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writes:Me and my ex girlfriend like most couples had little jokes, and things that nobody else would understand. I have missed her today, and I have found it hard not to dwell on the fact that she has a new boyfriend.But I've had a thought: What do you think is the likely hood of her doing the same things me and her used to do with this new guy? I know this isn't something I should really be thinking about it, but I feel I must know if there is a chance she will try and continue jokes we had between us both with her new boyfriend... Sort of like carrying on something fun from our relationship on to her new one.What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): I don't see why this would matter in the least....if she did have the occassion to continue the same jokes with her new man, it doesn't devalue your past relationship.....it is just her personality to do that with her partners...I think you are feeling jealous, which is a normal human emotion....but she has clearly moved on, and you will be best to do the same....it is hard, I am going through a break up as well with someone I love and did not want to break up with, but my needs were not being met, and it sounds like this is the same thing with you....you deserve to have someone who makes you happy as does she. Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): I don't see why this would matter in the least....if she did have the occassion to continue the same jokes with her new man, it doesn't devalue your past relationship.....it is just her personality to do that with her partners...I think you are feeling jealous, which is a normal human emotion....but she has clearly moved on, and you will be best to do the same....it is hard, I am going through a break up as well with someone I love and did not want to break up with, but my needs were not being met, and it sounds like this is the same thing with you....you deserve to have someone who makes you happy as does she. Take care.
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reader, LouLee +, writes (5 January 2008):
 It really depends on what kind of person she is, if they worked for your relationship chances are she's probably gonna want to try them out on new relationships. However she may not as she might think it was special to only you and herself. With her new relationship they might think of something special to them and them only....hope this helped. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): hey sweety if i were u i wouldnt worry about i tim sure she wouldnt think of carrying on them "jokes" to her new relationship because i mean dnt be affended but if i was her and i split up someone and we had this special thing that we did like ur jokes if i were in a new relatioship i wouldnt carry on because it might remind me of them and i might start wanting to go back to them so i wouldnt really want to so go out find another woman celebrate and try to have fun with her x x x good luck sweety
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