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writes:Hi.I'm a 25 year old, married woman. For Christmas this year I have bought my hubby a digital camcorder with the intent of letting him film me pleasuring myself and the 2 of us together.We are both quite adventurous in the bedroom, but I am a little worried about how to let him know that he can record me without weirding him out.Should I just strip whilst he's filming me or should I ask him first? And would it be weird if told him he could show another person? I have always been a closet exhibitionist but have never told my hubby.I want to do a few things before we decide to have children but I really don't know how to approach the subjects. But first what do you think I should do about the recording of me?
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (25 November 2008):
 Talk to him about it. Explain that being filmed is a fantasy of yours. When you first bring the subject up, just leave it at that...I wouldn't mention the fact that you might like others to see the tapes as well. First see how he reacts just to the idea of filming you, and if that reaction is a positive one then see where things go from there. A word of caution though, with the Internet being what it is nowadays...please be careful where those tapes end up, and with whom! You might like being watched by other people who don't know you and will never meet you, but if your friends or employer were to come across such a thing, it could be a disaster for you and your reputation. Something to think about =)
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (25 November 2008):
Get him a dirty card to go with the camera and let that be the hint. You could make your own card with you in something sexy and holding the camera.
However i would be worried about sharing. If he is the jealous type it might upset him if you ask to share however only you will know if he is going to be ok with that.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (25 November 2008):
 Why don't you let him take the lead? He may come up with the suggestion himself after receiving your gift.
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reader, kimberlylopez12 +, writes (25 November 2008):
hi i think you should just tell him when u guys are in the moment tell him to grab the digital camcorder and im sure he will get the point
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