A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hi please could somebody give me some advice? Would a very very jealous boyfriend go so far as to try and make you fall out with your friends. what i mean is that my boyfriend who is extremeley jealous of anyone i speak to has told me that my sons ex girlfriend text him and rang him swearing at him but my friend told me that he text her saying hi. i asked her did she have the message saying hi, but she said she had deleted her inbox as she didnt know who it was and thought it was some other lad messing about. i now dont know who to believe but she was saying to me that she would never do that and why would she want to speak with him. and he was very angry saying i should not speak to her again. and he was calling her names. im unsure but i think he may have done this so i would fall out with her, so i havent. problem that i have now is that they are both very jealous people. she is extremely jealous of my son and when they were together she would somehow get onto his facebook etc, she would fight over him and would get jealous about things that i would buy him. and when i did meet my boyfriend she would say to me that i dont spend time with her now. and when she is split up from my son she talks to all his mates and tells me. but i dont tell my son as i think thats what she wants me to do. so i satrted spending les time with her as i dont want to get involved.
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reader, KittieS +, writes (20 September 2011):
You poor thing, the other poster is completely right it's based on insecurity.
My ex used to make up lies about things my friends said, eventually I was completely isolated - after he left I made contact with some of my old friends, they were shocked!
Please don't let him control you in this manner, if you think he will be receptive to talking then please try, but if it continues after a discussion you have to consider moving on.
Wishing you luck
Kitties
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 September 2011):
remember that Jealousy is NOT an emotion rooted or based in LOVE.
Jealousy is an emotion rooted and based in INSECURITY.
Personally for me a deal breaker should be when a man tries to control who you are and are not friends with.
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