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anonymous
writes:Hiya everyone I'm really posting this about my friend as I'm really worried about her (sorry this is long)Anyway basically she has the opertunity to go bk out with the father of her daughter he split with his gf to get bk with her, and everyone she nows loves him, he does everthing for her gives her money when hes got it, does her house up, basically thinks the world of her, they have known each other for 6 years but keep spliting up, this time they have been apart for 9 months,when he was with his gf she was always txting and ringing him, its like she doesnt want him but doesnt want anyone else to have him either, And the other problam is she keeps going bk to her bf i'll call sid, sid doesnt treat her right not in a horrible way but just seems strange sometimes, but she does really lv sid but then she loves her ex the childs father at the same time she says if she could split them she would, But now shes treating the childs father horrible again, hes just started to join dating websites and is getting loads of feedback, and since hes told her shes gone all funny on him again,im now beging to think she tried her hardist to split him and this girl up, and when it happend she changed towards him again, and im begining to think she doesnt want him but cant have anyone else with him,the childs father told me the other week that,he got a txt from her saying when we get together how soon do u want a baby, now im also beging to think she doesnt want to go to work and is only after his money aswell as since the child starts school nxt yr she will have to start working,and doesnt want to do work again,its now come to the point where the childs dad has told her she can do what she wants and to get bk with sid, hes even told that to her mother, who hates sid aswell, i think hes giving up on her, and hes not going to take much stick from her anymore, and nxt yr he said he wont be giving her money to help with the house anymore just the child,How can i talk to my friend about this?
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reader, petina1 +, writes (12 December 2008):
 Thats a tricky one. Your friend probably may not like you saying anything to her. Some people are blinded by love and don't see whats right or wrong, just go down the same path getting hurt over and over again. This guy sounds like he is a fully blown 'player'. You are right to be worried about your friend, would you risk losing her if you have input in to the relationship. You could just be there for her when she needs you and when things get tough, which sounds like they are gonna get worse before they get better. hope this helps.
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