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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: i met this guy in net chat, we got to know each other we also got each others emails and since than we always kept in touch. we became really good friends, sometimes he used to say words which made me feel he likes me more than friend. one day there was a small arugeing between us so after the arugeing finished. he went offline ( from msn), for few days he didnt come on so i throught to check my email , when i checked i saw that he had deleted me, so i did. after a while maybe like 1 week, he added me so i accpet and we kept talking normal, later there was another argueing and the same thing happened he went off, i checked and i knew he deleted me so i did. after like 1 week he added me and we kept talking normal again. later on he was talking to my brother beacuse he is friend with my brother, so after he finished talking to my brother, i was talking to him, suddnely out of no where he start talking about his life and what he been through,after he went off, so i checked and i knew he deleted me so i did, but the most important thing was my brother didnt tell me about the convsation between them, so i found the convsation so i saw in the convsation that my ex friend had told my brother that he want to marry me. so now i want to know will he ever talk to me again? or was that the end? please help , i like him more than friend and what should i do?
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reader, foreversingle29 +, writes (19 September 2008):
This sounds really childish one thing i have learned is that someone that likes u or wants 2 marry you will b eager 2 talk 2 u and just delete u from there friends list after you all have a tiff. u need someone much more mature let him know its not cool and he needs 2 let u know if he wants 2 b in your world if not move on. hope that helps
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reader, Aunty Em +, writes (19 September 2008):
I think, he - for deleting you, and you - for reciprocating, are bothacting childishly. What's the point? You're either friends or you're not. If you're going to fall out with someone, do it properly and slam the door in their face. Don't hop on a merrygoround of adding/deleting contacts on msn!
As for the marriage thing? If you're serious about liking this guy, would you even accept one off a person who acts as childishly as they have done? Really?
I doubt it's the end. He'll add you again tomorrow.
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