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Will sex hurt the second time if I haven't done it for awhile?

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Question - (10 May 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 May 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

If you wait a couple of months before having sex will it Hurt like if your losing your virginity again and will you bleed ?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2011):

Often, the first few times a woman has sex some of the hymen remains. A new partner or new position (coming in from a new angle) can make encountering remaining portions of the hymen more likely. In exceptional cases, the remaining hymen may be removed surgically to make sex comfortable.

Inexperienced lovers tend to hurt each other more in any case, so the sexual experience of your partner counts too. It would be fair to let him know that you are inexperienced and to request an extended amount of foreplay, such as having you orgasm prior to entering you.

More likely than pain, that feeling of the moment of penetration -- of being "filled" -- after a long time with no sex can be deeply satisfying for the woman.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (10 May 2011):

chigirl agony auntYou might.

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A female reader, hannah76 United Kingdom +, writes (10 May 2011):

hannah76 agony auntHello,

There may well be differing opinions. Yes it could hurt again and yes there may be bleeding. But there may not!

If you are not relaxed then it may not be as comfortable for the first few times. However, love and trust go a long way and soon things will become a lot more pleasurable. Remember to use condoms. All the best.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011):

My second time was more painful then my first and I bled but maybe it just depends on your body. I dunno????

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