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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Here goes. I'm in love with this 19 year old girl for 2 and the half years already. She is in a relationship for 5 years with her bf and her relationship is unhealthy because she broke up and patched back many times and always fights with her bf and he is very possessive. She knows her relationship is unhealthy. She likes me because she knows I care about her and I'm still waiting her but at times she hurts me by asking me to move on because it's hard for her to brake up with him even though knowing her relationship is unhealthy and she can't forget him. She also says she lost trust on guys and keep thinking all guys are the same. I still love her. I really want her in life. Will she really end her relationship for good?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): move on
Your a novice.
She is using you.
learn from this and move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): I also vote to forget about her and move on. She is as far "in love" with you as she ever will be.
She accepts the emotional support you give her and it makes it easier for her to stay with her BF. You are actually helping her stay with him right now.
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reader, missdimples3  +, writes (23 July 2010):
 even if she broke up with him.. you will be the rebound guy. no matter how much she likes you..! I think you need to move on n let her do her own mistakes n learn from them. at some point she will get tired of it her relationship n break up with him but don't push her. let her do it on her own terms.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): Nope she won't and not for you anyway. Let me just make it clear, she will NEVER be with you. It would have happened already.
As she already asked you herself it is time for you to move on.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (23 July 2010):
 No. She will not end her relationship with this guy. If she truly loved you she would have ended it to be with you already. She may care about you, but no matter what excuses she makes up - she still loves him more.
This is very common. Her relationship is a cycle that will continue for a long time. Even if she breaks up with him she will most likely gravitate back to him. It's not worth getting in the middle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): I agree with q1605...you will only be a rebound guy for her. This woman does not love you nor is she interested in dating you. Obviously, her relationship isn't that bad in her mind as she continues to go back to the guy whom she appears to love with all her heart. It's not that she has lost trust on guys per say...she is hoping that her current guy will change his ways.
Don't wait around for her...get over your obession and move on with your life.
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reader, raiders +, writes (23 July 2010):
 You don't know if she will or will not, you can only handle you, you only have control over your life. Maybe you should move on, try putting your eyes else where.
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