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anonymous
writes:Calling all men.... I have recently got back it touch with an old friend. We used to have a 'thing' for each other but it never really went anywhere.We are now several years on and well things are moving really fast... but in the virtual world... The shyness and innocence of puberty has gone! If we were to have sex more or less immediately, would that kill the chemistry that we have? Would he think that I am easy? I never usually behave like this, but things are so electric that I don't think I can help myself....!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): No, given the history, I personally would not consider you 'easy'. It's a natural flow of things that are inevitable. Different if you were teenagers but no, definitely do what is natural and I feel sure he will not think badly about you. Quite the opposite actually; He will be pleased about the effect he is having on you which, after all, is the truth.
Good luck.
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reader, Austinalive  +, writes (8 November 2008):
To be frank i guess he might think of you as easy, he could think "damn, what has happened to this girl all this time, she wasn't like this"
be patient, send some signs and wait for his. Don't risk what could be just for the hormones.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Would it kill the chemistry? No, I don't think it would. You've gone past the teenage? beating around the bush stage and you probably both know exactly what you want. It might answer a few questions about whether you still fancy each other, but I think you'd be ok. Would he think you're easy? No more than himself!
Let me tell you something. I always fancied the pants off my first crush, ever since I was about 14 years old. We both had 2 marriages and 3 kids followed by a total of 4 divorces in the intervening years before we met up again in our 50's. We were in the sack within about 2 hours of meeting up again and we're still together today, 8 years later, happy as can be.
I say go for it. What have you got to lose?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Don't worry about it if you guys had a thing a while ago and you sparked it up again, he's gonna be looking for the same thing you are. If anything I would play it cool and wait for him to show something.. and then take your pants off lol.
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