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writes:i am in love with my partner n have very strong sexy feelings towards her, i become nervous with any contact....what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (7 December 2008):
 Well personally I think if you love your partner as much as you say you do then start off in a gentle way. Hold hands when you are out as this shows you are not afraid to show public signs of affection.
I think when we feel so much for someone we all get a little nervous and hot under the collar so to speak.
Have you had any physical sort of contact yet at all?
Set the mood if you can by maybe having a meal somewhere or cooking for her, you can always cheat a little, mince, pasta and a bolognaise sauce if you can have some time alone together, do you live alone or at home? Maybe hire out a dvd and a bottle of wine or something, this will allow you both to relax a little and see where it takes you. Remember that setting the mood is all about letting down your guard with someone you care for deeply.
Keep us posted on your progress eh!
BFN
Country Woman
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): It's just a sign that you really like her. I had a guy I liked one time that he touched my hand in a friendly way and I jumped and got hot; he then got surprised and kinda hurt, like I didn't like him touching me which was the complete opposite. You just need to not worry about what you're going to say or do; just live in the moment with her and just feel as comfortable as you can possibly be. Perhaps touch her back to not only let her know that you like her but to also help your nerves.
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