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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: A lot of questions on here about penis size, and most women say it's not the size, it's what you do with it, it's the motion of the ocean, bla, bla, bla. BUT, most women at least joke about meeting a guy with a big one. Some women love it. Some can't even do without it. Most sexually experienced woman have had at least one large lover, so let me ask...what was your first impression when you saw it and felt it for the first time? Was it arousing, and if so, why? Were you dissapointed going back to a smaller lover afterwards if you didn't stay with "Mr. Big"? Did it make no real big deal? Was sex better, or just different? And I'm not talking HUGE here...just large...like 8 or 9 inches.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (22 July 2010):
My first impression was "Oh my God!" for lack of a better phrase. But it was not all it was puffed up to be. Most of the time, sex was just uncomfortable. We tried different positions. I enjoyed the closeness sex provided. I enjoyed knowing he was getting off but I rarely ever did. It was just too much bulk to be quality for me. I have sense met a man who is considerably smaller (though plenty big enough when aroused) and I can tell you I am much happier and so it my uterus.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): Largely depends on the woman, and the woman's physiology.
I have only slept with my fiance who is average, but with excellent stamina, which I am very happy about ;-). I have no interest in sleeping with anyone else ever.
Having spoken to a good friend of mine who has slept with 50 guys, its 99% technique, 1 % size. Why do lesbians often seem to happy?
Love making is mostly in the mind.
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (21 July 2010):
All the women I've ever talked to about this subject (I'd estrimate 5 to 10) say "If someone tells you size doesn't matter is a liar." They all love the initial penetration of a big thick one. Sadly for me and my stubby brothers out there.
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reader, i.love.you +, writes (21 July 2010):
Alright, where is this philosophy of 'Bigger is Better' coming from? It's (no word of a lie) all about the fingers! What you do with your hands to a girl makes either great sex or rubbish sex!
My friend has had a 8inch before and said it felt no different (other than more uncomfortable) than a 6 inch.
Hope this helps :)
Regards,
Jade.
(I would like to point out my friend practically wrote this as I am a virgin).
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