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writes:So I have been dating this girl for about 3 months. About 4 weeks ago (i felt out of nowhere, never saw it coming) she says she is confused/just wants to be friends/were 2 different people/I was trying to change her and she doesnt want to be changed!I was totaly blind sided. So like a fool over the last 3 weeks I have loooked desperate. Mentioning getting lunch or dinner 4-5 times. We went 2 times, she cancled on me once. When I try to communicate with her its like one time she is wanting to hang out and the next she won't even respond. then that i enhance trying to communicate. In which she responds with I will give you a call later, etc.My question is have I blown it by looking to despearte or if I stop communicating now will she be interested again and contact me about hanging out/getting back together? Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (16 June 2010):
 I think giving her some space would be good but don't dissapear completely. Be her friend and show her that you care about once a week or so. This way you will still be on her mind but she will have time to see what she is missing while she is not with you. If you keep too much pressure on her she will get annoyed and not want to be with you.
Best of luck with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): most likely if she broke it off to begin with she is just not interested. i was engaged to this guys i that i brole it off with and he kept on and on about getting back together and hanging out honestly that pushes us away farther we need out=r space and alone time and im going to tell you what i have always been told and is also very true if you to were ment to be she will come back
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