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female
age
30-35,
*ichellegirl
writes:dear cupid.Ive been with this guy well nothing serious. We have been together for about 3 months yet whenever i mention taking things seriously he simply says i like you but im not ready for a relationship we should let things go naturally. He has recently changed he doesnt talk to me until i talk to him and sumtimes even when i talk to him he doesnt reply. when i ask him if he still likes me he says yes and he still wants to talk to me. Well he has asked if we could have sex although i refused because im a virgin. Will giving him sex make our relationship better? how can i make him want me in a serious relationship? Does he really like me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (19 September 2011):
 Having sex with him will not make him like you more; it will make things worse for you. If he doesn't want to be with you in a committed relationship without sex, do not have sex with him.
You are young. You too, should not take things too seriously. He is essentially telling you he wanted to remain casual and available for other things.
You should also remain casual and available for other things - there are better opportunities out there. Stop calling and texting him. Let him chase you and don't let him catch you. He is not worthy of you, but someone out there is.
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