 May 2008):
 Just one tip, make sure NOBODY else could possibly think that what is happening is real. You keep getting stories (because the press loves smut) about couples doing this kind of thing and the police being called.
The cops don't always see the funny side and in some areas they charge you for the costs of them responding to your kidnapping. Not very romantic being at the wrong end of a arrest team.
Other then that, if this is what works for both of you, go for it. Just do one thing first if you haven't already, agree on a safe word AND signal, so that if the game goes to far it can be ended. Games can get out of control.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): If he is ok with it then i dont see a problem, i even think it would be quite fun, i wish someone would kidnap my hubby and keep him!!!!! Any offers.
take care
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (27 May 2008):
 It's not going too far IF (and only if) you make absolutely sure it's what he wants before you start.
This sort of roleplay can be wonderfully enjoyable in a trusting relationship, but you really do need to be sure it is with his consent.
Yes, that's difficult, because the whole point of doing it is that you are in complete control. So the only way is to spell out to him the complete scenario without letting him know that you already have a time and place in mind for it. You really CAN'T do any of it unless you are absolutely sure he agrees and wants it.
And, most important, remember that you have a great responsible for his safety every second during the roleplay. The guidelines for this sort of thing are the three well-known words: SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL.
Enjoy. But be careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): Firstly I just wanted to say, good for you for being so open-minded about cross dressing, not enough people are!
But back to the point, um well you are the only one who knows your boyfriend. Personally I think it would still be quite exciting even if you did ask him first, I mean even if he knows vaguely what your plans are, it wouldn't mean letting him in on everything. I reckon it'd put your mind at rest to ask him, but as I said, you know him and I don't.
Anyway good luck and enjoy yourselves!
xxx
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