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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I read somewhere that a girls clitoris is about the size of a pea, right up to the size of a small finger.Well, mine is looking more like a pin head.I'm worried because when my boyfriend fingers me and tries to stimulate my clit, I'm not getting any pleasure from it. Sometimes it hurts! And what's worse, when he actually goes inside me with his fingers (we haven't gone penis-vagina yet) I feel a dull, aching pain - a lot like the pain you feel when you get your period.We started using lubrication, and I mean LOTS, but that didn't help.Nothing about my genitals seems normal to me anymore. I don't understand why I can't feel any significant pleasure from my vagina or my clit. I think I should see a doctor because I had thrush a few weeks back but it seemed to only last a day or two, and it wasn't itchy - just the cottage cheese.I'm really worried I've caught something like chlamydia from all this fingering, even though it's only ever been fingering.Help? ;__;
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reader, Dagwood  +, writes (23 March 2007):
 Clitoris sizes vary from woman to woman but it needs to be correctly stimulated to come out of the clitoral hood. I suggest you visit your gynecologist and have him check you out and give you some reassurance. I’m sure everything is and will be ok but you must go see a professional.
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