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30-35,
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writes:Yesterday I told my boyfriend I was glad I'd waited to have my first kiss because it meant it was with him - I was 18 at the time - and he replied: "although I wouldn't have minded at all if your lips had known other men than me, I'm also glad I'm your first." Does he mean exactly as he says? Or would he secretly *have* minded a little bit? I'm wondering because he's the one I'm planning to make love with for the first time too; will he think it any more special because he's my first (and hopefully only!) or does it not make a difference as such? I guess I'm looking primarily for a male perspective on this but I'd be really grateful for any answers given. Thanks :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Odds  +, writes (10 October 2011):
 He was trying to say that he's glad he's your first, but trying to do it without making it seem like that's the only thing he likes about you - basically trying to say he likes you for you, and not your lack of history. He might have minded a bit (jealousy is natural, and one of the most powerful, uncontrollable emotions around), but he would have gotten past it. At any rate, it's a moot point.
And yes, him being your first sexual experience will mean a lot to him - that's a gift a girl can only give once, and it'll certainly make him feel special.
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