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writes: HiGot a bit of a problem, see what u think!Ive known this guy for a few years now, we were friends from day one of college and connected straight away. He had a girl friend at the time so when i told him that i liked him. he said he was flattered and he was sure that id get snapped up soon.We went on being friends and my feelings just grew, i have been seeing people but nothing has lasted more than a few weeks. He then broke up with his girl friend 6 months ago now but about 2 months after the break-up we got really close, but i didnt sleep with him.Things were a bit akward after this but now a few months on he is always chatting to me on MSN and we webcam each other. We have joking chats about having sex and he randomly says to come round but i know hes just flirting and having a joke.Do u think anything will ever happen?Thanks
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (10 January 2007):
 There's only one way to find out isn't there! Ask him! You seem to enjoy each others company so i don't see why this guy wouldn't be interested in you. Next time he says on the net come round say something like "I'd really like to but i don't know if your serious" then see what he says, the worst he can say is no! Just make sure he's not going to use you for one thing, unless of course that's what you want! Good Luck!
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reader, mellissa333 +, writes (10 January 2007):
 personally, I can relate to this situation almost exactly. Except for the awckward part. and I can tell you that he's not joking, he wouldn't be saying that unless he really ment it. I was friends with my now boyfriend, for about 5 years, and we were both on and off in relationships, but after about 2 years of knowing each other we told each other we liked each other. Then we just stayed friends for along time, but this summer we got really close, and hung out almost everyday, and now were going out. And really what have you got to loose? If it's that good of a friendship, then you should always be friends no matter what. If you can exchange saliva, you can stay friends!
mellissa
ps. best relationship I have ever been in.
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