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writes:I am just curious as to the general consensus on a few things I couldn't ask the people I know. What do you girls think of it when a guy:Pinches and pulls your nipples or is generally a little rough with your breasts during sex?Asks when you are in the middle of intercourse if he can come on your face? In your mouth?Are these things exciting in a naughty way? Is it the kind of thing where you should just do it, and not ask. Is it OK to ask on a first time with someone? How about a one night stand?I don't want to ask for stuff I want, if that would make most girls run for the door!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): I'm fine with most of those - except for the face. I'm glad you know to ask before you do that. If it gets in the eyes, it stings. It can also clump up in hair.
As for doing it for the first time/one night stand - rough breast play is probably the only one you could NOT ask about. The rest, I think you should ask. Once you know what each other likes/expects, you can figure out whether she prefers you to ask or not. But if it's a first time - definitely ask, just to be safe.
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reader, amandanash  +, writes (29 July 2010):
personally i would like when a guy would ask nasty things. pulling at the nipples is ok, coming in the face, i wouldn't suggest it, but ask the girl, some girls probably love that. it gets me excited when a guy asks nasty things to me, and im always honest with what i like and dont so don't be shy, im sure most other girls would be honest about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): If you do her good, she will probably ask/tell you to do these things. I've never been with a woman who liked rough nipple play, the ones who swallowed or liked it on their face made that known before the second or third time. I usually ask about the facial thing...that can be degrading if the woman doesnt like it. It's kinda porn-oriented. I prefer the sensation of cumming inside something...mouth vagina, ass. First time is not usually good for thos things unless you dont care about a second time, in which case you're being selfish, and no woman likes that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2010): Each girl will be different in what they like and to what degree they are receptive to your list. Personally I'm ok with a little nipple/breast play, a little light biting or rough play is ok, I do not like intense biting or pinching. I wouldn't have a problem with my boyfriend wanting to cum on my face or anywhere else on my body, we are both very kinky and have actually talked about this previously. I would suggest you bring it up before hand though because not all girls are into this. During the act might not be the right time though since it might ruin the mood all together if she isn't into it. As for when to bring it up...the first time sleeping with someone might not be the right time, I'd wait until the second or third time and I'd actually talk about it first, maybe tell her its a fantasy you've had and been curious to try and then gauge how she reacts and go from there.
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reader, yummytum  +, writes (28 July 2010):
nipples pulling rough is good, but coming on a girls face mouth without telling ....EH NO....dont ever do that.. and i dont think a one night stand is good for it either......
only think i agree with is the rough playin with nipples and breasts
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